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By *east88 OP   Couple
over a year ago

darlington

Hi guys

Is this something that other couples do in a 4 some. I love to watch and direct what the other couple and my wife do, I love sitting back and watching and asking them to do certain positions and occasionally I’ll contribute but I love nothing more than watching the three of them together all having fun and the girls looking after the guy and then the couple him say fucking my wife while she is kissing him and her etc etc. Love them cumming together.

I find my urge is after when I’m uncontrollably horny with just my wife.

Do many other 4 somes happen where ones happy to direct /watch xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither of us direct and to he honest I'd find it really off-putting if there was someone directing during the play.

Mrs

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I think I would be uncomfortable with someone just watching and I definitely wouldn’t want to be told what to do next I can see how it would be horny but I just like things to be fluid

D.

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By *ountry PeaksCouple
over a year ago

In The Surrey Hills

Like this idea but would happily watch and suggest ideas more than direct everything

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By *east88 OP   Couple
over a year ago

darlington


"I think I would be uncomfortable with someone just watching and I definitely wouldn’t want to be told what to do next I can see how it would be horny but I just like things to be fluid

D."

To be fair it doesn’t last long ha ha as they tend to just get into it.

Maybe I worded it wrong

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Nobody would ever direct me or it would be clothes on looking for the exit!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The husband should keep quiet and let his wife concentrate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there's room for both directing and just being natural. I've enjoyed my partner watching me with another woman and telling me exactly what to do, step by step and also had her just saying general things now and again like "lick her out". It's all been enjoyable in different ways. It's also good to break the rules and go off script a bit hehe x

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"The husband should keep quiet and let his wife concentrate."

Keep quiet! It’s an ffm bro! For us all three are involved! No keeping quiet!

D.

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By *east88 OP   Couple
over a year ago

darlington


"The husband should keep quiet and let his wife concentrate."

Ha ha. That tends to happen about 3 minutes in

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By *east88 OP   Couple
over a year ago

darlington


"I think there's room for both directing and just being natural. I've enjoyed my partner watching me with another woman and telling me exactly what to do, step by step and also had her just saying general things now and again like "lick her out". It's all been enjoyable in different ways. It's also good to break the rules and go off script a bit hehe x"

Yeah that’s what I meant it’s not like, “right lift your leg up there. Etc etc.

It’s much more like what you’d say to each other when it’s just the two of you.

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By *east88 OP   Couple
over a year ago

darlington


"The husband should keep quiet and let his wife concentrate.

Keep quiet! It’s an ffm bro! For us all three are involved! No keeping quiet!

D."

Ha ha trust me none of us kept quiet

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'd get dressed and leave to be honest. Nothing wrong with the odd suggestion, but constantly directing would spoil any spontaneous moment and feel like they were going through a mechanical playbook. I'd also be concerned as to the willingness of the female of the couple if that was so and whether she was just going along with it to please him. Not for me I'm afraid.

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By *east88 OP   Couple
over a year ago

darlington


"I'd get dressed and leave to be honest. Nothing wrong with the odd suggestion, but constantly directing would spoil any spontaneous moment and feel like they were going through a mechanical playbook. I'd also be concerned as to the willingness of the female of the couple if that was so and whether she was just going along with it to please him. Not for me I'm afraid. "

Read the thread and you’ll see it’s not like that at all

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I'd get dressed and leave to be honest. Nothing wrong with the odd suggestion, but constantly directing would spoil any spontaneous moment and feel like they were going through a mechanical playbook. I'd also be concerned as to the willingness of the female of the couple if that was so and whether she was just going along with it to please him. Not for me I'm afraid.

Read the thread and you’ll see it’s not like that at all "

No offence intended - not suggesting that's how it is with you,so please don't think I'm looking down my nose. Did have it happen once where it was very 'directed' in a negative way and got the impression she wasn't comfortable, which is the last thing any of us wants. I also have a female friend who played with a coue and felt quite abused as if she was the couples plaything, with no consideration given to her pleasure. Clearly not all couples are going to be like that, but just coming at it from past experience.

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