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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m verified but i wouldn’t know if it’s the age or experience for the reason but don’t seem to get any notice on the site. What’s the best way to contact other site users without looking like a weirdo. Maybe some meet verifications might get the trust ball rolling ?

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By *ams12345Man
over a year ago

london

Lol don’t worry mate there’s loads of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also agree it’s quite annoying

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah man would be nice to see some older women but in a small town people get paranoid people will find out

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

It's got a lot to do with his you present yourself on your profile and what you write when you approach somebody. I suggest you post here one of your initial contact messages and we'll give you some feedback on it.

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Get to a club nothing happens sat at home

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By *ornyhotcouple696969Couple
over a year ago

Bracknell

Your profile is boring and bland.

And sadly all about you.

You'll be a long time waiting if your profile read matches your attitude!!!

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By *artshell1Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Where on your profile does it say your verified

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Verified photo. Or do you mean meets etc .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As you haven't asked for profile advice, I'm not permitted to give any, but you should be aware that anyone you message will likely look at your profile before even considering opening it, so you need to make sure your pprofile is as good as it can be, as you only get one chance to make a first impression.

Try to look at ot objectively.

If you saw a profile like yours, would you be interested in meetung them?

Think about the message that is coming across from your profile text.

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

It’s about what you write on your profile and your profile picture is very hard to make out as well. Also yes your age will come into factor quite a bit but don’t let that put you off. Try going to clubs and socials to get your name known.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Fab virginity loss happens when it happens, won't stress about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m verified but i wouldn’t know if it’s the age or experience for the reason but don’t seem to get any notice on the site. What’s the best way to contact other site users without looking like a weirdo. Maybe some meet verifications might get the trust ball rolling ? "

For us it would be your age.

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