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Blocked for no reason?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello fab

Has anyone ever been blocked for no reason and no reason i mean

I was polite,I made sure i was what they were looking for. Made sure i didnt live too far, made effort with the first message. I did nothing wrong and next thing i know, BLOCKED.

Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello fab

Has anyone ever been blocked for no reason and no reason i mean

I was polite,I made sure i was what they were looking for. Made sure i didnt live too far, made effort with the first message. I did nothing wrong and next thing i know, BLOCKED.

Why? "

The recipient of your msg wasn't interested?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no such thing as no reason to block.

The person that blocked you had their reasons.

You may not know what they are but they had one.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Many reasons..

Maybe your idea of 'did nothing wrong' differs from their idea.

Maybe they didn't fancy you.

Maybe they weren't what thet were looking for?..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fair enough i may have worded it wrong with 'no reason'

I guess i was basing it on a recent experiance where they fabed my pictures, sent a wink and then when i approached and i was blocked.

I dont mind, everyone is free to block who they won't. I dont take it personally just curious thats all!

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By *atchusCouple
over a year ago

Near Ollerton

Yea we just block everyone we would never meet, no pics then they get blocked also, just a way to make the site a higher percentage of people for us, less people to sort through when we are looking.

Dont take it to heart, some people simply block because the location is close to there house etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello fab

Has anyone ever been blocked for no reason and no reason i mean

I was polite,I made sure i was what they were looking for. Made sure i didnt live too far, made effort with the first message. I did nothing wrong and next thing i know, BLOCKED.

Why? "

I block people simply because I don't want to keep seeing their profile every time I log in . Or they bugged me in chat . But that's just me being a bitch.

But as I said if you not what am looking for or to far away I block to not see you

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By *urtyGentMan
over a year ago

eastleigh

Could be that you have no profile picture. Lots of people don’t like shadow men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello fab

Has anyone ever been blocked for no reason and no reason i mean

I was polite,I made sure i was what they were looking for. Made sure i didnt live too far, made effort with the first message. I did nothing wrong and next thing i know, BLOCKED.

Why? "

lol. atleast you actually contacted them. Had a guy message me out of the blue the other week saying I was ugly blah blah blah then proceeded to block me so I couldn't respond. Fact I couldn't atleast respond due to being blocked was the most infuriating part.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah i guess that's true ,just a privacy thing as i wouldn't have a face pic due to my private life nor would i have a dick pic as a lot of people dont like it.

But fair point man

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Could be that you have no profile picture. Lots of people don’t like shadow men"

To be fair, Fab is what you make it, and your profile is not exactly selling you, is it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I guess that's true! Im going to be a little more photogenic and upload some more pics

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"I guess that's true! Im going to be a little more photogenic and upload some more pics "

And the rest of your (non-existent) profile...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I guess that's true! Im going to be a little more photogenic and upload some more pics

And the rest of your (non-existent) profile..."

Okay okay,you've made your point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fair enough i may have worded it wrong with 'no reason'

I guess i was basing it on a recent experiance where they fabed my pictures, sent a wink and then when i approached and i was blocked.

I dont mind, everyone is free to block who they won't. I dont take it personally just curious thats all!"

You havent got any pictures though

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"I guess that's true! Im going to be a little more photogenic and upload some more pics

And the rest of your (non-existent) profile...

Okay okay,you've made your point "

It really is not intended as a personal dig, but men really do outnumber women here...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I do have id just rather keep them friends only as id rather only show them to people ive spoken to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I guess that's true! Im going to be a little more photogenic and upload some more pics

And the rest of your (non-existent) profile...

Okay okay,you've made your point

It really is not intended as a personal dig, but men really do outnumber women here..."

Very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do have id just rather keep them friends only as id rather only show them to people ive spoken to. "

That's fine and your choice but bear in mind it will almost certainly limit your chances of meeting people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d imagine nobody gets blocked for “no reason”. More likely you’ve been rude or not read somebody’s profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello fab

Has anyone ever been blocked for no reason and no reason i mean

I was polite,I made sure i was what they were looking for. Made sure i didnt live too far, made effort with the first message. I did nothing wrong and next thing i know, BLOCKED.

Why? "
it happens people block you for what you say, what you do, how you look, where you live and who you've met its life on this internet domain

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Do you think your choice of name helps?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found myself blocked by people I've never even spoken to and just take it as they would never want to speak to me so saves the bother of not seeing me! It's no worries at all ...

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Op as you are below 30, we would block you even if you had only viewed.

Not interested in anyone below that age, sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They usually send a pm with insults and block me afterward

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Pre emptive blocks happen all the time, fella. Lots of folk get way too many messages and lots of folk prefer to control their privacy a bit more around here.

Wouldn't take it personal, dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I received a message to which I replied I think without offence, my reply was, what do you have in mind, and then when I tried the person again the profile was hidden ???

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

We rarely block people based on pictures unless their gross gyne ones that make us feel a bit sick.

Generally it's pushy people who just don't understand that if you send 18 messages in a half hour period with no reply chances are that person isn't interested.

Or the ones who just don't read profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s always a reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello fab

Has anyone ever been blocked for no reason and no reason i mean

I was polite,I made sure i was what they were looking for. Made sure i didnt live too far, made effort with the first message. I did nothing wrong and next thing i know, BLOCKED.

Why? "

You can’t be everyone’s cup of tea, even if you think that you match everything for them, you clearly didn’t.

Don’t take it personally, these things happen.

At least it’s only a message and you need spend time and money meeting them for them to just disappear!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has a reason for blocking. Just because you don’t know the reason, doesn’t mean there wasn’t one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok thanks, it's just the initial contact was from the other person so they must have looked at my profile first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok thanks, it's just the initial contact was from the other person so they must have looked at my profile first"

This has no relevance, sorry. You still might not have been for them. As others as said, just because you can’t find the reason doesn’t mean there wasn’t one.

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