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"Ladies, just to ask how many of you usually orgasm through oral? I recently met someone who said they never did until me so I'm just intrigued. I know I'm good at it but didn't know I was that good " Shameless advert | |||
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"Ladies, just to ask how many of you usually orgasm through oral? I recently met someone who said they never did until me so I'm just intrigued. I know I'm good at it but didn't know I was that good Shameless advert " | |||
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"Ladies, just to ask how many of you usually orgasm through oral? I recently met someone who said they never did until me so I'm just intrigued. I know I'm good at it but didn't know I was that good " Never have! | |||
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"Ladies, just to ask how many of you usually orgasm through oral? I recently met someone who said they never did until me so I'm just intrigued. I know I'm good at it but didn't know I was that good " Its rare due to most men being appalling at it. Mr Icebreaker is the only man who has ever been consistently able to bring me to orgasm that way. | |||
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"Nope, never happened for me. Why?" I get bored. | |||
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"If it's done right It's the easiest way I do but then some only do it for a minute before they want to fuck and that's not going to do it." A MINUTE! That's hardly enough time to really start enjoying it now is it for both parties x | |||
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"If it's done right It's the easiest way I do but then some only do it for a minute before they want to fuck and that's not going to do it." Pretty much all of the times I've made a woman cum has been by giving oral...I love it, and I love to please and I get to taste her pleasure. Turning a woman on and making her cum is one of the biggest turn on's for me! | |||
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"Nope, never happened for me. Why? I get bored." I suppose it's the same as receiving one of those blow jobs where the efforts there, but the skills just not quite up to par lol | |||
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"Nope, never happened for me." Snap, although there may have been one time at band camp | |||
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"Nope, never happened for me. Snap, although there may have been one time at band camp " Was a flute involved? | |||
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"Very rare for me. Afraid of drowning them lol " You can drown me...love making a woman cum, such a turn on! | |||
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"Nope, never happened for me. Snap, although there may have been one time at band camp Was a flute involved? " Too long ago to recall | |||
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"Yep and love it." Now there’s a lovely thought!! | |||
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"Yep and love it." | |||
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"I’m sure it takes a while to learn what what every different woman likes It’s what you do with your fingers that varies massively " Nope tongue for me | |||
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"I’m sure it takes a while to learn what what every different woman likes It’s what you do with your fingers that varies massively Nope tongue for me " there you go -just tongue on clit and lips? No fingers at all? | |||
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"I love it, though not every man can manage it x " This is very true plus the lady has to be relaxed. Men really don’t understand the mechanics of it....they don’t know what women want! | |||
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"Ladies, just to ask how many of you usually orgasm through oral? I recently met someone who said they never did until me so I'm just intrigued. I know I'm good at it but didn't know I was that good " You are definitely the best and if I ever get a golf ball stuck in my garden hose again, I know just who to call. Thank you x | |||
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"I love it, though not every man can manage it x This is very true plus the lady has to be relaxed. Men really don’t understand the mechanics of it....they don’t know what women want! " I think that statement is true the other way around too. Certainly in terms of technique and the physical side of things. | |||
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"Usually when there’s a finger in as well. I remember when I was quite young, 18 and was going out with this guy and after a rave we’d been to he went down on me when I had full disco minge as well so fair play to him, think I was on top of his face and he done something that made me orgasm, remember being like oh this is nice. Good boy he was, wicked cook as well. " Wicked cook? Was he a chef? | |||
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"Usually when there’s a finger in as well. I remember when I was quite young, 18 and was going out with this guy and after a rave we’d been to he went down on me when I had full disco minge as well so fair play to him, think I was on top of his face and he done something that made me orgasm, remember being like oh this is nice. Good boy he was, wicked cook as well. Wicked cook? Was he a chef? " No but for a lad of 19 he could just cook things nice, his cooked breakfasts were lush, like the eggs would be perfect white and the yolk not too hard and not too runny, he would be generous with the fried mushrooms and cooked them really good and the bacon was nice so the fat was crispy but not burnt and he’d make me nice curries. | |||
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"Usually when there’s a finger in as well. I remember when I was quite young, 18 and was going out with this guy and after a rave we’d been to he went down on me when I had full disco minge as well so fair play to him, think I was on top of his face and he done something that made me orgasm, remember being like oh this is nice. Good boy he was, wicked cook as well. Wicked cook? Was he a chef? No but for a lad of 19 he could just cook things nice, his cooked breakfasts were lush, like the eggs would be perfect white and the yolk not too hard and not too runny, he would be generous with the fried mushrooms and cooked them really good and the bacon was nice so the fat was crispy but not burnt and he’d make me nice curries. " I’d let him shag me as well if he cooked that for me | |||
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"If it's done right It's the easiest way I do but then some only do it for a minute before they want to fuck and that's not going to do it. A MINUTE! That's hardly enough time to really start enjoying it now is it for both parties x" Exactly! Yet they're more than happy to take the long blowjobs! It's been like that mostly with younger guys though I have met the odd older guy who was that way and my very first long term boyfriend was very generous in that department so it's not always the way. | |||
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"The look of surprise from a man when surfacing after oral asking ‘did you orgasm?’ ‘No I couldn’t’ ‘well you made gasping sounds’..... Example of not knowing us but how can they know? " We are very happy to learn. I only need telling once. Usually. | |||
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"I've never been made to cum from a bj alone not once in 36 and had a fair few but I've never cum from it and some have been good . Dont get me wrong I've cum being finished with one after sex but never straight from just a bj. Am I alone???" Think so. You're just weird mate. Learn to live with it | |||
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"I can spend hours down there and not get bored. Absolutely love giving oral and I've been told before that I have a bit of a talent with it. Gotta use fingers as well while you're down there and I've got a fair sized tongue which helps. I wouldnt be happy if I didnt make a girl cum from oral before we got down to business." Sounds like my kinda thing, but happy to be finished after the gent has fucked me or lick me till I'm on the brink then fuck me and I'll cum through rubbing my clit at the same time. Nipple stimulation in amongst all this is always good too | |||
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"Sorry, I thought ladies always orgasmed from oral " Oh no no no you’re proof you don’t know us..... | |||
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"I've never been made to cum from a bj alone not once in 36 and had a fair few but I've never cum from it and some have been good . Dont get me wrong I've cum being finished with one after sex but never straight from just a bj. Am I alone??? Think so. You're just weird mate. Learn to live with it" Your probably right it's a good starter or a finisher but as a main course no one has ever got me off from start to finish | |||
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"I can spend hours down there and not get bored. Absolutely love giving oral and I've been told before that I have a bit of a talent with it. Gotta use fingers as well while you're down there and I've got a fair sized tongue which helps. I wouldnt be happy if I didnt make a girl cum from oral before we got down to business." Not speaking on behalf of the lovely ladies of FAB but merely an observation from speaking with women previously. I think the vast majority of women would hate the idea of a guy spending ages down their determined to “try” and make them cum. As it’s been said, women are for more complexed than us men. If it’s not gonna happen no amount of trying will work. | |||
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"I can only orgasm through oral. Not everyone has the right technique though. " Same for me which is why I will only meet men that are happy to give oral ! | |||
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"Sorry, I thought ladies always orgasmed from oral Oh no no no you’re proof you don’t know us....." I could turn that around... | |||
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"If it's done right It's the easiest way I do but then some only do it for a minute before they want to fuck and that's not going to do it." Lightweights! | |||
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"Rarely, it's not something that does it for me generally. I'd much rather have a good fingering." Why not both? | |||
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"OMG, I can’t believe the amount of women that never have. Ladies, does that mean you come through penetrative sex, or neither?? It’s the only way I can come, and a lot of men are useless at it. I don’t know if that’s because they are selfish/can’t be bothered, or they don’t know how/don’t care. " Neither, I never orgasm with someone else, I can do it easily myself or with toys though. | |||
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"I've never been made to cum from a bj alone not once in 36 and had a fair few but I've never cum from it and some have been good . Dont get me wrong I've cum being finished with one after sex but never straight from just a bj. Am I alone???" Nope, the only time I've ever cum from blowjobs has literally been when a woman has essentially wanked me off into there mouth lol I enjoy them of course but just never finish from them. The other way around when I'm going down on a woman I love, probably my biggest turn on. | |||
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"OMG, I can’t believe the amount of women that never have. Ladies, does that mean you come through penetrative sex, or neither?? It’s the only way I can come, and a lot of men are useless at it. I don’t know if that’s because they are selfish/can’t be bothered, or they don’t know how/don’t care. Neither, I never orgasm with someone else, I can do it easily myself or with toys though. " Same for me although I could come through sex many years ago but not anymore | |||
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"Some women can't orgasm through penetration. I am one of them. My husband seems to be the only person who can make me cum through oral. Many guys and ladies have tried! It's now seen as a challenge. Vibrators or wands are a good way to make me cum " I can't orgasm from penetration alone. I need clitoral stimulation too but that can be achieved in a number of ways | |||
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"I hate my orgasms being turned into a challenge. FFS I'm not a Rubik's cube" Love this....go girl...! | |||
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"I hate my orgasms being turned into a challenge. FFS I'm not a Rubik's cube Love this....go girl...! " Exactly hehehe When it’s about them, not you | |||
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"I've never orgasmed through oral " You should meet my Mrs, I don't have a vagina myself but I'm told she's very talented Although I rarely fail to get my beard soaked myself I'm told she's better. | |||
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"So turning this on its head, how many women can't cum though penetration only? I bet that's pretty high " Me | |||
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"Some women can't orgasm through penetration. I am one of them. My husband seems to be the only person who can make me cum through oral. Many guys and ladies have tried! It's now seen as a challenge. Vibrators or wands are a good way to make me cum I can't orgasm from penetration alone. I need clitoral stimulation too but that can be achieved in a number of ways " Never cum from penetration or oral. Rarely by someone else. Wands are too much, I'll grab my coat on the way to the convent lol | |||
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"So turning this on its head, how many women can't cum though penetration only? I bet that's pretty high " Never really, every time they think lol | |||
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"Ladies, just to ask how many of you usually orgasm through oral? I recently met someone who said they never did until me so I'm just intrigued. I know I'm good at it but didn't know I was that good " omg you definitely are the best at it cmon don't be shy | |||
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"Ladies, just to ask how many of you usually orgasm through oral? I recently met someone who said they never did until me so I'm just intrigued. I know I'm good at it but didn't know I was that good Shameless advert " My thoughts exactly. Lame | |||
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"blokes are mainly just in a world of their own " So true | |||
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"Orgasm through oral for me has only been since meeting Ride.. now I can’t get enough of it. Poor man gets pushed down there daily! ~ Bonnie " Oh must be really tough for him lol I’m sure he’s gutted | |||
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"Orgasm through oral for me has only been since meeting Ride.. now I can’t get enough of it. Poor man gets pushed down there daily! ~ Bonnie Oh must be really tough for him lol I’m sure he’s gutted " | |||
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"So turning this on its head, how many women can't cum though penetration only? I bet that's pretty high Me " Me too! | |||
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"Fucking hell are we supposed to give oral now as well. " Lmao | |||
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"I've only ever had a orgasm once thru tongue action.. I guess I just don't relax enough as its there but it just won't let go so to speak..just need to find the right guy to get me past that point of no return. " Are you are right it’s about making the person relax I absolutely love giving oral and once I think is about an hour and a half I did nothing but give. I’m not blowing my own trumpet but she did say that she had trouble And having an orgasm through all that night she came six times | |||
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"I've never been made to cum from a bj alone not once in 36 and had a fair few but I've never cum from it and some have been good . Dont get me wrong I've cum being finished with one after sex but never straight from just a bj. Am I alone???" same here! | |||
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"I'm curious about the women who have never or very rarely cum from oral as to why? Is it just you've never relaxed enough when somebody's down there or you only had partners not that keen on doing it or not been able to tell them what you like, or is it more mechanical? As in is it not sensitive or just feels uncomfortable. (Please forgive the terminology )." Purely lack of technique and time spent there. With women I've cum every time. Doesn't bother me as I cum in multiple glorious ways... Anal being my favourite. I used to teach them skills but it gets boring and intrusive! | |||
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"Nope, never happened for me. Why?" The reasons are all over the other answers, orgasms do not just happen for everyone, even men as they get older (yes I am one really) | |||
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"I'm curious about the women who have never or very rarely cum from oral as to why? Is it just you've never relaxed enough when somebody's down there or you only had partners not that keen on doing it or not been able to tell them what you like, or is it more mechanical? As in is it not sensitive or just feels uncomfortable. (Please forgive the terminology ). Purely lack of technique and time spent there. With women I've cum every time. Doesn't bother me as I cum in multiple glorious ways... Anal being my favourite. I used to teach them skills but it gets boring and intrusive! " I agree it is all about time and technique I think the longest I’ve been down on a woman was an hour and a half but technique does play a key it’s not like going down the shop to buy a lollipop | |||
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"I'm curious about the women who have never or very rarely cum from oral as to why? Is it just you've never relaxed enough when somebody's down there or you only had partners not that keen on doing it or not been able to tell them what you like, or is it more mechanical? As in is it not sensitive or just feels uncomfortable. (Please forgive the terminology ). Purely lack of technique and time spent there. With women I've cum every time. Doesn't bother me as I cum in multiple glorious ways... Anal being my favourite. I used to teach them skills but it gets boring and intrusive! " Yeah I can see that, timing seems to play a big factor and willing But patience is always rewarded in the long run. | |||
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"Nope, never happened for me." Meet the OP. You will have your first orgasm through oral lol. | |||
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"So turning this on its head, how many women can't cum though penetration only? I bet that's pretty high Me Me too!" me tooo | |||
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"So turning this on its head, how many women can't cum though penetration only? I bet that's pretty high Me Me too!me tooo " In cowgirl hell yes, always | |||
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"So turning this on its head, how many women can't cum though penetration only? I bet that's pretty high Me Me too!me tooo In cowgirl hell yes, always" standing reverse cowgirl? | |||
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"Nope, never happened for me. Meet the OP. You will have your first orgasm through oral lol." | |||
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