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By *iker boy 69 OP   Man
over a year ago

midlands

How many people have messaged on hear, got instant delete, or even a polite not my type reply, tgen gone to a club and ended up joining in some fun with the person/people who have recently rejected you. Ive had it a couple of times at the attic where ive actually been beckoned to join in by someone who ignored my message on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have showed them the middle finger

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

No response is a, no thank you.

That is according to site rules.

Online with filters off it can be impossible to keep up, so mass delete shouldn't be taken so personally.

Glad you've had great times op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met someone in a club who I'd previously blocked and we just laughed it off, and then had sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive met a few ive rejected on fab in clubs but had to explain if they write dick head messages via private messages then what am i suppose to think or do ??

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By *iker boy 69 OP   Man
over a year ago

midlands

I always send polite messages, and mention their profiles, but i understand some folk get a lot of mail, and at that time may have had better offers more suited, then in a club, spontanious things happen

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I played with a gorgeous guy in a club one night we where chatting afterwards and he started laughing and said you fucking ignore my messages on fab

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"How many people have messaged on hear, got instant delete, or even a polite not my type reply, tgen gone to a club and ended up joining in some fun with the person/people who have recently rejected you. Ive had it a couple of times at the attic where ive actually been beckoned to join in by someone who ignored my message on here"
an ignored message may just be that it got lost in an inbox.

But yes I've played with someone who I realised I'd blocked. And mid way through realised I was right to block them x

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By *otwifeandcuckCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Bloody hell we can't keep up with messeges sometimes. So some go unread others are mass deleted

Don't take it personally

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By *iker boy 69 OP   Man
over a year ago

midlands


"Bloody hell we can't keep up with messeges sometimes. So some go unread others are mass deleted

Don't take it personally "

I dont take anything personal on here. It is what it is.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


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But yes I've played with someone who I realised I'd blocked. And mid way through realised I was right to block them x "

Instincts are there for a reason

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

yep i have. the said lady bulk deleted her messages and put that on her status so i messaged again and got very lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yep i have. the said lady bulk deleted her messages and put that on her status so i messaged again and got very lucky "

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By *wing66Couple
over a year ago

Burton-upon-trent

Sometimes we delete single guys messages as its not something we are looking for. That can change in a club though when it's more spontaneous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the same problem, but it's a variation of yours, in that I get accepted in messages etc, but then when they recognise me in clubs they put their clothes back on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can end up being more picky in messages, sometimes men just dont come across right, or i miss it or delete because my profile was not read.

Then meeting someone in person can be completely different, they could be lovely and just didnt appear so in my inbox.

Meeting face to face gives the best impression but i cannot meet the 50-100 that message everyday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many people have messaged on hear, got instant delete, or even a polite not my type reply, tgen gone to a club and ended up joining in some fun with the person/people who have recently rejected you. Ive had it a couple of times at the attic where ive actually been beckoned to join in by someone who ignored my message on here an ignored message may just be that it got lost in an inbox.

But yes I've played with someone who I realised I'd blocked. And mid way through realised I was right to block them x "

That’s so funny

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"How many people have messaged on hear, got instant delete, or even a polite not my type reply, tgen gone to a club and ended up joining in some fun with the person/people who have recently rejected you. Ive had it a couple of times at the attic where ive actually been beckoned to join in by someone who ignored my message on here"

Not sure what you beef is they may just have there beer goggles on.

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Just highlights how different it is meeting someone in real life as opposed to reading a profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many people have messaged on hear, got instant delete, or even a polite not my type reply, tgen gone to a club and ended up joining in some fun with the person/people who have recently rejected you. Ive had it a couple of times at the attic where ive actually been beckoned to join in by someone who ignored my message on here"

That's exactly what happened to us and we're now a couple. I rejected Mr on Fab, then we unknowingly met at a club as two singles and now been in a relationship for 2 years. He never let's me forget the rejection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have the same problem, but it's a variation of yours, in that I get accepted in messages etc, but then when they recognise me in clubs they put their clothes back on. "

I'm sure that's not true...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeting in person is so much easier to see if there is an attraction than on a profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have the same problem, but it's a variation of yours, in that I get accepted in messages etc, but then when they recognise me in clubs they put their clothes back on. "

I'd definitely buy you a Gibson up and after that I'd trip you up and be under you before you hit the floor

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We met up with a couple on the weekend who had blocked us a few months before. Didn't realise it was them until they were leaving and we swapped details. All (VERY) good now! :D

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Sometimes we delete single guys messages as its not something we are looking for. That can change in a club though when it's more spontaneous "

This is a HUGE thing I really don't understand... why aren't you just blocking single guys messaging you??

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