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"Anyone been in the position to eventually meet someone, only to be fed lies? Happened to me this evening, met me no problem, after a drink decided to enclose she was pregnant, personally found it wrong on a number of levels so I sent her home, did I over react? What would you do? X " were you in the shard when she told you or maybe the lift    | |||
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"I don’t understand where the lies come in to it?" Not enough information for us to judge feel, and if it was a meet on here, it is against the forum rules to discuss private messages  | |||
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"I don’t understand where the lies come in to it?" We met this evening for a social a drink etc, to then get intimate and she revealed she was pregnant which personally I found rather off putting | |||
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"I don’t understand where the lies come in to it? We met this evening for a social a drink etc, to then get intimate and she revealed she was pregnant which personally I found rather off putting " It sounds more like omission than lie ? | |||
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"I don’t understand where the lies come in to it? We met this evening for a social a drink etc, to then get intimate and she revealed she was pregnant which personally I found rather off putting It sounds more like omission than lie ?" I respect a persons private life, but in feel like something of the sort should be raised before hand? This is my point, maybe I over reacted I just weren't sure how I felt about it all | |||
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"I don’t understand where the lies come in to it? We met this evening for a social a drink etc, to then get intimate and she revealed she was pregnant which personally I found rather off putting " So she didn’t lie to you, she just didn’t disclose she was pregnant before you met? And you are upset that she didn’t disclose this before you met? | |||
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"Think you were absolutely right to send her home in a taxi. Good for you. " You think so? Like I know I'm a bloke and generally were animals but from a personal perspective I felt like it should be raised in conversation as that's part of a meet/engagement with someone else? | |||
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"I don’t understand where the lies come in to it? We met this evening for a social a drink etc, to then get intimate and she revealed she was pregnant which personally I found rather off putting So she didn’t lie to you, she just didn’t disclose she was pregnant before you met? And you are upset that she didn’t disclose this before you met? " Its not that she didn't disclose it, its that she chose to meet, get intimate, then disclose it, I conceded it to be poor timing and in poor taste | |||
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"No one notice she was Drinking while Pregnant ? "He said drinks not vodka and or a pint of beer. Drinks could mean coffee, tea , pop, milkshake etc. Assuming is never a good thing to do. | |||
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"No one notice she was Drinking while Pregnant ? "Yeah exactly i felt like I'd been suckered in,although to be fair she only had a couple sips of wine | |||
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"I don’t understand where the lies come in to it? We met this evening for a social a drink etc, to then get intimate and she revealed she was pregnant which personally I found rather off putting So she didn’t lie to you, she just didn’t disclose she was pregnant before you met? And you are upset that she didn’t disclose this before you met? Its not that she didn't disclose it, its that she chose to meet, get intimate, then disclose it, I conceded it to be poor timing and in poor taste " This I'm in agreement with. The drinking - whilst I wouldn't myself, the choice to do so affects the woman and her baby. The choice to spring the info on the gent as intimacy was on the cards affects him directly. We don't know if the gent has paid babysitters, paid for a hotel, dinner etc. He has paid for taxis. It's in poor taste and poor form. Contrary to popular belief, not all men want to fuck pregnant women, especially those who are not their wife/girlfriend. | |||
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"Depends really. If she is only a few weeks gone then fine, Six months in and that maybe not But if she just wanted a bit of nsa fun then it shouldn't really be a concern. " She should have given him the choice though. Not waited until the last minute to tell him. | |||
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"Depends really. If she is only a few weeks gone then fine, Six months in and that maybe not But if she just wanted a bit of nsa fun then it shouldn't really be a concern. " Well that's the source of the issue raised, is there a right/wrong time frame, I respect a woman's body is of her own disposition and own right to share, I just genuinely felt a tad hoodwinked is all | |||
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"I don’t understand where the lies come in to it? We met this evening for a social a drink etc, to then get intimate and she revealed she was pregnant which personally I found rather off putting So she didn’t lie to you, she just didn’t disclose she was pregnant before you met? And you are upset that she didn’t disclose this before you met? Its not that she didn't disclose it, its that she chose to meet, get intimate, then disclose it, I conceded it to be poor timing and in poor taste " I wanted to make sure my understanding was correct. I can understand why you’re upset. You didn’t feel comfortable so you ended the meet. Everybody has a right to change their mind at any point during a meet. | |||
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"I don’t understand where the lies come in to it? We met this evening for a social a drink etc, to then get intimate and she revealed she was pregnant which personally I found rather off putting So she didn’t lie to you, she just didn’t disclose she was pregnant before you met? And you are upset that she didn’t disclose this before you met? Its not that she didn't disclose it, its that she chose to meet, get intimate, then disclose it, I conceded it to be poor timing and in poor taste I wanted to make sure my understanding was correct. I can understand why you’re upset. You didn’t feel comfortable so you ended the meet. Everybody has a right to change their mind at any point during a meet. " Oh I agree as does any man or lady, without been a typical bloke yes she was very hot and looked amazing, whose predatory instincts would not kick in, just personally I'm not one to meet often and shared my experience, I'm sure men and women will differ with my opinion, I just found it sprung upon me and poor timing | |||
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"Depends really. If she is only a few weeks gone then fine, Six months in and that maybe not But if she just wanted a bit of nsa fun then it shouldn't really be a concern. Well that's the source of the issue raised, is there a right/wrong time frame, I respect a woman's body is of her own disposition and own right to share, I just genuinely felt a tad hoodwinked is all " She should have told you before arranging a meet to give you the opportunity to make an informed decision. | |||
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"Depends really. If she is only a few weeks gone then fine, Six months in and that maybe not But if she just wanted a bit of nsa fun then it shouldn't really be a concern. Well that's the source of the issue raised, is there a right/wrong time frame, I respect a woman's body is of her own disposition and own right to share, I just genuinely felt a tad hoodwinked is all She should have told you before arranging a meet to give you the opportunity to make an informed decision. " | |||
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"Took away the option hunny that's not fair she should of been upfront from the start xxx" Well you would presume so, but I can understand the hesitation, 90% of the men generally have something to hide, i weren't overly miffed about the cab fare expenses etc, just the fact I felt that we were in a position to be honest about most things | |||
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"would have been a dream scenario for myself " And that's kinda the point. It's a pretty niche taste, if we're honest, some would describe it as a kink. Your dream is another guy's nightmare, a bit like arranging to meet a female and discovering at the critical moment that she is a he. Some people like that, some people don't mind, others will be straight home ASAP. It's something that should be disclosed before meeting and committing someone's time and possibly money. | |||
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"Maybe she didn't think it was a big deal and didn't think you'd find it a big deal either. To be honest, I would be fine with her being pregnant, but if she told me that she was a Man U fan then that would be my tipping point. It's impossible to disclose everything before meeting. I've had to walk away from socials on a couple of occasions. One girl made really loud breathing noises whilst another was eating with her mouth open and also talking whilst eating. I found those things extremely off-putting but I don't blame her for not telling me she did that. I was a gent and paid and left. These things happen x" All i took from that is if she was a man utd fan, fair play to you sir lol  | |||
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"Yeah, I can cope with anything but that x" The possibility of leeds getting promoted does me  | |||
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"No one notice she was Drinking while Pregnant ? "i noticed  | |||
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