FabSwingers.com forum: Couples profiles

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've noticed at of couples that only have pictures of the female half on them yet they message with the intention of them both meeting you, is there a proper reason for this or is a any over sight?

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By *anni and RicCouple
over a year ago

York

Show off your men more we say

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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall

We do try to have a mix on ours but for some reason tash's pics get a better response lol

D x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This frustrates us also, we meet and play as a couple and therefore attraction for all is required.

Absent images of the male leaves me (her) in doubt of his suitability and so we bypass such profiles. This could be our loss but that's how we feel towards these profiles.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

We try to have clear pics of us both, as we're at couple looking for couples

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By *epsonWoman
over a year ago

Biddulph

I get offers to meet their other halves while they are at work or not well etc. When I point out there is no photo of the said husband, the usual reply is they are too shy. Not too shy to have sex with a random woman off a sex site though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I get offers to meet their other halves while they are at work or not well etc. When I point out there is no photo of the said husband, the usual reply is they are too shy. Not too shy to have sex with a random woman off a sex site though

Lmao

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This frustrates us also, we meet and play as a couple and therefore attraction for all is required.

Absent images of the male leaves me (her) in doubt of his suitability and so we bypass such profiles. This could be our loss but that's how we feel towards these profiles.

This is what I've started doing I dont think it's my place to point out something that should be very obvious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This really frustrates us to be honest

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By *arah_kieran_ukCouple
over a year ago

Greater London

We’re definitely guilty of this but we’re going to try mix it up a little more (only a little more lol)

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By *oneyBear100Couple
over a year ago

Gatwick area

We know we need to add a couple more of him. Definitely on the hitlist to do this week (said that last week too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We’re definitely guilty of this but we’re going to try mix it up a little more (only a little more lol)

xx"

What's the reason though? How do you expect people to make a decision on whether they want to message you if they can only see 50% of they would be getting?

(Not attacking btw, genuinely interested)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men don’t like having their photos taken as much as women??

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By *epsonWoman
over a year ago

Biddulph

I get it if a couple only seek a single straight man to join them, as he will only need to be attracted to her and vice versa. But couples seeking couples and single women, surely they need to see of both people are attracted to both people, so understand the need to see all parties ? Weird.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Click bait

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Men don’t like having their photos taken as much as women?? "

I think that's irrelevant tbh if you're on here looking for single women and couples to play with the both of you then you should understand that they would like to pictures of you both.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I get it if a couple only seek a single straight man to join them, as he will only need to be attracted to her and vice versa. But couples seeking couples and single women, surely they need to see of both people are attracted to both people, so understand the need to see all parties ? Weird."

I genuinely dont understand how come they dont get it??

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

Frustrates us too. We totally understand its easier to take different kinds of pics of the female half but at least have a few showing the males body.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"I've noticed at of couples that only have pictures of the female half on them yet they message with the intention of them both meeting you, is there a proper reason for this or is a any over sight?"
Definitely should have photos of both. Profiles with only Female photos are not as appealing to us.

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By *arah_kieran_ukCouple
over a year ago

Greater London

"We’re definitely guilty of this but we’re going to try mix it up a little more (only a little more lol)

What's the reason though? How do you expect people to make a decision on whether they want to message you if they can only see 50% of they would be getting?

(Not attacking btw, genuinely interested)"

You’re absolutely right, I think for us because we aren’t overly concerned whether we have lots of people message us to meet or not that it means we don’t feel we have to post that many pics of me (Kieran). I think if we were using FAB to primarily set up meets we would then need to post a more balanced share pics. However we use it more to stay in touch with people we have met and see who we might bump into when attending clubs or parties.

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By *orkshirefucktruck2Couple
over a year ago

barnsley

We think there's lots of pic collector fake cple accounts that create a profile with women pics to obtain access to ur friend only pics,we now only meet up-to-date verified

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

For us the pictures we take generally aren't for fab initially. They are ones we've taken to send each other. So M tends to send either pics of his face or his cock as these are my preferences

M tends to ask for pics of me so we have more of me plus he'll ask for lots of different ones. Plus I think it's easier for us ladies, we have nicer lingerie for example. We can have in one photo a nice bra and knicker set, another time a body or corset and that doesn't include different colours and styles!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally agree

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

they have their reasons but we won't enter into dialogue unless their first message has a picture of the guy attached.

I find it disrespectful to me as the woman they expect to consider getting sexual with the guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We bypass such profiles and turn them down when they do message.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"they have their reasons but we won't enter into dialogue unless their first message has a picture of the guy attached.

I find it disrespectful to me as the woman they expect to consider getting sexual with the guy "

I've never thought about it like that but i guess it is quite disrespectful almost as if they expect you to just turn up and have sex with him without having seen any pictures or knowing anything about him before hand

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"they have their reasons but we won't enter into dialogue unless their first message has a picture of the guy attached.

I find it disrespectful to me as the woman they expect to consider getting sexual with the guy

It's not almost as if, it is exactly that. In effect they're saying I don't count.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a fair amount of clear photos of the male half but people desire the females photos more.

So that why there are so many more of her than him.

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By *ikingpairCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

We are guilty of this but agree with the post that there are more options of pics with the woman... We do have a few of him but the ratio is very unbalanced...

Having said that, it has not caused us a problem and we have had plenty of meets with other couples...

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By *ikingpairCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

I do look for pics of the male when viewing couples but am happy to meet based on a face pic sent privately and decide from there

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

This comes up in the Forum on almost a daily basis. The simple answer is people post exactly the pictures they want to post. It's entirely up to them. If their pictures work for them, then good. If they don't they will probably change them. It isn't up to anyone else to dictate the type of photo, the balance between male and female, or whether they're tasteful or crude etc. If the photos don't appeal to you or satisfy your needs then move on to a profile that does. There are thousands to choose from.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

If people are interested, they’ll show more photos if necessary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I completely agree. Also, i dont class a solitary dick pic as showing both....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This comes up in the Forum on almost a daily basis. The simple answer is people post exactly the pictures they want to post. It's entirely up to them. If their pictures work for them, then good. If they don't they will probably change them. It isn't up to anyone else to dictate the type of photo, the balance between male and female, or whether they're tasteful or crude etc. If the photos don't appeal to you or satisfy your needs then move on to a profile that does. There are thousands to choose from."

"Move on" is very good advice here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I do look for pics of the male when viewing couples but am happy to meet based on a face pic sent privately and decide from there

But a lot of them dont said any along with their initial message, so in essence expect you to make a decision blind as to whether you want to get to know them or not

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"I've noticed at of couples that only have pictures of the female half on them yet they message with the intention of them both meeting you, is there a proper reason for this or is a any over sight?"

I sort of get it if they are only meeting men.

Apart from that I have no idea. It's a common question on the forums.

My couple profile has photos of us both, as we will both be I involved. We also want to see both members of a y couple we might be meeting.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

We have photos of both of us, but if you take the "fabs" on pictures as a sign of how much interest the pictures get, then people only really look at the ladies... my pics rarely get fabbed.

Cal

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By *ikingpairCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"I do look for pics of the male when viewing couples but am happy to meet based on a face pic sent privately and decide from there

But a lot of them dont said any along with their initial message, so in essence expect you to make a decision blind as to whether you want to get to know them or not "

We don't generally send face pics on a first message as we would rather decide whether to take it to that stage based on a few initial messages.

If we were messaging a woman we probably would though as we realise how many they get...!

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By *ubynaughtyCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

We are definitely guilty of this, thing is we dont show our face on here and arent totally nude either or wanting to do dick pictures.

So there would only be a picture of his middle half of the body which doesnt really appeal to most people and to cant gauge much from that anyway.

Happily to send face pictures and others when when we speak though.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"We are definitely guilty of this, thing is we dont show our face on here and arent totally nude either or wanting to do dick pictures.

So there would only be a picture of his middle half of the body which doesnt really appeal to most people and to cant gauge much from that anyway.

Happily to send face pictures and others when when we speak though.

When looking to meet couples from the couple profile, all I am really bothered about is a photo that gives a general idea of the mans physique.

Clothed is fine.

Even better is a photo of the couple together.

See other couple profiles for ideas...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We send photos of the man when we’re going to actually meet up

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We send photos of the man when we’re going to actually meet up"

Do women and couples actually agree to meet you though before they've seen any pictures of the male half?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We are definitely guilty of this, thing is we dont show our face on here and arent totally nude either or wanting to do dick pictures.

So there would only be a picture of his middle half of the body which doesnt really appeal to most people and to cant gauge much from that anyway.

Happily to send face pictures and others when when we speak though.

When looking to meet couples from the couple profile, all I am really bothered about is a photo that gives a general idea of the mans physique.

Clothed is fine.

Even better is a photo of the couple together.

See other couple profiles for ideas..."

Exactly, doesn't have to be a face or cock pic

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

We mostly get the excuse the guy doesn’t like his photo taken . We tend to wonder why when this is said. It’s so simple to put u a few photos of you out and about they don’t have to be sexual. We also think men adore their other half’s and put photos up to show them off.

It’s normally me (boobs) that does the browsing and I will only message people where I can clearly see the guy (and fancy that guy)

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By *unlovinCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We have a mix of both m/ f pics , well it is a couples profile after all ..

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

We generally just avoid profiles with no pics of the guy, use it as a filter.

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By *edoriartyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Bug bear of mine too. Red

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By *ubynaughtyCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

"We are definitely guilty of this, thing is we dont show our face on here and arent totally nude either or wanting to do dick pictures.

So there would only be a picture of his middle half of the body which doesnt really appeal to most people and to cant gauge much from that anyway.

Happily to send face pictures and others when when we speak though.

When looking to meet couples from the couple profile, all I am really bothered about is a photo that gives a general idea of the mans physique.

Clothed is fine.

Even better is a photo of the couple together.

See other couple profiles for ideas..."

Thanks, taken your advice and added one to friends only X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We think we have a few but is it enough x

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By *estofbothCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Our profile is very female heavy, but we’re mainly looking for FF play. However when we message we send pictures of both of us, and our friends only photos are about 50/50. Way we see it the public pictures are just a general idea. If we’re looking to meet then of course you see us both well before any arrangements are made.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think we have a good mix on ours, 70/30 female to male. We normally find that's about right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a couple we have both but the majority are of me. Hubby loves to take pics specially if I'm playing with another. We do prefer profiles with some of the guys pics we like to know what were getting in too xx

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

This really frustrates me when we use our couple profile,especially as a straight female.

If couples want to meet other couples,they should show off both parties ,if they don't we wouldn't interact with them.Its up to each couple how they run their profile,

Kind of feels as if i'm not important though.

Plus when we did chat with profiles that had no male pics ,I was usually left disappointed when they did finally show the male.

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

"Think we have a good mix on ours, 70/30 female to male. We normally find that's about right. "

That’s what we aim for, we’re only looking for girl on girl fun so it’s more important that they find each other attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think we have a good mix on ours, 70/30 female to male. We normally find that's about right.

That’s what we aim for, we’re only looking for girl on girl fun so it’s more important that they find each other attractive"

We prefer bi female couples so we think so too

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