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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hate it when people make profiles up say the are someone, arrange to meet then don't turn up! One couple on here arranged to meet us, didn't turn up, no message to say they couldn't make it, we could see they had been online but took them 4 days to make up a tale, the same couple arranged to meet a guy, stood him up with no explanation then when a couple who are our friends messaged them to ask how they were getting on they had the cheek to say they had been stood up by a couple!

Name n shame or just delete n block? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not allowed to name and shame. just delete block and move on, they are not worth your energy! x

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Hate it when people make profiles up say the are someone, arrange to meet then don't turn up! One couple on here arranged to meet us, didn't turn up, no message to say they couldn't make it, we could see they had been online but took them 4 days to make up a tale, the same couple arranged to meet a guy, stood him up with no explanation then when a couple who are our friends messaged them to ask how they were getting on they had the cheek to say they had been stood up by a couple!

Name n shame or just delete n block? X"

Now let's seeeeeee

Name and Shame breaks site rules and gets you banned.

Delete and block suggests an adult attitude toward trivial events in life.

Difficult innit ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Decisions, decisions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

block n delete ,,sorry we cant name n shame tho ,,,,,we had same done 2 us mayb the same ppl lol

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By * amWoman
over a year ago

Stockton

Swingers need thick skins, its a fact. Some folks genuinely "bottle it" at the last minute, some like the thrill of the chase, others collect pics but have no intention of ever meeting, others would...... but then realise that the pics they posted were taken ten yrs ago and will be caught out. The list goes on and on. Thankfully there are also many genuine ppl out there it just takes time and patience to find them.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

There is an option to report people for not turning up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had the same its very annoying I dont understand why some people do this xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had the same done to me, 100 mile round trip! I reported as a no show, admin blocked but does not tell you what the outcome is.

Problem is if they are banned they can set up another profile.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"Had the same done to me, 100 mile round trip! I reported as a no show, admin blocked but does not tell you what the outcome is.

Problem is if they are banned they can set up another profile.

"

Maybe Admin should have sent you the severed head in the post?....or at least a photo as proof of their execution?

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"Had the same done to me, 100 mile round trip! I reported as a no show, admin blocked but does not tell you what the outcome is.

Problem is if they are banned they can set up another profile.

Maybe Admin should have sent you the severed head in the post?....or at least a photo as proof of their execution?"

This service is on their "to do" list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Maybe Admin should have sent you the severed head in the post?....or at least a photo as proof of their execution?"

Just a photo on email would do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This service is on their "to do" list "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not on my own then although fortunately when I reached the hotel and decided to get d*unk instead ended up with the barmaid instead ha now who's the joke on mr and mrs no show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hate it when people make profiles up say the are someone, arrange to meet then don't turn up! One couple on here arranged to meet us, didn't turn up, no message to say they couldn't make it, we could see they had been online but took them 4 days to make up a tale, the same couple arranged to meet a guy, stood him up with no explanation then when a couple who are our friends messaged them to ask how they were getting on they had the cheek to say they had been stood up by a couple!

Name n shame or just delete n block? X"

report them and block

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral

block and delete is the best way

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I would hunt them down, break into their house and stand in their front room naked with a hammer screaming at them WHYYYYY!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a couple who didnt turn up for an arranged meet with no cancellation or explaination but who had the cheek a few hours later to send me a message as if they had just discoverd my profile, asking to meet me that night.... instant block!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had it done plenty, used to it now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hate it when people make profiles up say the are someone, arrange to meet then don't turn up! One couple on here arranged to meet us, didn't turn up, no message to say they couldn't make it, we could see they had been online but took them 4 days to make up a tale, the same couple arranged to meet a guy, stood him up with no explanation then when a couple who are our friends messaged them to ask how they were getting on they had the cheek to say they had been stood up by a couple!

Name n shame or just delete n block? X"

prevention is better than cure. Don't bite too quickly, meet veried site members, make sure you chat for a while to make sure they are genuinely interested, talk on the phone with both partners and if possible a quick chat on cam, especially if it is a long trip.

not a lot more you can do after that. most peeps have probably had a let down like this at one time or another, just another version of being "stood up" in the everyday world I guess. Tis annoying tho.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Now you see, I've never had a no show in the five years I've been playing.

Am I so delightful and gorgeous that I can't be resisted?!! I wouldn't like to say . Thing is my way works for me, 100% success rate.

I always meet for a coffee/drink/meal. This either takes place at lunch time or after work. If lunchtime it's outside Marks where I'd be going any way for a sarnie, so no skin off my nose, no time lost if they don't appear. If after work it's at the station 5.15, the time I'd be there anyway to get the 5.27 home. Again, if they don't show I've not wasted a second of my time.

When arranging a play meet I work from home or book a flexi day when I was going to clean my cupboards, wash the skirting boards etc, so if they don't turn up I had things to do.

I view this as a past time. I don't go out of my way, I don't feed egos and I most certainly don't travel more than the 400m to Marks/station for a meet.

Some people get off knowing they're putting people through hoops to meet them. My way will not suit everyone, however it works for me.

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures


"Hate it when people make profiles up say the are someone, arrange to meet then don't turn up! One couple on here arranged to meet us, didn't turn up, no message to say they couldn't make it, we could see they had been online but took them 4 days to make up a tale, the same couple arranged to meet a guy, stood him up with no explanation then when a couple who are our friends messaged them to ask how they were getting on they had the cheek to say they had been stood up by a couple!

Name n shame or just delete n block? X"

Welcome to the interwebs - good to see you finally got yourself a computer and a connection..

its like that on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now you see, I've never had a no show in the five years I've been playing.

Am I so delightful and gorgeous that I can't be resisted?!! I wouldn't like to say . Thing is my way works for me, 100% success rate.

I always meet for a coffee/drink/meal. This either takes place at lunch time or after work. If lunchtime it's outside Marks where I'd be going any way for a sarnie, so no skin off my nose, no time lost if they don't appear. If after work it's at the station 5.15, the time I'd be there anyway to get the 5.27 home. Again, if they don't show I've not wasted a second of my time.

When arranging a play meet I work from home or book a flexi day when I was going to clean my cupboards, wash the skirting boards etc, so if they don't turn up I had things to do.

I view this as a past time. I don't go out of my way, I don't feed egos and I most certainly don't travel more than the 400m to Marks/station for a meet.

Some people get off knowing they're putting people through hoops to meet them. My way will not suit everyone, however it works for me. "

Cant fault this logic, good to see some people don't treat swinging as the be-all and end-all

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By *W4playcplCouple
over a year ago

preston

Not sure what the point is of reporting. We had messaged someone with a fake id, he had pictures of BBC that had been photoshopped to make him look bigger, but we already knew one of the guys from the original picture.

E-mailed fab saying he was using fake pictures, etc, but he is still on here and using same pictures.

Does fab not ban these guys because they pay???

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By *adgeeMan
over a year ago

Loch Lomond


"Hate it when people make profiles up say the are someone, arrange to meet then don't turn up! One couple on here arranged to meet us, didn't turn up, no message to say they couldn't make it, we could see they had been online but took them 4 days to make up a tale, the same couple arranged to meet a guy, stood him up with no explanation then when a couple who are our friends messaged them to ask how they were getting on they had the cheek to say they had been stood up by a couple!

Name n shame or just delete n block? X"

Block user delete and report to admin! Name and shame by word of mouth to friends, nothing stopping you doing that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

name them in your staus update...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Telephone conversation on the day, so far I've been lucky but would like to think I could tell on the pre meet phone call if I am pushing things along.

Important to give hesitators a way out with just a quick texts "cant make it".#

saves the journey and time and may turn out to be a genuine reason.

Finally for the guys, dont let being horny/ wishful thinking cloud judgement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Finally for the guys, dont let being horny/ wishful thinking cloud judgement."
Why just for the guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had quite a few no shows, even after speaking or messaging on the day........ Guess its there loss, just accept and move on

Tis a tad annoying tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Finally for the guys, dont let being horny/ wishful thinking cloud judgement.Why just for the guys?"

Indeed.......... Wannabes everywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"name them in your staus update...

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carnt name and shame not even on your profile

* cReEpS rOunD cRyPt * -l-

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

strange you cant name ans shame but the odd status with a username in like

went shopping with so and so or social with her and him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You mean there are fake profiles on here?

Shit - was just about to jump in the car to go meet Megan Fox and Holly Willabooby for a threesome!

Do you think i'm being conned??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"strange you cant name ans shame but the odd status with a username in like

went shopping with so and so or social with her and him

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we'd risk naming them if we got stuffed by a fake couple

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures


"You mean there are fake profiles on here?

Shit - was just about to jump in the car to go meet Megan Fox and Holly Willabooby for a threesome!

Do you think i'm being conned?? "

nah! Megan is on here for sure - I've done her a few times.

she's not the sharpest tool in the box tho - in fact the most intelligent thing that's ever come out of her mouth was my cock

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By *nnie2009Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You mean there are fake profiles on here?

Shit - was just about to jump in the car to go meet Megan Fox and Holly Willabooby for a threesome!

Do you think i'm being conned??

nah! Megan is on here for sure - I've done her a few times.

she's not the sharpest tool in the box tho - in fact the most intelligent thing that's ever come out of her mouth was my cock "

Phew!

Just Willaboobies existence I have to worry about then! Still, if she's not really gonna be there i'm sure Megan can rustle up some other hollywood Z listers! My faith in the site restored!

Starting the engine now!

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