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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Question for the Dom(mes):

Do you ever withhold penetration as punishment?

Where does that rate on scale of punishments?

How often do you withhold in this way?

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By *arklordMan
over a year ago

rugeley


"Question for the Dom(mes):

Do you ever withhold penetration as punishment?

Where does that rate on scale of punishments?

How often do you withhold in this way?"
that would depend on the dynamics of the play

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Made me think this, because penetration is something I always waited for, something after a scene, a consensual sensual coming down bond play.

So it doesn’t fit n my head.

Might be used up front as a tease.

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By *ombull15Man
over a year ago

essex

I do if I know the subs gagging for it or making her nearly cum a sleep stopping

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I do if I know the subs gagging for it or making her nearly cum a sleep stopping "

Lost me on this one, is there a bit missing?

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By *ombull15Man
over a year ago

essex

And keep stopping typo

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"And keep stopping typo"

Me or you, I’m dyslexic so I acknowledge global delay in my writing.

Just interested in your meaning, nothing else.

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands


"I do if I know the subs gagging for it or making her nearly cum a sleep stopping "

Edging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question for the Dom(mes):

Do you ever withhold penetration as punishment?

Where does that rate on scale of punishments?

How often do you withhold in this way?"

Depends on the particular dynamic. I would probably go for denying orgasm as a punishment more than anything else.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I do if I know the subs gagging for it or making her nearly cum a sleep stopping

Edging?"

Nice suspension, so need to learn the art of using a rope bunny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my last relationship if she had disobeyed and I was in a particularly cruel mood I'd make her sit in the corner naked and watch me please myself with the aid of the internet lol

It was the ultimate punishment

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"In my last relationship if she had disobeyed and I was in a particularly cruel mood I'd make her sit in the corner naked and watch me please myself with the aid of the internet lol

It was the ultimate punishment "
you see that would worry me, what if she was cognitively thinking, ‘I’m dropping’ thank fuck for xhanster!

Wouldn’t be good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my last relationship if she had disobeyed and I was in a particularly cruel mood I'd make her sit in the corner naked and watch me please myself with the aid of the internet lol

It was the ultimate punishment you see that would worry me, what if she was cognitively thinking, ‘I’m dropping’ thank fuck for xhanster!

Wouldn’t be good."

It's a huge effort to take part in a relationship like that the ups and downs the strain mentally is enormous

And that's why I no longer partake in it anymore it really is a full time job when done properly

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands


"I do if I know the subs gagging for it or making her nearly cum a sleep stopping

Edging?

Nice suspension, so need to learn the art of using a rope bunny."

Thank you 2020 started with ropes so hopefully lots of it this year

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"In my last relationship if she had disobeyed and I was in a particularly cruel mood I'd make her sit in the corner naked and watch me please myself with the aid of the internet lol

It was the ultimate punishment you see that would worry me, what if she was cognitively thinking, ‘I’m dropping’ thank fuck for xhanster!

Wouldn’t be good.

It's a huge effort to take part in a relationship like that the ups and downs the strain mentally is enormous

And that's why I no longer partake in it anymore it really is a full time job when done properly "

‘‘Tis an enormously exciting sensual job though, think that is why it is calling me back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my last relationship if she had disobeyed and I was in a particularly cruel mood I'd make her sit in the corner naked and watch me please myself with the aid of the internet lol

It was the ultimate punishment you see that would worry me, what if she was cognitively thinking, ‘I’m dropping’ thank fuck for xhanster!

Wouldn’t be good.

It's a huge effort to take part in a relationship like that the ups and downs the strain mentally is enormous

And that's why I no longer partake in it anymore it really is a full time job when done properly

‘‘Tis an enormously exciting sensual job though, think that is why it is calling me back."

It most definitely is

I might venture back to it in the future but it'll be a long while off for me I think

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Really interesting to see this conversation. For me no cock would be a major punishment.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Really interesting to see this conversation. For me no cock would be a major punishment."

Well I’m sure you will always earn it then, yes?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Really interesting to see this conversation. For me no cock would be a major punishment.

Well I’m sure you will always earn it then, yes?"

I’d certainly try! The post was caused by someone threatening to withhold sex as punishment. I didn’t like it.

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By *inranWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

For me some harder scenes I don't find penetration flows naturally but that's less so a punishment and more so just how different scenes flow and what's appropriate and what I want.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For me some harder scenes I don't find penetration flows naturally but that's less so a punishment and more so just how different scenes flow and what's appropriate and what I want. "

That makes sense. And I appreciate some don’t mix sex and scenes.

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