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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And others that don't know.

I'm curious as what things men specifically can use as an aid or to make the sex better.

So one thing could be taking viagra before a meet, another could be using something that delays Cumming.

What else is there?

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

A woman.

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

cock rings. lovely lovely cock rings.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I once fisted a man and found he already had a metal petanque boule up there.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

A mate of mine calls it a 'technical wank'

Having a wank before a meet. The second time is always longer. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Class A's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I increase my running distance from a regular 5k to 20k to increase stamina. Takes about 3 months. Lucky I don’t meet often!

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

I always find a glass of wine and a chat helps. Just catching up and showing mutual appreciation for each other’s non fab lives helps raise the oxytocin levels.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss


"I once fisted a man and found he already had a metal petanque boule up there. "

Should I be scared to google that

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"I once fisted a man and found he already had a metal petanque boule up there.

Should I be scared to google that "

Very.

It’s making me squirm sitting down.

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"I once fisted a man and found he already had a metal petanque boule up there.

Should I be scared to google that

Very.

It’s making me squirm sitting down. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And others that don't know.

I'm curious as what things men specifically can use as an aid or to make the sex better.

So one thing could be taking viagra before a meet, another could be using something that delays Cumming.

What else is there?

"

Taking a viagra or equivalent before a meet is a bit risky, person might not turn up and you end up spending the rest of the evening wanking to get rid of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A jug of water from my experience

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And others that don't know.

I'm curious as what things men specifically can use as an aid or to make the sex better.

So one thing could be taking viagra before a meet, another could be using something that delays Cumming.

What else is there?

Taking a viagra or equivalent before a meet is a bit risky, person might not turn up and you end up spending the rest of the evening wanking to get rid of it "

But if you know its a defo yes to sex though

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Taking a viagra or equivalent before a meet is a bit risky, person might not turn up and you end up spending the rest of the evening wanking to get rid of it "

You've never actually used viagra have you?

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By *averockrockMan
over a year ago

swindon

A nice mouth willing to take it all!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What about the not so great tricks.

If for example a guy went to his bag and you couldn't see what he was doing and then went to bathroom, you'd assume class A's yes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Taking a viagra or equivalent before a meet is a bit risky, person might not turn up and you end up spending the rest of the evening wanking to get rid of it

You've never actually used viagra have you?"

Actually have, I was recounting an experience I had. It was cialis in my case and it was like wackamole. Everytime I felt I had gotten rid of my hard on it'll pop back up again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Taking a viagra or equivalent before a meet is a bit risky, person might not turn up and you end up spending the rest of the evening wanking to get rid of it

You've never actually used viagra have you?"

I was gonna say the same. Only works in one way doesn't it. Doesn't give an instant stiff one like some would think. And depends on the strength of the one taken too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about the not so great tricks.

If for example a guy went to his bag and you couldn't see what he was doing and then went to bathroom, you'd assume class A's yes? "

ERM...condoms

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What about the not so great tricks.

If for example a guy went to his bag and you couldn't see what he was doing and then went to bathroom, you'd assume class A's yes?

ERM...condoms "

Nope. Thats after the bathroom visit

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"What about the not so great tricks.

If for example a guy went to his bag and you couldn't see what he was doing and then went to bathroom, you'd assume class A's yes? "

It maybe mouthwash or wet wipes ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Taking a viagra or equivalent before a meet is a bit risky, person might not turn up and you end up spending the rest of the evening wanking to get rid of it

You've never actually used viagra have you?

I was gonna say the same. Only works in one way doesn't it. Doesn't give an instant stiff one like some would think. And depends on the strength of the one taken too"

Depends on the person. My experience is that once you get hard it only goes soft temporarily and pops back up again. At least until it wears off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And others that don't know.

I'm curious as what things men specifically can use as an aid or to make the sex better.

So one thing could be taking viagra before a meet, another could be using something that delays Cumming.

What else is there?

"
foreplay, kissing, mental stimulation, roleplay...... so many things, rope play, cuffs, masks

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By *ellsuitedMan
over a year ago

Elstree


"And others that don't know.

I'm curious as what things men specifically can use as an aid or to make the sex better.

So one thing could be taking viagra before a meet, another could be using something that delays Cumming.

What else is there?

Taking a viagra or equivalent before a meet is a bit risky, person might not turn up and you end up spending the rest of the evening wanking to get rid of it "

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead


"And others that don't know.

I'm curious as what things men specifically can use as an aid or to make the sex better.

So one thing could be taking viagra before a meet, another could be using something that delays Cumming.

What else is there?

"

The brain is what you should be using.

Pick up on signs from the other person like noises face expressions and adjust to suit.

You should go in to it thinking of the other person and yourself so many people I have seen over the years don’t know there arse from there elbow when it comes to sex.

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan
over a year ago

ignites minds to unite ...


"And others that don't know.

I'm curious as what things men specifically can use as an aid or to make the sex better.

So one thing could be taking viagra before a meet, another could be using something that delays Cumming.

What else is there?

"

I might be wrong, but getting a feel that better=longer?

Is that really all that there is to it ?

How about shorter but more of those with flactuating levels of intensity and stimulation ?

Visual,cerebral,physical.

There is plenty of internal adds both parties can use before using external aids, not necessarily chemical.

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By *apmanMan
over a year ago

Harpenden

A slow build up, conversation over a couple of drinks, laughter, long, lingering kisses. Relaxing massage leading to something more sensuous. All the time ratcheting up the sexual tension.

Basically not rushing into wham, bam, thank you ma'am. Although that has its place.

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