FabSwingers.com forum: Ladies who don't like receiving oral sex

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This is a serious question to ladies who don't like receiving oral sex or get nothing from receiving oral sex. I know oral sex is not the be all and end all of sex.

Ladies, does it not bother you that you don't like or not get anything from receiving oral sex? If a female friend tells you she loves receiving oral sex or tells you receiving oral sex makes her cum hard does that not annoy you or make you jealous?

I know if I didn't enjoy receiving a blow job I would be jealous of guys who did like receiving a blow job. I also know I would be seeing a doctor and looking at alternative therapies to see if I can start enjoying bow jobs.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

No I don't give it a second tnought. I'm not going to waste my energy worrying that other people like something I dont.

I don't like chips or pizza eitner, I don't feel jealous of people who do.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Are you suggesting in a roundabout way that women who don't like oral should see a tnerapist?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just pop into the Dr’s get a pill to sort it right? Ffs

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I have decided I don't enjoy anal sex. I don't feel jealous of people who do enjoy it, I'm pleased for them. I feel no need to see a doctor or seek alternative therapy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it was a serious question!! Was it?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I don't think it was a serious question!! Was it?

He said it's a serious question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think it was a serious question!! Was it?

He said it's a serious question."

I wouldn't mind but i get a feeling that was the addition to the question on his edit a minute later as well.

You trynna out shine Dave or something John?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont get nowt from it.BORING.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

I have decided I don't enjoy anal sex. I don't feel jealous of people who do enjoy it, I'm pleased for them. I feel no need to see a doctor or seek alternative therapy. "

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

It’s very rare I get a 100% orgasm from it but I use clubs so think that’s why!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you be jealous of something you dont like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s very rare I get a 100% orgasm from it but I use clubs so think that’s why! "

What golf clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i dont get nowt from it.BORING."

You can't be getting it done the right way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s very rare I get a 100% orgasm from it but I use clubs so think that’s why!

What golf clubs"

Jack

Might be the caveman type, after one if those oral might not be enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i dont get nowt from it.BORING.

You can't be getting it done the right way

Standard response from most guys after telling them I dont enjoy receiving oral.

It has nothing to do with "not getting it done right" it's like me saying " guys who aren't sexually simulated having theirs balls busted must be because they haven't had it done right"

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"This is a serious question to ladies who don't like receiving oral sex or get nothing from receiving oral sex. I know oral sex is not the be all and end all of sex.

How bizarre. So, you don't like something but because Joe Blog does you feel you should too, to the point of therapy?!! People who follow the herd, not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i dont get nowt from it.BORING.

You can't be getting it done the right way

Standard response from most guys after telling them I dont enjoy receiving oral.

It has nothing to do with "not getting it done right" it's like me saying " guys who aren't sexually simulated having theirs balls busted must be because they haven't had it done right" "

There is no right way to bust a mans balls, this is all wrong!

i certainly get the point though

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Who cares?

Your job is to discover what she does like and engage in that a lot.

Having said that, your other job is to push her boundaries a little a find out if there are other things she might like.

Also, try Kelvin method for any woman who isn't mad about oral.

Basically it's sideways instead of normal but worth a try.

Normal works fine for me but have had very good experience with sideways/ Kelvin also with same woman

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"i dont get nowt from it.BORING."

Queue the "you ain't getting it done right" responses...

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By *ornyinConwyMan
over a year ago

Conwy

"i dont get nowt from it.BORING.

You can't be getting it done the right way

Standard response from most guys after telling them I dont enjoy receiving oral.

It has nothing to do with "not getting it done right" it's like me saying " guys who aren't sexually simulated having theirs balls busted must be because they haven't had it done right" "

Each to their own I suppose, but I'd definitely leave the ball busting to others lol!

Also, as if op doesn't enjoy a good BJ, I find that hard to believe, but I might be wrong, doubt it though.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"i dont get nowt from it.BORING.

You can't be getting it done the right way

There you go!

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington

"This is a serious question to ladies who don't like receiving oral sex or get nothing from receiving oral sex. I know oral sex is not the be all and end all of sex.

Your insecurities don't need to be projected.

Work on why the hell you care about other people liking something you don't rather than worrying about why other people are less insecure

Ms Icebreaker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not interested in trying to "fix" anything I don't like and am definitely not jealous of anyone who likes the things I don't ... I wish everyone that loves football all the happiness in the world but no doctor will ever make me enjoy it nor can anyone make me/show me or take me there to change my mind! (Sorry for this analogy to all the football supporters) #othersportsareenjoyable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who cares?

Your job is to discover what she does like and engage in that a lot.

Having said that, your other job is to push her boundaries a little a find out if there are other things she might like.

Also, try Kelvin method for any woman who isn't mad about oral.

Basically it's sideways instead of normal but worth a try.

Normal works fine for me but have had very good experience with sideways/ Kelvin also with same woman

Hold on! There is a dude out there called Kelvin who has a pussy licking technique named after him?!

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

"It’s very rare I get a 100% orgasm from it but I use clubs so think that’s why! "

Cor, I’ve heard of ladies using a dildo when their bloke’s not around but a bloody club??? But I suppose if a dildo just ain’t big enough to do it for you...!

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By *ornyinConwyMan
over a year ago

Conwy

"i dont get nowt from it.BORING.

You can't be getting it done the right way

Standard response from most guys after telling them I dont enjoy receiving oral.

It has nothing to do with "not getting it done right" it's like me saying " guys who aren't sexually simulated having theirs balls busted must be because they haven't had it done right"

Each to their own I suppose, but I'd definitely leave the ball busting to others lol!

Also, as if op doesn't enjoy a good BJ, I find that hard to believe, but I might be wrong, doubt it though."

Sorry op, re read your post and realised it was a theoretical question. But on the other hand, if some women do not enjoy oral, are there men out there that can honestly say they don't like their dicks sucked? If so my sympathy goes out to them, I feel a woman can do soooo much more with her mouth...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i dont get nowt from it.BORING.

You can't be getting it done the right way

Standard response from most guys after telling them I dont enjoy receiving oral.

It has nothing to do with "not getting it done right" it's like me saying " guys who aren't sexually simulated having theirs balls busted must be because they haven't had it done right"

Each to their own I suppose, but I'd definitely leave the ball busting to others lol!

Also, as if op doesn't enjoy a good BJ, I find that hard to believe, but I might be wrong, doubt it though.

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

Sadly my wife has decided a few years ago she doesn’t like any oral sex - which is very sad as I absolutely love it and have been well practised at it with other women. I’ve often been told I’m really good at it and it’s one of my strengths but, try all the techniques that I’ve learnt, my wife just insists that she just does not want it! I’d love to persuade her otherwise, but can’t - which is why she doesn’t mind me coming here when she’s away as she knows I need it!

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

"i dont get nowt from it.BORING.

You can't be getting it done the right way

Standard response from most guys after telling them I dont enjoy receiving oral.

It has nothing to do with "not getting it done right" it's like me saying " guys who aren't sexually simulated having theirs balls busted must be because they haven't had it done right"

Each to their own I suppose, but I'd definitely leave the ball busting to others lol!

Also, as if op doesn't enjoy a good BJ, I find that hard to believe, but I might be wrong, doubt it though.

no words for this post"

What other things can a woman do with her mouth?

Erm... kiss, suck eggs, nag a lot, sing while washing dishes, chat on the phone while do the ironing...

(Avoiding all the rotten tomatos flying in my direction hand-picked from said kitchen lol!!!)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are you suggesting in a roundabout way that women who don't like oral should see a tnerapist?"

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had very few orgasms from oral, there usually has to be fingering at the same time then it blows my mind.

I love it as foreplay and am disappointed if there isn't some oral in there, but it's not the be all and end all. I am more of a giver really.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"It’s very rare I get a 100% orgasm from it but I use clubs so think that’s why! "

Why doing in it clubs not very good? Is it because you use protection which numbs the sensation?

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I only really love oral if he knows what he is doing but to honest, most of my past lovers were mediocre at doing it.

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By *r easy1981Man
over a year ago

leeds

"I only really love oral if he knows what he is doing but to honest, most of my past lovers were mediocre at doing it. "
I love looking at a woman face when I am doing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No I don't give it a second tnought. I'm not going to waste my energy worrying that other people like something I dont.

I don't like chips or pizza eitner, I don't feel jealous of people who do."

How can you not like pizza ??

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"No I don't give it a second tnought. I'm not going to waste my energy worrying that other people like something I dont.

I don't like chips or pizza eitner, I don't feel jealous of people who do.

How can you not like pizza ??"

. It's quite easy. The Dominoes adverts on telly make me feel slightly nauseous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, this old chestnut again.

No, I'm not jealous.

No, I'm not missing out.

No, I don't need therapy.

Yes, I'm completely normal.

Yes, there are myriad other ways of turning me on and making me come.

Sigh.

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By *linyMan
over a year ago

Manchester/London

"Oh, this old chestnut again.

No, I'm not jealous.

No, I'm not missing out.

No, I don't need therapy.

Yes, I'm completely normal.

Yes, there are myriad other ways of turning me on and making me come.

Sigh.

Completely normal?!

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Also, try Kelvin method for any woman who isn't mad about oral.

Hold on! There is a dude out there called Kelvin who has a pussy licking technique named after him?! "

I thought the Kelvin scale was for temperature, not rating orgasms.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

I’m not the biggest fan of receiving a bj, Gets a bit boring after awhile, Not that id say no to one but giving oral is a big part of the sexual experience for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it does nothing for you you're not missing out. I don't like Lord of the Rings or Game of Thrones but I get my pleasure elsewhere: The Mandalorian x

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By *ir-spunk-alotMan
over a year ago

Southern England

You would see a dr if you didn't enjoy a bj.

Why would you let it bother you that much. Find something you do enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wow I didn't think my curiosity would create such a stir.

Of course I am not saying people should seek counselling of they don't like receiving oral sex.

I was thinking if I didn't like receiving blow jobs and most guys did it would piss me off that I didn't enjoy blow jobs.

I was merely wondering of any women who don't like or enjoy receive oral sex are annoyed they don't get pleasure from oral sex.

I am not explaining myself well lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow I didn't think my curiosity would create such a stir.

Of course I am not saying people should seek counselling of they don't like receiving oral sex.

I was thinking if I didn't like receiving blow jobs and most guys did it would piss me off that I didn't enjoy blow jobs.

I was merely wondering of any women who don't like or enjoy receive oral sex are annoyed they don't get pleasure from oral sex.

I am not explaining myself well lol"

Surely though if you don't like something then you just don't like it? You wouldn't make yourself change because, quite simply, you don't like it?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm unfussed by oral sex from most people although can enjoy it. It doesn't amount to a problem for me. If anyone suggested it should be, they would become a problem for me.

I like what I like. I'm happy with that. I'm not jealous of other people liking other things.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I also don't think "I don't enjoy one particular sex act" is an appropriate use of a doctor's time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I also don't think "I don't enjoy one particular sex act" is an appropriate use of a doctor's time."

Hahahahahahahaha sorry most likely inappropriate but this made me laugh!

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

I've had mixed experiences of oral, it can be absolutely amazing but equally it can be a total non event, ultimately it comes down to individual preferences and also having a partner who takes time & makes an effort to learn what you like and how your body works.

There are a lot of self proclaimed 'experts' who are under the misguided impression that all women are the same & that because one person liked what they do then everyone should & if they don't there must be something wrong with them.

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