Join us FREE, we're FREE to use
Web's largest swingers site since 2006.
Already registered?
Login here
Back to forum list |
Back to Swingers Chat |
Jump to newest |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"We're genuine and looking " Hi! It’s nice to know you are out there! How do you find the site? | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"We're genuine and looking Hi! It’s nice to know you are out there! How do you find the site? " We find it to be many things. Annoying, hilarious, disgusting, interesting, bonkers! We've had a couple of meets, mainly social and I had one solo meet for sex which was dreadful. We get a lot of daft messages which we mainly ignore. We're newish to the whole scene so trying to work out exactly what we want from it and how, like you are, to separate the wheat from the chaff. And there is a LOT of chaff! We have a few interests we'd like to pursue, so meeting couples is one, but we're also into hotwifing with a view to solo meets for me, but it has to be the right person. We're struggling to find like minded couples who like the look of us too, but it's early days and I think clubs might be the best place for more serious meets. We're happy to talk though. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"We have kind of the same problem with what people want ! We are a couple that dont swap voyeurism exhibitionists watch and be watched kind of thing. We are now looking at clubs for this as most couples on here are full swap which we fully understand but many start off saying they soft swap then try to push full swap !!!" As lame as this may sound I have a HUGE interest in voyeurism, as a submissive it makes for a good fit. Especially so when locked in chastity. FWIW I’m reasonably local to you but due to your filters I couldn’t message you. Hence this post... | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"We've found getting a meet difficult due to distances, diaries and being led down the garden path. Wish there was a super verification that equated to something like "real, wants to meetc " | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"We're genuine, the issue is around 70% of couples aren't within 50 miles of us. And a further percentage aren't into the same stuff we are. And there has to be mutual attraction all round. It's a numbers game unfortunately." Yes we have found that people aren’t usually close by which makes things more difficult. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Well, have updated our profile with some every day couple pics so folks can see what we're really like...... Have seen a few comments where other couples like to see that " Yes we try to have decent pictures up but have to be careful as we have been recognised by people we knew in the past! | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"We go to clubs, have met lots of genuine amazing couples that way " We do attend Town House but prefer private meets as it’s so much more laid back we find | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Well, have updated our profile with some every day couple pics so folks can see what we're really like...... Have seen a few comments where other couples like to see that Yes we try to have decent pictures up but have to be careful as we have been recognised by people we knew in the past! " I'll take the chance for now We're going to try Townhouse in March, by the way. We haven't been before. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Hi We have been on here a while now on and off and had some great meets but recently there are so many time wasters and people who aren’t honest about what they want. Are there any real genuine couples out there our age that want genuinely meet? " It can be a bit frustrating sometimes ...we dont rush deciding on meets social or otherwise and find most timewasters lose interest ...and the serious ones wait for the right occasion to hook up x | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"If you're not keen on going to clubs, try putting a social meet up. If you get 4 or 5 couples turn up good chance you wil click with one " The issue for us with much of it is childcare - it's not on tap and we can't get sitters at the times we'd like sometimes. Real life, eh? | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"If you're not keen on going to clubs, try putting a social meet up. If you get 4 or 5 couples turn up good chance you wil click with one The issue for us with much of it is childcare - it's not on tap and we can't get sitters at the times we'd like sometimes. Real life, eh? " feel your pain | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Because of the lack of spare time and a few times when we’ve been stood up we stick to Chams. However someone we know who shows no discretion has informed us that they frequent the aforementioned club so unfortunately as much as we love Chams the risk of bumping into them may be too great and we may have to travel further afield. That in itself is also going to limit our opportunities even further as it’s not as if we can pop out for a few hours down the road now. " That’s so annoying! We have never been to champs but stick to Town House in the Wirral. It’s a shame that there are people out there that are out to spoil it for others! | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I think we all need a club with childcare facilities nearby x" Townhouse did suggest their padded cell with a supply of crisps | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I think we all need a club with childcare facilities nearby x Townhouse did suggest their padded cell with a supply of crisps " And iPads. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Hi We have been on here a while now on and off and had some great meets but recently there are so many time wasters and people who aren’t honest about what they want. Are there any real genuine couples out there our age that want genuinely meet? " We are finding exactly the same issue. So annoying | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Hi We have been on here a while now on and off and had some great meets but recently there are so many time wasters and people who aren’t honest about what they want. Are there any real genuine couples out there our age that want genuinely meet? " Plenty of couples in your age range at AtlantisEvolution in Stoke-on-Trent. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Post new Message to Thread |
back to top |