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Swinging Attraction Or Just Interaction?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do "proper swingers" just turn up and have sex, wipe their dicks and other bits on the curtains and go, or is there something more subtle and sexual out there. We like to have things in common (hopefully become friends)and meet on more than one occassion (without becoming monogomous)and develop mutual friends for group fun, is this a wrong or unique approach?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Define proper swingers.. for fun, I dont need to be attracted to someone but it helps.. I will suck someones cock in a club that I wouldnt kiss

Its about what is right for you.. there is no proper way about doing it.. its just about doing it the way that works for you.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Its about what is right for you.. there is no proper way about doing it.. its just about doing it the way that works for you.

Cali "

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Define proper swingers.. for fun, I dont need to be attracted to someone but it helps.. I will suck someones cock in a club that I wouldnt kiss

Its about what is right for you.. there is no proper way about doing it.. its just about doing it the way that works for you.

Cali "

i define ppl who say they are proper swingers as prats...so do what works for u and dont let anyone tell u that you are doing it wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do "proper swingers" just turn up and have sex, wipe their dicks and other bits on the curtains and go, or is there something more subtle and sexual out there. We like to have things in common (hopefully become friends)and meet on more than one occassion (without becoming monogomous)and develop mutual friends for group fun, is this a wrong or unique approach? "

Both have their place for me...I've had one off meets which were a lot of fun, and I've had some meets that I have met several times and have grown with them. I like the variety that this site offers, and if that means I'm not a 'proper' swinger then so be it...I'm having fun, and hopefully bringing fun to others! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do "proper swingers" just turn up and have sex, wipe their dicks and other bits on the curtains and go, or is there something more subtle and sexual out there. We like to have things in common (hopefully become friends)and meet on more than one occassion (without becoming monogomous)and develop mutual friends for group fun, is this a wrong or unique approach? "

Dunno what a proper swinger is but my wife and i like to have things in common and to get along with people we meet and end up friends of sorts so that we can go out and not even have sex. nothing wrong in that as far as i see

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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds

Swinging is what you want it to be, everyone has their own way to swing. X

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By *orn_To_PerformCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

As we see it, swinging is a bit like seeing someone you like in a pub, chatting them up then deciding to take them home if you fancy them. Except there's a group dynamic to spice things up! If you want to take on all-comers (no pun intended!), regardless of appearance, hygiene etc, then dogging or public rooms at adult clubs offer that opportunity.

We just wouldn't, couldn't meet couples or singles that we didn't fancy (at least a little bit!) We have an amazing sex life as a couple, so anyone joining in would have to add something to that for us to enjoy it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow this is an interesting one !

What is a proper swinger ?

Simple answer is there is no such thing and those that say they are will invariably come across as pompous twats !

What suits you as a couple is the right way to swing - we are much happier with spontaneity and rarely look for friendship although it happens lol

Whatever you choose to do makes it right for you and the most important consideration is to have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging is 80% socialising and getting to know one anothe and 20% playing.

I personally am not interested in quickies, as a single girl yes could have that 10/20 times a day. It does nowt for me.

I prefer to get to know people before I share myself. xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swinging is 80% socialising and getting to know one anothe and 20% playing.

I personally am not interested in quickies, as a single girl yes could have that 10/20 times a day. It does nowt for me.

I prefer to get to know people before I share myself. xxxx"

thats for that i feel the same and you put the words outta my mouth

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ditto nice to get to really know some one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do "proper swingers" just turn up and have sex, wipe their dicks and other bits on the curtains and go, or is there something more subtle and sexual out there. We like to have things in common (hopefully become friends)and meet on more than one occassion (without becoming monogomous)and develop mutual friends for group fun, is this a wrong or unique approach? "

neither, we like to play this way and know loads who also do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinger or not, there must be attraction for interaction and vice versa speaking from our experiences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us, getting to know people a bit and flirting with them is a big turn on and everyone we've met says the same thing.

At the opposite end of the spectrum, we've seen profiles saying things like "We do not send face pics. This is a swingers' site not a dating site. You either want to swing or you don't."

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Depends on the people; some we get on with really well and want to see again, others we have a good time with but don't necessarily want to be good friends. It's great to make good swinging friends and be 'regulars' together, you can be more relaxed and more intimate that way and sex is more fun if you know what the others like and don't like. But sometimes it's nice to have a quick fuck with people you'll never meet again, we go clubbing for this sort of fun. It's all about sexual variety.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"Depends on the people; some we get on with really well and want to see again, others we have a good time with but don't necessarily want to be good friends. It's great to make good swinging friends and be 'regulars' together, you can be more relaxed and more intimate that way and sex is more fun if you know what the others like and don't like. But sometimes it's nice to have a quick fuck with people you'll never meet again, we go clubbing for this sort of fun. It's all about sexual variety."

This is us to.

It's great when it does develope into something semi regular but it doesn't always workout that way.

Though we would never play of there wasn't attraction or felt we wouldn't get on with another couple.

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