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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Slight rant

Why ask for a face pic when you’re not posting one upfront too?

Does to people without a face pic just not talk?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

blows my mind that people use this site without any photos at all. Many people find it half enough to meet people with decent pictures on here. I’m not gonna give my number out to chat to somebody til I’ve seen what they look like and if they’re not willing to have a pic on here then... tough titties

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"blows my mind that people use this site without any photos at all. Many people find it half enough to meet people with decent pictures on here. I’m not gonna give my number out to chat to somebody til I’ve seen what they look like and if they’re not willing to have a pic on here then... tough titties "

I completely agree, the cheeky photos grab attention but if you expect a face pic as a standard it really should be you that’s putting it out there first. Only if your interested though...

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

If I message someone first I will send a face pic. I'm not interested in chatting to anyone who won't show me their face pic for the simple reason if I don't fancy them I won't be interested in meeting them regardless of if they have the best personality ever! Odd I know but physical attraction is priority for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I message someone first I will send a face pic. I'm not interested in chatting to anyone who won't show me their face pic for the simple reason if I don't fancy them I won't be interested in meeting them regardless of if they have the best personality ever! Odd I know but physical attraction is priority for me "

And that’s why we’re all here right?

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"If I message someone first I will send a face pic. I'm not interested in chatting to anyone who won't show me their face pic for the simple reason if I don't fancy them I won't be interested in meeting them regardless of if they have the best personality ever! Odd I know but physical attraction is priority for me

And that’s why we’re all here right? "

So what's your issue ? If someone is asking for a face pic on a first message and you don't like it , don't message. It really is that simple!

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By *erry bull1Man
over a year ago

doncaster

I just love people with just a silhouette as profile pic and no pics on their profile , asking for pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I message someone first I will send a face pic. I'm not interested in chatting to anyone who won't show me their face pic for the simple reason if I don't fancy them I won't be interested in meeting them regardless of if they have the best personality ever! Odd I know but physical attraction is priority for me

And that’s why we’re all here right?

So what's your issue ? If someone is asking for a face pic on a first message and you don't like it , don't message. It really is that simple! "

Because it’s usually followed up by a point of mental stimulation, or emotional connection. Which comes regardless of a face pic. I think there’s a slight arrogance with having terms on which to even message someone.

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By *hocCock1Man
over a year ago

Southampton

Ive sent mine on request...it has led to meets and it has led to a polite sorry not my type

You can always delete it from the message after

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just love people with just a silhouette as profile pic and no pics on their profile , asking for pics "

Straight up catfish....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ive sent mine on request...it has led to meets and it has led to a polite sorry not my type

You can always delete it from the message after "

Do you think it’s a make or break thing though?

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By *onkeyandBonesCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire


"If I message someone first I will send a face pic. I'm not interested in chatting to anyone who won't show me their face pic for the simple reason if I don't fancy them I won't be interested in meeting them regardless of if they have the best personality ever! Odd I know but physical attraction is priority for me "

We couldnt have said it better.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"If I message someone first I will send a face pic. I'm not interested in chatting to anyone who won't show me their face pic for the simple reason if I don't fancy them I won't be interested in meeting them regardless of if they have the best personality ever! Odd I know but physical attraction is priority for me

And that’s why we’re all here right?

So what's your issue ? If someone is asking for a face pic on a first message and you don't like it , don't message. It really is that simple!

Because it’s usually followed up by a point of mental stimulation, or emotional connection. Which comes regardless of a face pic. I think there’s a slight arrogance with having terms on which to even message someone.

"

I'd say you're worrying to much how others want to run their profile.

From my point of view I ask for a face pic to save time for everyone. Nothing worse than hitting it off with someone to the realise there is absolutely no physical attraction at all and then having to explain that and get a mouthful of abuse

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I message someone first I will send a face pic. I'm not interested in chatting to anyone who won't show me their face pic for the simple reason if I don't fancy them I won't be interested in meeting them regardless of if they have the best personality ever! Odd I know but physical attraction is priority for me

And that’s why we’re all here right?

So what's your issue ? If someone is asking for a face pic on a first message and you don't like it , don't message. It really is that simple!

Because it’s usually followed up by a point of mental stimulation, or emotional connection. Which comes regardless of a face pic. I think there’s a slight arrogance with having terms on which to even message someone.

I'd say you're worrying to much how others want to run their profile.

From my point of view I ask for a face pic to save time for everyone. Nothing worse than hitting it off with someone to the realise there is absolutely no physical attraction at all and then having to explain that and get a mouthful of abuse "

I mean the abuse is a whole different issue for this site!!

I’m not worrying, just thought it would be an interesting discussion. Haven’t been on this site for a long while, verifications have since deleted their profiles that long! Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There really should be a FAQ section on fab.

Q: As a male why do I always have to send a face picture first to women I want to shag.

A: Check your inbox....yup...not exactly busting at the seams is it. Now check a female who joined 2 minutes ago - 897 messages and counting,all offering sex, money, face/dick pics galore etc.

Do the math.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont have a photo of myself as a profile picture but I have a body pic anyone can look at, i also send face pics when I message anyone. I dont seem to have much look at all tho hahaha I'm pretty new to this world see so I'm not sure which way I should act haha. You folk seem to know what our doing tho, any advice thrown my way would be much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There really should be a FAQ section on fab.

Q: As a male why do I always have to send a face picture first to women I want to shag.

A: Check your inbox....yup...not exactly busting at the seams is it. Now check a female who joined 2 minutes ago - 897 messages and counting,all offering sex, money, face/dick pics galore etc.

Do the math.

"

So a face pic is your USP?

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I’ve always had one on my profile

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"If I message someone first I will send a face pic. I'm not interested in chatting to anyone who won't show me their face pic for the simple reason if I don't fancy them I won't be interested in meeting them regardless of if they have the best personality ever! Odd I know but physical attraction is priority for me

And that’s why we’re all here right?

So what's your issue ? If someone is asking for a face pic on a first message and you don't like it , don't message. It really is that simple!

Because it’s usually followed up by a point of mental stimulation, or emotional connection. Which comes regardless of a face pic. I think there’s a slight arrogance with having terms on which to even message someone.

I'd say you're worrying to much how others want to run their profile.

From my point of view I ask for a face pic to save time for everyone. Nothing worse than hitting it off with someone to the realise there is absolutely no physical attraction at all and then having to explain that and get a mouthful of abuse

I mean the abuse is a whole different issue for this site!!

I’m not worrying, just thought it would be an interesting discussion. Haven’t been on this site for a long while, verifications have since deleted their profiles that long! Hahaha "

You don't have the green tick which says you've never been verified by meet

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

Some people aren't comfortable being identified as being on a swingers site, i can understand why they don't have a face pic up.

If they're female they likely get a lot of messages and so want to choose who they chat back to, and i think they'd send a pic back as soon as they get talking.

I don't think it's hypocritical to ask for a pic without having their own. Public pics and messages are different, one is public and the other private.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I message someone first I will send a face pic. I'm not interested in chatting to anyone who won't show me their face pic for the simple reason if I don't fancy them I won't be interested in meeting them regardless of if they have the best personality ever! Odd I know but physical attraction is priority for me

And that’s why we’re all here right?

So what's your issue ? If someone is asking for a face pic on a first message and you don't like it , don't message. It really is that simple!

Because it’s usually followed up by a point of mental stimulation, or emotional connection. Which comes regardless of a face pic. I think there’s a slight arrogance with having terms on which to even message someone.

I'd say you're worrying to much how others want to run their profile.

From my point of view I ask for a face pic to save time for everyone. Nothing worse than hitting it off with someone to the realise there is absolutely no physical attraction at all and then having to explain that and get a mouthful of abuse

I mean the abuse is a whole different issue for this site!!

I’m not worrying, just thought it would be an interesting discussion. Haven’t been on this site for a long while, verifications have since deleted their profiles that long! Hahaha

You don't have the green tick which says you've never been verified by meet "

Side note for this- quick message to support said that it disappears if you don’t have a verification by an active profile.... pretty annoying

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Slight rant

Why ask for a face pic when you’re not posting one upfront too?

Does to people without a face pic just not talk? "

Man expecting too much sigh

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"If I message someone first I will send a face pic. I'm not interested in chatting to anyone who won't show me their face pic for the simple reason if I don't fancy them I won't be interested in meeting them regardless of if they have the best personality ever! Odd I know but physical attraction is priority for me

And that’s why we’re all here right?

So what's your issue ? If someone is asking for a face pic on a first message and you don't like it , don't message. It really is that simple!

Because it’s usually followed up by a point of mental stimulation, or emotional connection. Which comes regardless of a face pic. I think there’s a slight arrogance with having terms on which to even message someone.

I'd say you're worrying to much how others want to run their profile.

From my point of view I ask for a face pic to save time for everyone. Nothing worse than hitting it off with someone to the realise there is absolutely no physical attraction at all and then having to explain that and get a mouthful of abuse

I mean the abuse is a whole different issue for this site!!

I’m not worrying, just thought it would be an interesting discussion. Haven’t been on this site for a long while, verifications have since deleted their profiles that long! Hahaha

You don't have the green tick which says you've never been verified by meet

Side note for this- quick message to support said that it disappears if you don’t have a verification by an active profile.... pretty annoying "

That certainly isn't right. The verifications themselves go when people leave however the green tick and verification summary will never be changed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I message someone first I will send a face pic. I'm not interested in chatting to anyone who won't show me their face pic for the simple reason if I don't fancy them I won't be interested in meeting them regardless of if they have the best personality ever! Odd I know but physical attraction is priority for me

And that’s why we’re all here right?

So what's your issue ? If someone is asking for a face pic on a first message and you don't like it , don't message. It really is that simple!

Because it’s usually followed up by a point of mental stimulation, or emotional connection. Which comes regardless of a face pic. I think there’s a slight arrogance with having terms on which to even message someone.

I'd say you're worrying to much how others want to run their profile.

From my point of view I ask for a face pic to save time for everyone. Nothing worse than hitting it off with someone to the realise there is absolutely no physical attraction at all and then having to explain that and get a mouthful of abuse

I mean the abuse is a whole different issue for this site!!

I’m not worrying, just thought it would be an interesting discussion. Haven’t been on this site for a long while, verifications have since deleted their profiles that long! Hahaha

You don't have the green tick which says you've never been verified by meet

Side note for this- quick message to support said that it disappears if you don’t have a verification by an active profile.... pretty annoying

That certainly isn't right. The verifications themselves go when people leave however the green tick and verification summary will never be changed "

And when all the verifications are gone?

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"If I message someone first I will send a face pic. I'm not interested in chatting to anyone who won't show me their face pic for the simple reason if I don't fancy them I won't be interested in meeting them regardless of if they have the best personality ever! Odd I know but physical attraction is priority for me

And that’s why we’re all here right?

So what's your issue ? If someone is asking for a face pic on a first message and you don't like it , don't message. It really is that simple!

Because it’s usually followed up by a point of mental stimulation, or emotional connection. Which comes regardless of a face pic. I think there’s a slight arrogance with having terms on which to even message someone.

I'd say you're worrying to much how others want to run their profile.

From my point of view I ask for a face pic to save time for everyone. Nothing worse than hitting it off with someone to the realise there is absolutely no physical attraction at all and then having to explain that and get a mouthful of abuse

I mean the abuse is a whole different issue for this site!!

I’m not worrying, just thought it would be an interesting discussion. Haven’t been on this site for a long while, verifications have since deleted their profiles that long! Hahaha

You don't have the green tick which says you've never been verified by meet

Side note for this- quick message to support said that it disappears if you don’t have a verification by an active profile.... pretty annoying

That certainly isn't right. The verifications themselves go when people leave however the green tick and verification summary will never be changed

And when all the verifications are gone? "

It will still show the green tick and verification summary ! Just no wording to display !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I message someone first I will send a face pic. I'm not interested in chatting to anyone who won't show me their face pic for the simple reason if I don't fancy them I won't be interested in meeting them regardless of if they have the best personality ever! Odd I know but physical attraction is priority for me

And that’s why we’re all here right?

So what's your issue ? If someone is asking for a face pic on a first message and you don't like it , don't message. It really is that simple!

Because it’s usually followed up by a point of mental stimulation, or emotional connection. Which comes regardless of a face pic. I think there’s a slight arrogance with having terms on which to even message someone.

I'd say you're worrying to much how others want to run their profile.

From my point of view I ask for a face pic to save time for everyone. Nothing worse than hitting it off with someone to the realise there is absolutely no physical attraction at all and then having to explain that and get a mouthful of abuse

I mean the abuse is a whole different issue for this site!!

I’m not worrying, just thought it would be an interesting discussion. Haven’t been on this site for a long while, verifications have since deleted their profiles that long! Hahaha

You don't have the green tick which says you've never been verified by meet

Side note for this- quick message to support said that it disappears if you don’t have a verification by an active profile.... pretty annoying

That certainly isn't right. The verifications themselves go when people leave however the green tick and verification summary will never be changed

And when all the verifications are gone?

It will still show the green tick and verification summary ! Just no wording to display !"

Are you part of the support team? Maybe you could look into it properly for me?

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Slight rant

Why ask for a face pic when you’re not posting one upfront too?

Does to people without a face pic just not talk? "

If someone sends me one and they are my type I'll send one back.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"If I message someone first I will send a face pic. I'm not interested in chatting to anyone who won't show me their face pic for the simple reason if I don't fancy them I won't be interested in meeting them regardless of if they have the best personality ever! Odd I know but physical attraction is priority for me

And that’s why we’re all here right?

So what's your issue ? If someone is asking for a face pic on a first message and you don't like it , don't message. It really is that simple!

Because it’s usually followed up by a point of mental stimulation, or emotional connection. Which comes regardless of a face pic. I think there’s a slight arrogance with having terms on which to even message someone.

I'd say you're worrying to much how others want to run their profile.

From my point of view I ask for a face pic to save time for everyone. Nothing worse than hitting it off with someone to the realise there is absolutely no physical attraction at all and then having to explain that and get a mouthful of abuse

I mean the abuse is a whole different issue for this site!!

I’m not worrying, just thought it would be an interesting discussion. Haven’t been on this site for a long while, verifications have since deleted their profiles that long! Hahaha

You don't have the green tick which says you've never been verified by meet

Side note for this- quick message to support said that it disappears if you don’t have a verification by an active profile.... pretty annoying

That certainly isn't right. The verifications themselves go when people leave however the green tick and verification summary will never be changed

And when all the verifications are gone?

It will still show the green tick and verification summary ! Just no wording to display !

Are you part of the support team? Maybe you could look into it properly for me? "

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By *ARcouple19Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle

We will happily send a face pic once we have talked for a while and got to know people a bit, which it stipulates on our profile, but people are ruthless demanding them in every message. If we wanted everyone to know who we are we would put a public pic. I supose attraction is a big part of doing this but so is privacy for sum.

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