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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does any one else find that when people use the term BBW they don't always consider if they qualify for the second B?

I love BBW girls, but not all big girls are good looking, in the same way not all skinny girls are good looking.

I know I may pay for this post but I thought it a worthy talking point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Time to put the umbrella up and run for cover me thinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it beautiful busty women or I thought it was big busty women....

Or is it big black willy????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they may consider themselves to be beautiful

the fact that you may not is purely incidental

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol.....so u think some bbw should just be bw????? maybe the b for beautiful has to be seen as in a beautiful person and not as beautiful looking,,,,, plus there are lots of ppl on here who class themselves as good looking, and they may appear this way to some ppl and not to others......so while the b for beautiful in some profiles may not be to your liking, they may to others.....off you get wat I mean......lol

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Search the million and one threads on this subject if you're really interested and not just bored at home.

Just saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think you may be setting yourself up for a barrage of abuse with this one !

One persons idea of beautiful is not necessarily another's so your suggestion that some bbw are not worthy of the middle b is just your opinion !

In general terms the majority may find extremely large women far from beautiful - but what about those who love it ?

Reckon channel 4 have done documentaries on this subject

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Point 1

If someone wishes to refer to themselves as a BBW, that this entirely their prerogative and no doubt it is because they wish to describe themselves as such

Point 2

The second "B" - which you allude to refer to 'Beautiful' is something which, to coin a popular phrase "Is in the eye of the beholder". If someone seeks to describe themselves as such then that is their right to do so.

Point 3

Simply because you do not rate, in your opinion, someone as deserving of the adjective 'Beautiful' it does not mean that your opinion is the de-facto standard across the board.

Point 4

Remember that just because you consider yourself good looking, someone else may consider you have a face like a smacked arse - likewise someone entirely different may consider you the drop-dead gorgeous hunk of man-meat they have been waiting for all their lives!

Point 5

If we all liked the same thing, the world would be a dull and pointless place. Diversity equals fun!

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By *odka n CokeCouple
over a year ago

Greater London

'Beautiful' doesn't just mean a physical attractiveness - a person can be beautiful on the inside too - their personality, compassion, kindness can all be beautiful to another.

Besides, my definition of BBW is 'Big Buxom Wench'

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By *usty boobsWoman
over a year ago

studley

best bbw thread ever

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I thought BBW meant Big Burley Weightlifter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'Beautiful' doesn't just mean a physical attractiveness - a person can be beautiful on the inside too - their personality, compassion, kindness can all be beautiful to another.

Besides, my definition of BBW is 'Big Buxom Wench' "

I also like "Brassy, Bold and Wicked" !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Point 1

If someone wishes to refer to themselves as a BBW, that this entirely their prerogative and no doubt it is because they wish to describe themselves as such

Point 2

The second "B" - which you allude to refer to 'Beautiful' is something which, to coin a popular phrase "Is in the eye of the beholder". If someone seeks to describe themselves as such then that is their right to do so.

Point 3

Simply because you do not rate, in your opinion, someone as deserving of the adjective 'Beautiful' it does not mean that your opinion is the de-facto standard across the board.

Point 4

Remember that just because you consider yourself good looking, someone else may consider you have a face like a smacked arse - likewise someone entirely different may consider you the drop-dead gorgeous hunk of man-meat they have been waiting for all their lives!

Point 5

If we all liked the same thing, the world would be a dull and pointless place. Diversity equals fun!

"

Awesome

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I thought BBW meant Big Burley Weightlifter "

Me to!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im a big girl, who doesnt think im that preety but yes i do decribe myself as bbw, i have a great personalety (cant spell as well) i love to make others laugh and if ive gone to a party have never been left sitting in the room watching others having fun as ive always been asked to have fun and if im honest had lots of naughty fun , by decribing myself as bbw your giving the other people a chance to not waste there time if they like the thinner people of the planet, its a choice that everyone can make but believe me being big doesnt mean you lay there like a wobbly jelly and your ugly alot of the time you have fab fun, excellent orgasms and a phone full of numbers with people wanting to stay in touch, so good luck to all people who read futher than the bbw tag, chelle xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Point 1

If someone wishes to refer to themselves as a BBW, that this entirely their prerogative and no doubt it is because they wish to describe themselves as such

Point 2

The second "B" - which you allude to refer to 'Beautiful' is something which, to coin a popular phrase "Is in the eye of the beholder". If someone seeks to describe themselves as such then that is their right to do so.

Point 3

Simply because you do not rate, in your opinion, someone as deserving of the adjective 'Beautiful' it does not mean that your opinion is the de-facto standard across the board.

Point 4

Remember that just because you consider yourself good looking, someone else may consider you have a face like a smacked arse - likewise someone entirely different may consider you the drop-dead gorgeous hunk of man-meat they have been waiting for all their lives!

Point 5

If we all liked the same thing, the world would be a dull and pointless place. Diversity equals fun!

"
Surely pints 2-4 are the same point just worded differently. But in the whole I agree with your view

I would add false advertising is rife on fab; many single guys are not in fact single, many "athletic" types are far from that and I've met a number of folk who we're several years older than their stated profile age.

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral

yes size 14 to 16 0r 18 are fine with me

as curvaceous

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"yes size 14 to 16 0r 18 are fine with me

as curvaceous "

Well that's good then, as long as they are fine with you

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Looks for a post from bouncy...fails to find it but does find an excellent post from the professor.

Just to add BBW developed as a term for those who found big beautiful... remember beauty truly is in the eye of the beholder.

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By *abloBackMan
over a year ago

London

Couldn't we change to using pfcc (perfect for chubby chasers)

Runs and hides

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i class myself as a BBW cos Overweight with Great Big Norps and a Fat Arse takes too much time to explain!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because you dont find some BBW beautiful doesnt mean everyone else doesnt , we all have our own tastes and like different things about different people, some of them might not find you attractive but their not making a thread about it ...it works both ways so i just find it a bit of an obvious and pointless thread as previously said on here.

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By *eanandJulieCouple
over a year ago

Doncaster

i must also come into your category Missy....coz my credentials are much bigger than yours

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Ok serious answer now after a couple of jokey ones.

When I had a descriptive profile I put on it that I was a BBW. Not because I think I am beautiful but because it is an easily recognisable term that indicates I am a lady of larger proportions.

it does make me laugh that this term is discected time and time again yet there arent many threads asking how big does a BBC need to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"they may consider themselves to be beautiful

the fact that you may not is purely incidental "

Well said bussy

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

im a BUG (big ugly guy) so it makes no difference to me lol

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Its become one of those "empowerment terms" now and in reality has become meaningless other than to determine that the person considers themselves bigger than average.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Surely pints 2-4 are the same point just worded differently. But in the whole I agree with your view"

I'll drink to that hic

Wolf hic

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"Ok serious answer now after a couple of jokey ones.

When I had a descriptive profile I put on it that I was a BBW. Not because I think I am beautiful but because it is an easily recognisable term that indicates I am a lady of larger proportions.

it does make me laugh that this term is discected time and time again yet there arent many threads asking how big does a BBC need to be "

I always thought the BBC was huge, I mean, it employs hundreds of people and they make some cracking programmes

Devil

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By *ummy mummyWoman
over a year ago

southampton-ish


"I thought BBW meant Big Burley Weightlifter "

wanna spot me?

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire


"I thought BBW meant Big Burley Weightlifter

wanna spot me? "

already can.

these binoculars are great. lol

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"I thought BBW meant Big Burley Weightlifter

wanna spot me? "

No thanks, I suppose a fuck's out of the question?

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By *ummy mummyWoman
over a year ago

southampton-ish


"I thought BBW meant Big Burley Weightlifter

wanna spot me?

No thanks, I suppose a fuck's out of the question? "

the night garden is too bloody far away from southamptonish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couldn't we change to using pfcc (perfect for chubby chasers)

Runs and hides"

Some people can be so rude

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By *ummy mummyWoman
over a year ago

southampton-ish


"i class myself as a BBW cos Overweight with Great Big Norps and a Fat Arse takes too much time to explain! "

great big norps...lol...that made me giggle...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It amuses me that the BBW term is always questioned, usually in an underhand way to put bigger ladies down.

Beautiful is subjective. Not many believe they are totally ugly. Just accept that people will refer to themselves how they want, and its not down to others for approval of any terms in which people want to refer to themselves as.

Many men say they are good looking, I may not agree with them, but if they put that on their profile then that's fine. The VWE tag too, a guy may described himself as very well endowed when in fact he is small/average and the VWE tag may only be in comparison to a mouse.

People will describe themselves as they like, tough if you don't agree with their assessment. You either choose to meet them after seeing pics or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It amuses me that the BBW term is always questioned, usually in an underhand way to put bigger ladies down.

Beautiful is subjective. Not many believe they are totally ugly. Just accept that people will refer to themselves how they want, and its not down to others for approval of any terms in which people want to refer to themselves as.

Many men say they are good looking, I may not agree with them, but if they put that on their profile then that's fine. The VWE tag too, a guy may described himself as very well endowed when in fact he is small/average and the VWE tag may only be in comparison to a mouse.

People will describe themselves as they like, tough if you don't agree with their assessment. You either choose to meet them after seeing pics or not "

Very well said

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"I thought BBW meant Big Burley Weightlifter

wanna spot me?

No thanks, I suppose a fuck's out of the question?

the night garden is too bloody far away from southamptonish "

I have diverted work away from my time machine and onto teleportation chamber development for just such a task. Southamptonish will be it's maiden voyage. I just need to save up more washing liquid bottles and corn flake boxes to finish it off. I may need more glitter also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'Beautiful' doesn't just mean a physical attractiveness - a person can be beautiful on the inside too - their personality, compassion, kindness can all be beautiful to another.

Besides, my definition of BBW is 'Big Buxom Wench' "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always took bbw to just mean, big built woman! Ah well, you live n learn eh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always thought BBW was big breasted woman.

beauty is in the eye of the beholder so one persons ogre is another persons princess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does any one else find that when people use the term BBW they don't always consider if they qualify for the second B?

I love BBW girls, but not all big girls are good looking, in the same way not all skinny girls are good looking.

I know I may pay for this post but I thought it a worthy talking point."

*bangs head against wall*

really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nah sorry ive had to come back and re post

it still, after all these years amazes me how litteral people take the tearm BBW, i mean for gods sake do people still think all big women think they are beautiful because they use the expression BBW to let people know they are over weight, BBW does not mean all big women are crackers if i use the expression BBW its just my way of saying to people dont expect a size 8 not hey im a stunner look at me

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Couldn't we change to using pfcc (perfect for chubby chasers)

Runs and hides

Some people can be so rude "

Chubby chaser is a well known term for men who fancy big women, just like bbw is a well known term for said big women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couldn't we change to using pfcc (perfect for chubby chasers)

Runs and hides

Some people can be so rude

Chubby chaser is a well known term for men who fancy big women, just like bbw is a well known term for said big women"

it is horrible tho isnt it, i wouldnt meet anyone who reffered to themself as a chubby chaser, would make me feel like some kind of fetish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couldn't we change to using pfcc (perfect for chubby chasers)

Runs and hides

Some people can be so rude

Chubby chaser is a well known term for men who fancy big women, just like bbw is a well known term for said big women

it is horrible tho isnt it, i wouldnt meet anyone who reffered to themself as a chubby chaser, would make me feel like some kind of fetish"

There is also a considerable scene for it in gay circles.

There are 3/4 sites that cater specifically for bigger guys and the guys that like them.

I've never seen myself as a fetish, no more than my liking for athletic men is a fetish - I just know what I like - and chubby chasers like chubby people.

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By *ummy mummyWoman
over a year ago

southampton-ish


"I thought BBW meant Big Burley Weightlifter

wanna spot me?

No thanks, I suppose a fuck's out of the question?

the night garden is too bloody far away from southamptonish

I have diverted work away from my time machine and onto teleportation chamber development for just such a task. Southamptonish will be it's maiden voyage. I just need to save up more washing liquid bottles and corn flake boxes to finish it off. I may need more glitter also."

start collecting sexybum

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I thought BBW meant Big Burley Weightlifter

wanna spot me?

No thanks, I suppose a fuck's out of the question?

the night garden is too bloody far away from southamptonish

I have diverted work away from my time machine and onto teleportation chamber development for just such a task. Southamptonish will be it's maiden voyage. I just need to save up more washing liquid bottles and corn flake boxes to finish it off. I may need more glitter also."

I really think you might need to source some old fashioned milk bottle tops too. In all the colours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couldn't we change to using pfcc (perfect for chubby chasers)

Runs and hides

Some people can be so rude

Chubby chaser is a well known term for men who fancy big women, just like bbw is a well known term for said big women"

Still rude!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Couldn't we change to using pfcc (perfect for chubby chasers)

Runs and hides

Some people can be so rude

Chubby chaser is a well known term for men who fancy big women, just like bbw is a well known term for said big women

it is horrible tho isnt it, i wouldnt meet anyone who reffered to themself as a chubby chaser, would make me feel like some kind of fetish"

I guess that depends on how much you read into it. I see it as a way of identifying a persons preferences quickly, not as a fetis. Just because they like big women doesn't mean they like all big women.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Couldn't we change to using pfcc (perfect for chubby chasers)

Runs and hides

Some people can be so rude

Chubby chaser is a well known term for men who fancy big women, just like bbw is a well known term for said big women

Still rude!"

In your eyes it would seem so, not in mine

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"I thought BBW meant Big Burley Weightlifter

wanna spot me?

No thanks, I suppose a fuck's out of the question?

the night garden is too bloody far away from southamptonish

I have diverted work away from my time machine and onto teleportation chamber development for just such a task. Southamptonish will be it's maiden voyage. I just need to save up more washing liquid bottles and corn flake boxes to finish it off. I may need more glitter also.

I really think you might need to source some old fashioned milk bottle tops too. In all the colours. "

YESSSS I like your thinking, and... and... orange crepe paper for the flames!

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Ok serious answer now after a couple of jokey ones.

When I had a descriptive profile I put on it that I was a BBW. Not because I think I am beautiful but because it is an easily recognisable term that indicates I am a lady of larger proportions.

it does make me laugh that this term is discected time and time again yet there arent many threads asking how big does a BBC need to be "

Or how black

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Couldn't we change to using pfcc (perfect for chubby chasers)

Runs and hides

Some people can be so rude

Chubby chaser is a well known term for men who fancy big women, just like bbw is a well known term for said big women

it is horrible tho isnt it, i wouldnt meet anyone who reffered to themself as a chubby chaser, would make me feel like some kind of fetish"

The thing is for some it is a fetish, and they are the ones who invented the term. Fair enough like many things it has spread into wider useuage but it is the fact the original idea has been diluted that causes these threads to come up again and again.

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By *obinhood-maidmarionCouple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

god we are so with yo on this, we mentioned it on another thread,

BBW = big beautiful women

When infact some of them are not beautiful at all)

We understand that beauty is within and in the eye of the beholder and all that bollax but our point was you never hear petite women saying im a pbw.

We figure, rightly or wrongly that bigger women who class themselves as BBW use the term BBW because it is now accepted to be the norm for big women.

PS we like big women so please do not shoot me down in flames

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"god we are so with yo on this, we mentioned it on another thread,

BBW = big beautiful women

When infact some of them are not beautiful at all)

We understand that beauty is within and in the eye of the beholder and all that bollax but our point was you never hear petite women saying im a pbw.

We figure, rightly or wrongly that bigger women who class themselves as BBW use the term BBW because it is now accepted to be the norm for big women.

PS we like big women so please do not shoot me down in flames"

the fact that most shops that stock larger sizes keep them in the back of the shop, and that on a daily basis people are bullied for being fat must mean it is not the norm

Slim, skinny, slender women can use whatever words they choose to describe themselves - they just choose not to.

after reading a TRILLION of these threads i find that the majority of women that use the term BBW do so because its just an easy term for people to pidgeon hole them (big pidgeon huh )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

While I do agree that not everyone is the second B but that being said do we not have that right to think we are beautiful even if others don't. I myself would never consider myself as sexy or beautiful. But for most its a confidence issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not got "BBW" on my profile, I decided to go for the full honesty of putting my height and size on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im just fat...simples

Kat x x

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I hate labels.... but does anyone else find the irony in someone who labels themselves a "bull" questioning the labels of others.....

I'll leave now.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see peoples points on the "they may not be beautiful to you but to others" and " everyone is beautiful to somebody" and such but why does that mean its ok for BBWs to call themselfs beautiful when some aint and skinny girls if they all labeled themselfs as beautiful they would get abuse or shit thrown their way for being egotistical or vain?

And while we are at it no not everyone is beautiful and if an ugly skinny girl calls herself it she gets torn but if an ugly fat girl does its fine.

Big women shouldnt all call themselfs big beautiful women because not all of them are. By that logic we should all be big beautiful women, skinny beautiful woman, short beautiful women, tall beautiful women, and that would mean the word beautiful would have no point or meaning

Some big women are beautiful

Some are not

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By *ont Ask Dont GetWoman
over a year ago

amersham


"i class myself as a BBW cos Overweight with Great Big Norps and a Fat Arse takes too much time to explain!

great big norps...lol...that made me giggle...lol"

LMF(fat)AO x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i class myself as a BBW cos Overweight with Great Big Norps and a Fat Arse takes too much time to explain!

great big norps...lol...that made me giggle...lol

LMF(fat)AO x"

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I see peoples points on the "they may not be beautiful to you but to others" and " everyone is beautiful to somebody" and such but why does that mean its ok for BBWs to call themselfs beautiful when some aint and skinny girls if they all labeled themselfs as beautiful they would get abuse or shit thrown their way for being egotistical or vain?

And while we are at it no not everyone is beautiful and if an ugly skinny girl calls herself it she gets torn but if an ugly fat girl does its fine.

Big women shouldnt all call themselfs big beautiful women because not all of them are. By that logic we should all be big beautiful women, skinny beautiful woman, short beautiful women, tall beautiful women, and that would mean the word beautiful would have no point or meaning

Some big women are beautiful

Some are not"

oh and of course fat women NEVER get shit.....ever

jesus christ!!! call yourself goddess, call yourself cleopatra, call yourself the new Maralyn Monroe, call yourself whatever you want...thats the whole point

why are you so bothered that a woman chooses to call herself beautiful??

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

all women are beautiful sometimes you just have to look harder

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By *ont Ask Dont GetWoman
over a year ago

amersham

The term BBW is in my profile and tbh I've never dissected it any way really. I certainly don't consider myself partic beautiful but it does enable guys to immmediately know that I am a bigger lady and not to waste their or my time by writing if that's not their thing. My size and height is on there too.

Thankfully the size of my boobs and arse seem to be a positive for lots of guys!

Might take the term off my profile tho if it gives the impression I think I'm 'all that'!! haha

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By *estless in batterseaMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth


"Just because you dont find some BBW beautiful doesnt mean everyone else doesnt , we all have our own tastes and like different things about different people, some of them might not find you attractive but their not making a thread about it ...it works both ways so i just find it a bit of an obvious and pointless thread as previously said on here. "
Darling if there ever was an accurate way of describing a BBW it was you, you truly are a gorgeous girl... xx

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Wow!! After a million of these threads people still take the term literally?!!

I really struggle to understand why people feel the need to question how others choose to describe themselves. Blimey the amount of "very attractive, athletic, VVVWE bulls" on here poking fun at other people using a "ready reckoner" label is amusing.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Couldn't we change to using pfcc (perfect for chubby chasers)

Runs and hides

Some people can be so rude

Chubby chaser is a well known term for men who fancy big women, just like bbw is a well known term for said big women

it is horrible tho isnt it, i wouldnt meet anyone who reffered to themself as a chubby chaser, would make me feel like some kind of fetish

There is also a considerable scene for it in gay circles.

There are 3/4 sites that cater specifically for bigger guys and the guys that like them.

I've never seen myself as a fetish, no more than my liking for athletic men is a fetish - I just know what I like - and chubby chasers like chubby people."

i like bears...i worry i would break some skinny bloke...there doesnt seem to be a commonly used term for bigger men outside the gay scene though,

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By *andtsurreyCouple
over a year ago

Torbay

Maybe I'll change our profile to say "I'm a B (size18), B (in the eyes of my husband but probably not everyone which is totally understandable), W (I have the DNA to prove this bit if you need proof) - catchy innit ??!!

T xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lets just say,

if you find 'big' beautiful, and what you define big is different to the next person then that is your choice.

i am a big fan of larger ladies, but what i may consider as large others may have a different point of view.

Anyway, think this site needs a 'body type' search filter. fed-up of having to search endless profiles for curvy,large,fabulous fems and feel this would be a welcomed addition to search parameters.

Any how thats just my view on the matter, it will be a forever debated subject.

cheers all

BBWLOVER

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeh ur right being hot is about more than ur BMI

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


",Anyway, think this site needs a 'body type' search filter. fed-up of having to search endless profiles for curvy,large,fabulous fems and feel this would be a welcomed addition to search parameters.

"

thing is for that to work peoples idea of large has to be the same as yours, plus they have to be honest, ive seen many profiles where woman have put average and in my eyes they are large, have athletic when they clearly havnt seen a gym in years, curvy can be any size from a 8 to a 28 on here, as yourself has pointed out not everyone sees big as the same and some people do just out right lie about their size

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im guessin the guys are as bad with personal descriptions aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im guessin the guys are as bad with personal descriptions aswell "

curvy!!

on a mans profile

just plain wrong isnt it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get what you mean naughtynympho

thought it would be good to trial thats all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im guessin the guys are as bad with personal descriptions aswell "

well until we get one that says 'fat' i'm sticking with large

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


",Anyway, think this site needs a 'body type' search filter. fed-up of having to search endless profiles for curvy,large,fabulous fems and feel this would be a welcomed addition to search parameters.

thing is for that to work peoples idea of large has to be the same as yours, plus they have to be honest, ive seen many profiles where woman have put average and in my eyes they are large, have athletic when they clearly havnt seen a gym in years, curvy can be any size from a 8 to a 28 on here, as yourself has pointed out not everyone sees big as the same and some people do just out right lie about their size"

and men are as bad as women

i have a couple of mates who swear that they are at least a jeans size smaller than they are (if not two)

i point out that jeans have a waist size because they are (in general) meant to be worn from the waist, not under wherever it is your belly finishes !

i could be a 34 waist too if i chose to live a life of denial

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


",Anyway, think this site needs a 'body type' search filter. fed-up of having to search endless profiles for curvy,large,fabulous fems and feel this would be a welcomed addition to search parameters.

thing is for that to work peoples idea of large has to be the same as yours, plus they have to be honest, ive seen many profiles where woman have put average and in my eyes they are large, have athletic when they clearly havnt seen a gym in years, curvy can be any size from a 8 to a 28 on here, as yourself has pointed out not everyone sees big as the same and some people do just out right lie about their size"

i agree body type is totally subjective, i am (in my mind) curvy and large, im a size 14 ish...12 in nice shops and anything from 16 upwards on the top...whats my body type?

Ask for pics if you are that bothered is my advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

were talking goodlooks not bodymass here i thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"were talking goodlooks not bodymass here i thought"

we diverted onto body size filters on fab lol

happens a lot on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"were talking goodlooks not bodymass here i thought

we diverted onto body size filters on fab lol

happens a lot on here "

oh i beg ur pardon its a weighty subject onhere aint it

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"they may consider themselves to be beautiful

the fact that you may not is purely incidental "

Very well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im a BUG (big ugly guy) so it makes no difference to me lol"

I class myself as "fugly" variation on the same theme lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forums used to be busy with BBW threads, seems to have gone very quiet since the Picture fab was implements...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

coyldn't be arsed to read it all so sorry if someone beat me to it

the term BBW was coined in america to put a positive spin on the larger frame to promote positive thinking in women of a particular size but it was never meant to mean that the women thought themselves beautiful it was meant that there are actually some guys out there that find the bigger size beautiful

so let me clarify its not that the woman herself is beautiful facialy its the guys that find her wobbliness itself beautiful thats all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im a BUG (big ugly guy) so it makes no difference to me lol

I class myself as "fugly" variation on the same theme lol"

nope u arent in my view

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I call myself BBW. And I often thought to myself, how can I call myself beautiful so openly as it's in the eyes of the beholder if they think I am.

However, I really use the term to describe my size as it's commonly used for women who have more than a few extra pounds.

I don't think the OP's question is offensive though, he has a good point.

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By *nnie2009Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

call me bbw or whatever, i tell ppl to take me as they find me. im comfortable the way i am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"call me bbw or whatever, i tell ppl to take me as they find me. im comfortable the way i am"

hell yes i agree

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By *nnie2009Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see peoples points on the "they may not be beautiful to you but to others" and " everyone is beautiful to somebody" and such but why does that mean its ok for BBWs to call themselfs beautiful when some aint and skinny girls if they all labeled themselfs as beautiful they would get abuse or shit thrown their way for being egotistical or vain?

And while we are at it no not everyone is beautiful and if an ugly skinny girl calls herself it she gets torn but if an ugly fat girl does its fine.

Big women shouldnt all call themselfs big beautiful women because not all of them are. By that logic we should all be big beautiful women, skinny beautiful woman, short beautiful women, tall beautiful women, and that would mean the word beautiful would have no point or meaning

Some big women are beautiful

Some are not"

Clearly some are not...and some men too! Beauty is skin deep, but ugly goes to the bone! You my dear have just proved that. How many Skinny-bashing threads are there?? None im guessing. News flash...People like you are not superior to people like me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big Bollocks, White

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im still banging my head against the wall over these threads

I really cant believe that some people still dont get what BBW means and some really do still hang on the...but not all big women are beautiful thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tmsbw reporting in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just a thought? is an attractive professional always an attractive professional?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just a thought? is an attractive professional always an attractive professional?"

shut up

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"coyldn't be arsed to read it all so sorry if someone beat me to it

the term BBW was coined in america to put a positive spin on the larger frame to promote positive thinking in women of a particular size but it was never meant to mean that the women thought themselves beautiful it was meant that there are actually some guys out there that find the bigger size beautiful

so let me clarify its not that the woman herself is beautiful facialy its the guys that find her wobbliness itself beautiful thats all

"

*waves*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just a thought? is an attractive professional always an attractive professional?

shut up "

am I bovvad?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just a thought? is an attractive professional always an attractive professional?

shut up

am I bovvad?"

oooops bovad. my spellin iz sew atrowshus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kidding shelock!!!

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By *estless in batterseaMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

The honest truth is there's nothing beautiful about being fat... It's harsh but it's true. Having said that some of the sexiest women I've been with have been big but whatever, anyone can describe themselves how they want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The honest truth is there's nothing beautiful about being fat... "

In your opinion

I could introduce you to many people who would argue differently

I know several who would not touch a thin / lithe / athletic / toned body despite having one themselves

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By *estless in batterseaMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth


"The honest truth is there's nothing beautiful about being fat...

In your opinion

I could introduce you to many people who would argue differently

I know several who would not touch a thin / lithe / athletic / toned body despite having one themselves "
Well tell them good luck from yours truly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks for a post from bouncy...fails to find it but does find an excellent post from the professor.

Just to add BBW developed as a term for those who found big beautiful... remember beauty truly is in the eye of the beholder.

"

i had to read whole post after your wave treacle and now i see why ya waved i'm so glad that someone pays attention to my words occasionally lol should of known it would be you though ya don't miss a trick my sweet lady

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Looks for a post from bouncy...fails to find it but does find an excellent post from the professor.

Just to add BBW developed as a term for those who found big beautiful... remember beauty truly is in the eye of the beholder.

i had to read whole post after your wave treacle and now i see why ya waved i'm so glad that someone pays attention to my words occasionally lol should of known it would be you though ya don't miss a trick my sweet lady "

i found what you had to write about the origins really interesting...pity a few other people seem to refuse to be educated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks for a post from bouncy...fails to find it but does find an excellent post from the professor.

Just to add BBW developed as a term for those who found big beautiful... remember beauty truly is in the eye of the beholder.

i had to read whole post after your wave treacle and now i see why ya waved i'm so glad that someone pays attention to my words occasionally lol should of known it would be you though ya don't miss a trick my sweet lady

i found what you had to write about the origins really interesting...pity a few other people seem to refuse to be educated "

ah yes education is the true liberator of minds sad so few recognise that fact

we can learn so much from each other we all have something to teach but not many wish to teach and even less wish to learn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lets not get too deep here

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"lets not get too deep here

"

...proving the ladies point!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

does it really matter???? the sexiest thing any woman posses is her mind, same for anyone realy, if you feel sexy and enjoy giving pleasure to others you are sexy

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By *estless in batterseaMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth


"does it really matter???? the sexiest thing any woman posses is her mind, same for anyone realy, if you feel sexy and enjoy giving pleasure to others you are sexy "
WORD!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Time to put the umbrella up and run for cover me thinks "

right behind you

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

ooooohh my . That is not nice..!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"does it really matter???? the sexiest thing any woman posses is her mind, same for anyone realy, if you feel sexy and enjoy giving pleasure to others you are sexy WORD!"

i've always said sexy is a state of mind not a body shape or size, its all well and good possesing a taute toned bod but if you don't feel sexy and confident you won't appear sexy same goes for a wobbly bod it only appears sexy if its attached to a confident sexy feeling peep

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"Does any one else find that when people use the term BBW they don't always consider if they qualify for the second B?

I love BBW girls, but not all big girls are good looking, in the same way not all skinny girls are good looking.

I know I may pay for this post but I thought it a worthy talking point."

Thats rich coming from someone who resembles the elephant man in his foto

hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"does it really matter???? the sexiest thing any woman posses is her mind, same for anyone realy, if you feel sexy and enjoy giving pleasure to others you are sexy

WORD!"

Is that an acronym ?

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By *estless in batterseaMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth


"does it really matter???? the sexiest thing any woman posses is her mind, same for anyone realy, if you feel sexy and enjoy giving pleasure to others you are sexy

WORD!

Is that an acronym ?"
If you don't know then you don't know.

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By *estless in batterseaMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth


"does it really matter???? the sexiest thing any woman posses is her mind, same for anyone realy, if you feel sexy and enjoy giving pleasure to others you are sexy WORD!

i've always said sexy is a state of mind not a body shape or size, its all well and good possesing a taute toned bod but if you don't feel sexy and confident you won't appear sexy same goes for a wobbly bod it only appears sexy if its attached to a confident sexy feeling peep"
I hear you loud and clear! Like I said the sexiest women I've met were big and confident...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree, I've ben with a gorgeous big lady who was a size 30, and not what you would describe as good looking or pretty, but she was one of the sexiest ladies I've ever known. It's funny though, on my bi side I'm not a big fan of the chubbier guy (even though I'm no racing snake myself!!) I think sexiness/personal attractiveness is a bit like religion, it doesn't bear close scrutiny, don't analize what turns you on too closely!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it beautiful busty women or I thought it was big busty women....

Or is it big black willy???? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couldn't we change to using pfcc (perfect for chubby chasers)

Runs and hides

Some people can be so rude

Chubby chaser is a well known term for men who fancy big women, just like bbw is a well known term for said big women

Still rude!

In your eyes it would seem so, not in mine "

Yes in mine, as you are, I am also entitled to my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The honest truth is there's nothing beautiful about being fat...

In your opinion

I could introduce you to many people who would argue differently

I know several who would not touch a thin / lithe / athletic / toned body despite having one themselves "

my ex was one of them and anyone who knew me as a couple will back that up. ive always been big and i suppose people assumed we played with big women because i myself was big and thats all we could pull, however just before we split i lost loads of weight and went to a size 10, he didnt like my body but told me he prefered be slimmer because i was happier and more confidant, in a ideal world id have had the confidance i had at a size 10 at a size 22/24 but life dont work like that, however we carried on swinging and never did he ever play with a woman under a size 20, some guy even made a comment to him once about not having to play with 'fat birds' anymore because i had lost weight, because some people truely do think men use bigger ladies as a make do and there are lots out there that dont

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