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By *iker boy 69 OP   Man
over a year ago

midlands

Seen ladies with the queen of spades tattoo, and in my opininion feel its so wrong.. yes they may like black guys, but calling black guys spades is sooooo out of order. Or do black guys actually agree with it, and im being a bit too p.c

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

I thought this was about that well known Scottish football team Queen of the South.

In which case it certainly isn’t offensive.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Every day is a school day, I've seen quite a few of these too and wondered what it was for

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

I thought the Spade sign is because they deem BBC to be superior, so it isn't meant to be derogatory at all. So superior they dedicate themselves to taking sexy, juicy, big black cocks only I like that thought if I'm honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought the Spade sign is because they deem BBC to be superior, so it isn't meant to be derogatory at all. So superior they dedicate themselves to taking sexy, juicy, big black cocks only I like that thought if I'm honest "

How can 'spade' reference NOT be derogatory??? EVER??

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

QOS ? BBC? I thought this was a thread about Question of Sport & Sue Barker!

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London

Casino Royale was better

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By *xXgemmaXxXCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

These threads are pointless as some will like them some won’t and it will just go round in circles with no real answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These threads are pointless as some will like them some won’t and it will just go round in circles with no real answer "

They might be pointless to you, but to some they'll not only shed some light on something they weren't aware of, they may also start a healthy debate..wouldn't that be novel on a forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"QOS ? BBC? I thought this was a thread about Question of Sport & Sue Barker!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought the Spade sign is because they deem BBC to be superior, so it isn't meant to be derogatory at all. So superior they dedicate themselves to taking sexy, juicy, big black cocks only I like that thought if I'm honest

How can 'spade' reference NOT be derogatory??? EVER??"

In the same way "slut" isn't, supposedly, these days?

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By *iker boy 69 OP   Man
over a year ago

midlands

The way i see it is, if a guy pointed a lady out who he likes, and i said, you got no chance as she only goes with spades then quite rightly someone could chin me for being racist. Not thst i would, but theoretically. I will just call people as i always have, asian, black, oriental hispanic, and keep it at that

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By *xXgemmaXxXCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"These threads are pointless as some will like them some won’t and it will just go round in circles with no real answer

They might be pointless to you, but to some they'll not only shed some light on something they weren't aware of, they may also start a healthy debate..wouldn't that be novel on a forum."

Yeah it would but from the numerous threads started on this subject previously it doesn’t actually go anywhere everybody will have their own opinion of which they are more than entitled however as I’ve said all that will happen is people either agreeing or disagreeing with the OP there won’t be any debate

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

I doubt any women give a shit. The only people that fetishise this are their chronically underconfident white husbands.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"These threads are pointless as some will like them some won’t and it will just go round in circles with no real answer

They might be pointless to you, but to some they'll not only shed some light on something they weren't aware of, they may also start a healthy debate..wouldn't that be novel on a forum.

Yeah it would but from the numerous threads started on this subject previously it doesn’t actually go anywhere everybody will have their own opinion of which they are more than entitled however as I’ve said all that will happen is people either agreeing or disagreeing with the OP there won’t be any debate "

thats a way of trying to shut down debate before it starts....

as with most things, the irony of it is I bet it puts off as many of the very people they are trying to attract..

I cant see how "spade" can every be seen as flattering... but hey, enough men here think with their dicks and i am sure they are willing to put it aside in the pursuit of "whatever".....

me personally... my dignity will always mean more to me that any fun.....

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

If the said ladies have no verifications or photos from black dudes then it's probably because they're offended by the fetishisation of their colour, if however they do have verifications or photos, then obviously they weren't and everyone's happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seen ladies with the queen of spades tattoo, and in my opininion feel its so wrong.. yes they may like black guys, but calling black guys spades is sooooo out of order. Or do black guys actually agree with it, and im being a bit too p.c"

Subconscious or conscious racism as far as I (mr) is concerned. There are so many other shapes, letters or symbols that could be used. As you say “spade” is a racist term and the queen makes the white woman more superior than the male they are using for their sexual gratification.

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By *xXgemmaXxXCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"These threads are pointless as some will like them some won’t and it will just go round in circles with no real answer

They might be pointless to you, but to some they'll not only shed some light on something they weren't aware of, they may also start a healthy debate..wouldn't that be novel on a forum.

Yeah it would but from the numerous threads started on this subject previously it doesn’t actually go anywhere everybody will have their own opinion of which they are more than entitled however as I’ve said all that will happen is people either agreeing or disagreeing with the OP there won’t be any debate

thats a way of trying to shut down debate before it starts....

as with most things, the irony of it is I bet it puts off as many of the very people they are trying to attract..

I cant see how "spade" can every be seen as flattering... but hey, enough men here think with their dicks and i am sure they are willing to put it aside in the pursuit of "whatever".....

me personally... my dignity will always mean more to me that any fun....."

I’m in no way attempting to shut down debate merely pointing out that from the numerous threads started which touch on this issue nothing is ever really “debated” rather it’s just people who either agree, disagree or get offended on others behalf which is fair enough but to me (my own personal opinion) it seems pointless

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By *xXgemmaXxXCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"If the said ladies have no verifications or photos from black dudes then it's probably because they're offended by the fetishisation of their colour, if however they do have verifications or photos, then obviously they weren't and everyone's happy "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These threads are pointless as some will like them some won’t and it will just go round in circles with no real answer

They might be pointless to you, but to some they'll not only shed some light on something they weren't aware of, they may also start a healthy debate..wouldn't that be novel on a forum.

Yeah it would but from the numerous threads started on this subject previously it doesn’t actually go anywhere everybody will have their own opinion of which they are more than entitled however as I’ve said all that will happen is people either agreeing or disagreeing with the OP there won’t be any debate

thats a way of trying to shut down debate before it starts....

as with most things, the irony of it is I bet it puts off as many of the very people they are trying to attract..

I cant see how "spade" can every be seen as flattering... but hey, enough men here think with their dicks and i am sure they are willing to put it aside in the pursuit of "whatever".....

me personally... my dignity will always mean more to me that any fun....."

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Seen ladies with the queen of spades tattoo, and in my opininion feel its so wrong.. yes they may like black guys, but calling black guys spades is sooooo out of order. Or do black guys actually agree with it, and im being a bit too p.c"

is that the only reason women have this tatoo??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seen ladies with the queen of spades tattoo, and in my opininion feel its so wrong.. yes they may like black guys, but calling black guys spades is sooooo out of order. Or do black guys actually agree with it, and im being a bit too p.c

is that the only reason women have this tatoo?? "

Not sure...maybe they're avid gardeners, doubtful...but possible

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"These threads are pointless as some will like them some won’t and it will just go round in circles with no real answer

They might be pointless to you, but to some they'll not only shed some light on something they weren't aware of, they may also start a healthy debate..wouldn't that be novel on a forum.

Yeah it would but from the numerous threads started on this subject previously it doesn’t actually go anywhere everybody will have their own opinion of which they are more than entitled however as I’ve said all that will happen is people either agreeing or disagreeing with the OP there won’t be any debate

thats a way of trying to shut down debate before it starts....

as with most things, the irony of it is I bet it puts off as many of the very people they are trying to attract..

I cant see how "spade" can every be seen as flattering... but hey, enough men here think with their dicks and i am sure they are willing to put it aside in the pursuit of "whatever".....

me personally... my dignity will always mean more to me that any fun....."

I knew this was you before I scrolled back to check. We need an applause emoji

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Qos= queen of std’s

Usually stay away from qos women!

They tend to have attitudes and not very good personalities!

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By *ldhillhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Old Hill

I have two QoS symbols tattooed onto me. I have a fair amount of experience and have never had a negative reaction from a bull.

It marks my choice in men and certainly doesn't indicate that I am or feel superior, totally the opposite... That I sexually serve black guys and only them.

Probably don't mix with black guys that feel fetishism of their bodies is acceptable, so perhaps limits my experience of reaction and perceptions.

Sx

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

point really comes down to this...

if anyone called any black person a "spade" i don't think the reaction from anyone would be....

well.... thank you!

so why would people be flattered by seeing a "queen of spades" tattoo...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have two QoS symbols tattooed onto me. I have a fair amount of experience and have never had a negative reaction from a bull.

It marks my choice in men and certainly doesn't indicate that I am or feel superior, totally the opposite... That I sexually serve black guys and only them.

Probably don't mix with black guys that feel fetishism of their bodies is acceptable, so perhaps limits my experience of reaction and perceptions.

Sx"

I'm not sure you totally understand the issue surrounding the tattoo...it's not really anything to do with serving people or fetishism of the body, the problem some (including myself) is the highly insulting and vile reference to the word spade, and the colonial power trip of linking that to the word "queen"??

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By *taffs_hotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Casino Royale was better"

One for us geeks.

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By *ldhillhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Old Hill


"I have two QoS symbols tattooed onto me. I have a fair amount of experience and have never had a negative reaction from a bull.

It marks my choice in men and certainly doesn't indicate that I am or feel superior, totally the opposite... That I sexually serve black guys and only them.

Probably don't mix with black guys that feel fetishism of their bodies is acceptable, so perhaps limits my experience of reaction and perceptions.

Sx

I'm not sure you totally understand the issue surrounding the tattoo...it's not really anything to do with serving people or fetishism of the body, the problem some (including myself) is the highly insulting and vile reference to the word spade, and the colonial power trip of linking that to the word "queen"??"

Well, that not my connotation and assumption... that's yours.

Sx

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By *angbangFantasyWoman
over a year ago

London


"I have two QoS symbols tattooed onto me. I have a fair amount of experience and have never had a negative reaction from a bull.

It marks my choice in men and certainly doesn't indicate that I am or feel superior, totally the opposite... That I sexually serve black guys and only them.

Probably don't mix with black guys that feel fetishism of their bodies is acceptable, so perhaps limits my experience of reaction and perceptions.

Sx

I'm not sure you totally understand the issue surrounding the tattoo...it's not really anything to do with serving people or fetishism of the body, the problem some (including myself) is the highly insulting and vile reference to the word spade, and the colonial power trip of linking that to the word "queen"??

Well, that not my connotation and assumption... that's yours.

Sx"

And that's your ignorance right there...

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London


"I have two QoS symbols tattooed onto me. I have a fair amount of experience and have never had a negative reaction from a bull.

It marks my choice in men and certainly doesn't indicate that I am or feel superior, totally the opposite... That I sexually serve black guys and only them.

Probably don't mix with black guys that feel fetishism of their bodies is acceptable, so perhaps limits my experience of reaction and perceptions.

Sx

I'm not sure you totally understand the issue surrounding the tattoo...it's not really anything to do with serving people or fetishism of the body, the problem some (including myself) is the highly insulting and vile reference to the word spade, and the colonial power trip of linking that to the word "queen"??

Well, that not my connotation and assumption... that's yours.

Sx

And that's your ignorance right there... "

....and your own ignorance too on the subject matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have two QoS symbols tattooed onto me. I have a fair amount of experience and have never had a negative reaction from a bull.

It marks my choice in men and certainly doesn't indicate that I am or feel superior, totally the opposite... That I sexually serve black guys and only them.

Probably don't mix with black guys that feel fetishism of their bodies is acceptable, so perhaps limits my experience of reaction and perceptions.

Sx

I'm not sure you totally understand the issue surrounding the tattoo...it's not really anything to do with serving people or fetishism of the body, the problem some (including myself) is the highly insulting and vile reference to the word spade, and the colonial power trip of linking that to the word "queen"??

Well, that not my connotation and assumption... that's yours.

Sx

And that's your ignorance right there...

....and your own ignorance too on the subject matter. "

How is it their ignorance on the subject matter? If you read higher they explain their opinion.

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By *ot kevinMan
over a year ago

Suffolk / Essex border

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum


"I thought this was about that well known Scottish football team Queen of the South.

In which case it certainly isn’t offensive. "

I don’t know, have you seen them play?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought this was about that well known Scottish football team Queen of the South.

In which case it certainly isn’t offensive.

I don’t know, have you seen them play? "

Queens aren't so bad. It's Stranraer that are the real footballing dross in SW Scotland.

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum


"I thought this was about that well known Scottish football team Queen of the South.

In which case it certainly isn’t offensive.

I don’t know, have you seen them play?

Queens aren't so bad. It's Stranraer that are the real footballing dross in SW Scotland."

That’s told me! Thank you, I shall hold off on the tattoo for now then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have two QoS symbols tattooed onto me. I have a fair amount of experience and have never had a negative reaction from a bull.

It marks my choice in men and certainly doesn't indicate that I am or feel superior, totally the opposite... That I sexually serve black guys and only them.

Probably don't mix with black guys that feel fetishism of their bodies is acceptable, so perhaps limits my experience of reaction and perceptions.

Sx

I'm not sure you totally understand the issue surrounding the tattoo...it's not really anything to do with serving people or fetishism of the body, the problem some (including myself) is the highly insulting and vile reference to the word spade, and the colonial power trip of linking that to the word "queen"??

Well, that not my connotation and assumption... that's yours.

Sx

And that's your ignorance right there...

....and your own ignorance too on the subject matter. "

Please explain how the subject matter isn't racist then as I must be a bit ignorant too..or try and research the word spade in relation to this subject matter and see how you feel.

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