FabSwingers.com forum: What better Club or Meeting up without going to a club

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Let me know which is the best way and if you do attend clubs please let me know any good ones for single men to attend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

both have there place but i find private meets much much better and more fun

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By *WfuncoupleCouple
over a year ago

We prefer club meets as less pressure. Our favourite is Liberty Elite in Lutterworth. Single males on a Friday and accommodation on site

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We prefer club meets as less pressure. Our favourite is Liberty Elite in Lutterworth. Single males on a Friday and accommodation on site "

I might have to try this place out online is hard work and you get judged to fast I’d rather just go to club and be myself. I think club is more better to break ice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"both have there place but i find private meets much much better and more fun"

Thank you for your reply beautiful

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By *WillowxWoman
over a year ago

Oo err Devon

I dont know about single guys but I prefer a club at the moment... I don't feel so much pressure... Or worry about meeting people and not feeling a connection.

it's also the only place we would meet a single guy at the moment.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

I stick to clubs for safety & limited free time reasons.

I go to club sx as its local. Club reviews section is handy to find your local club & see what others think about them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I stick to clubs for safety & limited free time reasons.

I go to club sx as its local. Club reviews section is handy to find your local club & see what others think about them."

Thanks for your reply

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I dont know about single guys but I prefer a club at the moment... I don't feel so much pressure... Or worry about meeting people and not feeling a connection.

it's also the only place we would meet a single guy at the moment. "

Thanks for your reply I think I might go club instead .

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By *ussellmyMassonMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

In Wales every so often their is a bowling meet up it’s really good

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By *eachy123Woman
over a year ago

Rochdale/Manchester/Blackpool and were ever the mood takes me

I find clubs easier and if u don't click with a meet you can always both socialise with other people too

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Let me know which is the best way and if you do attend clubs please let me know any good ones for single men to attend "
I only do first meets in clubs. Occasionally I will then meet someone outside but rare

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

New to me people I meet for a coffee locally first.

I don't like the fees single men get charged or the occasional lack of trust by club staff

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I find clubs easier and if u don't click with a meet you can always both socialise with other people too "

Very true can be more yourself when your out socialising

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Let me know which is the best way and if you do attend clubs please let me know any good ones for single men to attend I only do first meets in clubs. Occasionally I will then meet someone outside but rare "

Got to find that someone worth the while and who u connect with for rare meet ups

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By *eovilcouple76Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

We like a club, it’s more social than anything else, no pressure to play, But real easy if you find someone who takes your fancy,

But of course it’s more intimate if you arrange a meet, and you get the build up,

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

Got to find that someone worth the while and who u connect with for rare meet ups

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oh I have

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"New to me people I meet for a coffee locally first.

I don't like the fees single men get charged or the occasional lack of trust by club staff

I hear that but they no single guys will pay for a night out so they get away with charging there fees.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We like a club, it’s more social than anything else, no pressure to play, But real easy if you find someone who takes your fancy,

But of course it’s more intimate if you arrange a meet, and you get the build up,

;) true very true

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Got to find that someone worth the while and who u connect with for rare meet ups

oh I have "

Good to hear

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Let me know which is the best way and if you do attend clubs please let me know any good ones for single men to attend "

I much prefer private meets, they're far more intimate and reliable for sharing fun.

Every club will tell you they welcome single guys (they want your money), and if you've nothing better to do, then a club visit is one way to fill an evening

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Same here

everytime we try to organise something other than a club meet it has gone wrong, barring one social meet over a cup of tea. Clubs seem much more conducive to fancying people and you don’t have the same issues with logistics!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Same here

How can anyone let you down for a meet I would be round like lightning to see you

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By *orkshirefucktruck2Couple
over a year ago

barnsley

Get a fucktruck....we clubbed 4 notes a week as we used to visit clubs allover but set the van up and demand to play in it escalated so fast we upgraded to a bigger van,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeting at a club is a good idea. If you dont click you can move on. Clubs like Chams, JD's, Bristol Gardens and Pleasures are all good.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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I only meet at Clubs and purely by chance. It safer, there's no messing about and people are right there so we can work out if we want to take things further, no trying to align your calenders, concern that people don't match their profile or any other complications.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I only meet at Clubs and purely by chance. It safer, there's no messing about and people are right there so we can work out if we want to take things further, no trying to align your calenders, concern that people don't match their profile or any other complications. "

Very true hun can take it from there more easier and less hassle than being online

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Meeting at a club is a good idea. If you dont click you can move on. Clubs like Chams, JD's, Bristol Gardens and Pleasures are all good."

Good to know for when I’m next down in Bristol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll only ever meet in a club, even for a social (specifically Townhouse). For me it's part of what my husband and I agreed, for my safety. But also it takes the pressure off, and there are plenty of others around to socialize with if you don't get on.

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By *uto564Man
over a year ago

Widnes

We like club meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve literally just been having this conversation. I’ve been feeling a bit “Meh” with Fab recently. Way too many dreamers, chancers and unreliable people.

Clubs are definitely the way forward for us. You’re having a great night out with likeminded people, no worries about them not being who they say they are. You’re meeting people you might never have found on Fab and you’re not having to take the risk of inviting someone into your home.

I can see us eventually not looking for meets on Fab at all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We’ve literally just been having this conversation. I’ve been feeling a bit “Meh” with Fab recently. Way too many dreamers, chancers and unreliable people.

I can see us eventually not looking for meets on Fab at all.

Same I’ve given up hope of talking on here forums best place where there’s no negativity

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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Mostly in clubs I'm only social and just enjoy seeing everybody, watching what's going on and enjoying a glass of wine.

The chance that more might happen is always exciting, but being around liberated like-minded people is more than enough for me to have a goodnight.

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By *ittyscottCouple
over a year ago

LANCASHIRE

Clubs is my choice as its safer if you're a female

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

I find that as a single guy the wrong side of 50 , who can’t accommodate and not the most photogenic I don’t get much success sending or receiving messages.For me clubs work better and I attend socials as well which for me work better.

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By *he-ProfessorMan
over a year ago

cheltenham

Having done both I have to say I much prefer club meets.

As others have said the atmosphere is more conducive to relaxing & getting to know someone's naughtier mind.

Sometimes they are social only, sometimes much more focused on play but always fun.

There is always the bonus of potentially making lots of new friends and most of the clubs I got to have a jacuzzi to aid the relaxation.

I have had some good meets outside clubs but most have been awkward in some way & one or both have decided to leave earlier than expected.

That said meets outside clubs with people I've met at clubs always seem to be fun.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

As someone who has done both and actively advertise for both, I would say club meets are more fun

Last weekend, managed to get a snog of someone I know, managed to give a spanking demo, and toy demo with some else. Played with a couple and a single female that I didn’t know, another spanking demo with the female, watching an all girl orgy, get a bj and group fun with 2 couples as well

That was on the Saturday night and not including the Friday night fun. How much ground work did I do to get the above. Nothing. I turned up at the club with my bucket and a smile and bondage kit.

Ok to have that much fun on one night is rare I must say but to have the equivalent in a hotel situation would have to spend a lot of time for sure

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Same here

How can anyone let you down for a meet I would be round like lightning to see you

Flatterer!

It happens, so we have just decided it is either a Club or a Private Party only from now on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Same here

How can anyone let you down for a meet I would be round like lightning to see you

Flatterer!

It happens, so we have just decided it is either a Club or a Private Party only from now on

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

We prefer club meets

If it’s a wash out there are always more options available rather than the whole night being a wash out.

Chameleons for us, Friday nights are our favourite.

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