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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has anyone 'come out' to your friends as living in the lifestyle?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What does 'living the lifestyle ' actually mean?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What does 'living the lifestyle ' actually mean?"

Swinging or simply involving others in your sex life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does 'living the lifestyle ' actually mean?

Swinging or simply involving others in your sex life"

I don't know why anyone would feel the need to tell their friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does 'living the lifestyle ' actually mean?"
its a club of humans who become aliens when they join this internet domain but i think what they mean is do you start talking about sex with your relatives and friends when you join this site, i don't but then i never did, having said that some know I'm on this site and swing

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

None of my other friends know. Only my Fab friends. For me Fab is like being in the Masons! Lol.

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By *angOnBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich

Yes, we've admitted to a close friend. Only the 1 though. They're more curious than anything though

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By *atBottomGirlsWoman
over a year ago

St Austell-ish

Most of my friends (I have select friends, I'm not referring to acquaintances) know.

I've never been open about my sex life, as in--have never shared any details whatsoever -- but these days, I don't hide who I am.

Most are curious, and ask about clubs, etc. Some have told me they'd be interested in going to one, but so far, none have.

I'd not be friends with anyone who judged me for anything I do in my personal life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of our friends know. Nothing we are ashamed of.

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"All of our friends know. Nothing we are ashamed of. "

this

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By *OXO2018Couple
over a year ago

Norfolk

The only 3 I have know yes.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A previous GF told one of her best friends I had a thing for her meeting other guys. It was awesome as they then went on girlie holidays and she was cool when my GF picked up other guys, even updating me.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No, we don't. It's got nothing to do with shame though.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

One of our friends knows, and we’ve met a few friends of vanilla friends at the Bristol Social, but it’s generally something we keep to ourselves.

Of course, it’s only our assumption they are vanilla themselves, who knows!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was a friend that told me about Fab in the first place. Some do and some don't.

Sex is something I openly talk about with family and most of my friends are as perverted as me

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By *iss KissWoman
over a year ago

near Coventry

I have to my best friend. We only spoke about it that time briefly. I think he thinks it's so my hubby can shag other women. But actually my hubby likes to see me with other men. My friend didn't get it whatsoever. He always tries to avoid any conversations i bring up. I'm thinking of telling my sister. I would just love somebody to chat about it with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to my best friend. We only spoke about it that time briefly. I think he thinks it's so my hubby can shag other women. But actually my hubby likes to see me with other men. My friend didn't get it whatsoever. He always tries to avoid any conversations i bring up. I'm thinking of telling my sister. I would just love somebody to chat about it with. "

Interesting, when my GF told her bestie, she totally got it. In fact she got it better than my GF and helped her understand that the thrill of her going with other guys exited me and it wasn't because she wasn't good enough for me and I didn't care.

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By *iss KissWoman
over a year ago

near Coventry


"I have to my best friend. We only spoke about it that time briefly. I think he thinks it's so my hubby can shag other women. But actually my hubby likes to see me with other men. My friend didn't get it whatsoever. He always tries to avoid any conversations i bring up. I'm thinking of telling my sister. I would just love somebody to chat about it with.

Interesting, when my GF told her bestie, she totally got it. In fact she got it better than my GF and helped her understand that the thrill of her going with other guys exited me and it wasn't because she wasn't good enough for me and I didn't care. "

I think my bestie thought my hubby had spun some elaborate tale. I'm pretty sure that's why he avoids conversation. But if he asked questions. He'd know. I'm a bit miffed he thinks my hubby would do that.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"I have to my best friend. We only spoke about it that time briefly. I think he thinks it's so my hubby can shag other women. But actually my hubby likes to see me with other men. My friend didn't get it whatsoever. He always tries to avoid any conversations i bring up. I'm thinking of telling my sister. I would just love somebody to chat about it with. "

I totally get why it’s important to chat to someone if you are here as a single. Fortunately I have a few Fab friends I can share Fab banter with.

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool


"Has anyone 'come out' to your friends as living in the lifestyle? "
No,they wouldnt understand lol..

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

My friends & family know all about here, we have many a giggle, they think I'm bonkers. If ever I meet outside of the club at least one of them will know where I'm going & who with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah my 2 best friends know about it I usually tell either one when I’m going on a new meet

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"All of our friends know. Nothing we are ashamed of. "

We don't reveal our interest in this lifestyle but it's not due to shame, it's just something we don't choose to talk about like how much we earn or how often we go for a poo!

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool


"All of our friends know. Nothing we are ashamed of.

We don't reveal our interest in this lifestyle but it's not due to shame, it's just something we don't choose to talk about like how much we earn or how often we go for a poo! "

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By *utecontradictionMan
over a year ago

Malvern

Well you know the first rule of Fuck Club....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None of my other friends know. Only my Fab friends. For me Fab is like being in the Masons! Lol. "

But masons don’t keep it a secret at all

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

We’ve told a few, they are absolutely cool with it; jealous of all the sex we have and tempted to try but nervous about people finding out

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

Yeah a few of our friends know and we have recognised a few people on here chatted but not met if it didn't go well would make the school run awkward lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've told a fair few friends and family members . I'm not embarrassed about what I do one bit. They all seem intrigued by my swinging exploits and always ask what I've been up to as they love the idea of it all.

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