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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry for glum post.

My best mates girlfriends dad has passed away and im not sure if i put his name on the sympathy card. Please can anyone help?

Ive googled it and asked around but to no-avail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry for your loss

or sorry for the loss of your dad

either should suffice

don't think there are any hard and fast rules though

you make it as personal as you see fit

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

ooooo thats a dilemma....and I havn't got a clue either.

Do they live together?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"sorry for your loss

or sorry for the loss of your dad

either should suffice

don't think there are any hard and fast rules though

you make it as personal as you see fit "

This is good ^^^^^

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for that, its want my dad, its best mates gfs dad, i just wasnt sure if i put his name on with it being his girlfriends dad. I'll put his name on it i think

Thanks agian

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"sorry for your loss

or sorry for the loss of your dad

either should suffice

don't think there are any hard and fast rules though

you make it as personal as you see fit

This is good ^^^^^"

Yep sounds okay. What's important is the message. Sorry for your loss.

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes they live together, so i suppose both names.

Ive spent ages looking on etiqutte sites but couldnt find anything.

Thanks everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry for glum post.

My best mates girlfriends dad has passed away and im not sure if i put his name on the sympathy card. Please can anyone help?

Ive googled it and asked around but to no-avail

"

personally i wouldnt put anyones name on the card, id just write a little message and then sign it, you cant get it wrong then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yep its the message that counts. Cheers

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry for glum post.

My best mates girlfriends dad has passed away and im not sure if i put his name on the sympathy card. Please can anyone help?

Ive googled it and asked around but to no-avail

personally i wouldnt put anyones name on the card, id just write a little message and then sign it, you cant get it wrong then "

Thats a tricky one as the etiquette sites say to name the bereaved.

I think i'll just put both names on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The card is to show support to the bereaved so I would have thought both the GF and your mates name should be on the card.

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By *ucky_LadsCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Kidderminster+ surrounding areas.


"

personally i wouldnt put anyones name on the card, id just write a little message and then sign it, you cant get it wrong then "

sound's like the best advice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I thought that as they have been together 18 years

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone for your help, its appreciated.

Have a good day all.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry for glum post.

My best mates girlfriends dad has passed away and im not sure if i put his name on the sympathy card. Please can anyone help?

Ive googled it and asked around but to no-avail

"

Novel look at me post.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"Sorry for glum post.

My best mates girlfriends dad has passed away and im not sure if i put his name on the sympathy card. Please can anyone help?

Ive googled it and asked around but to no-avail

Novel look at me post.

"

A novel bitchy post.

Now me I am one cynical witch, but I think the man was asking a question for help, not attention.

BUT, if he is asking it for attention , it isn't against rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry for glum post.

My best mates girlfriends dad has passed away and im not sure if i put his name on the sympathy card. Please can anyone help?

Ive googled it and asked around but to no-avail

Novel look at me post.

"
there's always one isnt there! hang your head in shame!

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"Sorry for glum post.

My best mates girlfriends dad has passed away and im not sure if i put his name on the sympathy card. Please can anyone help?

Ive googled it and asked around but to no-avail

Novel look at me post.

"

OP Im sure they wont mind about etiquette and will just appreciate you taking the time to send a card and let them know youre thinking about them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes just a "sorry for your loss my / our thoughts and prayres are with u at this sad time "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In this situation etiquette stipulates you address the sympathy card "To the family of (deceased's name)

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"In this situation etiquette stipulates you address the sympathy card "To the family of (deceased's name)"

Ah, now that is a good answer and probably the best option as it covers all options.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought that as they have been together 18 years"

then i would say he has been a part of your mates life too in all that time so you would wish to extend your sympathy to him too so yes pop his name on as well as his g/f but put hers first as its her dad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I for one am glad the OP posted as I'm at my uncles funeral tomorrow and have to write cards to my aunt from family members. Thank fekk most people took him seriously and gave serious answers.

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over a year ago

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