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Feeling nervous but want to try it!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all, me and hubby have been together for 20 years, we have always liked the thought of a 3some mmf and ffm, for both of our fantasies, we are wanting to try it but we are sooo nervous!! We are worried about what we will feel afterwards and wonder if the trust would be there for each other? Any advice would be great, or what would you suggest we start with thanks guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Film it in case of aftermath.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I think you need to be clear what you are looking for before you go any further. Is it a meet with a couple or a threesome ?

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Start by finding a 3rd that you are both happy with. The nerves are completely natural and as long as you talk it through and discuss do's and dont's with all parties it should be easier to orchestrate.

Above all enjoy!

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Discuss things beforehand.

Let them know your boundaries.

Personally, I would meet someone a few times before jumping in.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We love the thought of having a play mate either male or female, obviously I want the male to join us and hubby wants the female maybe go out for a few drinks first then have some fun afterwards xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Film it in case of aftermath."

???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Film it in case of aftermath."
Film it Incase you like it and can watch re runs

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"We love the thought of having a play mate either male or female, obviously I want the male to join us and hubby wants the female "

So why don't you look for a couple ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Discuss with each other your boundaries and rules and have them in place before you start. Make sure that it is what you both want to do and, if that changes during the fun, stop immediately. Fantasising and doing are 2 different things x

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

Well, you are in Derby where there is a great club called "The Attic".

why not pop along to there, have a look around and see where it leads??

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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago

south coast

Slowly slowly......no pressure on any part.........that includes any 3rd party....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We love the thought of having a play mate either male or female, obviously I want the male to join us and hubby wants the female

So why don't you look for a couple ?"

That's what we have been doing, but its finding the right one and a couple that we both find attractive xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Film it in case of aftermath. Film it Incase you like it and can watch re runs "

Yep. Look to see wat can spice it up abit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well, you are in Derby where there is a great club called "The Attic".

why not pop along to there, have a look around and see where it leads??"

We have been there twice, we went once in the daytime and once to an event but didnt see or find anyone that stood out xx

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By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire

Nice and easy, one step at a time. A little further each meet then there's no hard and fast shocks. Talk about it after each meet, talk about your feelings, desires and love and trust of each other. Last but not least, meet ME

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Film it in case of aftermath. Film it Incase you like it and can watch re runs

Yep. Look to see wat can spice it up abit."

Thank you xx

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"We love the thought of having a play mate either male or female, obviously I want the male to join us and hubby wants the female

So why don't you look for a couple ?

That's what we have been doing, but its finding the right one and a couple that we both find attractive xx"

You know there may be a compromise between a male and female who is also really easy going and who knows a few do's and don'ts as well

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By *etefromderbyMan
over a year ago

Derby

I’m in Derby and very discrete love a mmf

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By *ames2602Man
over a year ago

whittle


"We love the thought of having a play mate either male or female, obviously I want the male to join us and hubby wants the female

So why don't you look for a couple ?

That's what we have been doing, but its finding the right one and a couple that we both find attractive xx"

Looking at you profile it says what you want and you both look quite hot in my opinion, so can't really see you not finding anyone.

Good luck hunting and hope your fantasy is fulfilled soon

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nice and easy, one step at a time. A little further each meet then there's no hard and fast shocks. Talk about it after each meet, talk about your feelings, desires and love and trust of each other. Last but not least, meet ME "

That made me laugh!! Your a bit far lol xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We love the thought of having a play mate either male or female, obviously I want the male to join us and hubby wants the female

So why don't you look for a couple ?

That's what we have been doing, but its finding the right one and a couple that we both find attractive xx

Looking at you profile it says what you want and you both look quite hot in my opinion, so can't really see you not finding anyone.

Good luck hunting and hope your fantasy is fulfilled soon"

Thank you xx

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Just invite someone to come watch you to begin with. It's what we did and there were no expectations for it to go any further.

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