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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Every meet I've had there is a little bit of nervousness on both sides. Has this affected you?

Or any stories about really nervous people on meets?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's normal to get nervous I do and also do even if I've met the person before

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It has. It was fine.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Oh god yes, I get terrible nerves before I meet someone new! It usually disappears when we're face to face, but even with that knowledge it doesn't stop it happening with the next one.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I get nervous and understand that of we're meeting a single guy it must be very nerve wracking for him.

I find getting paralytic helps

That was a joke by the way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh god yes, I get terrible nerves before I meet someone new! It usually disappears when we're face to face, but even with that knowledge it doesn't stop it happening with the next one. "

Meeting couples can be a bit nerve racking but once the sex starts it goes away I find x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get nervous and understand that of we're meeting a single guy it must be very nerve wracking for him.

I find getting paralytic helps

That was a joke by the way"

As a single guy it is lol x

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By *otwifeandcuckCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Absolute bag of nerves on the first meet with someone. They soon calm down once we start getting down to it...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I get nervous and understand that of we're meeting a single guy it must be very nerve wracking for him.

I find getting paralytic helps

That was a joke by the way

As a single guy it is lol x"

Nerve wracking? I'm sure it is,

I wouldn't have the nerve to do this as a single woman.

All I can say is that any couple with any sensitivity understands.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Yes, I'm always nervous meeting new people but always have a social first so it's not so obvious (I hope) should we meet again.

I always worry from a safety pov as well so if I'm going to a new guys house I will always note where the knife rack is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve a new meet later. I’m nervous. If I wasn’t I’d be worried.

I’ve never let my nerves be known thou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Due to meet someone I’ve been chatting with for awhile now in a weeks time and already the nerves are fully there. Dread to think what I’ll be like on the day. Silly really as we’re so aligned in our thinking I can’t see it not being great!

Either way nerves are natural, and I’m honestly not sure I’ve ever met someone who hasn’t suffered from them on that first meet.

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By *ng1983Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon tyne

I always get nervous! We have a fwb and I still get nervous before we meet her and we've met her loads! It's part of the fun though. The adrenaline and excitement!

Gem

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

Huge nerves....but it all seemed to work out fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be more concerned if I wasn't nervous. Nerves show I'm excited.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Thete are loads of situations where I get nervous but meets aren't one of them.

I'm either curious or excited but never nervous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be more concerned if I wasn't nervous. Nerves show I'm excited. "

this.

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