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bdsm lovers in Herts, North London, Cambs.

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By *irtySexyDawg OP   Man
over a year ago

Welwyn

I know there are other sites/apps, but I'm a fab hybrid...I like fet and swinging and rarely enjoy one without the other.

Im in Herts and would like to chat to bdsm fabbers NEAR me, so we can meet socially, attend munches, events etc.

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By *irtySexyDawg OP   Man
over a year ago

Welwyn

post something inane and everyone dives in...funny and the exact opposite of most other forums.

Only on fab...chuckling now.

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By *irtySexyDawg OP   Man
over a year ago

Welwyn

Thanks for all the messages, more kinky fabbers than I'd realised...who knew.

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By *tonemonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hertford

Hi Steve

So have you tried pony play yet...

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By *irtySexyDawg OP   Man
over a year ago

Welwyn


"Hi Steve

So have you tried pony play yet..."

Not yet Peter, but would luv to see some...hopes for an invitation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You forgot to add Wales lol

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By *irtySexyDawg OP   Man
over a year ago

Welwyn


"You forgot to add Wales lol "

Luv Wales, first house was in Llanelli.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

We're all very shy and reserved behind our lace curtains in Herts don't you know

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By *irtySexyDawg OP   Man
over a year ago

Welwyn


"We're all very shy and reserved behind our lace curtains in Herts don't you know"

Omg, the man, the legend...ive heard you mentioned positively so many times!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"We're all very shy and reserved behind our lace curtains in Herts don't you know

Omg, the man, the legend...ive heard you mentioned positively so many times!

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It's all lies...I'm a bit of a clueless twat really

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By *irtySexyDawg OP   Man
over a year ago

Welwyn


"We're all very shy and reserved behind our lace curtains in Herts don't you know

Omg, the man, the legend...ive heard you mentioned positively so many times!

It's all lies...I'm a bit of a clueless twat really "

Brilliant...that makes two of us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You forgot to add Wales lol

Luv Wales, first house was in Llanelli. "

Awesome, when are you back lol

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

Nice when people mix it up on here. Great combo. And yes all shy in herts lol

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By *irtySexyDawg OP   Man
over a year ago

Welwyn


"Nice when people mix it up on here. Great combo. And yes all shy in herts lol"

Glad you joined in.

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By *ncutgemMan
over a year ago

Bath ish

I use a small fet studio in bristol for my rope work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bdsm Fabbers .. well i suppose its not the worst thing to be known as .. Yes we are here too , far from the other side where all is fet and mostly about life .

What are we doing here ? Well a change is as good as a rest so it said , So here we are .

Its different on this side for sure , although not sure we are entirely settled in .

Well weve paid for 6 mths so lets see what happens ..

Do enjoy the diversity of the chat rooms , especially the music ones .

Remarkably this is the place we met . Stood alone like to lonely " peas " So we climbed in the "pod " together and are very cosy thank you

Pleased to meet you

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton


"I know there are other sites/apps, but I'm a fab hybrid...I like fet and swinging and rarely enjoy one without the other.

Im in Herts and would like to chat to bdsm fabbers NEAR me, so we can meet socially, attend munches, events etc.

"
. I am thinking of trying Club Sanctum in Bethnal Green / Cambridge Heath area on Saturday

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By *irtySexyDawg OP   Man
over a year ago

Welwyn


"I know there are other sites/apps, but I'm a fab hybrid...I like fet and swinging and rarely enjoy one without the other.

Im in Herts and would like to chat to bdsm fabbers NEAR me, so we can meet socially, attend munches, events etc.

. I am thinking of trying Club Sanctum in Bethnal Green / Cambridge Heath area on Saturday "

I'm not familiar with that venue...ill look it up, thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi Domme sub couple here. Been taking a little break from kink, but can feel the urge growing.

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton


"I know there are other sites/apps, but I'm a fab hybrid...I like fet and swinging and rarely enjoy one without the other.

Im in Herts and would like to chat to bdsm fabbers NEAR me, so we can meet socially, attend munches, events etc.

. I am thinking of trying Club Sanctum in Bethnal Green / Cambridge Heath area on Saturday

I'm not familiar with that venue...ill look it up, thanks.

"
. It will be my first time at Club Sanctum I am new to BDSM I have attended OP4F paddles and chains events near Alexandra Palace overground train station.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I know there are other sites/apps, but I'm a fab hybrid...I like fet and swinging and rarely enjoy one without the other.

Im in Herts and would like to chat to bdsm fabbers NEAR me, so we can meet socially, attend munches, events etc.

. I am thinking of trying Club Sanctum in Bethnal Green / Cambridge Heath area on Saturday

I'm not familiar with that venue...ill look it up, thanks.

. It will be my first time at Club Sanctum I am new to BDSM I have attended OP4F paddles and chains events near Alexandra Palace overground train station."

VA still hosts fetish/BDSM events once a month I believe

Also idle *bump* for the thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know there are other sites/apps, but I'm a fab hybrid...I like fet and swinging and rarely enjoy one without the other.

Im in Herts and would like to chat to bdsm fabbers NEAR me, so we can meet socially, attend munches, events etc.

. I am thinking of trying Club Sanctum in Bethnal Green / Cambridge Heath area on Saturday

I'm not familiar with that venue...ill look it up, thanks.

. It will be my first time at Club Sanctum I am new to BDSM I have attended OP4F paddles and chains events near Alexandra Palace overground train station.

VA still hosts fetish/BDSM events once a month I believe

Also idle *bump* for the thread "

They do. Twisted. Second sunday of the month. January one had 160+ in attendance. Looking forward to their birthday event in a few weeks

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton


"I know there are other sites/apps, but I'm a fab hybrid...I like fet and swinging and rarely enjoy one without the other.

Im in Herts and would like to chat to bdsm fabbers NEAR me, so we can meet socially, attend munches, events etc.

. I am thinking of trying Club Sanctum in Bethnal Green / Cambridge Heath area on Saturday

I'm not familiar with that venue...ill look it up, thanks.

. It will be my first time at Club Sanctum I am new to BDSM I have attended OP4F paddles and chains events near Alexandra Palace overground train station.

VA still hosts fetish/BDSM events once a month I believe

Also idle *bump* for the thread "
. Thanks to Hurricane Dennis I didn’t get the chance to go to Club Sanctum hopefully next month as their events are monthly on a Saturday. I may look to attend a munch before then.

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

I would add that Kink events like Old Sanctum and Twisted are primarily kink play events, and these are not like swinger events. Some sex but not a lot. Old Sanctum is not a licensed sex site.

There are a number of swinging events with a kink element at established swinging venues. Hellfire, Arousal , the house of Poiters and OP4 have nights that are kink tinged and HoP has a kink afternoon.

At the bigger kink events there are couple rooms e.g TG, but you need to be a M/F couple or prove you are a MM couple to gain entrance.

I am not a fan of mixed swing kink events. Firstly they generally have gendered pricing, and my view is that I have skills from wax to rope to whipping. I am attending as a skilled dom/top with more skills than most and not as anonymous cock. Whereas if I am attending a swinging event I am just another anonymouscock and until we have another world war that takes half of the eligible the male population out of circulation, that is how the system works.

Secondly you end with the kink equivalent of the wanking dead. So, if I have a woman tied and I am going all Haruki Yukimara on her I don't want to turn around and see a group of wanking cocks or have to threaten with my whip idiots trying to grab a crafty feel, which happened at Hellfire and the old Kestrels.

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