FabSwingers.com forum: Straight men who are now bi opr curious

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Are there any men on here who started swinging totally straight and over time became either just curious or fully bi?

I'm sure you have heard the saying 'A hole is a hole'. Well, how true is this?

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By *i de BiCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Maybe ......

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i have been blow jobbed my so many women that really love doing it that i am tempted to have a go myself but this is only a very tentative step and if its not for me i ll go straight again got too many piles for backdoor stuff and ana l does not appeal ladies have a much better hole to have sex in and they do great blow jobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a man who says he straight but he wore stockings in bed with me and had his cock sucked by a bi man with me. Why don't men say bi or curious if they are. I can understand not wanting to put it on Facebook but this is essentially a sex site so put what your into not what you want your family to think

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By *exykirstyWoman
over a year ago

North of Manchester

Oh yes as your mind opens your limits are pushed. And yes men do change i know it from first hand experience.

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By *encarolCouple
over a year ago

Tyneside

carol wants to watch me been sucked off by a man while she plays with her self .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im bi and when you check the " looked at me " its suprising how many straight guys who have had a peek when u message them sometimes its their first step and just a bit shy and end up raging tarts lmao

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By *oger_rabbit_brumMan
over a year ago

Harborne

I've flit from straight to bi-curious in the description bit on here. I've never experienced anything with a man before but does intrigue me. Thing I've struggled with is actually finding an attraction to a man. Wouldnt just get sucked off by anyone, there has to be some sort of attraction. We shall see - maybe one day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it happened to me, I guess you just get kinkyer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it's a lot to do with the mood. Sometimes I fancy a cock, sometimes I don't.

How many men who would suck a cock would also snog another man?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some are scared that they wont get meets if they open admit they are bi. yet if they are straight then tell me they are bi im usually turned off by it

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By *oger_rabbit_brumMan
over a year ago

Harborne

I think I'd prefer to go whole way with snogging and the rest rather than just a blowjob in a dark car park or something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

many are scared of admitting they are bi

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West

You often see profiles where the guy in a couple is just 'orally bi' how do they turn?..maybe is a desire to emulate their wives after they see them giving a guy a gobble and wonder what it actually feels like..

They do it once and find they like it maybe?...each to their own I spose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thing is they either like cock or not x

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West

"thing is they either like cock or not x

Indeed...and in my case NOT..I even gag with a pencil in my mouth!..

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By *tarling and RobinCouple
over a year ago

North East

Depends what you are into. As a couple it turn me on big time to see a bit of man man oral. But it should never be done just to please the wife, needs to be fun too. This is the wife speaking by the way lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends what you are into. As a couple it turn me on big time to see a bit of man man oral. But it should never be done just to please the wife, needs to be fun too. This is the wife speaking by the way lol

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AGREED my fellas bi and I dont like the idea of him being with another man just to please me xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"thing is they either like cock or not x

Indeed...and in my case NOT..I even gag with a pencil in my mouth!.."

i luurve cock!!!

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"Are there any men on here who started swinging totally straight and over time became either just curious or fully bi?

I'm sure you have heard the saying 'A hole is a hole'. Well, how true is this?"

i think you are conflating two separate arguments.

The attitude a hole is a hole has nothing to do with being bi straight or gay.

However many people explore their boundaries through swinging. It is especially hard for men who are sold stories about sexuality from a young age, by joining sites like this people often see that things are permissible that they dismissed or denied previously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have often wondered why there is not a filter on fab for bi or bi curious guys to look for bi couples.

I know a few bi curious guys and they only want to play with a bi couple as they do not want to play one on one with a guy only.

If there was such an option on fab rather than trying to trawl thru all the profiles on here !!!!

I would possibly try myself lol as I must admit to a bit of curiosity myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was bi to start with

This site has just brought out the best in me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Good point.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What good comments.

i have a disagreement with a mate of mine about men who go with men but dont indentify as gay or bi.

i think its entirely possible for a straight man to 'dabble' every now and again without having to label himself.

My mate thinks even looking at another man in the showers makes a man not 100% straight which is just stupid. I wouldn't mind but she's now bicurious herself lol.

I asked the question only of men as women are more likely to to try it than a man.

I do have a thing for bi men. Not sure why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What good comments.

i have a disagreement with a mate of mine about men who go with men but dont indentify as gay or bi.

i think its entirely possible for a straight man to 'dabble' every now and again without having to label himself.

My mate thinks even looking at another man in the showers makes a man not 100% straight which is just stupid. I wouldn't mind but she's now bicurious herself lol.

I asked the question only of men as women are more likely to to try it than a man.

I do have a thing for bi men. Not sure why."

A lot of gay guys look on 'bi' or 'straight' guys as some sort of golden egg.

That somehow getting a seeing to off a bi or straight guy somehow makes it much hornier than meeting another gay guy.

I have quite a number of gay friends and hearing them chat amongst themselves is an eye opener in this respect - the kudos of pulling a supposed straight guy is immense !

I've never understood that mentality - if he is interested in cock, he is interested in cock irregardless of how he chooses to label himself and irregardless of whether he goes home to an empty house, another male or a wife / girlfriend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im bi and when you check the " looked at me " its suprising how many straight guys who have had a peek when u message them sometimes its their first step and just a bit shy and end up raging tarts lmao

Two things cross my mind here,

First why are you messaging straight guys? seems like the ultimate "read the flippin profile"

Second they are probably just looking at your profile to see who it is that can't read profiles.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

I guess it all depends on your definition of 'bi'.

My definition, which might not be shared by others is:

- meeting a man alone for sex

- anal sex

- kissing

Bi-curious is just that you are thinking of doing any or all of the above.

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By *amBiUKMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

The answer is yes I first thought I wad straight n had a threesome with a couple she gently led me into the bi way of playing and I haven't looked back I love pussy but love cock too now and love to have a girl or girls watch ad I suck their guy xx

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

No.. Always been bi

I had lots of gay sex before I had straight, then thought hang on.... Double the fun

With regards to oral/anal.. That's our choice at this moment

Straight guys checking out bi profiles.. Could be down to great photos being seen in "latest photos" and then clicking too see more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the them do, judging by my emails....

They don't see themselves as bi, because they don't do bi things, i.e. they don't suck cock or be fucked a man.

Only have their cock sucked or fuck a man, I know, I know, but that how many come across

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me I like to play with woman only, but my partner Louise was straight but after having threesomes she did enjoy playing with another girl although I have been ask to try some bisexual fun by a straight male who wanted to try it I could never do it does that makes me a bad person for saying No? .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh yes and we both have loved the growing experience, i love watching hubby sucking my lovers cocks and it has developed into cuckolding, which we both now alos enjoy as well as his recent introduction into cross dressing , which i find very horny indeed. He has also had his first cock in him, which was awesome for us both, bring it on as you are only here once lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"many are scared of admitting they are bi"

Because you're turned off by it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"many are scared of admitting they are bi

Because you're turned off by it?"

There are also the guys who just love cocks, but not necessarily other men.

I never eye up men like I would a girl. Maybe a T-girl is my ideal lol, if there are any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met a man who says he straight but he wore stockings in bed with me and had his cock sucked by a bi man with me. Why don't men say bi or curious if they are. I can understand not wanting to put it on Facebook but this is essentially a sex site so put what your into not what you want your family to think "

Yes - funny thing that! When I'm wanking on cam as I do sometimes in chat, men very often watch - and nearly always their profiles say 'straight', when I check them out. Come on guys - don't be shy! Admit you can take your pick from 100% of the population!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they looked at me first these so called STRAIGHT GUYS why if theyre only into women ?? so just asking if they like a bit of pork

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"they looked at me first these so called STRAIGHT GUYS why if theyre only into women ?? so just asking if they like a bit of pork

Looking is normal, they might want to see your profile (I look at those who post in forums), or to recycle some words from your profile...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"they looked at me first these so called STRAIGHT GUYS why if theyre only into women ?? so just asking if they like a bit of pork

Looking is normal, they might want to see your profile (I look at those who post in forums), or to recycle some words from your profile..."

Dozens of straight guys look at mine, sometimes due to forums, or meet today, just local, or maybe interested/curious. I never message without theming wink or messaging first though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started swinging quite some time ago, and I have to confess that I was the proverbial anally retentive straight guy. To be honest slightly leaning to the homophobic side. But over time things have changed. One evening a friend of mine licked me between the balls and my arse and gently poked his tongue up there while I was enjoying his wife and was other wise preoccupied and to be honest it felt fantastic. A few sessions later his wife asked me if she could watch her husband suck me off by that time I had a really good relationship with them and basically felt what the heck. Any way he was really good and after a bit he got more adventurous and I landed up cumming in his mouth. It took me a long time to pick up the courage to reciprocate and pick up the courage to explore further. I've moved on a lot since then, I can say for sure I would not want a formal relationship with a guy, but when it comes to sex and certainly when it comes to enjoying the full menage a troi, I wouldn't want to go back to where I came from. Its full on fantastic and I'm happy to be fully Bi sexual. So yes when it comes to swinging I've grown with the experience and My sexuality has changed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bi and to be honest always have been I think but ag the end of the day Im greedy I like to have my cake and eat it . Seriously looking into history cultures have had a plethora of bisexuality the Romans Greeks ( where do you think the Greek way came from) even the feared warriors of god the knights Templar engulfed themselves into bisexual behaviour yes I know they were supposed to be chased but many had wives as well as boyfriends.

Ok jumped of my soapbox now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok jumped of my soapbox now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

WELL IT SAYS IF YOUR HAVING SEX IN FRONT OF THE SAME SEX M OR F] DEFENITION = THAT YOUR BI CURIOS

SO WHO GIVES A FUCK ANYWAY

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By *agansCouple
over a year ago

Burham, Kent

It's too easy to label people; there aren't bi/gay/str8 people in distinct groups - its a spectrum: At one side are the folk you don't like, and at the other are the folk you do. If you are self-confident enough you will accept, (probably only to yourself) that gender is not always the deciding factor.

The point is that in here is a safe place to explore your own sexuality, especially for guys who would be mad to mention their curiousity in the local pub.

Having browsed these sites for some time now what I can say is that there are many, many more men prepared to explore their bi-side than was the case 10 years ago. Which is really positive and brilliant.

For me its difficult to have good group sex whilst avoiding male touches; its really awkward.

Lastly it is peculiar that 'str8' men always seem to think that if someone is bi or gay, then their asshole is under threat. I have only been really attracted to 2 guys in my life; in my opinion most are out of shape, clumsy and unattractive yet still think they look horny..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are there any men on here who started swinging totally straight and over time became either just curious or fully bi?

I'm sure you have heard the saying 'A hole is a hole'. Well, how true is this?"

Having been on site both as a couple and as a single before (with straight as my status!) I guess I fall into this category quite well!

Heard the saying of course - but have never had that viewpoint myself - with either sex.

Have curious on my profile rather than bi as am only interested in oral rather than anal fun - which is stated in my profile but suprising the number of people who seem to miss that bit!

And can agree with others that when you check the 'looked at me' there's always dozens of 'straight' guys.

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

" However many people explore their boundaries through swinging. It is especially hard for men who are sold stories about sexuality from a young age, by joining sites like this people often see that things are permissible that they dismissed or denied previously."

I (G) fall into this category; hadn't experienced any bi contact until we went to a bi night at Chams years ago (for her to meet other females). While she and a woman played together her husband and I played with, and then sucked, one another's cocks. I enjoyed it. She said afterwards "now you know why women like that!"

It's now just another option when we're playing with a bi or bicurious couple; not essential but when it happens it's nice. Many men in the couples we swing with are very straight - I was so myself up until then - and there is no way I would try to touch another cock unless I'd cleared first that it was OK, before we all start playing together.

Always amused that men who say they're totally straight are quite happy with cock-on-cock contact and cumming during double-vaging, but one of us is usually in a condom so maybe that makes it OK? But when you're both in a woman's mouth and one of you cums that doesn't apply. As the quote above says, it's an attitude of mind.

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