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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Question for women and couples, do you take into account single guys verifications before meeting.

For example would you chose a guy who has proven meets over a non meet verified?

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I judge on how they are in messaging me. Obviously if they are well verified I'm more likely to think they'll turn up for a meet. I've met non verified people and verified though, back when I used to away from clubs x

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By *angOnBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich

We read the message and how articulate it is. Also, check the profile and how long they've been on the site to gauge if they're for us or not.

Veri's are nice, but not essential as everyone needs their first time

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford


"We read the message and how articulate it is. Also, check the profile and how long they've been on the site to gauge if they're for us or not.

Veri's are nice, but not essential as everyone needs their first time "

Pretty much this!

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"Question for women and couples, do you take into account single guys verifications before meeting.

For example would you chose a guy who has proven meets over a non meet verified? "

It's very rare that one comes along let alone two or more to compare, but in the example you give verifications might work just as much against someone as for someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The elephant in the room is that m_mbers can choose which verifications to show.

For example, they could have ten verifications but nine are shit. Obviously, they’d only show the good one! If all verifications showed automatically then people could maliciously leave bad verification, out of spite. Then you get to the two many / two few scenario, or they’ve met people you wouldn’t!

For me, verifications are useful, but of limited value.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Don't forget, people will use the fact that someone doesn't have veries as an easier way of saying no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me, verifications only prove the person is more likely to be genuine and to turn up when arranged. If the conversation is flowing well with the unverified person, and I feel we have a connection, I would give them a try and meet for a social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People get bitchy over them, can of worms!!

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

We would meet unverified people if they came across well and knew what we and they wanted from the meet obviously we would be more nervous of whether they would turn up or not

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

Lots of veris put me off tbh......I’d be more likely to meet someone with a couple than a hundred.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

And I’ve been let down by 4 men on here .... all of them well verified. The ones I’ve met with no veris show up. Veris mean shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wouldn't meet a none verified couple never mind a none verified male.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

If I'm just looking for a quick social for a coffee then I won't meet anyone unverified otherwise it makes no difference, I've met a few newbies in the club & given them a first veri

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"We wouldn't meet a none verified couple never mind a none verified male. "

Why do so many people write "none" instead of "non"... am I missing something or is it just general bad spelling?

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By *9forfunMan
over a year ago

kent

Just joined and was wondering a similar thing! Obviously I have no verifications as I just joined

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I'm just looking for a quick social for a coffee then I won't meet anyone unverified otherwise it makes no difference, I've met a few newbies in the club & given them a first veri "

Me too

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"We wouldn't meet a none verified couple never mind a none verified male.

Why do so many people write "none" instead of "non"... am I missing something or is it just general bad spelling?"

In the grand scheme of things that matter, is it that important? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The elephant in the room is that m_mbers can choose which verifications to show.

For example, they could have ten verifications but nine are shit. Obviously, they’d only show the good one! If all verifications showed automatically then people could maliciously leave bad verification, out of spite. Then you get to the two many / two few scenario, or they’ve met people you wouldn’t!

For me, verifications are useful, but of limited value.

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Plus there are a fair few fake verifications floating around. I've had people admit to me that the cam veri was fake (reported, nothing done about it)and I know of a few guys who will veri single females in an effort to impress.

Too many veris do put me off too, although if I like the look of the person, I will look at them to see the ratio of cam/social/sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plus there are a fair few fake verifications floating around. I've had people admit to me that the cam veri was fake (reported, nothing done about it)and I know of a few guys who will veri single females in an effort to impress."

I recently left a real verification, admin decided it was fake, and removed my “verified” tick. They won’t engage on the subject. Go figure.

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"We wouldn't meet a none verified couple never mind a none verified male.

Why do so many people write "none" instead of "non"... am I missing something or is it just general bad spelling?

In the grand scheme of things that matter, is it that important? X"

No, not one thing on this site matters "in the grand scheme" of anything. So...?

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

We check veris before contacting a single guy, but that’s just one of a few things that determine whether we meet him or not.

But definitely, no veris, no play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As we say on our profile,we only consider meet verified m_mbers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As we say on our profile,we only consider meet verified m_mbers "

And you can filter mail to only allow verified users to contact you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As we say on our profile,we only consider meet verified m_mbers

And you can filter mail to only allow verified users to contact you."

Yes,and other filters are also available

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston


"We read the message and how articulate it is. Also, check the profile and how long they've been on the site to gauge if they're for us or not.

Veri's are nice, but not essential as everyone needs their first time "

This, but I do check them out. More to see the kind of people who someone is attracted to than anything else and I have been put off sometimes.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Its part of my decision making ,but not all of it.i look at the interests,profile text and pics too ,to see if I'd want to meet.

I have met unverified guys in the past.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"

For example would you chose a guy who has proven meets over a non meet verified? "

No. I'd chose the one that I had the most chemistry with regardless of verified or not

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