FabSwingers.com forum: Getting ghosted

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As a single guy who was ghosted tonight, I think it is a reflection of the abuse that women get on here when they change their mind, which means rather than tell the guy, they just block.

Onwards and upwards, let’s all just be nice to each other

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"As a single guy who was ghosted tonight, I think it is a reflection of the abuse that women get on here when they change their mind, which means rather than tell the guy, they just block.

Onwards and upwards, let’s all just be nice to each other

Why assume it's someone else's fault and not something you said?

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

Or maybe they had no intention of meeting did they have veris ? Were they who they said they were? Did you speak on the phone etc

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

It happens all the time. Deep breath and move on.

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

sorry to be thick but what’s ghosted ????

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why assume it's someone else's fault and not something you said?

We seemed to be getting in really well. Both said looking forward to the meet, but she didn’t show up. It may have been something I said I guess, but no clue as to what.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Or maybe they had no intention of meeting did they have veris ? Were they who they said they were? Did you speak on the phone etc "

We were on WhatsApp and she has recent veris. I think it was just easier to block, rather say that she had second thoughts.

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By *he James gangCouple
over a year ago

NEWTOWNABBEY

It’s horrible the way some people behave. If someone decides not to turn up to an arranged meet they should have the decency to let you know. Chalk it up and move on xx J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They didn't have the ball's to say it so done the cowardly way..you dodge a bullet maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think it’s just the abuse that women get. We have been stood up by single men and couples. It happens across the board, people chicken out. Sorry they did that - Mrs

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