FabSwingers.com forum: Playing With TV's/CD's

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Recently I have had members of this site and were on my friends list cut ties with me, because I played with a tv/cd, and made the verification visible. I don't understand why it changes anything that I was discussing with those couples and females. After all, expanding sexual horizons is what this site is about.

Is there a underlying taboo/no go, on what would be deemed as a taboo site to the masses?

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By *winfrozrMan
over a year ago

Carnoustie

I’ve had people refuse to speak to me because I’m bi.

Some people are just arseholes

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By *tef1972TV/TS
over a year ago

blackburn

Nothing wrong with what you are saying

BUT

your profile states your straight

Some people see this as an issue as your clearly not having played with girls like me

They will argue why are you saying your straight

Blah blah blah BS Bolloxs

Then you write about women and so on

This is the only reason I can see why people have cut ties

Xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are clearly not straight and you lying about that itself is off putting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You make a good point and maybe that's an oversight on my part, from when I initially joined and wrote my profile. So I will look to address that.

Funnily enough, the opportunities to play with those girls came to me, even with the profile as it was. As I am to expand horizons, I took them.

A change will be made accordingly!

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

Being listed as straight isn't an issue really as you have listed your looking for TVs...so I can't see what the problem was..but if the people concerned are that judgemental.. Probably better off not having them as friends I'd say..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Changes made! So hopefully it should now be clear as mud.

I do still think it daft that on a hedonistic site such as this, that would change peoples mindsets on an individual!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are more than bicurious mate you have two veris from men in wigs and then it makes you wonder how many more there are that are not leaving veris. Put your true sexuality as bisexual, you are not simply curious

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

As a couple how refuse to meet or play with bi men to see verification from a CD/TV is a massive red flag and would make it run a mile..

Before you get on you wooden horse we have in the past been open to guy say we play straight but 100% of them pushed it to far and created awkwardness and ruined the play.

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By *oft_SensualTV/TS
over a year ago

Yorkshire

There's a tremendous amount of sexual snobbery on this site, plus it doesn't really cater for people's sexual tastes as they currently stand.

From some people's point of view any kind of MM or M/TV sex is 'dirty' and let's face it M/F couples are hardly short of eligible cock to meet their needs!

A lot of guys see a TV as a 'last resort' if they can't have sex with an F and I can understand and share people's annoyance with guys who claim to be 'straight' in this regard.

At the end of the day sexuality can change/shift on a daily or weekly basis for a lot of people who don't necessarily conform to hetero-normative desires 24/7.

I'm quite happy not living in a sexual Terry and June situation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There's a tremendous amount of sexual snobbery on this site, plus it doesn't really cater for people's sexual tastes as they currently stand.

From some people's point of view any kind of MM or M/TV sex is 'dirty' and let's face it M/F couples are hardly short of eligible cock to meet their needs!

A lot of guys see a TV as a 'last resort' if they can't have sex with an F and I can understand and share people's annoyance with guys who claim to be 'straight' in this regard.

At the end of the day sexuality can change/shift on a daily or weekly basis for a lot of people who don't necessarily conform to hetero-normative desires 24/7.

I'm quite happy not living in a sexual Terry and June situation.

I initially joined solely aiming for women or couples for a threesome, moresome. When the opportunity arose to try something different I took it, to move from the vanilla. Hopefully now its clear on my preference. and I do agree that sexuality can change and shift.

From my viewpoint and maybe my naivety, I just felt that if you are on a site like this, you will be more sexually open, and if an opportunity arises that you haven't considered before its worth trying. Just because someone has tried something your not into shouldn't change your thoughts. Shame the "dirty" stigma still exists, even on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a tremendous amount of sexual snobbery on this site, plus it doesn't really cater for people's sexual tastes as they currently stand.

From some people's point of view any kind of MM or M/TV sex is 'dirty' and let's face it M/F couples are hardly short of eligible cock to meet their needs!

A lot of guys see a TV as a 'last resort' if they can't have sex with an F and I can understand and share people's annoyance with guys who claim to be 'straight' in this regard.

At the end of the day sexuality can change/shift on a daily or weekly basis for a lot of people who don't necessarily conform to hetero-normative desires 24/7.

I'm quite happy not living in a sexual Terry and June situation.

There's a lot of snobbery, judgement and narrow mindedness amongst people on this site (and others for that matter).

Just do your thing and enjoy yourself. Those who don't like what you do aren't for you so don't dwell on them.

Mrs

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By *ayRosesWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

For me, I'm always wary of anyone (male or female) who have 'straight' as a descriptor and then have verifications from the same sex. If they're not being honest with themselves about their sexual preferences, what else are they not being honest about? Ok, most of the time it's an oversight and the description hasn't been updated, and it's obvious from the rest of the profile, but it does raise a red flag.

Maybe we should use the Kinsey scale instead!

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By *oft_SensualTV/TS
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Agreed, few people actually know what the Kinsey scale is- new descriptors for your sexual leanings would be an idea!

Sadly people here don't often see shades of grey- there's being 'open' and then being queer (in the modern idiom) is actually something else.

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