FabSwingers.com forum: Blocking single males

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know Single Guys get a lot of stick on here .. but why do couples advertise Guys wanted for Gangbang today or come up in the meet today searches block single males??

They are obviously looking for males or they would not come up on the search and a gangbang without guys would not be up to much !!

Seems crazy to me..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The majority of single guys on here are great, but as on any other site you get the complete idiots who can't take a very polite ' thanks but no thanks' ... I've recently had several messages to which i've replied with a no thank you only to receive 'your loss' ' what a bitch' 'well all your other men friends are fat n ugly...suppose you are too'... and I'm sad to say the messages were all from under 30's!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry...went off on tangent there! Wasn't really what the thread was about was it...sorry x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea why couples do it becasue i'm not in a couple and so my situation is totally different.

Personally if someone contacts me who has no 'single guys - if we want one we will find you' kinda thing i always pass them by. That kind of statement always makes me feel like i have to beg and wait for scraps to be thrown to me. Only interested in those people who are looking for single guys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know I'm not a couple - just a single woman, but can I still answer?

I don't like having to block single guys - don't want to 'cos some are really worth getting to know -

But unfortunately they are totally outbalanced by a number of guys that either can't be bothered to read my profile and respond to it - or who just send a crude one liner and an even cruder reply if I say "no thanks"...

There comes a point when I just feel that I've had enough, and I switch the block on...

Sorry to all you nice guys out there - but you really should see the rubbish that we have to put up with....

... it just isn't worth it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

has to agree with annie wholeheartedly, a lot of the single men give the decent ones a bad name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know I'm not a couple - just a single woman, but can I still answer?

I don't like having to block single guys - don't want to 'cos some are really worth getting to know -

There comes a point when I just feel that I've had enough, and I switch the block on...

Sorry to all you nice guys out there - but you really should see the rubbish that we have to put up with....

... it just isn't worth it...

Don't get me wrong as i do understand and sympathise with anyone who gets emails from people that are not on their 'looking for' list and those that receive stupid and very unnecessary abuse when sent a 'no thanks' email. I would never ever condone that type of behaviour.

However, being a genuine single guy it is becoming quite tiresome coming onto the forums and seeing a negative comment about single guys each day. And often it's the same comment! We all know theres more guys than women and couples on here (just like any other sex related site) and we all know some of them are a pain in the ass and shouldn't really be on here if all their going to do is get abusive, so i wish this whole single guy topic would die out. I have had single women and couples email me who obviously haven't bothered to read any of my profile and whom have gotten really mardy and sarcastic when i've sent a polite reply thanking them for the email, but then pointing out that if they had read my email they would have seen what i wasn't actually looking for what they had mentioned. They have also sent crude one liners!

Therefore, single women and couples do the exact same things as single guys; maybe they don't do it as often as single guys, or maybe they do but people don't comment about it upon the forums as much.

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon

I know I'm not a couple - just a single woman, but can I still answer?

I don't like having to block single guys - don't want to 'cos some are really worth getting to know -

There comes a point when I just feel that I've had enough, and I switch the block on...

Sorry to all you nice guys out there - but you really should see the rubbish that we have to put up with....

... it just isn't worth it...

yes we all agree on that ,

but nether answerd the question

when advertising a gang bang they want guys to come but block them from aplying so how are they going to make contact

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By *riendlyfunfemWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I know I'm not a couple - just a single woman, but can I still answer?

I don't like having to block single guys - don't want to 'cos some are really worth getting to know -

There comes a point when I just feel that I've had enough, and I switch the block on...

Sorry to all you nice guys out there - but you really should see the rubbish that we have to put up with....

... it just isn't worth it...

Couldn't have put it better myself annie! I have just put 'Some people still can't read can they' on my status as so many just don't read your profile, then get stroppy when you don't reply. If they read my profile they'd know why I don't reply, grrrrrrrrr

And guess what? They obviously can't read that either, cos they are still sending messages, I give up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Er, can I just say, as a single girl have had absolutely no hassle from single guys? Maybe I'm lucky but so far any guy that has approached me has been polite and respectful, and those to whom I've sais no thanks to have been, on the whole, appreciatiive of my honesty.

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon

I know I'm not a couple - just a single woman, but can I still answer?

I don't like having to block single guys - don't want to 'cos some are really worth getting to know -

There comes a point when I just feel that I've had enough, and I switch the block on...

Sorry to all you nice guys out there - but you really should see the rubbish that we have to put up with....

... it just isn't worth it...

And guess what? They obviously can't read that either, cos they are still sending messages, I give up

ok this has been hi-jacked into another knock the single guy thread

but nether of you have answerd the op`s question

or are you just not reading it on purpose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They probably block single guys for fear of being snowed under by applications for the gang bang.

So they'd maybe rather do the contacting themselves so they can be choosy about who they invite without repurcusions from disgruntled guys who they turn down.

That seems a possible reason to us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't ever blocked single males, so I can't answer the OPs question. But I would just like to say that single guys get a lot of bad press on here that they don't deserve. Yes, I've had inappropriate approaches from men, but 99% of them have been polite and courteous. My profile makes it clear that I won't respond to men who are clearly not what I'm looking for - that's what the 'delete' button is for, and I just move on.

So let's not tar all the single guys with the same brush - I've met some lovely ones, and I hope to be so lucky again in the future.

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By *ouvakMan
over a year ago

clacton on sea

it might be that in the past they hadn't wanted to meet single guys and that its an oversight that they have forgotten to remove the " not looking for single guys" filter from their profile, thats my thoughts on it anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The most I'd be guilty of would be 2 or at a stretch [albeit rarely] 3 messages with no reply before I decide on taking a hint.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it might be that in the past they hadn't wanted to meet single guys and that its an oversight that they have forgotten to remove the " not looking for single guys" filter from their profile, thats my thoughts on it anyway"

This was my thought too as I was reading... Some people don't ever look at their own profile and forget what they have set up. Got to remember, most of us are pretty competent on a computer but there are plenty who aren't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The most I'd be guilty of would be 2 or at a stretch [albeit rarely] 3 messages with no reply before I decide on taking a hint."

1st message read and deleted.....take the hint and move on.

1st message read and not deleted.... maybe she/they like you , so patience and leave them to contact you..

people who contact folks 2/3 times... remembering if you are contacting them, so are 100 other single guys, comes across a tad pushy. Remember many guys blanket message everyone with a pulse.

nice message introducing yourself and TAILORED to what the other person is looking for,established from reading fully the profile... then patience, patience and even more patience.. some folks are not gagging for it 24/7.

just my 2p worth..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The majority of single guys on here are great, but as on any other site you get the complete idiots who can't take a very polite ' thanks but no thanks' ... I've recently had several messages to which i've replied with a no thank you only to receive 'your loss' ' what a bitch' 'well all your other men friends are fat n ugly...suppose you are too'... and I'm sad to say the messages were all from under 30's!! "

i agree with you there,i get so many abusive mail from men i have said a polite thanks but no thanks to, on the same sort of lines as what you have put, problem is i only meet single guys so i cant block them so i just carry on laughing at their battered egos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ps, I forgot about the OP, sounds bizarre to me to ask for males for a GB and then block them..

Traceandric are probably correct but would have been easier if said couple had mentioned that on profile for clarity.

but hey....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On topic: The couple in question perhaps have many single men on their friend list and the invite was only open to them, people on friend list can still contact if they are blocked thru filters.

On the other topic: It is interesting the lady with no thumbnail mentioned she only received nice emails. I think the fact is if you have a saucy picture up and your female it gets all the men who think with their willy charging at them while if there is no thumbnail they probably don't even see it, only the men with actual brains do

In other words if you wish to increase quality just disable your thumbnail lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cheers for the replies.. I think it must be the way they have set their filters and forgot to change them when they have decided to advertise a GB on the events page..

I would imagine they are now sat there saying all the single guys on here are a waste because they got no replies lol !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On topic: The couple in question perhaps have many single men on their friend list and the invite was only open to them, people on friend list can still contact if they are blocked thru filters.

In other words if you wish to increase quality just disable your thumbnail lol"

i do actually understand where your coming from there, its a case of you cant insult someone you have never seen, but if i took my pics down then id just get even more mail from men asking to see pics lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The most I'd be guilty of would be 2 or at a stretch [albeit rarely] 3 messages with no reply before I decide on taking a hint.

1st message read and deleted.....take the hint and move on.

1st message read and not deleted.... maybe she/they like you , so patience and leave them to contact you..

people who contact folks 2/3 times... remembering if you are contacting them, so are 100 other single guys, comes across a tad pushy. Remember many guys blanket message everyone with a pulse.

just my 2p worth.."

Apologies. In my defense I am speaking of my recent etiquette but that doesn't count for muchas I am not in my right might lately [had my heart broken, on the mend].

I've taken on board what you said and re-tightened some mental screws. I feel I have a better approach now, thank you for the thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never blocked anyone yet and never will, cant see the point of that sort of attitude.

If we get a pm worthy of a reply it gets ONE. Anymore pm's from that member, if unwanted are simply deleted, you would have to be a total goon to open one from someone you have already said no thanks to.

If we get a pm from someone that does not deserve a reply we simply delete it and any others that come.

If we said in our profile we did not want pm's from single guys then every one we received would simply be deleted.

For the life of me I cannot understand with all that is going on in the world why some folk get their knickers in such a twist over something that is so feckin simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people just like to cry, that's all. They can't accept rejection because they see themselves as irrestible stud muffins! Er...well maybe not then, but they do kick up a huge stink over nothing don't they? Waste of energy if you ask me.

On another note...I said 'in my right might' in my above post lol! I meant 'mind'. MIND!

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Blimey whats gone on with this thread???

To the OP it does seem a bit silly to advertise a gangbang and have a single male block on your profile..............gonna be the loneliest gangbang ever unless they realise why they're getting no response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The most I'd be guilty of would be 2 or at a stretch [albeit rarely] 3 messages with no reply before I decide on taking a hint.

1st message read and deleted.....take the hint and move on.

1st message read and not deleted.... maybe she/they like you , so patience and leave them to contact you..

people who contact folks 2/3 times... remembering if you are contacting them, so are 100 other single guys, comes across a tad pushy. Remember many guys blanket message everyone with a pulse.

just my 2p worth..

Apologies. In my defense I am speaking of my recent etiquette but that doesn't count for muchas I am not in my right might lately [had my heart broken, on the mend].

I've taken on board what you said and re-tightened some mental screws. I feel I have a better approach now, thank you for the thoughts.

welcome back and good luck dude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't block single gentlemen, as I am single myself, and prefer to meet singles.

I wish there is the facility to specify age group that I can block, as I really do not wish to be contacted by young "sutds" under 35!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooo, I only block individuals if they become a pest and do not get the hint that I am not interested in them!

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

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"Oooo, I only block individuals if they become a pest and do not get the hint that I am not interested in them!

The only people we block are those who've blocked us in the chat rooms, some, we've never even blinked at let alone chatted to, yet for some strange reason they've blocked us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"has to agree with annie wholeheartedly, a lot of the single men give the decent ones a bad name "

Got to agree here aswell, just takes one bad apple to spoil the barrell

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