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Genuine couple looking for genuine meets with couples

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi

We have been on here a while now on and off and had some great meets but recently there are so many time wasters and people who aren’t honest about what they want. Are there any real genuine couples out there our age that want genuinely meet?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

We're genuine and looking

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We're genuine and looking "

Hi! It’s nice to know you are out there! How do you find the site?

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By *estthewateragainCouple
over a year ago

Chester Area

We have kind of the same problem with what people want ! We are a couple that dont swap voyeurism exhibitionists watch and be watched kind of thing. We are now looking at clubs for this as most couples on here are full swap which we fully understand but many start off saying they soft swap then try to push full swap !!!

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By *ature friendly coupleCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

To many idiots on here including couples,we find it hard to meet anyone except single guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes we get that totally. When we first started out our dynamic was hard to accommodate as it was so niche but I think clubs would be ideal for your dynamic x

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By *hMyGawdCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We're genuine, the issue is around 70% of couples aren't within 50 miles of us. And a further percentage aren't into the same stuff we are. And there has to be mutual attraction all round.

It's a numbers game unfortunately.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"We're genuine and looking

Hi! It’s nice to know you are out there! How do you find the site? "

We find it to be many things.

Annoying, hilarious, disgusting, interesting, bonkers! We've had a couple of meets, mainly social and I had one solo meet for sex which was dreadful. We get a lot of daft messages which we mainly ignore.

We're newish to the whole scene so trying to work out exactly what we want from it and how, like you are, to separate the wheat from the chaff. And there is a LOT of chaff!

We have a few interests we'd like to pursue, so meeting couples is one, but we're also into hotwifing with a view to solo meets for me, but it has to be the right person.

We're struggling to find like minded couples who like the look of us too, but it's early days and I think clubs might be the best place for more serious meets. We're happy to talk though.

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By *eventysixCouple
over a year ago

glossop

We are looking to so far no luck

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Genuine couple here interested in meeting like minded couples. Just find it's really difficult to find mutual attraction, too many people to please. When you do see someone they are usually living the other side of the country. It's so frustrating! X

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By *hom_1981Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"We have kind of the same problem with what people want ! We are a couple that dont swap voyeurism exhibitionists watch and be watched kind of thing. We are now looking at clubs for this as most couples on here are full swap which we fully understand but many start off saying they soft swap then try to push full swap !!!"

As lame as this may sound I have a HUGE interest in voyeurism, as a submissive it makes for a good fit. Especially so when locked in chastity. FWIW I’m reasonably local to you but due to your filters I couldn’t message you. Hence this post...

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

We like to meet couples too but find it hard to find the right couple in our area. What makes it harder now is the club we used to go to has closed so a lot more travel involved in visiting a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Genuine cpl here. We also been fed up with time wasters here . Looking for straight forward simple swap meets .

Priya xx

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

Genuine cpl here but as we live in Ireland we are finding it extremely difficult to find couples who are interested and not time wasters. We actually find it easier to chat with uk based cpls

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By *ncemoreroundthesunCouple
over a year ago

on the move

We've found getting a meet difficult due to distances, diaries and being led down the garden path.

Wish there was a super verification that equated to something like "real, wants to meetc

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By *nob and KnockersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

We go to clubs, have met lots of genuine amazing couples that way

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By *estthewateragainCouple
over a year ago

Chester Area


"We've found getting a meet difficult due to distances, diaries and being led down the garden path.

Wish there was a super verification that equated to something like "real, wants to meetc "

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Well, have updated our profile with some every day couple pics so folks can see what we're really like...... Have seen a few comments where other couples like to see that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We're genuine, the issue is around 70% of couples aren't within 50 miles of us. And a further percentage aren't into the same stuff we are. And there has to be mutual attraction all round.

It's a numbers game unfortunately."

Yes we have found that people aren’t usually close by which makes things more difficult.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well, have updated our profile with some every day couple pics so folks can see what we're really like...... Have seen a few comments where other couples like to see that "

Yes we try to have decent pictures up but have to be careful as we have been recognised by people we knew in the past!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We go to clubs, have met lots of genuine amazing couples that way "

We do attend Town House but prefer private meets as it’s so much more laid back we find

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Well, have updated our profile with some every day couple pics so folks can see what we're really like...... Have seen a few comments where other couples like to see that

Yes we try to have decent pictures up but have to be careful as we have been recognised by people we knew in the past! "

I'll take the chance for now

We're going to try Townhouse in March, by the way. We haven't been before.

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

Because of the lack of spare time and a few times when we’ve been stood up we stick to Chams. However someone we know who shows no discretion has informed us that they frequent the aforementioned club so unfortunately as much as we love Chams the risk of bumping into them may be too great and we may have to travel further afield. That in itself is also going to limit our opportunities even further as it’s not as if we can pop out for a few hours down the road now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're not keen on going to clubs, try putting a social meet up.

If you get 4 or 5 couples turn up good chance you wil click with one

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool


"Hi

We have been on here a while now on and off and had some great meets but recently there are so many time wasters and people who aren’t honest about what they want. Are there any real genuine couples out there our age that want genuinely meet? "

It can be a bit frustrating sometimes ...we dont rush deciding on meets social or otherwise and find most timewasters lose interest ...and the serious ones wait for the right occasion to hook up x

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"If you're not keen on going to clubs, try putting a social meet up.

If you get 4 or 5 couples turn up good chance you wil click with one "

The issue for us with much of it is childcare - it's not on tap and we can't get sitters at the times we'd like sometimes. Real life, eh?

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By *estthewateragainCouple
over a year ago

Chester Area


"If you're not keen on going to clubs, try putting a social meet up.

If you get 4 or 5 couples turn up good chance you wil click with one

The issue for us with much of it is childcare - it's not on tap and we can't get sitters at the times we'd like sometimes. Real life, eh? "

feel your pain

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

We'd be out and about every weekend without the logistics to organise

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I think we all need a club with childcare facilities nearby x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because of the lack of spare time and a few times when we’ve been stood up we stick to Chams. However someone we know who shows no discretion has informed us that they frequent the aforementioned club so unfortunately as much as we love Chams the risk of bumping into them may be too great and we may have to travel further afield. That in itself is also going to limit our opportunities even further as it’s not as if we can pop out for a few hours down the road now. "

That’s so annoying! We have never been to champs but stick to Town House in the Wirral. It’s a shame that there are people out there that are out to spoil it for others!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah we are a genuine couple who swing and was until recently, in a thouple. However we do better in real life than on here and generally stay in our lane. You guys are way out of our lane.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I think we all need a club with childcare facilities nearby x"

Townhouse did suggest their padded cell with a supply of crisps

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

The trouble with meeting couples is that you have to accommodate 4 different tastes. He may fancy her but she may not fancy him and vis versa.

Most single guys are honest in their lust and just want to fuck. That makes choosing quite easy. He's not ugly, he has a penis, he wants to fuck, let's fuck then

Clubs are better for meeting couples, you can mingle, meet many couples, chat, ask if they're interested, go to a room, fuck, leave.

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By *anni and RicCouple
over a year ago

York

We find clubs are the answer for us. Unless we want to meet a single guy. It's just easier in real life than on here I think Xx

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle


"I think we all need a club with childcare facilities nearby x

Townhouse did suggest their padded cell with a supply of crisps "

And iPads.

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By *eddynAngelCouple
over a year ago

Tamworth

Genuine couple who know what they want here! We like a bit of back and forth messaging to get to know each other, but not to spend weeks just chatting - if we're getting on we're

keen to arrange a social to see where things go. Find the club scene is easier than here, hard to convey certain things with only text!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always up for fun but sadly my hubby’s age seems to put a lot off having said that when in clubs we never find it a barrier played with a lot of sexy younger cpls

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By *exnPaul17Couple
over a year ago

Poole


"Hi

We have been on here a while now on and off and had some great meets but recently there are so many time wasters and people who aren’t honest about what they want. Are there any real genuine couples out there our age that want genuinely meet? "

We are finding exactly the same issue. So annoying

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We are genuine and do actively meet.

Distance may be an issue for you though?

Feel free to say hello if our profile appeals to you both

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

We only meet at clubs certainly for the first time, so many couples say we don’t like them or never been, can we meet for a coffee etc social,

Well not to put to finer point on it clubs serve coffee, have a large social area, let’s be honest you’re not swinging in Costa you can all make your choices have a proper discussion in the right environment.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Well, Sultrysexy, if our profile fits your needs we would be pleased to chat further. Do send us a wink or PM if you wish.

N & S

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By *ikeandmollyCouple
over a year ago

swindon

We are real and love meeting other couples, if anyone likes our profile then give us a wink or a message.

Mike and Molly

xx

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent


"Hi

We have been on here a while now on and off and had some great meets but recently there are so many time wasters and people who aren’t honest about what they want. Are there any real genuine couples out there our age that want genuinely meet? "

Plenty of couples in your age range at AtlantisEvolution in Stoke-on-Trent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We experience just the same trying to find couples with same interests.

We're Derbyshire based and like watching and being watched same room own partner fun scenarios.

We go to the attic and libs and can accom.

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