FabSwingers.com forum: Couples Where Male Uses Female As Bait!

By *ptimusD OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

I've increasingly been coming across couples where the female is used as bait to attract single guys to satisfy the male's secret desires.

Does this sound familiar to anyone? You can fuck my wife or girlfriend and use her in any way you like as long as you let me suck your cock; or you fuck me up my arse; or you fuck her bareback, fill her up with cum and then lead me on all fours by my collar & force my face on her dripping pussy so I can clean her up.

As these couples have glowing verifications from satisfied single guys, it will be a no brainer to work out that they must have accepted their conditions before the meet.

And reading these guys' profiles and seeing what they strenuously say they never do, one can't help but be amused at the hypocrisy.

I'm all for adults doing what they want with whomever they want, but doing what you find objectionable just for a shag is quite sad.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

If it isn't affecting you why worry, if they're all happy what has it got to do with any one else? They're all consenting adults, and all get out of the meetings what they want. Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm all for adults doing what they want with whomever they want, but doing what you find objectionable just for a shag is quite sad."

What is even more peturbing is the use of phrases like 'if you won't do it, then there's plenty that will...'. In a fair few instances I'm glad there is!

Wolf

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By *ptimusD OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"If it isn't affecting you why worry, if they're all happy what has it got to do with any one else? They're all consenting adults, and all get out of the meetings what they want. Z"

True, adults can do what they want as I said earlier. But if for example you clearly state on your profile that you don't want bi or gay guys contacting you and that you only do safe sex, but then compromise on those when you're offered a girl to do with as you please, it says a lot about the person though, doesn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I think the saving grace is that you find these thing out before you meet and then at least you've got the option to say no thank you thats not what im into at all

Well id hope you do

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"If it isn't affecting you why worry, if they're all happy what has it got to do with any one else? They're all consenting adults, and all get out of the meetings what they want. Z

Just remember... both sides can compromise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that not just another way of saying . here is my fantasy . can you help

either you can

or don't want to

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By *ptimusD OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Is that not just another way of saying . here is my fantasy . can you help

either you can

or don't want to

I suppose you're right

But when you get in touch with someone based on what they say they want on their profile, and then get told there's another condition which they haven't stated on their profile that must be met, you can't help but think they're being a bit sneaky with what they're really after

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

and it may also be her fantasy too, but he is the half of the couple who does all the contacting...

a lot of couples do this.

as to the bareback and bi side of things; well it sounds as though they set their stall out pretty early in the communications so you have the option of saying thanks for the invite but thats not for me. surely its always better to know these things upfront so you can make an informed choice instead of having awkward conversations when naked...

or do i detect a little bit of sour grapes that a fit couple has contacted you and you don't simply get to shag the missus and then leave...

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By *ptimusD OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"or do i detect a little bit of sour grapes that a fit couple has contacted you and you don't simply get to shag the missus and then leave...

Not quite! More of an annoyance than sour grapes because all wasn't as it seemed from what was stated on their profile.

Fair dos, they say what they're really after before any commitment is made, but one is entitled to be a bit displeased by the initial deception.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's hundreds of bi guys out there... why on earth would anyone possibly need to use a female as bait?!?!?

As the female half of a bi couple I can quite categorically state that no-one that we have shagged has ever done anything they find objectionable just to shag me. That ridiculous!!!!

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By *oupleup4funCouple
over a year ago

Ashton

Another reason we don't meet single males lol Jackie.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A strange way of looking at things but if you follow this to the conclusion is every couple with more pictures of a woman using them as bait? I sincerely hope that's not the case but you could argue it was.

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By *ptimusD OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Another reason we don't meet single males lol Jackie....."

????????

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

If it happens and we have never used that tactic or heard of it happening, then it serves the generic single guys right for the "any holes a goal" attitude! Again IF it happens, it can only happen with the collusion of the single guys concerned! If they are willing to do that just to get their cock wet, they deserve all they get!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You mean some single men will sometimes do things they wouldn't ordinarily do in order to get a shag??

Quelle Surprise!

It happens in pubs and clubs at closing time every weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It happens in pubs and clubs at closing time every weekend"

how very true lol...im str8 and chris is bi....and we never use this tactic... sorry but sounds like sour grapes to me. we all have diff needs desires and fantasys.... your in danger of being declared a homophobe... chels

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

i use kevs cock as bait...all the best guys are bi

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"If it isn't affecting you why worry, if they're all happy what has it got to do with any one else? They're all consenting adults, and all get out of the meetings what they want. Z

Surely everyone has a choice and they were not forced.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahh, so actually, this isn't an issue with couples; but rather that single guy's are engaging with a couple who list practices which said single male has stated on his own profile that he will not do?

Oh, yeah. Happens all the time.

Funny thing is, its not just single males - anyone regardless of who they are are capable of saying one thing and doing another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people are using their wives as bait I'm obviously swimming in the wrong end of the pond. I'm having trouble being hooked by anyone devious or otherwise. If you suspect anyone of this foul practice point them in my direct so they can hook me, land me and then I can judge for myself

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Ah I get it now after reading all the thread.

I would say, people contact each other, they have checked out each others profile and it seems like a match....they then have a chat and say what each other want out of a meet, one party says "thats not for me" and they don't mail each other about a meet anymore as they now don't match.

Job done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Using the female as bait? Hmm..look at our avatar. If we changed it to one of him do you think we would get more mail on here? or less? I know which one my money's on

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

"Using the female as bait? Hmm..look at our avatar. If we changed it to one of him do you think we would get more mail on here? or less? I know which one my money's on"

I refuse to look at your Avitar! I think it is slowly killing me.. Every time I look, Rigor Mortis starts and I have to stop looking before it spreads!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Using the female as bait? Hmm..look at our avatar. If we changed it to one of him do you think we would get more mail on here? or less? I know which one my money's on"

And we agree with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's hundreds of bi guys out there... why on earth would anyone possibly need to use a female as bait?!?!?

Perharps it's because their kink is to suck a straight guy's cock and not a gay man's cock. There are people like that you know.

I think most of you are missing the point, especially those who are suspecting sour grapes.

If a couple who says they're straight on their profile gets contacted by a straight male, and then they tell the bloke that he can do whatever he likes with the girl, but only if he lets her partner suck his cock.

That sounds underhanded to me, because they're saying "we know you wouldn't ordinarily let a guy suck your cock because you're not gay or bi, but the hubby gets off on this and will like to suck your cock, and as a reward you can use the wife in any way you want later.

If a guy wants to suck cock, there are loads of bi or gay guys out there that he can find. But if he asks to suck a straight guy's cock and offers the wife as a reward afterwards, then that sounds like a bait to me because for those straight guys who oblige, they wouldn't do so if they weren't getting something at the end of it.

And in this case a girl who they can do anything to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i use kevs cock as bait...all the best guys are bi

lmfao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's hundreds of bi guys out there... why on earth would anyone possibly need to use a female as bait?!?!?

As the female half of a bi couple I can quite categorically state that no-one that we have shagged has ever done anything they find objectionable just to shag me. That ridiculous!!!!"

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"There's hundreds of bi guys out there... why on earth would anyone possibly need to use a female as bait?!?!?

Perharps it's because their kink is to suck a straight guy's cock and not a gay man's cock. There are people like that you know.

I think most of you are missing the point, especially those who are suspecting sour grapes.

And in this case a girl who they can do anything to."

but look at it the other way around; a couple contacts you and the male is the hottest man you've ever seen. but to shag him you'd have to lick his wife out first.

now i'm straight, i've tried girls and though i am happy to receive in group situations i won't be doing any muff diving no matter how tempting the reward.

i refuse to think that lots of men on here would do anything just to get a woman to shag. any that will are suppressing bi tendancies - if you're completely straight then looking down to see a mans head there would kill your erection.

at least these couples make it clear from very early on what they want and so the decision can be made to say yes or no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have had messages of couples when you finaly get down to the nitty gritty the male has not told the female he is on here. the subtle clue is when he askes you to meet in a bar and chat her up lol

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

It's not just couples. I've had a few messages off guys with nice, straight forward profiles then, after chatting for a while they start bringing up things they want to do. Do I like anal, can they bring a girlfriend, can we have sex outside etc etc ad nauseum.

First of all, these things should be on their profile, but also I have never planned a meet in minute detail. At the very least it's going to involve a drink and chat, and may even involve taking our clothes off. But planning out meets in minute details like these people seem to want is a complete turn off to me. Making sure someone wants a similar type of evening to you is fine, but choreographing it to the minute is a bit worrying for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i personally would turn them down! a guy sucking my cock would do nothing for me and would probably put me off fucking his missus anyway!

im straight, which is just another name for being heterosexual! which means i only go with the opp sex!

bisexuals go with either sex! if a guy wants to suck cock, he is bisexual!

the new one 'asexual' doesnt know what the feck they want! but they know they want it NOW!

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By *ptimusD OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

I think quite a few people here are confusing the issue.

Consenting adults can do whatever they want with whomever they want, no matter how pervy or weird. What I find peculiar is consenting to a sexual act that you do not enjoy and one that you may have already said you find revolting, because there is going to be a totally obliging pussy at the end of it.

And for those who think people don't do this, you're very mistaken. There are many people out there who only get off on giving a straight guy a blowjob, even though they know there are lots of gay guys out there that will be happy to be blown off.

This has also got nothing to do with swingers finding out if they're compatible with each other or not.

This is because one party has deliberately set out to attract people who on the face of it will not be interested in what they're secretly after.

What they get off on, is turning these people round with the offer of a reward. Now I'm sure most people will stick two fingers up at anyone who tries to get them to do what they're not into.., but believe it or not, there are people who will endure a sexual act they find revolting because they get to fuck someone they believe they wouldn't be able to otherwise. It is people like these I find odd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've increasingly been coming across couples where the female is used as bait to attract single guys to satisfy the male's secret desires.

Does this sound familiar to anyone? "

It does occur : and yes it is VERY horny for some single guys (me included)

As regards the guys 'secret' desires, they can't be that secret if he involves his wife or partner.

It's the ones that don't involve their wife or partner that are the sneaky sods - and there's plenty of them about

too.

There are a lot of single guys with 'secret' desires too - and they are attractive to both couples and the bi/gay singles on here too - not to mention a good deal of ladies.

If it's not for you, leave them to their 'secrets' and look for those who more in your preferred mould.

No matter of highlighting it is going to change anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've increasingly been coming across couples where the female is used as bait to attract single guys to satisfy the male's secret desires.

As these couples have glowing verifications from satisfied single guys, it will be a no brainer to work out that they must have accepted their conditions before the meet.

And reading these guys' profiles and seeing what they strenuously say they never do, one can't help but be amused at the hypocrisy.

I'm all for adults doing what they want with whomever they want, but doing what you find objectionable just for a shag is quite sad."

aye but they don't wanna get married do they?

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By *1dKingColeMan
over a year ago

east london

Hmm....

So if I saw a couple 6 months ago, played, had a good time, left good feedback, and they changed their profile to say bi guys only, would that make me bi?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is that not just another way of saying . here is my fantasy . can you help

either you can

or don't want to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A strange way of looking at things but if you follow this to the conclusion is every couple with more pictures of a woman using them as bait? I sincerely hope that's not the case but you could argue it was. "

Including single men with pics of women sucking their cock or being fucked.

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