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By *thleticgirth OP   Man
over a year ago

wirral

Seems a few people including myself are looking for a FWB or maybe a bit more.

Vanilla sites are not for us as theres only a slight chance of then being in to the lifestyle.

Feel free to post and reply to posts if you are looking for the same and hopefully we can set up some new swinging couples for the pool.

Lets try to do this as the genuines not the dreamers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We se it the same way - wanting people we see a few times over the course of a year or two. Knowing somebody we can discuss the lifestyle with and who we sometimes go to bed with us the aim, either together or occasionally alone.

Maybe we should add FB/FWB to the list of interests. Bring it!

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By *thleticgirth OP   Man
over a year ago

wirral

Yeah its better to have/build a connection.

I am happy to travel and can do weekends etc as one issue seems to be that peoole looking for this are so spread out across the uk.

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By *allnlongMan
over a year ago

Torpoint & Stonehouse

I think the trouble is that Swinging is considered to be about sex, if you take that out of the equation many people will glaze over.

Not sure, this thread may well prove me wrong.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Yep I’d be interested in this

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By *allnlongMan
over a year ago

Torpoint & Stonehouse


"Maybe we should add FB/FWB to the list of interests. Bring it!"

Thats a great idea, hopefully doable too.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

This would be great if it takes off .. I’d like to be included ... can travel and can hold a conversation with a smile .... has in all regular relationships, u find out what the others want and like ... obviously if there is a connection.. let’s go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the trouble is that Swinging is considered to be about sex, if you take that out of the equation many people will glaze over.

Not sure, this thread may well prove me wrong."

Oh it is about sex. The sex gets better and better with friends. I get that some people like lots of variety and others have groups of friends at clubs so our idea ain’t for everybody and that’s what this lifestyle is about.

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By *allnlongMan
over a year ago

Torpoint & Stonehouse


"Oh it is about sex."

Only eventually, in my case anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm new to fab and want to meet people on socials and make a friend or two. It's daunting as a single male and difficult to find people to talk to who can relate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm new to fab and want to meet people on socials and make a friend or two. It's daunting as a single male and difficult to find people to talk to who can relate. "

It is very difficult as a single male and there are plenty of them to choose from. Sorry indulge heads this before but you almost certainly have to go to a club and meet people there. Maybe you’ll end up having fun and maybe not but it’s the best way.

Worth pursuing sex friends though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We se it the same way - wanting people we see a few times over the course of a year or two. Knowing somebody we can discuss the lifestyle with and who we sometimes go to bed with us the aim, either together or occasionally alone.

Maybe we should add FB/FWB to the list of interests. Bring it!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fb or fwb has nothing to do with dating tho ???? .... not that I have anything againts it but can see a lot who will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the trouble is that Swinging is considered to be about sex, if you take that out of the equation many people will glaze over.

Not sure, this thread may well prove me wrong.

Oh it is about sex. The sex gets better and better with friends. I get that some people like lots of variety and others have groups of friends at clubs so our idea ain’t for everybody and that’s what this lifestyle is about."

This sums up perfectly what most people are looking for. Regular fun times with like minded, trusting people. As you rightly say, things can only get better and better with those you enjoy being with.

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By *thleticgirth OP   Man
over a year ago

wirral

I have used fab for fun as oppose to dating but i am now looking to share my life a little more so why not try on here for someone else who enjoys playing with a partner but is currently single. I don’t agree fab is not for that, fab is for all sorts of wishes, kinks and desires. Each person wants something different to the next on here and some people will want the same as others as this thread proves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm looking for a 'lover' as they used to be called. A very broadminded lover. I want friendship, laughs, chats, meeting for coffee as well as sex.

A series of one off meets isn't what I seek and I'm not knocking people who want that. I just want some different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the trouble is that Swinging is considered to be about sex, if you take that out of the equation many people will glaze over.

Not sure, this thread may well prove me wrong.

Oh it is about sex. The sex gets better and better with friends. I get that some people like lots of variety and others have groups of friends at clubs so our idea ain’t for everybody and that’s what this lifestyle is about.

This sums up perfectly what most people are looking for. Regular fun times with like minded, trusting people. As you rightly say, things can only get better and better with those you enjoy being with. "

It really does get better doesn’t it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the trouble is that Swinging is considered to be about sex, if you take that out of the equation many people will glaze over.

Not sure, this thread may well prove me wrong.

Oh it is about sex. The sex gets better and better with friends. I get that some people like lots of variety and others have groups of friends at clubs so our idea ain’t for everybody and that’s what this lifestyle is about.

This sums up perfectly what most people are looking for. Regular fun times with like minded, trusting people. As you rightly say, things can only get better and better with those you enjoy being with.

It really does get better doesn’t it? "

We hope so.... been let down a few timers but always the optimist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ultimately want a relationship.but one that stays on the scene.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the trouble is that Swinging is considered to be about sex, if you take that out of the equation many people will glaze over.

Not sure, this thread may well prove me wrong.

Oh it is about sex. The sex gets better and better with friends. I get that some people like lots of variety and others have groups of friends at clubs so our idea ain’t for everybody and that’s what this lifestyle is about.

This sums up perfectly what most people are looking for. Regular fun times with like minded, trusting people. As you rightly say, things can only get better and better with those you enjoy being with.

It really does get better doesn’t it?

We hope so.... been let down a few timers but always the optimist "

Fingers crossed for you. We’ve met some regulars but they do fall beside the wayside a bit. Some guys get too attached to MissJ and others run their course.

One thing that’s good about repeat meets is that you can work on scenario’s together and then enact them.

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By *allnlongMan
over a year ago

Torpoint & Stonehouse


"One thing that’s good about repeat meets is that you can work on scenario’s together and then enact them."

Oh my, thats hot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great thread OP,

Arranging one night stands after a quick chat used to be a buzz and exciting. Now I feel the frill from quick hook-ups is short lived and not what I'm looking for.

Admittedly my sex life is much less active as it's no so easy connecting with someone on a deeper level.

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London

This has been suggested many times, and I believe put forward to the powers that be for consideration. Nothing has happened with it yet though!

Quite a lot of people on here looking to meet someone in the scene for a more long term connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely POF/Tinder is for things like this?

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By *yx_InannaWoman
over a year ago

Burslem

Having interest category for fb/fwb and dating is good idea.

Looking for someone to share the lifestyle with is difficult on most dating platforms. If I want a swinging relationship what better place than a swinging site for it.

Being polygamous and open its hard to find like minded people or someone to accept me as I am to date.

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By *azyafternoonMan
over a year ago

Bournemouth


"Yep I’d be interested in this "

Hi,

I just tried to message you but I'm outside your age range by a month!

I've been dating since 2001 and had several relationships in that time but none have lasted more than a few years, mainly due to the fact that I like sex with different women...

You and I could be a match made in heaven - or hell... Might be interesting to find out!

Derek.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely POF/Tinder is for things like this? "

Neither is aimed at swingers, why shouldn't single people who want a swinging relationship get together here?

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By *allnlongMan
over a year ago

Torpoint & Stonehouse


"Surely POF/Tinder is for things like this? "

In my experience there are plenty of people looking for a shag and go on Tinder, despite what their profiles say.

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside


"I ultimately want a relationship.but one that stays on the scene. "

Yes this would be the ideal. But if it doesn't happen I'll have fun in other ways while i wait

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By *oldenskyWoman
over a year ago

london

I’m interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are both poor sites. Both full of fake accounts or ppl that dont reply to messages but only read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are both poor sites. Both full of fake accounts or ppl that dont reply to messages but only read."

Just like Fab, then?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’d like a lady friend with benefits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely POF/Tinder is for things like this? "

Over here, you can openly claim your sexuality. For someone who wants to have a relationship with someone who is already in the swinging scene, it would be great to have dating option in fab. The simplest thing to do would be to begin with an option for relationships and dating as interests. We could then filter profiles based on that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just paid for a month of match.com. I don't hold out much hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just paid for a month of match.com. I don't hold out much hope "

Match.com was a failure for me. OkCupid looks better. There are questions about kink, open relationship and sex and we can filter profiles based on the answers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just paid for a month of match.com. I don't hold out much hope

Match.com was a failure for me. OkCupid looks better. There are questions about kink, open relationship and sex and we can filter profiles based on the answers."

I don't really want an open relationship so Match seemed less of a hook up site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just paid for a month of match.com. I don't hold out much hope

Match.com was a failure for me. OkCupid looks better. There are questions about kink, open relationship and sex and we can filter profiles based on the answers.

I don't really want an open relationship so Match seemed less of a hook up site"

I understand that. With okc, you can find hook-ups and long term partners. But there is a wide variety of things you can filter people on. That includes sexual interests. And okc has comparatively less number of spammers than match.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely POF/Tinder is for things like this?

Neither is aimed at swingers, why shouldn't single people who want a swinging relationship get together here?"

Well said.

I dont want a swinging relationship as such but I do want to meet a guy who isn't judgemental towards promiscuous women. I feel I've a better chance of finding that here.

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london


"I've just paid for a month of match.com. I don't hold out much hope

Match.com was a failure for me. OkCupid looks better. There are questions about kink, open relationship and sex and we can filter profiles based on the answers.

I don't really want an open relationship so Match seemed less of a hook up site

I understand that. With okc, you can find hook-ups and long term partners. But there is a wide variety of things you can filter people on. That includes sexual interests. And okc has comparatively less number of spammers than match."

Yeah I like okcupid it gives you the option of being a bit more open and finding like minded people.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

The holly grail. Sex is better when you get to know someone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m looking to find someone to date but is in the swinging lifestyle

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

The holly grail. Sex is better when you get to know someone! I think so anyway. I also like the social side and the friendship.

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By *moothCriminal_xMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"The holly grail. Sex is better when you get to know someone! I think so anyway. I also like the social side and the friendship. "

I agree with this but the poly side of regular partners outside the 2 of you can cause real issues. Fascinated how some people still manage to maintain their sense of a loving partnership on a deep in enough level whilst having regular sex with other friends.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’ve seen recently how difficult it is to have two close FWBs. Not easy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The holly grail. Sex is better when you get to know someone! I think so anyway. I also like the social side and the friendship.

I agree with this but the poly side of regular partners outside the 2 of you can cause real issues. Fascinated how some people still manage to maintain their sense of a loving partnership on a deep in enough level whilst having regular sex with other friends."

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