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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

After a broken nights sleep and feeling like crap with aches and a temperature. I've decided to call in sick.

Why do I feel so guilty in doing it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is strange that sometimes we feel bad for calling in sick, when we are sick.

But if you have something on, a lot of people call in sick without any issue

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Last company I got proper moaned at for calling in sick. Messages most of each day asking if I was coming back in etc.

Phoned in sick at new place, boss said yeah there’s a bug going round probably best to not pass it on. Just phone when you feel better.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I have really supportive management and I get full pay when of sick. They I know work hard and don't kick the arse out it but still I feel bad for doing it.

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

I once dragged myself into work on crutches in agony offered to do 4 hrs a day was handed a disipliery letter for being sick 3 times in 1 year

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't know why people feel guilty for no reason. I think it might be that some people have a sense of responsibility that has gone one step too far.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I started working when i was 16 and probably had around only 14days off sick since then. I seldom get ill but if i do it usually falls on my days off.

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By *rightonfranceMan
over a year ago

brighton - chalais france

hope its not some fancy asian flu you have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being self employed, I always try and go in if I can, to avoid loss of wages.

However, balance this with not wanting to pass on any germs to my colleagues.

Thankfully, I can work from home in my current role, which is exactly what I'm doing today - being reasonably productive, earning, and not subjecting the entire office to my hacking cough. Wins all round.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Employers who don’t care if you’re ill, shouldn’t make you feel guilty within yourself. In my experience there are no jobs which will cause a downfall of a company if one employee takes the day off.

As others have said most employers won’t give you a pat on the back on for sacrificing yourself.

Got to take care of yourself because no one else will!

For me I know it’s better for everyone if I take 3 days off, get better and go back to work. Rather than dragging myself in and staying ill for a few weeks.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I had to have six months off work once. I didn't feel guilty for one day of it. I couldn't help it and I hadn't done anything wrong.

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