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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What makes us CDs wish to cross dress? I've no idea but I've had the urge to wear feminine clothes since I was about 12 started off wearing my elder sister's knickers and barstools, I've tried to stop and I can't. I wonder if it is genetic. The reason I wonder is that I'm an a identical twin boy and one day while the house was empty I was looking in my sister's lingerie drawer when the house door opened and my twin started coming upstairs so quickly I had to hide under her bed and he came into the bedroom and started looking in the same drawer as I had been, then went to the bathroom, I was crapping myself. I couldn't go downstairs as the stairs creaked badly but I inched my way to our beer and lay down pretending to be asleep, after a few minutes he came out of the bedroom and went to sisters, I assume to return some knickers then came into our bedroom. He was so shocked, asking how long I'd been there etc, we never spoke about this but that day I realised my brother was the same as me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It wasn't barstools it was meant to be babydolls

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By *exyangietgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

edinburgh

Women's clothes are designed to look and feel sexy.

It feels wonderful to have satin, silk or slinky nylon against your body and then one thing leads to another make up, wig, heels etc and then wanting to experience as closley as possible what it's like having sex as a female....it's lovely! XX

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By *aimeSmithTV/TS
over a year ago

Cliss

It’s certainly an intoxicating one way journey!

I’ve had three purges but return each time with a vengeance.

I never used to fancy men, only women and TS, but now, I enjoy being fucked by men and women, and describe myself as pansexual, certainly as Lola.

However, more recently, when I’m guy mode, I notice smooth hung guys and think - yum! I don’t even really like the taste of cum much either!! Xx

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

I got fed up with asking women to dress up for me...so thought fuck it..I'll dress up myself....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, I was mesmerised by one of my mum’s friends when I was very young. I couldn’t take my eyes off her legs. I assume she was wearing tights, but it was the look of them. I wanted to know how they felt to touch, to wear. Then when I was around 10 I had the opportunity to try for myself, to put nylon stockings on my legs, to feel them and know what it was like. I love it, life’s too short to deny what you enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely genetic.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

For many its genetic after looking into it and most often when that's the case it begins from a very early age, usually before puberty kicks in so anywhere from 7ish to 13 yrs old.

There are other factions too where it begins much later in life and more often than not this is done for sexual gratification. Either as a way to not see it as being straight up gay so presenting as female makes it easier for their mind to deal with or as a way of tempting men who aren't strictly straight that it's ok because the dresser isn't presenting as male.

Yeah I know there is a lot there that looks like is generalizing and I guess it is as there are always exceptions to the rule but if you look deeply into it then you will find that it is this more often than not.

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

My journey simply began aged 14 as I was passing by the bedroom door of my best schoolmates Sister, she was fastening up her suspender clips and gave me the sexiest smile I had ever seen. I can't remember at what point in time I began thinking about it, but I did have a rather naughty urge and often wondered how it felt for a girl when she was being fucked. Somehow, the two came together. I stole her white fishnets, went down to the woods and stripped naked. Rolled on the stockings and I cum twice. So I knew this was different. Because of my fetish for stockings, this lead to me being in a position where I had my first experience with a guy. The choice was presented to me, it was my choice, but I took it. All U know is that as I was putting on her sexy basque and gstring and rolling those stockings on, my cock was so hard and my will to suck was very high. I desired it. I have no regrets

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By *urabriteMan
over a year ago

stafford

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By *eannaTV/TS
over a year ago

Cwmfelifach, nr Newport

I must admit I've been dressing since I was about 7years old, but always when I was completely alone which made things extremely difficult especially through two marriages and kids growing up, however it's been about 10 year's now that I'm now out in the open well at least at home as my partner is aware that I dress up (she took my pictures) however she doesn't know about me meeting, I'm still working on this bit as I love being dressed up in male company.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have often wondered why I dress and like some on here tried hard to stop for periods of my life, unsuccessfully.

I started aged about 12 with my step mums underwear drawer and after all this time I cannot remember what the trigger was. I just know I loved the feeling and look.

Now in my 50s and for once not in a relationship, I am able to more fully express myself.

I read with interest someone's earlier comment about what it feels like to have sex as a woman. I have only had full sex with a man once, but my whole perspective changed, to be entered, to give yourself is a completely different experience of intercourse and one I hope to try again! ??

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By *oft_SensualTV/TS
over a year ago

Yorkshire

For me, it's genetic, I'm assuming. Were I not raised in a 'strong female' household would I be any different? I doubt.

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By *enbobjimMan
over a year ago

Wallasey

It’s definitely the feel of dressing for me and the taboo I presume. I own a mirror so I know I look ridiculous but turns me on. Don’t find men attractive at all but a nice hard cock in panties or tights looks like it needs a good suck. We just need to do what makes us happy in life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stopped asking the question why a long time ago . I do what i do , because i do . Things got easier from then on in . Whether i am dressed or not im still a Transvestite , i have told every potentail partner that from the outset of my ways . And so very luckily for me , ive met a woman who loves Ruby just as much as i do . In fact Goddess loves Ruby the most .

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By *illie99TV/TS
over a year ago

Central Scotland

For me it was more curiosity. I had tried on tights and stockings before but never really thought about dressing fully as a woman. I was a man in tights just being a perv lol. Then one day I thought "what would I look like fully dressed" there was only one way to find out .

Now am hooked, and funnily its not just a sexual thing, I love my little bits of Billie time.

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By *amantha ABCTV/TS
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I'm very lucky that I have a partner who has embraced cross dressing even to the point that she buys everything I wear right down to my makeup

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By *eeshelleTV/TS
over a year ago

Marlow

I started aged 9, I thought women looked so beautiful with nothing between their legs, so I got obbsessed with hiding my cock. It all progressed from there. I was totally straight up until I was about 30 then the idea of sucking cock popped into my head, and we all know where that leads to. I went through a stage of only feeling bi in fem mode but as I've got older I must say I do find myself looking at guys now when in male mode too. All our stories seem to be quite similar I think.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

It's what I feel I should be wearing - not for others, not to be or feel sexy, not because of the material of the dress etc. Just to be myself.

Started in 2013 at the age of 42 while attending Way Out Club. For the first time in my life, I felt liberated.

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By *erriAnneTV/TS
over a year ago

The shire

I probs the same as most started out really young and just can't help myself now. I don't fancy men when in male mode but love being fucked by them when in girly mode.

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By *eeshelleTV/TS
over a year ago

Marlow


"I probs the same as most started out really young and just can't help myself now. I don't fancy men when in male mode but love being fucked by them when in girly mode. "

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By *mandajane01TV/TS
over a year ago

Ballymena

Like many started when I was very young build before the age of seven because I remember the house we lived. lstarted with cousins clothes and progressed from their mums clothes more cousins clothes and like many I’ve had a clear out so don’t ever do it again but now I’m happy with my life as Amanda Jane.

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By *atietvsheffTV/TS
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I probs the same as most started out really young and just can't help myself now. I don't fancy men when in male mode but love being fucked by them when in girly mode. "

I’m same as you Annabelle, started at 13, purged several times usually when new relationship one along, Katie hides a while but always emerges, I’ve stopped a long while ago asking why and being harsh on myself and now I just know I will dress for ever. Don’t fancy blokes at all, but when Katie I just want to be convincing and feminine enough for a bloke to show that Katie’s image is actually feminine enough and that by him achieving orgasm then Katie must look ok, these days I never dress as a tart or look slutty, I like smart, classy, I like wearing what real women wear and sometimes that means tights and opaque not the archetypal stockings and suspenders then so be it, actually out walking and no one noticing I’m not a real woman is what I’m after, so dressing down is now the new dressing up, my latest fave outfit is my new leather look leggings, ankle boots, black cowl neck jumper, everyday what everyday women wear and being like real women is what Katie is loving...... however when the mood takes stockings are still the preferred choice

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By *atindollTV/TS
over a year ago

edinburgh

A friend of my mums started me dressing in panties and tights,by the time I was 11 I was dressing fully in secret and already sucking boys and men off,I knew from a young age that I wanted to br penetrated like a girl while dressed but it took me till I was 30 to go through with it.wish I'd started earlier really.

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