FabSwingers.com forum: Dilemma

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok so i have a bit of a dilemma that I'm sure the lovely people of the forum will be able to help me with, I've been on here a wee while now and Ive had a great time with some great people and great couples but after a social meet of all things I think I've changed my perspective on things and I'd like to find a lady to share the fun times with but as stupid as it may seem not sure how to go about it, I already mention in my profile i'd like to find someone for that but I don't want to change my profile to just saying that's my one goal , as I'd like to keep enjoying the pleasures of the site, am I best just searching profiles sending endless messages or am I best to attend some parties(never have) and see if I get a connection with someone there ?

Constructive advice welcome , thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reckon it's best to attend socials , parties and clubs - you would be surprised how many singles become couples after hooking up at such events lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Reckon it's best to attend socials , parties and clubs - you would be surprised how many singles become couples after hooking up at such events lol x"

Beat me to it.... excellent answer x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not worked for me yet but still have hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's how we met

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cool, thank you all for the advice and now for stupid question number 2 !!

Are parties and socials the same thing ?

Thanks again x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cool, thank you all for the advice and now for stupid question number 2 !!

Are parties and socials the same thing ?

Thanks again x"

Parties are usually in a private venue and almost always involve sex. Socials are out and about round the pubs in town and are for getting to know each other, sometimes leading to sex back at someone's house/hotel. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok so i have a bit of a dilemma that I'm sure the lovely people of the forum will be able to help me with, I've been on here a wee while now and Ive had a great time with some great people and great couples but after a social meet of all things I think I've changed my perspective on things and I'd like to find a lady to share the fun times with but as stupid as it may seem not sure how to go about it, I already mention in my profile i'd like to find someone for that but I don't want to change my profile to just saying that's my one goal , as I'd like to keep enjoying the pleasures of the site, am I best just searching profiles sending endless messages or am I best to attend some parties(never have) and see if I get a connection with someone there ?

Constructive advice welcome , thanks x "

my lat few reg playmates sort of happened naturally x

but attend some socials and clubs and thats a good strat

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Dial Emma.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Meeting the right person will happen if you live your life to the full, go to socials parties and be yourself. i am not sure saying you ae looking ever helps to be honest. These things just happen and shouldnt be forced.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats what I have been looking for relax and stop looking and it will happen I hope. Socials are a great way to network and put names to faces.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes its a lonely place on a swinger site when you are single.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

so off to search for socials it is then , again ladies , thanks for all your help and cheer up shazza as I now have renewed faith so you should too x

Are socials in the meets or forums ?

Maybe it's time I just looked instead of hassling you kind people x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Reckon it's best to attend socials , parties and clubs - you would be surprised how many singles become couples after hooking up at such events lol x"

We have seen this happen to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so off to search for socials it is then , again ladies , thanks for all your help and cheer up shazza as I now have renewed faith so you should too x

Are socials in the meets or forums ?

Maybe it's time I just looked instead of hassling you kind people x "

I am happy lol and I enjoy being surrounded by loved up couples but I want that too if that makes sence.

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

"Not worked for me yet but still have hope "

How about some light for that deep dark cave, it might help people find you. I would certainly like to had I lived nearer.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"so off to search for socials it is then , again ladies , thanks for all your help and cheer up shazza as I now have renewed faith so you should too x

Are socials in the meets or forums ?

Maybe it's time I just looked instead of hassling you kind people x "

yup. look in the uk forum too...but dont think u ca only meet a fellow swinger on a swinging site.

Sexually compatability includes sharing fantasies...

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