FabSwingers.com forum: Cannot accommodate, cannot travel

By *neamigo OP Man
over a year ago

should read 58… mistake with my age , cannot change it

I am seeing this more and more on profiles... how do they meet anyone? Can anyone explain- thanks in anticipation

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By *essie.Woman
over a year ago

Serendipity

They meet locally , hotel or club.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I am seeing this more and more on profiles... how do they meet anyone? Can anyone explain- thanks in anticipation "

They have sex with people on their back doorstep

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By *neamigo OP Man
over a year ago

should read 58… mistake with my age , cannot change it

"They meet locally , hotel or club. "

Good point - thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would guess a local club.

Also, I have "cannot travel" because I dont drive and have no desire getting a train to fuck someone, however, I will travel to go to a club

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"I am seeing this more and more on profiles... how do they meet anyone? Can anyone explain- thanks in anticipation "

I only meet in clubs.

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By *inkerbell67Woman
over a year ago

Clacton on sea essex

I dont drive but accommodate.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"I would guess a local club.

Also, I have "cannot travel" because I dont drive and have no desire getting a train to fuck someone, however, I will travel to go to a club"

This too! I travel to clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't ask anyone to explain anything on fab, it's a complete mystery

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By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire

'Pick me up and take me somewhere'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am seeing this more and more on profiles... how do they meet anyone? Can anyone explain- thanks in anticipation "

Absolutely no idea.

Bloody fools having it on their profiles. Kick them off Fab.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"'Pick me up and take me somewhere'"

Really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"'Pick me up and take me somewhere'

Really? "

Hahahaha this is the funniest chancer I have seen for a while, but god does love a tryer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't it another way to say I'm not meeting I'm just here to upload images that make you want to meet me but I'm NOT MEETING ANY.ONE. Just here for the forums & to catch up with old friends I didn't trust enough to give my phone number too?

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"'Pick me up and take me somewhere'

Really?

Hahahaha this is the funniest chancer I have seen for a while, but god does love a tryer

Indeed. I'll see you Friday at our non travelling, non accommodating place

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Isn't it another way to say I'm not meeting I'm just here to upload images that make you want to meet me but I'm NOT MEETING ANY.ONE. Just here for the forums & to catch up with old friends I didn't trust enough to give my phone number too?

No it's not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have it on my profile too.

I was sick of folk thinking my home is their convenience.

I can travel but I will choose n not assume.

It keeps a few away

But not meeting.. regardless what you put 3/4 don't read it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it's not. "

Oh...thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"'Pick me up and take me somewhere'

Really?

Hahahaha this is the funniest chancer I have seen for a while, but god does love a tryer

Indeed. I'll see you Friday at our non travelling, non accommodating place

Indeed you shall, il be coming in my friends non travelling car

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

One of my male fabber friends said he sees alot of female profiles saying can't meet.. He think they just here for attention and flirting.

But answer to op question, some people expect people to be able to go to them... Like my friend who doesn't drive. She only wants a man with car and house

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"'Pick me up and take me somewhere'

Really?

Hahahaha this is the funniest chancer I have seen for a while, but god does love a tryer

Indeed. I'll see you Friday at our non travelling, non accommodating place

Indeed you shall, il be coming in my friends non travelling car

Bloody rebel!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One of my male fabber friends said he sees alot of female profiles saying can't meet.. He think they just here for attention and flirting.

But answer to op question, some people expect people to be able to go to them... Like my friend who doesn't drive. She only wants a man with car and house "

Gold Digger?

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Get a feckin bus pass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have this. I cant accommodate but also cant drive but I'm happy to travel and to meet someone somewhere depending on where etc.

everyone is different and the best thing is to ask. Everyone has different reason I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like its gona be under the stars or a car bus train hotel i dont no so many options

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"One of my male fabber friends said he sees alot of female profiles saying can't meet.. He think they just here for attention and flirting.

But answer to op question, some people expect people to be able to go to them... Like my friend who doesn't drive. She only wants a man with car and house

Gold Digger?

Hasn't found her sugar daddy just yet... So is she a gold digger? Lol

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By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire

"'Pick me up and take me somewhere'

Really?

Hahahaha this is the funniest chancer I have seen for a while, but god does love a tryer

Indeed. I'll see you Friday at our non travelling, non accommodating place

Sheesh !. They cannot accomodate and don't have a car of their own but happy to travel somewhere with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a woman by picking her up from her house, taking her to a hotel, and then dropping off back to her husband. She couldn’t travel or accommodate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have it on mine with an explanation in the blog. A good indicator if you've read my profile or not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met a woman by picking her up from her house, taking her to a hotel, and then dropping off back to her husband. She couldn’t travel or accommodate. "

So she just hopped in a car with a guy from a sex site

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Local meets, clubs, organised socials, hotels.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I travel locally, choose not to accommodate as I don't want strangers in my home for safety reasons.

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By *lay-full-funCouple
over a year ago

stockport

We have to meet in a hotel as our kids are teenagers so can't send them of to family anymore an as I am in a wheelchair we can't go to someone's house as most off the ain't suitable for my chair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have this on my profile. Still doesn't stop the random "hey I'm free this afternoon for an hour fancy a visit" type messages.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"'Pick me up and take me somewhere'

Really?

Hahahaha this is the funniest chancer I have seen for a while, but god does love a tryer

Indeed. I'll see you Friday at our non travelling, non accommodating place

Sheesh !. They cannot accomodate and don't have a car of their own but happy to travel somewhere with you

You know taxis exist right? I get a taxi to and from the club, sometimes I'll book a hotel room. Just because I don't accommodate or travel, doesn't mean I'm a freeloader and I don't appreciate the snide comments implying as such.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Local club.

Local meets.

You pick them up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get the tent out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get the tent out!

10 person tent..... Who's up for a orgy lol

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By *av501TV/TS
over a year ago

Mancetter?

"'Pick me up and take me somewhere'

Really?

Hahahaha this is the funniest chancer I have seen for a while, but god does love a tryer

This was what ive been told by a Cant Accom Cant Traveller....... I said exactly that ......how do you meet then .....I was told I dont drive but you can pick me up .....Where if you cant accomodate !!!!!!!! Make a Fucking effort it wont hurt ...

The other is someone whose been on here for more than 2 days like a year and profile says ' Fill in Later' and with no photographs WTF if you're that Fuckin Lazy I cant see us having a great meet ....... can you? lol lol

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"'Pick me up and take me somewhere'

Really?

Hahahaha this is the funniest chancer I have seen for a while, but god does love a tryer

Not all of us are like that.

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By *av501TV/TS
over a year ago

Mancetter?

"'Pick me up and take me somewhere'

Really?

Hahahaha this is the funniest chancer I have seen for a while, but god does love a tryer

Not all of us are like that. "

I cant reply Privately ....so why cant you again ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

VR and a wet sponge x

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"'Pick me up and take me somewhere'

Really?

Hahahaha this is the funniest chancer I have seen for a while, but god does love a tryer

Not all of us are like that.

I cant reply Privately ....so why cant you again ?? "

It doesn't matter why I can't, I just can't, it's not really anyone else's business. I meet in clubs and I'll only ever meet fab men there, not get picked up from home.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"'Pick me up and take me somewhere'

Really?

Hahahaha this is the funniest chancer I have seen for a while, but god does love a tryer

Not all of us are like that.

I cant reply Privately ....so why cant you again ?? "

Also, it's quite often more polite to just reply and quote in the forums unless someone has asked for private responses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't it just be easier ask the person that you are messaging why they can't accommodate or travel and how it works? Probably so many different answer and so few using the forums ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got it on my profile, basically I don't drive and can't have people in my home.

I'm looking for local meets.

Its a daunting thing as a woman to go and meet strangers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im sure each persons situation is different - suss and see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get the tent out!

10 person tent..... Who's up for a orgy lol"
Yeah definitely not going next to the door!

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"'Pick me up and take me somewhere'

Really?

Hahahaha this is the funniest chancer I have seen for a while, but god does love a tryer

Indeed. I'll see you Friday at our non travelling, non accommodating place

Sheesh !. They cannot accomodate and don't have a car of their own but happy to travel somewhere with you

Great response....

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By *andy2123Couple
over a year ago

Portsmouth

No it's not. "

Yes it is lol x

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By *andy2123Couple
over a year ago

Portsmouth

No it's not. "

Yes it is lol x

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By *an For YouMan
over a year ago

belfast/holywood

A lot of people say they cant Accom but in reality they can. I’ve met lots of women who’s profile said cannot Accom but it was a way to politely say they prefer not to Accom. Once rapport and trust was established , I went to their house

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By *neamigo OP Man
over a year ago

should read 58… mistake with my age , cannot change it

Really great comments thanks and generally in line with my thoughts

Cannot accommodate , cannot travel —then why bother at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it has nothing to do with anyone else why people cannot accom and cannot travel.that is up to them and their own personal reasons.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"it has nothing to do with anyone else why people cannot accom and cannot travel.that is up to them and their own personal reasons."

Exactly, and if you don't like it then don't contact them. It's quite simple really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it has nothing to do with anyone else why people cannot accom and cannot travel.that is up to them and their own personal reasons."

we do not accom because older kids still live with us and we do not have a car to travel.if we do travel it is bus or taxi or foot and damned if going to travel miles and miles to meet a stranger in 5 towns over by train to get stood up or meet a nit job so we stick to local meets and local clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really great comments thanks and generally in line with my thoughts

Cannot accommodate , cannot travel —then why bother at all "

Because they can and they do! Every circumstance will be different and these people meet too! Just differently to you ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it has nothing to do with anyone else why people cannot accom and cannot travel.that is up to them and their own personal reasons.

Exactly, and if you don't like it then don't contact them. It's quite simple really. "

This ^^^

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"'Pick me up and take me somewhere'"

Where does it go from here? Is it down to the lake, I fear?

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"it has nothing to do with anyone else why people cannot accom and cannot travel.that is up to them and their own personal reasons.

Exactly, and if you don't like it then don't contact them. It's quite simple really. "

I continue to struggle with comments like these... I mean... it's true, but they seem to be aimed at shutting down conversation. Are these things not allowed to be topics of chat out of general interest?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met a woman by picking her up from her house, taking her to a hotel, and then dropping off back to her husband. She couldn’t travel or accommodate.

So she just hopped in a car with a guy from a sex site

Is that any more risky than driving yourself to his basement, sorry I mean house...?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"it has nothing to do with anyone else why people cannot accom and cannot travel.that is up to them and their own personal reasons.

Exactly, and if you don't like it then don't contact them. It's quite simple really.

Of course they are. Where did I say people couldn't discuss it? My response is my opinion on how to deal with such profiles. Others are free to post theirs.

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"it has nothing to do with anyone else why people cannot accom and cannot travel.that is up to them and their own personal reasons.

Exactly, and if you don't like it then don't contact them. It's quite simple really.

Of course they are. Where did I say people couldn't discuss it? My response is my opinion on how to deal with such profiles. Others are free to post theirs. "

The first comment, not so much yours, says people should mind their own business. I don't really know any other way to take "it has nothing to do with anyone else" in response to someone is asking about why in a forum.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I don't travel or accommodate because I choose to only meet in clubs.

I wish there was an tick preference option that we could have that said "club meets only"

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I don't travel or accommodate because I choose to only meet in clubs.

I wish there was an tick preference option that we could have that said "club meets only""

Yet again the lack of functionality in the site seems to be the real reason...

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

We cannot accomodate because we have children. We also cannot travel too far because we have children. Hence any meets we would have would be local and in a hotel. We explain this to everyone who messages if they are looking to meet up. everything is put out there straight and upfront so there is no confusion.

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

I know some expect to be picked up and dropped back off some probably have not put much thought into profile

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"it has nothing to do with anyone else why people cannot accom and cannot travel.that is up to them and their own personal reasons.

Exactly, and if you don't like it then don't contact them. It's quite simple really.

Of course they are. Where did I say people couldn't discuss it? My response is my opinion on how to deal with such profiles. Others are free to post theirs.

I can't speak for their intent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just our opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just our opinion"

if our opinion has upset anybody then maybe we should not have freedom of speech

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By *an For YouMan
over a year ago

belfast/holywood

"I know some expect to be picked up and dropped back off some probably have not put much thought into profile "

I was asked to pick someone up and drop them back off. Ended up having car sex- couldn’t wait lol

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"just our opinion

if our opinion has upset anybody then maybe we should not have freedom of speech"

it sounds like your "opinion" is that OP shouldn't have asked, shouldn't be curious about it and want other peoples opinions in the first place, is that fair?

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

I use it as a filter to stop guys 200miles away expecting me to rock up and suck their cock

For me it means I will travel locally 35 miles max

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I use it as a filter to stop guys 200miles away expecting me to rock up and suck their cock

For me it means I will travel locally 35 miles max "

35 miles still sounds like a hell of a lot of travel to me, especially for a hot single woman!

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

"I use it as a filter to stop guys 200miles away expecting me to rock up and suck their cock

For me it means I will travel locally 35 miles max

35 miles still sounds like a hell of a lot of travel to me, especially for a hot single woman!"

Trust me ,where I live there no one to actually meet so I need to travel to meet half way . Having preferences drastically reduces choice !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just our opinion

if our opinion has upset anybody then maybe we should not have freedom of speech

it sounds like your "opinion" is that OP shouldn't have asked, shouldn't be curious about it and want other peoples opinions in the first place, is that fair?"

not sure why you are taking such offence over this.did you get up this morning and think what can we take offence over?

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"just our opinion

if our opinion has upset anybody then maybe we should not have freedom of speech

it sounds like your "opinion" is that OP shouldn't have asked, shouldn't be curious about it and want other peoples opinions in the first place, is that fair?

not sure why you are taking such offence over this.did you get up this morning and think what can we take offence over?"

I'm not taking offense in the slightest, why do you keep coming back to that? I'm just curious how many people here seem to try to shut down potentially interesting conversations for, presumably, some unknown personal motivation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just our opinion

if our opinion has upset anybody then maybe we should not have freedom of speech

it sounds like your "opinion" is that OP shouldn't have asked, shouldn't be curious about it and want other peoples opinions in the first place, is that fair?

not sure why you are taking such offence over this.did you get up this morning and think what can we take offence over?

how does an opinion try to shut something down? ok so maybe we should explain why what when and where and all our decisions on here instead of keeping some parts of our lives seperate until we get to know someone.

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"how does an opinion try to shut something down? ok so maybe we should explain why what when and where and all our decisions on here instead of keeping some parts of our lives separate until we get to know someone."

Because, as I asked you to confirm or not, your opinion seems to be that this is an inappropriate thing to even discuss. You don't seem to have an opinion on the question being asked, merely that it shouldn't be discussed in the first place. It's like you're unable to separate the two things appropriately?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In Lidl carpark.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my/our opinion is that it has nothing to do with anyone.Should not need to explain why but did so anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my/our opinion is that it has nothing to do with anyone.Should not need to explain why but did so anyway."

did not say it should not be discussed anywhere did I?

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"it has nothing to do with anyone else why people cannot accom and cannot travel.that is up to them and their own personal reasons.

Exactly, and if you don't like it then don't contact them. It's quite simple really.

Of course they are. Where did I say people couldn't discuss it? My response is my opinion on how to deal with such profiles. Others are free to post theirs.

I'm shutting those people down that are making presumptuous and insulting comments against people that don't accommodate or travel, surely we can have a discussion without throwing around insults? Or am I supposed to sit here and allow people to assume I'm a freeloader or a timewaster that won't meet? Freedom of speech goes both ways, I'm allowed to defend myself against narrow-minded comments.

The fact is, some people don't accommodate or travel, they have their reasons and as long as they aren't harming anyone why is it an issue?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my/our opinion is that it has nothing to do with anyone.Should not need to explain why but did so anyway.

did not say it should not be discussed anywhere did I?"

"it has nothing to do with anyone else why people cannot accom and cannot travel.that is up to them and their own personal reasons."

copy and paste the first post on this from me and it does not say not to discuss anything!

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I'm shutting those people down that are making presumptuous and insulting comments against people that don't accommodate or travel, surely we can have a discussion without throwing around insults? Or am I supposed to sit here and allow people to assume I'm a freeloader or a timewaster that won't meet? Freedom of speech goes both ways, I'm allowed to defend myself against narrow-minded comments.

The fact is, some people don't accommodate or travel, they have their reasons and as long as they aren't harming anyone why is it an issue? "

Not commenting on your replies at all Keeley, you're clearly totally, properly engaged in the conversation.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

The fact is, some people don't accommodate or travel, they have their reasons and as long as they aren't harming anyone why is it an issue?

Not commenting on your replies at all Keeley, you're clearly totally, properly engaged in the conversation. "

I'm the one who said its none of anyone else's business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am seeing this more and more on profiles... how do they meet anyone? Can anyone explain- thanks in anticipation "
you book a hotel and travel to them

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

The fact is, some people don't accommodate or travel, they have their reasons and as long as they aren't harming anyone why is it an issue?

Not commenting on your replies at all Keeley, you're clearly totally, properly engaged in the conversation.

I'm the one who said its none of anyone else's business."

It's no ones business what your specific reasons are though, that's absolutely fair. Others seem to be suggesting it's wrong to even discuss the subject in general terms at all.

Other replies, including yours, have given really good reasons that have helped OP understand different scenarios where it makes sense and shown it to be a totally valid subject.

Anyway, all this meta is confusing, and was only meant to be a side observation!

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

In my opinion why has it anything to do with any men on here why I can’t accommodate or cant travel. Move on if it bothers you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought this lol

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By *nlyIfItsWorthItMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Transcendental meditation

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By *nlyIfItsWorthItMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

"In my opinion why has it anything to do with any men on here why I can’t accommodate or cant travel. Move on if it bothers you.

What has anyone's opinion of you got to do with you?

Nosey much?

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Really great comments thanks and generally in line with my thoughts

Cannot accommodate , cannot travel —then why bother at all "

Check my veris, it's working for me so I'll carry on bothering to meet people and have fun swinging. You enjoy your time picking faults and making judgements about other people

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By *nlyIfItsWorthItMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Really great comments thanks and generally in line with my thoughts

Cannot accommodate , cannot travel —then why bother at all

Check my veris, it's working for me so I'll carry on bothering to meet people and have fun swinging. You enjoy your time picking faults and making judgements about other people

You go girl - he knows he's got nowhere near 97 vers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours is different. My partner and I do not live together, we each have our own houses. I have kids so my home is not being used as I do not want random guys coming into my home that I share with my children. I don't travel due too not driving yet, but in saying that, I do use taxi and busses if it's local. My partner uses his house which is also safer for me.

It's not nice to assume things on here. You have a mouth and a brain. Ask. Simple. Not everyone is going to want to publicly put their reasons on their profile so if I'm doubt, just ask.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Can’t accommodate means can’t accommodate.

Can’t travel means can’t travel.

Why is this so hard to understand so I’m clarifying it for anyone (men) who may be confused about it.

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Can’t accommodate means can’t accommodate.

Can’t travel means can’t travel.

Why is this so hard to understand so I’m clarifying it for anyone (men) who may be confused about it.

You're joking, right? You don't think it actually is that simple do you? That's the point of the question as if you can't go anywhere, and also can't host, there is, by literal definition, nothing else left. Happily other people have suggested subtler, useful interpretations of the two phrases.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Can’t accommodate means can’t accommodate.

Can’t travel means can’t travel.

Why is this so hard to understand so I’m clarifying it for anyone (men) who may be confused about it.

Yes it’s that simple...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I refuse to comment because my opinion sucks and wrong it seems pmsl

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Can’t accommodate means can’t accommodate.

Can’t travel means can’t travel.

Why is this so hard to understand so I’m clarifying it for anyone (men) who may be confused about it.

It actually is that simple, if I say I can't accommodate and can't travel, that's exactly what it means. People don't have to like it and they can pass me by if they choose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can’t accommodate means can’t accommodate.

Can’t travel means can’t travel.

Why is this so hard to understand so I’m clarifying it for anyone (men) who may be confused about it.

It actually is that simple, if I say I can't accommodate and can't travel, that's exactly what it means. People don't have to like it and they can pass me by if they choose."

behave or you will get slated for saying that

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Can’t accommodate means can’t accommodate.

Can’t travel means can’t travel.

Why is this so hard to understand so I’m clarifying it for anyone (men) who may be confused about it.

It actually is that simple, if I say I can't accommodate and can't travel, that's exactly what it means. People don't have to like it and they can pass me by if they choose.

behave or you will get slated for saying that

You’re a cheeky one....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can’t accommodate means can’t accommodate.

Can’t travel means can’t travel.

Why is this so hard to understand so I’m clarifying it for anyone (men) who may be confused about it.

It actually is that simple, if I say I can't accommodate and can't travel, that's exactly what it means. People don't have to like it and they can pass me by if they choose.

behave or you will get slated for saying that

You’re a cheeky one...."

who is? that is so offensive.

nah only kidding lol.

peace and love to all

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

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I get your sense of humour

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