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What lengths do you go to when inviting a meet to your house

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By *ools and the brain OP   Couple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

For people who do accommodate.

We very occasionally do with people we have got to know and trust.

Obviously we make sure house is spotlessly clean,no washing hanging around,clean towels in bathroom and so on ..

But does anyone go that extra mile?

Flowers, scented candles,mood lighting.

Anything special?

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By *ools and the brain OP   Couple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Snacks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve hoovered. The sheets are clean. What more do they want?!

On occasion, for VERY special people, I have cooked.

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Cookies and contraception.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to meet someone from here, maybe once a month and I’d drive to him which is about 1.5hrs from me and stop over.

He would cook, his house smelt amazing, music on in the background....really made the effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope you clean that glass table before putting out your nibbles

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By *ools and the brain OP   Couple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"I used to meet someone from here, maybe once a month and I’d drive to him which is about 1.5hrs from me and stop over.

He would cook, his house smelt amazing, music on in the background....really made the effort. "

Little touches make all the difference.

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By *ools and the brain OP   Couple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"Hope you clean that glass table before putting out your nibbles "

Lol that was a rented apartment in Edinburgh

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

Getting those scentsy burners going, Hue lighting set and a decent Spotify playlist, absolutely clean fresh sheets and towels.

Super super rare I invite others round though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As younger guy always want to make the extra effort, don’t want to come off as childish or immature. Mood lighting, music, candles is standard, food/drinks is ready if desired. Rather be over the top than under the mark

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooh let us know the next time you're up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clean sheets, towels and loos. Music on, low lighting and a choice of beverages, lubes and toys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alcoholic drink or tea/coffee. Soft lighting, clean bed linen, music. After shower if they want to, drink and a chat before they go.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have shit loads of condoms and a pump dispenser of lube......

And this body

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over a year ago

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I'm having someone round this Friday daytime and I really don't know what is standard so I'm srressing!

Clean sheets, tidy house, variety of drinks and snacks if needed, condoms, clean towels, me looking fine. Anything obvious I'm missing?

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly


"I'm having someone round this Friday daytime and I really don't know what is standard so I'm srressing!

Clean sheets, tidy house, variety of drinks and snacks if needed, condoms, clean towels, me looking fine. Anything obvious I'm missing? "

Cotton Eye Joe on repeat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely a tidy / clean house and it goes without saying clean sheets . And a husband who serves the drinks

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By *ools and the brain OP   Couple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"Definitely a tidy / clean house and it goes without saying clean sheets . And a husband who serves the drinks "

Hubby dressed in a pinny?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

The one and only time i accommodated i got Jaffa Cakes in.

It was a twin pack and he ate them all which i was a bit gutted about if i’m honest.

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Clean dressing gowns /flip flops for in out of hot tub...fizz ....music ..candles....warm house .....warm welcome ...always ..xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clean and tidy the house, new bed linen, fresh soaps/shower gels if required, bottle of wine and/or snacks if it's a first meet or a regular I like to spoil, phone switched off, cameras turned on (joke!!!)

Just make it feel like a welcoming environment to get naked in.

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By *oft_SensualTV/TS
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I fill some of the bullet holes in and put fresh cardboard in the broken window panes

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I fill some of the bullet holes in and put fresh cardboard in the broken window panes "

A host with the most! We spray air freshener and change the newspaper on the table

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By *aveman11Man
over a year ago

all over the uk with work

Tidy house and clean sheets no matter what, heating on usually for the lady or the fire (log burner), scented candles and fresheners in the rooms, the offer for drinks or food sometimes even music or a film

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley

As most seem to be saying - a clean and nice smelling house, fresh sheets and towels, music on, heating on (if needed), hopefully drink of choice on standby (if they have let me know) and snacks.

Not forgetting the condoms (and toys of course depending on the type of meet.....)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel like a kill joy with all these scented candles and air fresheners ... not every body likes them and they're not good for anyone with asthma etc

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Put a new loo roll in outside lavy, and one of those modern led battery bulbs on back o door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuppa and a towel down on the bed :D pmsl. Who am I kidding, meeting on here is harder than getting into space.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's always some alcohol in my fridge or cupboards - different ones. But guys usually bring it together with chocolate I like burning a scented candle and dim the lights a bit. Flat is of course tidy and welcoming.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Need to be a little careful as there’s people here coming to ours or the first time shortly! Make the guest room nice, make sure their bathroom is clean has towels etc. Get the house cleaned, burn some oil , music, snacks etc if evening. Hide the expensive alcohol and put all the kids in the cellar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Need to be a little careful as there’s people here coming to ours or the first time shortly! Make the guest room nice, make sure their bathroom is clean has towels etc. Get the house cleaned, burn some oil , music, snacks etc if evening. Hide the expensive alcohol and put all the kids in the cellar "

Omg I laughed out loud @put kids in the cellar!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel like a kill joy with all these scented candles and air fresheners ... not every body likes them and they're not good for anyone with asthma etc "

When I see candles lit during a meet I always think of the hot wax scene in Body of Evidence

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By *sLillyMrWolfeCouple
over a year ago

near you...


"Clean sheets, towels and loos. Music on, low lighting and a choice of beverages, lubes and toys "

This. Plus also condoms, wet wipes and a choice of outfits at the ready depending where the night goes...

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By *ools and the brain OP   Couple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"I feel like a kill joy with all these scented candles and air fresheners ... not every body likes them and they're not good for anyone with asthma etc "

Totally with you on this one, scented candles destroy me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to clear out the chest freezer, make sure my hack saws are sharp and buy some heavy dusty plastic bags. It's all about the prep.

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By *otrockWoman
over a year ago

Essex

As most have said clean and tidy house, toys out I want to use, condoms in easy reach oh and if I really fancy the guy the porn goes on in the back ground as they will probably need it looking at my fat arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As most have said clean and tidy house, toys out I want to use, condoms in easy reach oh and if I really fancy the guy the porn goes on in the back ground as they will probably need it looking at my fat arse "
brilliant comment

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

for one girl i used to see quite regularly, I used to put the porn sheets on the bed, bake a chocolate cake, and get the vodka in.

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By *heLaserGuyMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Great thread, most of my meets post social I accommodate, daytime meets are more casual, still tidy and presentable though.

The night time meets I step it up, tidy house, decent music, food prepped, fire set if it's cold.

Most definitely go that extra mile, it's a big reflection on your own grooming. Imagine going to a tip and being expect to perform in it lol

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By * New YorkieMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Clean house, drinks, fire on and clean towels and water in the hottub if they fancy a nude dip in there. Hottubs are good ince breakers to get singles or couples naked. But all Fresh and clean... What you would expect.. Anyone fancy a nude hottub social or more?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We hoover and give our van a polish

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Any lengths to ensure they are not coming to our home.

Our Fab life and everyday life are two totally separate things and we don’t want another stalker.

Been there done that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We did it once and it was terrible. We vowed never again in our own home.

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