FabSwingers.com forum: How many couples play separately?

By *iss Scherzzo OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

So I’m fairly new to actually swinging with my other half. We started going to clubs with a totally open mind. No rules. Just go have fun. We appear to enjoy separate at the moment but it does feel like we are in the minority. More often it seems couple tend to look for couples So question to the couples I guess. Do you or don’t you play separately?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't do seperate meets but do play in seperate rooms (not all the time tho). We love having a 4some or moresome at a club in a playroom

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By *ugarbearCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar

I let a guy in work fuck me without hubby there but otherwise we always play as a couple

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By *evilandTheBeastCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough and Bedford

When we're together at weekends, we play together. But during the week, we are both allowed to meet others on our own. It is though yet to happen for the Beast, as there is tons of single men around. Devil has her regular FWB who keeps her busy on weekdays.

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By *anni and RicCouple
over a year ago

York

We do both and mainly meet in clubs so the people we meet there dictate the way the night will go for us. Our preference is to play together with either singles or other couples but why not enjoy seperate fun too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I been married 13yrs and its only the last 2 weve started playing separately. Its rare we play together unless a couple appeal to us both. We discuss and tell each other everything and we have so much fun

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By *iss Scherzzo OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

It was never a plan. Just how it’s gone.

I always wonder if it’s difficult to find the right couple you are both happy with when playing with couples as well. I imagine we would never agree ha

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I have a sexual want with kink.

L loves the ladies.

Yes, we play separately.

However, playing together, with others is stunning.

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By *iss Scherzzo OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I’m guessing it’s more common than I first thought then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife and I play separately. Mostly because she's successful at it so far and I'm not!

But she does her thing, I (will) do mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d like to find a hot married woman to play solo with

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By *iss Scherzzo OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"My wife and I play separately. Mostly because she's successful at it so far and I'm not!

But she does her thing, I (will) do mine."

Do you got to clubs?

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By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire

We do !. More so me while the boss is out of action, yet we did occasionally when on here as a couple. Usually in clubs but now and then with long term friends

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

Not enough!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My wife and I play separately. Mostly because she's successful at it so far and I'm not!

But she does her thing, I (will) do mine.

Do you got to clubs? "

I haven't yet.....still on my 'To Do' list.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

It's not something we would ever do. For us, it's about watching each other and sharing.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Mrs M has free reign, I only play with Mrs M .

Works for us

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By *iss Scherzzo OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Not enough!

Ha agreed

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"It was never a plan. Just how it’s gone.

I always wonder if it’s difficult to find the right couple you are both happy with when playing with couples as well. I imagine we would never agree ha "

Yes it’s hard for all 4 to feel it , but it happens.

We only ever play together , same or preferred is separate rooms, generally don’t play in clubs. We just search UK wide or even world wide ! You’re not going to find many on your doorstep where all 4 are feeling the chemistry. But once you’ve found a few it’s good, in 8 months here we’ve probably found 3-4 couples we meet will see ongoing

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By *amescoupleCouple
over a year ago

north walsham

We haven’t but it’s part of C’s fantasy to send me off/ have someone around whilst she’s out or at work.

Then she gets to hear all about it or see pics etc. Or watch if the other person so desires.

Alas it’s not really that likely to happen.

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By *atinocoupleCouple
over a year ago

SF, NY, London (in that order)

Had "passed" in the past but we really wanted to find a couple that we could go solo with occasionally but never worked out.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

For us swinging is all about sharing the enjoyment and the excitement, so we wouldn't swing apart.

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By *iss Scherzzo OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"For us swinging is all about sharing the enjoyment and the excitement, so we wouldn't swing apart."

I play solo away from clubs but I was thinking more in a club environment. We always attend together but tend to play apart when there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For us swinging is all about sharing the enjoyment and the excitement, so we wouldn't swing apart.

I play solo away from clubs but I was thinking more in a club environment. We always attend together but tend to play apart when there. "

Maybe it’s a symptom of being new-ish to the scene? If you’re both fairly independent and confident people, I can see how you’d both have your own interests when it comes to exploring with others.

My wife has very different interests to me, hence her poly relationship where she plays separately and my mutually agreed freedom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a mixture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both play solo

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By *otwifeandcuckCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

I'm a hotwife and S doesn't play at all. I either meet on my own or he watches. He's always in his chastity cage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs has played solo but now mainly looking for fun together

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

We only play together. Seeing each other enjoying other people is the excitement for us.

However, we are new to swinging so who knows how we will feel later down the line. We except that our desires may change.

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do but I only engage in very vanilla one to one sex with anyone else. Any kink or group play or anything else is only ever done with him there. At some point I expect we'll end up living together and then I won't any more.

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By *olidOak85Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Mrs M has free reign, I only play with Mrs M .

Works for us

This is where we're at too, but I (fem) will only play with women. He gives me everything I need in the man department

We are still looking for a female for us both to share for a few hours though but we're new to this scene too, so let's see how it all pans out... Excited!

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By *peak and SpellCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich, SE LONDON

We prefer to play as a couple, and we always stick together at clubs. We would also love to find a couple where there is mutual attraction, but alas, that is difficult, so we have also agreed for each other to go solo with select individuals outside the club environment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had my own profile since joining Fab so I could explore my bicuriosity, and through that I’ve a select few couples I occasionally play with who only want FFM, otherwise I use my profile to meet ladies. We’ve always looked for couples for the Mr to occasionally meet solo too, that’s happened recently for the first time and worked well. Reclaim sex is always hot! We mainly meet and play with others together though, so it’s all a balancing act! Mrs x

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By *hezzie BikersCouple
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Mrs sometimes plays alone and has her own profile x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (Mouse) play alone with girls at clubs or home but otherwise we come as a cpl...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wife and I play separately and whilst totally understand it’s each to their own can’t think why people that are insecure even swing.

Not saying that all people who only play together are insecure. But some are - to the point that they will not even message separately, if your willing to let my wife fuck your husband but your too scared for them to share a coffee or a text message / same applies to me & your wife - why the he’ll are you swinging, work on your control issues first then come play! Lol

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By *ncemoreroundthesunCouple
over a year ago

on the move

Same room, can be with separate people but never will just one of us play alone, different room etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We play separately as well as together. I had my own profile before, but decided I don't need one.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are both, we play together when we have found a nice couple, we also want to play separately too, neither have got past the social meet yet because it's just not been the right person, mrs is finding it easier to chat to people, Mr finds it much harder due to the amount of other single men on here and the other dating apps, we are still working towards it tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done both. Nothing sexier than having your partner come home and tell you what naughtiness she got up to whilst you were at home x

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By *iss Scherzzo OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Wife and I play separately and whilst totally understand it’s each to their own can’t think why people that are insecure even swing.

Yeah I can understand that. We are pretty independent in that respect.

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By *iss Scherzzo OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Same room, can be with separate people but never will just one of us play alone, different room etc"

Is there a reason behind that or?

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

We only normally play with girls together but my fella has left us and gone downstairs all night so we can just 1-1 girl time

I would also consider it the other way around but most of the time the girl wants us both, so maybe oneday

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By *romEssexCouple
over a year ago

canvey

We play separately.

Wife gets lots of messages from guys and if it’s from a couple it’s usually the woman is Bi, my wife is not which is a shame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We play separately however G does set me limits now and again depending on if I've been good or not ha ha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *andWnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

We do both, just depending on the vibe , also with working away from home it can be difficult to find the time for both of us to be free, so that's when separate fun time comes in to it's own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We never do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

two or three

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By *oft_SensualTV/TS
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Swings and roundabouts- really depends on having a high level of trust and mutually agreed boundaries.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"For us swinging is all about sharing the enjoyment and the excitement, so we wouldn't swing apart.

I play solo away from clubs but I was thinking more in a club environment. We always attend together but tend to play apart when there.

My wife has very different interests to me, hence her poly relationship where she plays separately and my mutually agreed freedom."

New-ish? Hardly. What a strange and misguided analysis. We are both very independent and confident, but happen to share the same interests in swinging and that is sharing, and being turned on by, each others enjoyment.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

It's amusing how a relatively straight forward thread is turning into a "we're real swingers because we're confident and independent" thread as if the "real swingers" have never heard of preferences and choice.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

"It's amusing how a relatively straight forward thread is turning into a "we're real swingers because we're confident and independent" thread as if the "real swingers" have never heard of preferences and choice."

Would never play separate as for us the enjoyment is watching each other and sharing ...The thought of doing it separately does nothing for us sexually has nothing to do with being insecure it’s just not our thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're happy with either together or separate fun were ok as long as we're safe and happy. Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We play together but for our next meet we are hoping she will be left alone with the lucky guy for while, mr will either be in shower or go the shop ect then on return watch for abit and join in the fun, so there will be an element of seperate play

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By *addoggyMan
over a year ago

leeds

Where do you work,I. Applying for a job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I’m fairly new to actually swinging with my other half. We started going to clubs with a totally open mind. No rules. Just go have fun. We appear to enjoy separate at the moment but it does feel like we are in the minority. More often it seems couple tend to look for couples So question to the couples I guess. Do you or don’t you play separately? "

We don’t go to clubs so sorry if this is a little off point. When we meet couples we do like separate rooms once we get to know one another a little more.

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By *E_13Couple
over a year ago

Burton on trent

We never do separate. I mean if we were at a house party with people we know we wouldn't object if the other started something not in view but half the fun for us is seeing the other person having fun. There's nothing hotter for me (mrs) as being fucked while watching him make someone scream

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

When meeting as a couple we play together, as that is all part of the fun for us. We enjoy watching each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there are a couple of issues here - preferences is one thing. We are all different and like different things.

But when what your preference is gets driven not by what you enjoy, but by jealously and lack of trust it comes down to a deeper problem, generally people in broken relationships trying to fix them by swinging - we have come across people who’s preferences are limiting, to start with then they grow as swingers & people that just shouldn’t be swinging in the first place - but that sook sorts itself out as they stop.

Nobody should criticise someone for their choice or preference, including your own partner and many unfortunately do exactly that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wifes allowed to but she wont, she doesnt want to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We play seperatly on occasion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wifes allowed to but she wont, she doesnt want to "

But it’s nice that she has the freedom to if she wanted to & if the desire suddenly did arise in a situation to go hike with some guy after the works party she knows she can

Assume that arrangement is reciprocal and you also can if you want to?

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By *iss Scherzzo OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I never intended the thread to see who was or wasn’t a real swinger. I was just interested in couples different dynamics. I’m sure at some point me and him will play together as well

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I play and hubby sit home and waits for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most woman who are part of an mf couple dont allow the male to meet a single lady alone. I know that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I play and hubby sit home and waits for me

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is he allowed to play while you sit at home?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I play and hubby sit home and waits for me

I do enjoy the wife going out to play exactly like that - do you send him videos of your fun & play with him when you return?

I do love being the second guy of the evening - hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"most woman who are part of an mf couple dont allow the male to meet a single lady alone. I know that."

Yeah we have come across that quite a lot too and find it to be very much double standards, lol

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

Not part of a swinging couple myself but I’d like to be eventually.

On Friday night/Saturday morning I met the Male of a couple with his wife’s permission. They rarely get to play with others together as they have a young family - and they rarely both fancy both parts of the same couple - so the solution they’ve come up with is to meet separately at times with the others approval (of course). It seems to work well for them!

In a way - as long as you have the trust and security it’s the best of both worlds isn’t it? A trusting, loving, long term relationship at home but both having the frisson, passion and excitement of meeting new/other people.

As long as that new person respects the relationship they’re enhancing - then it’s win win surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Not part of a swinging couple myself but I’d like to be eventually.

As long as that new person respects the relationship they’re enhancing - then it’s win win surely?

Hit the nail on the head there! 100%

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By *uddly GoblinMan
over a year ago

Manchester

We play separately hence this singles profile, partner plays on her own from our couples profile as she finds it easier than having a single fem profile, do also play as a couple with other couples and fems but becoming quite rare nowadays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We play seperately off here but usually play together in clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking for a hot wife to play with

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over a year ago

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By *ouple 71Couple
over a year ago

Stonehaven

We never have, till last night. Looking forward to seeing what this will bring ...

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By *OXO2018Couple
over a year ago

Norfolk

We like to play separate as well. And I'm very aware my partner is more appealing then I am and I love to watch but other ladies seem to be afraid to approach him.

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale

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By *ara_and_MJCouple
over a year ago

rochdale

(Sorry wrong profile)

We play separately and together, when we find a couple of group that matches what we want at the time.

We are both bi, but Sara doesn't have sex with women as she's in chastity (she does offer oral).

MJ enjoys both men & ladies so sometimes we have different needs.

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By *ndyandMandyCouple
over a year ago

swansea

"most woman who are part of an mf couple dont allow the male to meet a single lady alone. I know that."

We do

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Yes this is my own profile,but I am half of a couple and he has his own profile too.

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By *iss Scherzzo OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"most woman who are part of an mf couple dont allow the male to meet a single lady alone. I know that."

Not me. He can do as he wishes with whoever he wishes with my full blessing. I know it’s me he loves and will always come home too

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

We play separately in clubs. Though its much easier for a girl than a guy to get solo meets.

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By *iss Scherzzo OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"We play separately in clubs. Though its much easier for a girl than a guy to get solo meets."

Oh yeah definitely in the outside world. How do you find it in the clubs tho?

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

We love it. Theres generally plenty of people to play with in townhouse.

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

Wife is meeting the female half of a couple we both met this week will be first time either has played separately

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By *iss Scherzzo OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"We love it. Theres generally plenty of people to play with in townhouse."

Maybe I need to be more social ha

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By *ipster8Man
over a year ago

South Lincs

We like to play separate as well. And I'm very aware my partner is more appealing then I am and I love to watch but other ladies seem to be afraid to approach him. "

You are a very appealing lady.

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

"We love it. Theres generally plenty of people to play with in townhouse.

Maybe I need to be more social ha "

Come play with us next time

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By *oneyBear100Couple
over a year ago

Gatwick area

We always used to play together, same room then had a seperate room meet and discovered not having to find 4 way chemistry is so much simpler and fun. Still amazing when you do find that but not so easy.

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By *iss Scherzzo OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"We love it. Theres generally plenty of people to play with in townhouse.

Maybe I need to be more social ha

Come play with us next time

I may just do that

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By *iss Scherzzo OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"We always used to play together, same room then had a seperate room meet and discovered not having to find 4 way chemistry is so much simpler and fun. Still amazing when you do find that but not so easy."

We haven’t played together. But by coincidence we played in separate private rooms next to one another. That was interesting hearing each other x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"most woman who are part of an mf couple dont allow the male to meet a single lady alone. I know that.

Yeah we have come across that quite a lot too and find it to be very much double standards, lol "
yep it does happen a lot where wife can play with other men but hubby cant play with other women.the times i have been told no or blocked even, when i have asked if their man can play with me.lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not something we would ever do. For us, it's about watching each other and sharing."
agree

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By *iss Scherzzo OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"It's not something we would ever do. For us, it's about watching each other and sharing. agree

But you play with girls alone?

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

"most woman who are part of an mf couple dont allow the male to meet a single lady alone. I know that.

Yeah we have come across that quite a lot too and find it to be very much double standards, lol yep it does happen a lot where wife can play with other men but hubby cant play with other women.the times i have been told no or blocked even, when i have asked if their man can play with me.lol"

I've seen that happen so many times. Seems so unfair to me!

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By *otwife and MasterCouple
over a year ago

Derby

"most woman who are part of an mf couple dont allow the male to meet a single lady alone. I know that.

Yeah we have come across that quite a lot too and find it to be very much double standards, lol "

Its nothing to do with double standards. Its a well known fact that men are psychologically more visual than women so whereas many men will enjoy seeing their partner in their own live porn show, not as many women will enjoy watching their man with someone else. Its whatever works for that couple so maybe not be so judgey?

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By *heklumpsCouple
over a year ago

South

Love playing separate and coming back and telling of our adventures!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We play separately, we never play together. We have separate profiles. Our fetishes clash too much and there is no middle ground so it seemed the easiest thing to do.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"most woman who are part of an mf couple dont allow the male to meet a single lady alone. I know that.

Yeah we have come across that quite a lot too and find it to be very much double standards, lol

This

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By *bbott24Couple
over a year ago

Devizes

Jane is allowed to play on her own and has done many times,

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By *anshazCouple
over a year ago

Morecambe

Were new to swinging and just discovered we do like to swing separately sometimes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married but do as I please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We play apart most of the time x but together at clubs x

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By *erryc20Couple
over a year ago

Mendip Area

We find the fun is more intense when we play separately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey yes we play separately

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By *pace_Cowboy_BrumMan
over a year ago

Kings Norton, Birmingham, B30

We play separately and together.

Brumcouple172, cosmic_girl and _pace_cowboy_brum

It works for us due to kids limiting play.

We enjoy getting off on the other having fun and then coming back to each other though. Meets are filmed and we tell each other all the details as we "catch up" lol

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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Mrs has full permission but is yet to make that leap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mt current meet used to meet together and separately with his fiancée and she would do the same. They have a daughter though so she doesn't meet ATM.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer meets together but he has met couples and TV/TS on his own as more his thing. Love it when he tells me about it though. Even got him to FaceTime me once when I was at work and he met a beautiful T Girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we meet separately but mainly Mrs meets a guy and sends photos etc.

We also meet as a couple, just depends what takes out fancy at that time and who is available as we are quite last minute

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By *oney2025Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

We love separate rooms or play separate houses with couples. Both meet separately too. It is more intense xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not me. He can do as he wishes with whoever he wishes with my full blessing. I know it’s me he loves and will always come home too "

Love this!

So rare to see to see a situation like mine, it means a lot to see other people discuss and ‘publicise’ it.

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By *iss Scherzzo OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Not me. He can do as he wishes with whoever he wishes with my full blessing. I know it’s me he loves and will always come home too

Love this!

So rare to see to see a situation like mine, it means a lot to see other people discuss and ‘publicise’ it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mainly play together but she has a boyfriend she plays with on her own

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By *egin551Couple
over a year ago

south west !

We play together and separately, I (Mrs) have most of the fun on my own, either whilst my husband is at work, shopping or just out for the day.

We play mostly together at clubs and parties.

Communication and trust is essential

Have a great night xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we're up to 5 or 6 now

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By *eedAbuse4HubbyCouple
over a year ago

North West

I make him watch or listen... xx

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