FabSwingers.com forum: Coming or not

By *iss pleasuring OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

Who else thinks that if a guy shags like what seems forever without coming, it's a deflation to us ladies left thinking we are a crap fuck

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

It's far from meaning you're a crap fuck as I'm one of those guys myself.

It's just that it takes forever and you shouldn't take it as any indicator about how good you or the sex was.

I know what you mean though as I have felt the same when I know I've not made the woman I'm with come.

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By *iss pleasuring OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

I find its deflation not receiving the goods rgen too knackered to assist in a gand job. Why should I of hes going forever

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By *exi7000Couple
over a year ago

London

So many guys, hold themselves for far too long. You can tell when they genuinely cannot finish. Some take tablets for that.

Sometimes it pisses off the misses, and she actually tell them they have 5 min, or she is getting up. Some believe its a manly to fuck for hours without finishing. Boring fucks in-out, in-out for hour.

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By *iss pleasuring OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

"So many guys, hold themselves for far too long. You can tell when they genuinely cannot finish. Some take tablets for that.

Yes exactly agree to all the above

Selfish bastards. But equally selfish for the 3 stroke wonder

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

In a way yes I agree. I like a good session however I think anything more than an hour and I get bored.

I would rather have a break in between.

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By *r easy1981Man
over a year ago

leeds

After a few drinks some people find it hard to come if is no why the woman fault

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

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By *iss pleasuring OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

Some do I suppose find it hard to come full stop

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"So many guys, hold themselves for far too long. You can tell when they genuinely cannot finish. Some take tablets for that.

Yes exactly agree to all the above

Selfish bastards. But equally selfish for the 3 stroke wonder "

Ouch....some simply cant help it and get as pissed off as you probably do because of it

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

If I am really enjoying then it’s a case of holding back but agree it’s a fine line between holding back and dry fucking ... which nobody wants

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By *iss pleasuring OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

And I question that those guys that either cant or wont come. They can have a 2 minute hand shuffle and hey presto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes exactly agree to all the above

Selfish bastards. But equally selfish for the 3 stroke wonder "

Moral of the story... Damned if you do, damned if you don't.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Who else thinks that if a guy shags like what seems forever without coming, it's a deflation to us ladies left thinking we are a crap fuck "
no.. it's very obvious if a guy is having a good time. There are many reasons why a guy cant or wont x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow if I were told I was taking too long I’d get off there and then and finish off elsewhere

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By *azpiz1Man
over a year ago

Camberley

If I think I might be a while

, then I stop, withdraw, and do something else, like oral / masturbation to keep things moving along, or change positions.

I play safe, and do find that condoms can make me last longer. A wank is more likely to have me completing sooner...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always have this chat with the lady or couple before a meet. Some ladies want you to go for as long as possible, others want an intense 5 minutes. It's all about communication and understanding.

Nothing worse than missing the mark!

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By *ock-a-doodledooMan
over a year ago

Grimsby ish

"Who else thinks that if a guy shags like what seems forever without coming, it's a deflation to us ladies left thinking we are a crap fuck "

Why don't you take the initiative and change position or if in the missionary position close your legs,he sure should cum then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I start and stop when fucking as you don't want the women to think you can't last tht long lol

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By *iss pleasuring OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

Dojt get me wrong I enjoy a good fuck as much as anyone else does .

I fuck to enjoy and reep the warm wet cone dribbling down my throat

Wouldn't have it any other way

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

I always have this chat with the lady or couple before a meet. Some ladies want you to go for as long as possible, others want an intense 5 minutes. It's all about communication and understanding.

Nothing worse than missing the mark!"

Yup, so many of these threads seem to have quite simple solutions.

Talk to each other before hand so everyone knows what the preferences are.

Obviously, mistakes/misunderstandings can still occur, but get the big issues out there so no one goes home disappointed.

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By *iss pleasuring OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

It has been like playing twister with the many positions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many guys, hold themselves for far too long. You can tell when they genuinely cannot finish. Some take tablets for that.

It’s interesting on another thread a woman posted that often she liked sex a number of times in a row and was worried men would feel inadequate if they could repeat

What some guys do is hold back, incase this will happen so they have petrol in the tank to go again

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By *iss pleasuring OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

But there is a general consensus of too long or bot long enough I suppose

Can be just as exciting to have that 3 stroke wonder quickie in the heat of the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Medication can course this. And believe me. It’s not much fun for a guy either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But there is a general consensus of too long or bot long enough I suppose

Can be just as exciting to have that 3 stroke wonder quickie in the heat of the moment "

Indeed, quickies can be tremendously exciting

But sometimes a woman wants to be tucked over and over for hours and hours and that’s good too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also fucked

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By *iss pleasuring OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

Tea breaks are good

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

"Tea breaks are good.

Who makes the tea?

That's always an issue!

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I prefer a man who can cum rather quick and a repeater.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tea breaks are good.

Who makes the tea?

That's always an issue!"

Should be based on orgasm count

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a guy it can be difficult I used to last hours without cumming then one day I came in about 30 seconds it had never happened before I felt so embarrassed for about 2 years after that if I lasted 5 minutes I was doing ok. It left me not wanting to have sex as I was embarrassed then one day it all changed again I was with a woman and went an hour I was amazed even thought for while why am I not cumming then after I'd always last a good half hour at least

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"And I question that those guys that either cant or wont come. They can have a 2 minute hand shuffle and hey presto "

Hahahaa no, no they cant.

Some might be able to but that's not for me to say either way.

Adult circumcision changes things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From myside I like to prolong me cumming but I would be alternating between sex and oral sex, using the oral sex for me to calm a little before starting again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who else thinks that if a guy shags like what seems forever without coming, it's a deflation to us ladies left thinking we are a crap fuck "

Not at all, I’ve been in this situation a few times, and normally beens I’ve done too much masterbation in the previous days

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

"Who else thinks that if a guy shags like what seems forever without coming, it's a deflation to us ladies left thinking we are a crap fuck

Not at all, I’ve been in this situation a few times, and normally beens I’ve done too much masterbation in the previous days

...or too much red wine for me!

Why I stick to gin...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

don't get guys who hold on me personally would rather he cums and enjoys and gets hard again for round 2 ...

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By *iss pleasuring OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

We are al different with different t needs and desires

I just thought I'd make sure if my fault I'm definitely not a boring fuck which leaves me wondering what the issues are

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"We are al different with different t needs and desires

I just thought I'd make sure if my fault I'm definitely not a boring fuck which leaves me wondering what the issues are "

I very much doubt it's down to you, as you said you'd been playing for hours and if he really wasnt into you then he could easily have made his excuses and left.

Some just have issues of their own and its nothing to do with who they are enjoying things with.

Both sexes can be similar and as others have made clear on here, communication is the key to everything.

Don't let it knock you and also try to understand his side too.

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By *iss pleasuring OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

As the guy I speak of is potentially gonna be my regular fb to attend clubs holidays and other such times . I might question whether I should continue as it bothers me .

Elsewhere or other play tidbit an issue with others

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

"We are al different with different t needs and desires

I just thought I'd make sure if my fault I'm definitely not a boring fuck which leaves me wondering what the issues are "

Surely it should read...." Cumming or not ??"" !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always have this chat with the lady or couple before a meet. Some ladies want you to go for as long as possible, others want an intense 5 minutes. It's all about communication and understanding.

Nothing worse than missing the mark!"

Yes!

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By *iss pleasuring OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

"We are al different with different t needs and desires

I just thought I'd make sure if my fault I'm definitely not a boring fuck which leaves me wondering what the issues are

Surely it should read...." Cumming or not ??"" !!

Upu could be right

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By *inkyandperky555Couple
over a year ago

swansea

We have had a guy around that’s goes for hours I’ve normally cum he’s still playing I get hard and cum a second time before he has cum once but my gf prefers guys to come quicker rather than keeping going and going it gets boring.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"In a way yes I agree. I like a good session however I think anything more than an hour and I get bored.

I would rather have a break in between.

That. We love really long sessions with a couple but it’s good to have regular time outs and get in the hot tub etc. Pure fucking for very long periods does get boring for guys too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who else thinks that if a guy shags like what seems forever without coming, it's a deflation to us ladies left thinking we are a crap fuck "
just you

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By *angOnBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich

Well we like to mix it up. Constant penetration gets boring after a few minutes so switching it up, positions, oral, sensual strokes etc prolong things. Oh and some gentle spanking

Not all men want to cum all the time either, sometimes it's all about the session and keeping some frustration of denial

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By *agnar1980Man
over a year ago

Poole

I actually can’t cum while wearing a condom. Never been able too. So have to take it off & either finish myself off or get the lady to do it. It’s nothing to do with wanting to or not it’s a case of I can’t. Which some don’t believe.

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

Well I'm not a performing monkey that cums on someone elses command.

I also last longer than 5 minutes.

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By *exi7000Couple
over a year ago

London

"We have had a guy around that’s goes for hours I’ve normally cum he’s still playing I get hard and cum a second time before he has cum once but my gf prefers guys to come quicker rather than keeping going and going it gets boring. "

Totally the same. I am(MRS) experienced enough to see when the guy just hold himself. I can see it in his eyes, he is just not there. Probably counting backwards from 10k. There are other stupid ones, who go to the toilet, spray themselves with a spray, then come back, and obviously as soon as I suck him, I can tell. What an idiots, never crossed his mind that I might be allergic, or that my lips will get numb? Needless to say, he get sent back to the bathroom to clean himself, an he won't get any sucking done.

I prefer the guys to enjoy themselves, if needed to finish, just do so, makes me happy, there will be always round 2 and 3 etc

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