FabSwingers.com forum: New life wanted

By *hyButK1nky OP Man
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Strange one I know but I find myself in a position of having nothing to stop me.

I would love the opportunity to go anywhere and start fresh or a few eeks/months away.

Just seeing what response or help there is and I'm very open minded so don't hesitate to message me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was listening to a podcast at about how to change yourself and life to drop out! Absolutely fascinating tbh just go for it!

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By *hyButK1nky OP Man
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

I'll have to look out for that one, sounds interesting

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Are you a wide open spaces person or a city person?

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By *k82Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow

I would say, change daily habits.

Where you shop, eat out, and most of all change the way you go home and go to work etc what that will do is make your thoughts and mind wonder to do different things and not get sucked in to the similarity what you have got used to.

Leave late for work once a month to keep you on your toes, give you that excitement a bit, buy someone flowers who you dont know and just make someone else's day, it will help you uplift your spirits.

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By *hyButK1nky OP Man
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

"Are you a wide open spaces person or a city person? "

Experience with both so not inclined one way or the other

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Are you a wide open spaces person or a city person?

Experience with both so not inclined one way or the other"

The world really is your oyster then.

I've always fancied the more remote Scottish islands

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By *hyButK1nky OP Man
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

It's a bit deeper and more complicated than that but I do understand where you're coming from so thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't beat the remote Scottish isles

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Can't beat the remote Scottish isles

Do they have shops though Jack, where would I buy my coats?

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By *oAnCouple
over a year ago

Streatham

"Strange one I know but I find myself in a position of having nothing to stop me.

I would love the opportunity to go anywhere and start fresh or a few eeks/months away.

Just seeing what response or help there is and I'm very open minded so don't hesitate to message me.

Don't worry Harry - it'll all be alright xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Do you fancy foreign travel op? How about rural Spain or France?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you a wide open spaces person or a city person?

Experience with both so not inclined one way or the other

The world really is your oyster then.

I've always fancied the more remote Scottish islands"

Orkney Islands are my favourite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do it, in 1980 I had an opportunity but circumstances changed, in 1991 I had another opportunity but found an excuse not to go. I regret both. Do it, take a step into the unknown have an adventure, live

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

exactly what i'm doing

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By *hyButK1nky OP Man
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Probably should have been a bit clearer, I have nothing and wondering if there are any opportunities like a live in job, fuck off to sea for a long job or something like that.

It's a longish story lol

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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago

Ashford kent

A live in sub fuck slave ????

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By *hyButK1nky OP Man
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

"A live in sub fuck slave ????

Nice offer but not my type

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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago

Ashford kent

"A live in sub fuck slave ????

Nice offer but not my type"

Weren't offering. .was suggesting. .lol

We don't all want ya..lol

Good luck op..

Try ..u2 still haven't found what im looking for..lol

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By *hyButK1nky OP Man
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

"A live in sub fuck slave ????

Nice offer but not my type

Weren't offering. .was suggesting. .lol

We don't all want ya..lol

Good luck op..

Try ..u2 still haven't found what im looking for..lol

Sorry if I offended you by jumping to conclusions and making assertions. I think you will find I am one of the last to think people want me.

Anyway happy Fabbing

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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago

Ashford kent

"A live in sub fuck slave ????

Nice offer but not my type

Weren't offering. .was suggesting. .lol

We don't all want ya..lol

Good luck op..

Try ..u2 still haven't found what im looking for..lol

Sorry if I offended you by jumping to conclusions and making assertions. I think you will find I am one of the last to think people want me.

Anyway happy Fabbing"

You never ..dont panic mr mannaring

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By *adylydfordWoman
over a year ago

altinkum

"Probably should have been a bit clearer, I have nothing and wondering if there are any opportunities like a live in job, fuck off to sea for a long job or something like that.

It's a longish story lol

I was in similar position 6 months ago. Moved to a new town where i knew one person thinking i would make new friends and 6 months later i havent. Im very lonely on a day to day basis and still wonder if i did the right thing. I prolly havent. Sometimes it gets so bad it makes me not want to be here anymore. So grab life by the balls but choose wisely!

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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago

Ashford kent

"Probably should have been a bit clearer, I have nothing and wondering if there are any opportunities like a live in job, fuck off to sea for a long job or something like that.

It's a longish story lol

Surely ..you only have to walk in yr local..you will have plenty of attention. ..

On a serious note..join some clubs in your area.

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By *adylydfordWoman
over a year ago

altinkum

"Probably should have been a bit clearer, I have nothing and wondering if there are any opportunities like a live in job, fuck off to sea for a long job or something like that.

It's a longish story lol

Surely ..you only have to walk in yr local..you will have plenty of attention. ..

On a serious note..join some clubs in your area. "

Nope noone notices me. I find it very difficult to talk to people i dont know. Small talk is really not my strong point so even joining clubs and activities i just sit quietly in the corner. If noone talks to me i dont start a conversation

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over a year ago

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By *hyButK1nky OP Man
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

"Probably should have been a bit clearer, I have nothing and wondering if there are any opportunities like a live in job, fuck off to sea for a long job or something like that.

It's a longish story lol

Surely ..you only have to walk in yr local..you will have plenty of attention. ..

On a serious note..join some clubs in your area.

I'm the same it's hard to find people that put me in that comfortable place where I get told to shut up but mostly so shy it actually hurts in a way.

I have met a few amazing people on here who have helped me along my journey on here.

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By *shyaWoman
over a year ago

bedford

"Probably should have been a bit clearer, I have nothing and wondering if there are any opportunities like a live in job, fuck off to sea for a long job or something like that.

It's a longish story lol

1)Living companion - process could be longish to go through paperwork

2)Teacher overseas - not sure about procedures

3)House parent (boarding schools or dorms)

4)Housekeeper/gardener/chauffeur - live-in

I think the last 3 types of jobs you can find in "Lady" magazine online - and other job sites. Good luck

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Get a camper van and see how long you can keep going for on £10 a day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look up WOOFER or WORK AWAY which are web sites were you go live with some one for board and food in exchange for a few hours work a day.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably should have been a bit clearer, I have nothing and wondering if there are any opportunities like a live in job, fuck off to sea for a long job or something like that.

It's a longish story lol

Do you have a trade? Maybe look for work somewhere like the Falklands, Ascension Island etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done just exactly that a couple of years back. I got made redundant so I decided to relocate 150 miles away from Home.

It is by far the best thing I've ever done, started my life from scratch! New job, new friends, new opportunities and this to this day I am very happy with my decision as speaking to my friends from my Hometown they're all hating it. Sometimes you need that push to get you to take that leap forward! But it is definetely something worth doing if you feel like it will be for the better. The risk will always be there.

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By *lint-EverhardMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

I moved to France.

I just jumped in my van and wheyyy!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

The only live in jobs I know of are in the hotel trade or farming. Do you have skills in either op?.

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

"Strange one I know but I find myself in a position of having nothing to stop me.

I would love the opportunity to go anywhere and start fresh or a few eeks/months away.

Just seeing what response or help there is and I'm very open minded so don't hesitate to message me.

I am actually in this exact same position. This is what I've done (and plan to do):

Last day of work is next week.

A month back to the US to reset myself.

In the process of buying a place on the water in a coastal village, far from London.

I plan to start letting rooms B&B style in the summer, something I've always wanted to do.

Eventually buy a motorhome and travel around the UK and Europe for extended periods of time.

Free time: write, get to know my new county, and meet people.

Adjust plans as I go along.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Uprooting and changing your place in the world doesn't change who you are

I made the move from Lancashire to the the beautiful Highlands all I seem to have done is isolated myself haha

I'm still a happy go lucky person but haven't got as many people to bounce off and quite honestly I have days that I regret the move

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By *astsussexMan
over a year ago

7dials brighton

I feel the same. But January has to effect on me. So maybe you are the same. If that idea is been there for a long time however do it. Never worse than i should have or could have done this that .....

Even a failure is an experience. Save money. Enough to keep u going for 4 months and do what u want to do.

U only live once

Carpe diem

Nice pix btw

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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago

Ashford kent

"Probably should have been a bit clearer, I have nothing and wondering if there are any opportunities like a live in job, fuck off to sea for a long job or something like that.

It's a longish story lol

Surely ..you only have to walk in yr local..you will have plenty of attention. ..

On a serious note..join some clubs in your area.

Id like to talk but can't message ya..

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By *hyButK1nky OP Man
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Thank you all for your suggestions, sharing your experiences and the private messages.

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

I'm considering going "off grid" on a narrowboat... just go for it I say...

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By *hyButK1nky OP Man
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

"I'm considering going "off grid" on a narrowboat... just go for it I say..."

Sounds like a plan, always loved the idea of it one day.

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

"I'm considering going "off grid" on a narrowboat... just go for it I say...

Sounds like a plan, always loved the idea of it one day."

As I say, go for it if you have nothing stopping you... ...be happy

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