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Dom/Sub - Where did you meet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For those in a sub/dom relationship, I'm curious to know where did you meet? Through fab, a fetish site, a munch, club etc?

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By *hom_1981Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Way back when IC was a glorious place to meet likeminded folk online.

Now it’s pretty much Fetlife as your only specific place for D/s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met here ,

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By *hom_1981Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"We met here , "

Nice to see an exception to the rule!!! Still looking myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When ive had BDSM Doms ive met them mainly through another site that Im not allowed to name lol.

On here I've only really met men with Dom personalities. Im grateful for the sites as Id never get meets otherwise x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We met here ,

Nice to see an exception to the rule!!! Still looking myself"

Our paths crossed . And we were both very sure and defined in what we sought . Our only advice to anyone ( not that we are trying preach ) would be , to step back slightly from the kink . Discover the person behind the profile . We can walk up the road and enjoy each other just as much in everyday life as we can during our " other " time. We also put no pressure on each other to be a certain way

. Its perhaps a cliche to say , its more a coming together of the minds that sometimes feels the most fulfilling

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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City

I met mine playing online scrabble, as you do...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re not in relationship but have been meeting for 7 years , and we met on here .

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan
over a year ago

ignites minds to unite ...


"We met here ,

Nice to see an exception to the rule!!! Still looking myself

Our paths crossed . And we were both very sure and defined in what we sought . Our only advice to anyone ( not that we are trying preach ) would be , to step back slightly from the kink . Discover the person behind the profile . We can walk up the road and enjoy each other just as much in everyday life as we can during our " other " time. We also put no pressure on each other to be a certain way

. Its perhaps a cliche to say , its more a coming together of the minds that sometimes feels the most fulfilling "

It's not cliche to say, it actually a really good thing to read on a BDSM related thread.

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By *hom_1981Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Our only advice to anyone ( not that we are trying preach ) would be , to step back slightly from the kink . Discover the person behind the profile . We can walk up the road and enjoy each other just as much in everyday life as we can during our " other " time. We also put no pressure on each other to be a certain way "

I definitely concur with this sentiment. Often in regards to D/s I see a “any Dom/Domme” will do sort of mentality.

I think that human connection, in terms of being a good fit is more important in D/s than swinging/hot wifing etc.

Sadly the numbers aren’t favourable for submissives here (especially male) but I still hold out hope.

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

In the absence of abuse and lack of consent, I am really against third parties defining what is or how a D/S relationship should be. Particularly when people in effect define it as a what apoears to be "boyfriend/girlfriend" relationship i.e Jane Austen with kink.

In the phrase "D/S Relationship" both the "D/S" bit and the "relationship" are in my view equally important. But in real life, consensual adult relationships take many forms as do adult consensual kink relationshipsone and the latter (in my view) should not be shoe-horned into one form of relationship.

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

We met here but both were already on Fet life as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were married for a long time before we introduced any sort of kink but once we did it mushroomed really quickly

Jay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met through fab, not in a relationship, purely Dom/sub.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met my current Dom here in Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met in a bar. It was a munch then another munch.

Now. Well. It’s so much fun.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Met two subs on here, one off the American site.

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

Pof as a vanilla thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Through fab and fetish events

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london

Unexpected meet in a club, as a novice opened my eyes to a whole new experience.

Happy memories.

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By *he_virgin_maryWoman
over a year ago

Here, there and everywhere!


"Way back when IC was a glorious place to meet likeminded folk online.

Now it’s pretty much Fetlife as your only specific place for D/s."

I miss IC, I had some great meets off there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I randomly and crazily met my ex-Dom on xhamster! Bizarre but a great guy. It's been 3 years now and although not together anymore, we'll be part of each others lives forever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a different site and we both asked if on here too. Our interests have transposed onto here, though pics are not acceptable.

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington

Mrs Icebreaker was on cam on another swingers site. We talked, told jokes, it helped that I was out as a dom, and eventually had a fun social in a restaurant which led to what we do now.

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

In fetish clubs long before the internet

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington


"Mrs Icebreaker was on cam on another swingers site. We talked, told jokes, it helped that I was out as a dom, and eventually had a fun social in a restaurant which led to what we do now."

Technically is "what other vegetables do you have" isn't a joke

Ms Icebreaker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on here, just over two years ago. I became exclusive to him, and have found it to be the most liberating, fulfilling and amazing relationship I’ve ever had. He’s not just my Dom, he’s my everything x I worship him, like any good lil sub should, haha x

Viv x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met online and our relationship became very intense so quickly, from the very first time we met in person we have had something very special.

It would be very difficult to find someone kinky and compatible by chance. X

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

Currently unowned but partly why I'm here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We met on here, just over two years ago. I became exclusive to him, and have found it to be the most liberating, fulfilling and amazing relationship I’ve ever had. He’s not just my Dom, he’s my everything x I worship him, like any good lil sub should, haha x

Viv x"

Nice to hear that. Happy for you.

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By *r genuine oneMan
over a year ago

walsall

Met my previous two on here but to be honest they are getting more elusive...think its easier to find a unicorn ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We met on here, just over two years ago. I became exclusive to him, and have found it to be the most liberating, fulfilling and amazing relationship I’ve ever had. He’s not just my Dom, he’s my everything x I worship him, like any good lil sub should, haha x

Viv x

Nice to hear that. Happy for you."

Thank you xx

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington


"Mrs Icebreaker was on cam on another swingers site. We talked, told jokes, it helped that I was out as a dom, and eventually had a fun social in a restaurant which led to what we do now.

Technically is "what other vegetables do you have" isn't a joke

Ms Icebreaker "

But you giggled, beautifully....

mr Icebreaker

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