FabSwingers.com forum: Setting boundaries

By *issyEM OP Woman
over a year ago

Nearly

For couples who got rules. How you set them up? Example oral only for the self's and kissing but intercourse OK with others. What reason are for choosing that way of playing with others?

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

Hopefully, as with singles, it is what they are comfortable with

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"For couples who got rules. How you set them up? Example oral only for the self's and kissing but intercourse OK with others. What reason are for choosing that way of playing with others? "

We have a few things we won't do, mostly because one or the other or both of us don't enjoy them. We decided on them partly by long discussion and partly by learning on the job so to speak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We chat and see after. I dont like seeing my guy kissing a girl for too long as find it a little intimate and I'm a tad jealous, but he enjoys watching me kiss lots so we both know what each other like. Same with many things we do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And there's me thinking swinging was all fun, adventurous, spontaneous and exciting...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We chat and see after. I dont like seeing my guy kissing a girl for too long as find it a little intimate and I'm a tad jealous, but he enjoys watching me kiss lots so we both know what each other like. Same with many things we do. "

Now this REALLY baffles me as I always thought swinging couples had little or no jealousy whatsoever as it was all built on complete trust??

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By *issyEM OP Woman
over a year ago

Nearly

I am not jealous in general but don't want my partner pleasure orally other woman as this is so intimate for me. Obviously safe sex count too. But saw him once from beginning done it and almost collapse in club.

Now this REALLY baffles me as I always thought swinging couples had little or no jealousy whatsoever as it was all built on complete trust??"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose the biggest bonus of being single is I have no boundaries.

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By *issyEM OP Woman
over a year ago

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"I suppose the biggest bonus of being single is I have no boundaries."

Lol x that's why some couples are aware and single guys not have easy with them.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I suppose the biggest bonus of being single is I have no boundaries."

None?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I suppose the biggest bonus of being single is I have no boundaries.

None? "

We all came into this world curious and eager to try things and experience what we can, it's our duty, it's our gift and it's mainly society, fear or other people that create boundaries.

None.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I suppose the biggest bonus of being single is I have no boundaries.

None?

We all came into this world curious and eager to try things and experience what we can, it's our duty, it's our gift and it's mainly society, fear or other people that create boundaries.

None.

Interesting. Is there genuinely nothing legal you would say no to?

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