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"I know that this is some people's idea of pleasure but don't most of the women on this site feel used? I'm as guilty as the next man but just wondered . . . ." Perhaps it's a prehistoric view of women that's led you to that conclusion? | |||
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"I know that this is some people's idea of pleasure but don't most of the women on this site feel used? I'm as guilty as the next man but just wondered . . . . Perhaps it's a prehistoric view of women that's led you to that conclusion?" Sounds like it | |||
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"I know that this is some people's idea of pleasure but don't most of the women on this site feel used? I'm as guilty as the next man but just wondered . . . ." Define “used”.... do you feel used when a girl meets you to get off with the use of your cock/mouth/hands etc etc? I can’t speak for everyone else but for me if we are using terms like “used” then for me that works both ways I assure you!! | |||
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"By used I mean that it's not mutually appreciated. If it is then you've not got a problem. Happy Fabbing x" But why do you assume that only the guys are getting something out of it? Surely if anything the question should be asking if people feel used, regardless of gender? ... I have a question for you. Do you use fab so you can “use” women? | |||
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"Methinks the ladies doth protest too much but at least it's a reaction. Discuss . . . ." Is there any point in a discussion if you dismiss the first 2 replies as protesting too much? | |||
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"I think you're right. Do some people on here feel used by being on this site against their will. Is that better?" Who on earth is here against their will?? | |||
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"I think you're right. Do some people on here feel used by being on this site against their will. Is that better?" Ate people on here against their will??  | |||
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"I think you're right. Do some people on here feel used by being on this site against their will. Is that better?" Why would someone be here against their will? | |||
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"I think you're right. Do some people on here feel used by being on this site against their will. Is that better?" Eh? As in forced on here by a partner? I'm sure most are on here because they want to be. | |||
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"Ha ha ha ha ha ha - sorry, can't type for laughing." I think we might need you to expand on that one too | |||
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"Ha ha ha ha ha ha - sorry, can't type for laughing." Had a lil drinkie this evening, have we? | |||
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"I think you're right. Do some people on here feel used by being on this site against their will. Is that better?" I'm not sure I understand what you are asking. Your rephrased question is very different to the one in the first post. | |||
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"I know that this is some people's idea of pleasure but don't most of the women on this site feel used? I'm as guilty as the next man but just wondered . . . ." The men I shag should feel used, they are just pieces of man meat. | |||
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"I think you're right. Do some people on here feel used by being on this site against their will. Is that better?" Against their will? Wtf. Ha | |||
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"Thanks Slinky, that's very interesting point. On here you ought to have more control than random meetings in real life. Like a naturist beach - what you see is what you get" If you click reply + quote, it makes it easier to comprehend  | |||
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"Quite right jsm, I've had time to reflect" So are you implying that some people are somehow being forced to be on the site? | |||
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"Not for 30 years Lola but thanks for asking  "Ok so are you asking if women feel used by having sex with men while not in a committed relationship? | |||
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"I know that this is some people's idea of pleasure but don't most of the women on this site feel used? I'm as guilty as the next man but just wondered . . . ." Still curious why you assume “most of the women on this site feel used” ... | |||
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"Thanks Slinky, that's very interesting point. On here you ought to have more control than random meetings in real life. Like a naturist beach - what you see is what you get If you click reply + quote, it makes it easier to comprehend "Thanks for the tip | |||
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"I know that this is some people's idea of pleasure but don't most of the women on this site feel used? I'm as guilty as the next man but just wondered . . . . Still curious why you assume “most of the women on this site feel used” ... " And why only most of them OP? | |||
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"I know that this is some people's idea of pleasure but don't most of the women on this site feel used? I'm as guilty as the next man but just wondered . . . . Still curious why you assume “most of the women on this site feel used” ... " I just got to wondering how much coercion there is in couples' profiles. | |||
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"I know that this is some people's idea of pleasure but don't most of the women on this site feel used? I'm as guilty as the next man but just wondered . . . . Define “used”.... do you feel used when a girl meets you to get off with the use of your cock/mouth/hands etc etc? I can’t speak for everyone else but for me if we are using terms like “used” then for me that works both ways I assure you!! " great comment i think the same as you x | |||
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"I know that this is some people's idea of pleasure but don't most of the women on this site feel used? I'm as guilty as the next man but just wondered . . . . Still curious why you assume “most of the women on this site feel used” ... I just got to wondering how much coercion there is in couples' profiles." Why can't two people just want to enjoy a varied sex life together? | |||
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"I know that this is some people's idea of pleasure but don't most of the women on this site feel used? I'm as guilty as the next man but just wondered . . . . Still curious why you assume “most of the women on this site feel used” ... I just got to wondering how much coercion there is in couples' profiles. Of course they can but I've found it's much less common than you'd imagine once you get to know people. It does work both ways of course. Why can't two people just want to enjoy a varied sex life together?" | |||
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"OP I think you meant what you initially said, you think women feel used cos you think men are on here to use women and are now backtracking. " I'm not a politician; I can adapt. | |||
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"I know that this is some people's idea of pleasure but don't most of the women on this site feel used? I'm as guilty as the next man but just wondered . . . . Still curious why you assume “most of the women on this site feel used” ... I just got to wondering how much coercion there is in couples' profiles. Of course they can but I've found it's much less common than you'd imagine once you get to know people. It does work both ways of course. Why can't two people just want to enjoy a varied sex life together?" Every couple I've met have been here as equals. I don't know where you're coming up with this but it's nonsense. | |||
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"OP I think you meant what you initially said, you think women feel used cos you think men are on here to use women and are now backtracking. " To be honest given the subsequent 2 posts from him claiming that the women replying were protesting too much and then that he was laughing too much to reply so do I. And it seems quite contemptuous towards swingers | |||
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"I know that this is some people's idea of pleasure but don't most of the women on this site feel used? I'm as guilty as the next man but just wondered . . . . Still curious why you assume “most of the women on this site feel used” ... I just got to wondering how much coercion there is in couples' profiles. Of course they can but I've found it's much less common than you'd imagine once you get to know people. It does work both ways of course. Why can't two people just want to enjoy a varied sex life together? Every couple I've met have been here as equals. I don't know where you're coming up with this but it's nonsense. " I'm sure you're not the only one to think so but at least it's got people thinking about it. Nighty night. x | |||
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"I know that this is some people's idea of pleasure but don't most of the women on this site feel used? I'm as guilty as the next man but just wondered . . . . Still curious why you assume “most of the women on this site feel used” ... I just got to wondering how much coercion there is in couples' profiles. Of course they can but I've found it's much less common than you'd imagine once you get to know people. It does work both ways of course. Why can't two people just want to enjoy a varied sex life together? Every couple I've met have been here as equals. I don't know where you're coming up with this but it's nonsense. I'm sure you're not the only one to think so but at least it's got people thinking about it. Nighty night. x" All its got people thinking is that you're abit odd. | |||
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"OP I think you meant what you initially said, you think women feel used cos you think men are on here to use women and are now backtracking. To be honest given the subsequent 2 posts from him claiming that the women replying were protesting too much and then that he was laughing too much to reply so do I. And it seems quite contemptuous towards swingers "It struck me as a sly attempt at slut shaming and I haven't seen anything to make me think any different so far. | |||
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"OP I think you meant what you initially said, you think women feel used cos you think men are on here to use women and are now backtracking. To be honest given the subsequent 2 posts from him claiming that the women replying were protesting too much and then that he was laughing too much to reply so do I. And it seems quite contemptuous towards swingers "Yup. | |||
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"I know that this is some people's idea of pleasure but don't most of the women on this site feel used? I'm as guilty as the next man but just wondered . . . . Still curious why you assume “most of the women on this site feel used” ... I just got to wondering how much coercion there is in couples' profiles. Of course they can but I've found it's much less common than you'd imagine once you get to know people. It does work both ways of course. Why can't two people just want to enjoy a varied sex life together? Every couple I've met have been here as equals. I don't know where you're coming up with this but it's nonsense. I'm sure you're not the only one to think so but at least it's got people thinking about it. Nighty night. x All its got people thinking is that you're abit odd. " Haha | |||
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"OP I think you meant what you initially said, you think women feel used cos you think men are on here to use women and are now backtracking. To be honest given the subsequent 2 posts from him claiming that the women replying were protesting too much and then that he was laughing too much to reply so do I. And it seems quite contemptuous towards swingers
It struck me as a sly attempt at slut shaming and I haven't seen anything to make me think any different so far. "No shame here! | |||
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"I know that this is some people's idea of pleasure but don't most of the women on this site feel used? I'm as guilty as the next man but just wondered . . . . The men I shag should feel used, they are just pieces of man meat." The only way it should be!  | |||
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"OP I think you meant what you initially said, you think women feel used cos you think men are on here to use women and are now backtracking. To be honest given the subsequent 2 posts from him claiming that the women replying were protesting too much and then that he was laughing too much to reply so do I. And it seems quite contemptuous towards swingers
It struck me as a sly attempt at slut shaming and I haven't seen anything to make me think any different so far.
No shame here!"Erm no none here either  | |||
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"I know that this is some people's idea of pleasure but don't most of the women on this site feel used? I'm as guilty as the next man but just wondered . . . . The men I shag should feel used, they are just pieces of man meat. The only way it should be! "You'll soon be one of my used and abused | |||
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"OP I think you meant what you initially said, you think women feel used cos you think men are on here to use women and are now backtracking. To be honest given the subsequent 2 posts from him claiming that the women replying were protesting too much and then that he was laughing too much to reply so do I. And it seems quite contemptuous towards swingers
It struck me as a sly attempt at slut shaming and I haven't seen anything to make me think any different so far.
No shame here!
Erm no none here either "Nor here | |||
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"I know that this is some people's idea of pleasure but don't most of the women on this site feel used? I'm as guilty as the next man but just wondered . . . . The men I shag should feel used, they are just pieces of man meat. " But then I, for one, would be willingly getting'used' by you | |||
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"I know that this is some people's idea of pleasure but don't most of the women on this site feel used? I'm as guilty as the next man but just wondered . . . . The men I shag should feel used, they are just pieces of man meat. But then I, for one, would be willingly getting'used' by you" See OP, we are strong, independent women using men for their dicks then discarding them by the wayside for the next randy harlot to take her turn! | |||
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"I know that this is some people's idea of pleasure but don't most of the women on this site feel used? I'm as guilty as the next man but just wondered . . . . The men I shag should feel used, they are just pieces of man meat. But then I, for one, would be willingly getting'used' by you See OP, we are strong, independent women using men for their dicks then discarding them by the wayside for the next randy harlot to take her turn! " Hahaha | |||
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"OP I think you meant what you initially said, you think women feel used cos you think men are on here to use women and are now backtracking. To be honest given the subsequent 2 posts from him claiming that the women replying were protesting too much and then that he was laughing too much to reply so do I. And it seems quite contemptuous towards swingers
It struck me as a sly attempt at slut shaming and I haven't seen anything to make me think any different so far. "I had it down as an attempt at white knighting but I'm not sure he even knows what his intentions were tbh  | |||
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"Methinks the ladies doth protest too much but at least it's a reaction. Discuss . . . ." Why do you believe that? Overlaying your prejudice onto my response isn't the way to engage in any meaningful dialogue as it implies your mind was already made up. | |||
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"I know that this is some people's idea of pleasure but don't most of the women on this site feel used? I'm as guilty as the next man but just wondered . . . ." yes I agree with some of the reply’s ! I’ve stopped meeting for that very reason we are all adults and agree what we want from meets However doesn’t stop some guys making you feel like a piece of meat and thinking you haven’t got a brain because your on a sex site ! X | |||
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"I know that this is some people's idea of pleasure but don't most of the women on this site feel used? I'm as guilty as the next man but just wondered . . . ." Totally when it's just all about them and their egoes | |||
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"Posting crap like this is a great way for the rest of us to filter out who we would meet. " Yup... Mr Icebreaker | |||
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"I know that this is some people's idea of pleasure but don't most of the women on this site feel used? I'm as guilty as the next man but just wondered . . . . Still curious why you assume “most of the women on this site feel used” ... I just got to wondering how much coercion there is in couples' profiles." Who coerced you to be on Fab? | |||
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"To be honest I can see where the OP is coming from (& no I don't feel used btw) but outside of the forums (a tiny % of fab) men generally are trying to use ladies for their own fix. I don't except compliments on fab from any man that I haven't spent time conversing with due to them saying the same thing to every lady "to get in their knickers" so to speak, most men that have messaged me over the years are only interested in a hook up type sex n go thing, I'm not interested in sex without a good mental connection as find it mediocre at best whereas most men seem to be looking just for an instant sex fix to be honest ... so yes, generalising from my years on here men do want to primarily use the ladies! He's just asking if we feel used, perhaps it would have been better if he'd worded it "how do the ladies of fab manage not to feel used?" " I don't feel used because I don't let people use me, the chancers are so easy to spot so I never get put in that position. Plus, I'm kinda using the guys I fuck anyway  | |||
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"To be honest I can see where the OP is coming from (& no I don't feel used btw) but outside of the forums (a tiny % of fab) men generally are trying to use ladies for their own fix. I don't except compliments on fab from any man that I haven't spent time conversing with due to them saying the same thing to every lady "to get in their knickers" so to speak, most men that have messaged me over the years are only interested in a hook up type sex n go thing, I'm not interested in sex without a good mental connection as find it mediocre at best whereas most men seem to be looking just for an instant sex fix to be honest ... so yes, generalising from my years on here men do want to primarily use the ladies! He's just asking if we feel used, perhaps it would have been better if he'd worded it "how do the ladies of fab manage not to feel used?" " Truth exists here in abundance | |||
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"I know that this is some people's idea of pleasure but don't most of the women on this site feel used? I'm as guilty as the next man but just wondered . . . ." That's how I want to feel. Also keep in mind, we use them. | |||
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"I know that this is some people's idea of pleasure but don't most of the women on this site feel used? I'm as guilty as the next man but just wondered . . . . Delete your account and please never meet a woman your misogyny is quite appalling Ms Icebreaker " Please dont speak for all women! I like feeling uses. OP , o liked your question, so Mr woke icebreaker - Delete your account you misogynist MAN Chrissie x | |||
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" He's just asking if we feel used, perhaps it would have been better if he'd worded it "how do the ladies of fab manage not to feel used?" " That's not quite true as he challenged me in response to his original post. | |||
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"I know that this is some people's idea of pleasure but don't most of the women on this site feel used? I'm as guilty as the next man but just wondered . . . ." I have been doing this for years. When I was single, (we still have requirements you know), I made sure I was treated right, dinner, or a bottle of wine, from the man, to show his appreciation, and that he’d turn up. Now I have a partner, it’s easier because we just get on with out so much fuss. | |||
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