FabSwingers.com forum: Verifications

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Has anybody else on here met up with somebody, had a great time etc & then left them some positive feedback. The others then publish it on their page what you have said, ie using it to promote themselves, but then not even had the decency to return the favour!

Grrr rant over!

Any thoughts on this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it bothers you THAT much, then simple, block them and your verification will not be shown.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

awwww, did they not say nice things to "promote" you?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Has anybody else on here met up with somebody, had a great time etc & then left them some positive feedback. The others then publish it on their page what you have said, ie using it to promote themselves, but then not even had the decency to return the favour!

Grrr rant over!

Any thoughts on this?"

It used to bother me when I was new to the site, but having been on here a while now I just think 'meh, they obviously weren't that excited by me. One less to meet'. Saves time all round.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dozens of times. Most don't show the one I've given them either, as they're on here as 'straight' or 'male half of couple'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i don't give to receive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i don't give to receive

Neither do I.

I feel the same with verifications!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i cant be arsed with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grrr rant over!

Any thoughts on this?"

Maybe they didnt have as great a time as you did if it bothers you that much try asking them... bit of a mixed debate on veris...myself i only ever thought of them as yr genuine and your a safe meet...One or two women did refuse to meet me because they said i had to many veris ....and here was me thinking swinging at the time was all about variety

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont give verifications unless they leave it first, not because i want to make sure i get some off them but because im not really bothered if they leave it or not, ive met loads of guys who havnt verified me and it really dont bother me, ive re met guys who havnt verified me because i meet for good sex not for a verification, but if they send it me i will give back out of politness

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

As a lot of people go on about verifications being important, then not having had one returned is probably a reason to not be best pleased.

Ask them to give you one , even if it is just to say you have met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe they liked you that much they dont want to advertise you so your free for them

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By *atureFem4FunWoman
over a year ago

Petts Wood

They obviously want to keep you all to themselves.....well if you had a Ferrari you wouldn't want all and sundry driving it would you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thing is is itthat important on here to be verified

i meet if they arent or are etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"thing is is itthat important on here to be verified

i meet if they arent or are etc"

ive met a few un verified men

we were all new at some point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"thing is is itthat important on here to be verified

i meet if they arent or are etc

ive met a few un verified men

we were all new at some point"

thats my point x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i dont give verifications unless they leave it first, not because i want to make sure i get some off them but because im not really bothered if they leave it or not, ive met loads of guys who havnt verified me and it really dont bother me, ive re met guys who havnt verified me because i meet for good sex not for a verification, but if they send it me i will give back out of

politness"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grrr rant over!

Any thoughts on this?

It used to bother me when I was new to the site, but having been on here a while now I just think 'meh, they obviously weren't that excited by me. One less to meet'. Saves time all round."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"thing is is itthat important on here to be verified

i meet if they arent or are etc

ive met a few un verified men

we were all new at some point

thats my point x"

some people just collect them tho, i had one guy mail me asking me if id meet him just for a drink so i could verify him lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They obviously want to keep you all to themselves.....well if you had a Ferrari you wouldn't want all and sundry driving it would you?"

There is some truth in that. I often get messages from people, asking me to 'recommend' others to them!

Why would I risk my best meets finding someone better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"thing is is itthat important on here to be verified

i meet if they arent or are etc

ive met a few un verified men

we were all new at some point

thats my point x

some people just collect them tho, i had one guy mail me asking me if id meet him just for a drink so i could verify him lol"

lmao

i foeget to verify people and if i have met them more than once no point really x

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Verifications don't mean anything to me I don't need them and seldom give them. That said, when I came back and needed a verification to post on the forums I contacted a regular playmate to verify me.

I don't understand why people get their panties in a bunch over them though.

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By *rben112Man
over a year ago

worcester

Yes it has. not on this site but others.. Quite annoying

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

ust a thought, perhaps they didnt have as great a time as you, or something in your manner meant they didnt want to veri you.

My gran always said if you cant think of anything nice to say done say anything.

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By *ont Ask Dont GetWoman
over a year ago

amersham

I will usually verify a meet and always will if they ask. I only meet single guys, and as they do often struggle to get responses from other members, it might do them a favour on here!

Not bothered about getting verifis myself as I have a clutch of very good ones which I can show if needed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ust a thought, perhaps they didnt have as great a time as you, or something in your manner meant they didnt want to veri you.

My gran always said if you cant think of anything nice to say done say anything."

I normally verify if I meet someone, but if the meet is not what was agreed, or very poor, I don't.

Had one recently, where the guy had a few great veris, but the meet showed the veris to be wholely inaccurate/made up.

(Yes, some will say it was me/him/didn't click/full moon etc., but he was virtually the opposite to what was said about him.)

I think you talk more sense than most on the Forums Jem, but I have no desire to go to socials/clubs, so do take some store (is that the right word?) in veri's. Most M-M is short notice & discreet, so many of your (good) filter suggestions are often ignored when I'm feeling horny!

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"ust a thought, perhaps they didnt have as great a time as you, or something in your manner meant they didnt want to veri you.

My gran always said if you cant think of anything nice to say done say anything.

I normally verify if I meet someone, but if the meet is not what was agreed, or very poor, I don't.

Had one recently, where the guy had a few great veris, but the meet showed the veris to be wholely inaccurate/made up.

(Yes, some will say it was me/him/didn't click/full moon etc., but he was virtually the opposite to what was said about him.)

ahh someone thinks i talk sense

Interestingly the only time we pay attention to veris is to check that a guy who says he is bi is...so i can understand where u are coming from. Sometimes you just need to develop your spidey swinging sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ust a thought, perhaps they didnt have as great a time as you, or something in your manner meant they didnt want to veri you.

My gran always said if you cant think of anything nice to say done say anything.

I normally verify if I meet someone, but if the meet is not what was agreed, or very poor, I don't.

Had one recently, where the guy had a few great veris, but the meet showed the veris to be wholely inaccurate/made up.

(Yes, some will say it was me/him/didn't click/full moon etc., but he was virtually the opposite to what was said about him.)

ahh someone thinks i talk sense

do u shoot a spiders web chick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooo this has just reminded me that I need to leave a verification for someone.

I do like to leave them as I feel its polite to. I'm not really bothered if people leave me one or not thought

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"ust a thought, perhaps they didnt have as great a time as you, or something in your manner meant they didnt want to veri you.

My gran always said if you cant think of anything nice to say done say anything.

I normally verify if I meet someone, but if the meet is not what was agreed, or very poor, I don't.

Had one recently, where the guy had a few great veris, but the meet showed the veris to be wholely inaccurate/made up.

(Yes, some will say it was me/him/didn't click/full moon etc., but he was virtually the opposite to what was said about him.)

ahh someone thinks i talk sense

do u shoot a spiders web chick

no but i would like to ensnare you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ust a thought, perhaps they didnt have as great a time as you, or something in your manner meant they didnt want to veri you.

My gran always said if you cant think of anything nice to say done say anything.

I normally verify if I meet someone, but if the meet is not what was agreed, or very poor, I don't.

Had one recently, where the guy had a few great veris, but the meet showed the veris to be wholely inaccurate/made up.

(Yes, some will say it was me/him/didn't click/full moon etc., but he was virtually the opposite to what was said about him.)

ahh someone thinks i talk sense

do u shoot a spiders web chick

no but i would like to ensnare you

should be snare LOL

but ill get my coat

( jemmima puddlefuck doesnt want me no more(

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"ust a thought, perhaps they didnt have as great a time as you, or something in your manner meant they didnt want to veri you.

My gran always said if you cant think of anything nice to say done say anything.

I normally verify if I meet someone, but if the meet is not what was agreed, or very poor, I don't.

Had one recently, where the guy had a few great veris, but the meet showed the veris to be wholely inaccurate/made up.

(Yes, some will say it was me/him/didn't click/full moon etc., but he was virtually the opposite to what was said about him.)

ahh someone thinks i talk sense

do u shoot a spiders web chick

no but i would like to ensnare you

should be snare LOL

but ill get my coat

( jemmima puddlefuck doesnt want me no more(

runs after jacqs....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ust a thought, perhaps they didnt have as great a time as you, or something in your manner meant they didnt want to veri you.

My gran always said if you cant think of anything nice to say done say anything.

I normally verify if I meet someone, but if the meet is not what was agreed, or very poor, I don't.

Had one recently, where the guy had a few great veris, but the meet showed the veris to be wholely inaccurate/made up.

(Yes, some will say it was me/him/didn't click/full moon etc., but he was virtually the opposite to what was said about him.)

ahh someone thinks i talk sense

do u shoot a spiders web chick

no but i would like to ensnare you

should be snare LOL

but ill get my coat

( jemmima puddlefuck doesnt want me no more(

runs after jacqs...."

too late now wheres the block button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"awwww, did they not say nice things to "promote" you? "

Lol!

I never pay too much attention to them as I like to make up my own mind about a person, not go on what someone else tells me.

As I've said on another thread: Verifications mean that they meet but might not meet me. Simples!

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