FabSwingers.com forum: Question to ladies

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you get put off by a man being bi?

I am proudly bi but I notice, on here more than at clubs, women tend to stipulate 'no bi men'.

Intrigued what it is that turns you off? Just to help understanding nothing else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally yes, if I was looking to meet men, I'd avoid those I knew were bi.

I just don't like the idea of being with a man who has been with other men. It's not for me.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

My preference is for bi men, not everybody feels the same of course

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I have no preference but some do.

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Personally yes, if I was looking to meet men, I'd avoid those I knew were bi.

I just don't like the idea of being with a man who has been with other men. It's not for me."

Fair enough. I completely respect that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My preference is for bi men, not everybody feels the same of course"

You're a very rare but much welcomed lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I love seeing men kissing and sucking each other. Turns me on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No. I love seeing men kissing and sucking each other. Turns me on. "

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I find it a turn on when they’re telling me what they’ve been up to with other men

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Personally yes, if I was looking to meet men, I'd avoid those I knew were bi.

I just don't like the idea of being with a man who has been with other men. It's not for me."

But would you expect straight men to meet you after knowing you have been with other women?. This question is not intended to be hurtful im just interested to know the answer.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

I prefer a guy to be bi its not a deal breaker if he is straight tho

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Personally yes, if I was looking to meet men, I'd avoid those I knew were bi.

I just don't like the idea of being with a man who has been with other men. It's not for me.

But would you expect straight men to meet you after knowing you have been with other women?. This question is not intended to be hurtful im just interested to know the answer."

Good question. I do feel that bisexuality is much wider accepted when it is the female that is bi.

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman
over a year ago

Hiding from twats

I couldn't give a toss, I really don't understand the issue.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Personally yes, if I was looking to meet men, I'd avoid those I knew were bi.

I just don't like the idea of being with a man who has been with other men. It's not for me.

But would you expect straight men to meet you after knowing you have been with other women?. This question is not intended to be hurtful im just interested to know the answer.

Good question. I do feel that bisexuality is much wider accepted when it is the female that is bi. "

Yes i have noticed this too but never really understood why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally yes, if I was looking to meet men, I'd avoid those I knew were bi.

I just don't like the idea of being with a man who has been with other men. It's not for me."

This is how I feel about it too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We dont see by guys or any one that has veris from bi guys.

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By *ants cockWoman
over a year ago

lincoln

"Personally yes, if I was looking to meet men, I'd avoid those I knew were bi.

I just don't like the idea of being with a man who has been with other men. It's not for me.

But would you expect straight men to meet you after knowing you have been with other women?. This question is not intended to be hurtful im just interested to know the answer.

Good question. I do feel that bisexuality is much wider accepted when it is the female that is bi.

Yes i have noticed this too but never really understood why."

It’s because of aids and hiv doubt you will get anyone admit that on here.

I had an argument with a bi female friend about this. She found out an ex partner of mine was bi. Said I was disgusting an we was both dirty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind either way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Personally yes, if I was looking to meet men, I'd avoid those I knew were bi.

I just don't like the idea of being with a man who has been with other men. It's not for me.

But would you expect straight men to meet you after knowing you have been with other women?. This question is not intended to be hurtful im just interested to know the answer.

Good question. I do feel that bisexuality is much wider accepted when it is the female that is bi.

Yes i have noticed this too but never really understood why.

It’s because of aids and hiv doubt you will get anyone admit that on here.

I had an argument with a bi female friend about this. She found out an ex partner of mine was bi. Said I was disgusting an we was both dirty.

You may just have hit the nail on the head. Crazy...safe sex should be a given these days regardless of sexuality. Certainly always has been here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Double standards also, because women who are bi or straight couples saying they won't meet bi guys. saying they don't like it yet female bi no one blinks an eye at it

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

I think in general though that alot more men are a turned on by two women playing together than women are by men playing together, there are exceptions obviously but in general. So I can understand if some women are put off for that reason, if it's not their thing it's not their thing

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Nope, I'd love to find a bi fwb.

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"Personally yes, if I was looking to meet men, I'd avoid those I knew were bi.

I just don't like the idea of being with a man who has been with other men. It's not for me.

But would you expect straight men to meet you after knowing you have been with other women?. This question is not intended to be hurtful im just interested to know the answer.

Good question. I do feel that bisexuality is much wider accepted when it is the female that is bi.

Yes i have noticed this too but never really understood why.

It’s because of aids and hiv doubt you will get anyone admit that on here.

I had an argument with a bi female friend about this. She found out an ex partner of mine was bi. Said I was disgusting an we was both dirty.

That is part of it, but it's also years of homophobic patriarchal thinking...

I have heard women say it makes someone "less of a man", if that alone doesn't show you know shitty toxic 'masculinity' is nothing will.

Less of a man indeed.

*Waves* bisexual, well pansexual, none homophobic woman here.

I am attracted to people regardless of genitalia, gender, or sexuality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t meet a bi man. But that’s due to me giving blood and the restrictions they put on who you’ve had sex with.

Bi wouldn’t fit in with my lifestyle

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Sorry to sort of hijack this thread a little but what if that bi male was also a crossdresser too or is that seen as another thing entirely?

Myself I only dress for nights out which is not that often at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally yes, if I was looking to meet men, I'd avoid those I knew were bi.

I just don't like the idea of being with a man who has been with other men. It's not for me."

Honestly wonder if that's the reason you stopped speaking to me all of a sudden. Lot of people think I'm gay or atleast bi even though nope I'm not. It was honestly such a shame to me when that hapoened as we had spent spent a lit of time talking and planning things i do wonder now i have seen this.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

I dont mind as long as the guy doesnt want to play with a guy with me there x

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Doesn't make a difference to me.

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Makes no difference to me xx

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Not at all. Bi Guys are SO much more fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally yes, if I was looking to meet men, I'd avoid those I knew were bi.

I just don't like the idea of being with a man who has been with other men. It's not for me.

But would you expect straight men to meet you after knowing you have been with other women?. This question is not intended to be hurtful im just interested to know the answer."

Not at all, no. If they didn't like bi women I'd be fine with that, same for lesbian women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally yes, if I was looking to meet men, I'd avoid those I knew were bi.

I just don't like the idea of being with a man who has been with other men. It's not for me.

No, your profile says your straight and I'm sure that's true. I just changed my mind about wanting to meet you. That's totally allowed and I don't really think it's fair of you to bring it up in a public forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I like it, my ex was curious and I got to peg him, we broke up before we could involve another man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it to do with perceived masculinity, perhaps? I've steered clear of bi men but not really analysed the reason why. I think it's because my preference is for very masculine men and a sexual relationship that's D/s. Maybe I need to put more thought into this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not at all. Bi Guys are SO much more fun. "

I have noticed from my previous experience that bi guys tend to be much more relaxed when it comes to sexuality. And more open-minded all together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it to do with perceived masculinity, perhaps? I've steered clear of bi men but not really analysed the reason why. I think it's because my preference is for very masculine men and a sexual relationship that's D/s. Maybe I need to put more thought into this "

I feel the same way.

It is hard to explain - I think it has a lot to do with masculinity.

For me it's a feeling rather than a solid reason.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I was talking about this the other day. I wonder if it's to do with the perceived gender roles regarding men and women; during hetero sex women are penetrated, if a man is penetrated by another man, then he's perceived as having female characteristics possibly. I'm wondering if that gets conflated in a persons mind and that's why some consider bi men as less 'manly'.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Makes no difference to me xx"

Glad to hear!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, it doesn’t turn me on.

It doesn’t turn me off either though.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Personally yes, if I was looking to meet men, I'd avoid those I knew were bi.

I just don't like the idea of being with a man who has been with other men. It's not for me.

But would you expect straight men to meet you after knowing you have been with other women?. This question is not intended to be hurtful im just interested to know the answer.

Good question. I do feel that bisexuality is much wider accepted when it is the female that is bi.

Yes i have noticed this too but never really understood why.

It’s because of aids and hiv doubt you will get anyone admit that on here.

I had an argument with a bi female friend about this. She found out an ex partner of mine was bi. Said I was disgusting an we was both dirty.

Misinformation ftw.

There is a HUGE stigma still surrounding male bisexuality, I won't go into it here but the belief that we're dirty or higher risk is misinterpreted. Yes, bi guys are in a higher risk category of catching STI's, that same category also includes swingers and sexually promiscuous singles.

The simple fact is, from a medical point of view, anyone who engages with multiple partners *is* at higher risk.

The vast majority of bi guys value their health very highly, just the same as everyone else.

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

So bi men or gay men aren’t as masculine as straight men ? Think that’s part of the homophobic language Stonewall are trying to eradicate from society .

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

So bi men or gay men aren’t as masculine as straight men ? Think that’s part of the homophobic language Stonewall are trying to eradicate from society . "

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

"We dont see by guys or any one that has veris from bi guys. "

Let’s hope that none of them have met any away from this site. You have no idea anyone’s sexual past. And flicking through your veris 2 of them have sent us winks in the past.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"I wouldn’t meet a bi man. But that’s due to me giving blood and the restrictions they put on who you’ve had sex with.

Bi wouldn’t fit in with my lifestyle "

With blood donation the rules were changed a little in 2017. Men who have oral or anal sex with another man are able to donate blood 3 months after their last sexual encounter. So this may not be an issue, with all bi men.

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

"I wouldn’t meet a bi man. But that’s due to me giving blood and the restrictions they put on who you’ve had sex with.

Bi wouldn’t fit in with my lifestyle

And it’s only openly bi and gay men that follow the rules. There’s plenty of people that do donate blood that don’t disclose their sexual past. And you can’t test for being bi or gay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So bi men or gay men aren’t as masculine as straight men ? Think that’s part of the homophobic language Stonewall are trying to eradicate from society . "

You're putting words into my mouth. "Perceived masculinity" isn't homophobic. Neither is being straight.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"I wouldn’t meet a bi man. But that’s due to me giving blood and the restrictions they put on who you’ve had sex with.

Bi wouldn’t fit in with my lifestyle

And it’s only openly bi and gay men that follow the rules. There’s plenty of people that do donate blood that don’t disclose their sexual past. And you can’t test for being bi or gay. "

Exactly it's not different to having to wait after a new tattoo or piercing.

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By *rMrsRichCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouh

"Do you get put off by a man being bi?

I am proudly bi but I notice, on here more than at clubs, women tend to stipulate 'no bi men'.

Intrigued what it is that turns you off? Just to help understanding nothing else."

No my fella is bi. They’re the only single guys we talk to!!

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

So bi men or gay men aren’t as masculine as straight men ? Think that’s part of the homophobic language Stonewall are trying to eradicate from society .

You're putting words into my mouth. "Perceived masculinity" isn't homophobic. Neither is being straight. "

“Your preference is for very masculine men so you steer away from bi men”

Everyone has their preferences and it’s fine that you are not looking for them. But the words you used are based on a stereotype. Where in the real world bi and gay men have a wide spectrum of masculinity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn’t meet a bi man. But that’s due to me giving blood and the restrictions they put on who you’ve had sex with.

Bi wouldn’t fit in with my lifestyle "

That's not a valid reason. Blood gets tested at the same time you give it. You shouldn't worry about that as every time you give blood if something is found in it it wil be discarded.

Not meeting bi people because you give blood makes no sense. Different thing would be that you don't meet them because you don't want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So bi men or gay men aren’t as masculine as straight men ? Think that’s part of the homophobic language Stonewall are trying to eradicate from society .

You're putting words into my mouth. "Perceived masculinity" isn't homophobic. Neither is being straight.

“Your preference is for very masculine men so you steer away from bi men”

"Perceived masculinity" is a concept that spans all gender groups, and types of sexuality. If, as you suggest, I'm acting on stereotypes, they're ones based on my experience of my circle of friends and colleagues that includes gay/bi men and women. That circle exists, I assure you, in 'the real world'.

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

"I wouldn’t meet a bi man. But that’s due to me giving blood and the restrictions they put on who you’ve had sex with.

Bi wouldn’t fit in with my lifestyle

That's not a valid reason. Blood gets tested at the same time you give it. You shouldn't worry about that as every time you give blood if something is found in it it wil be discarded.

Not meeting bi people because you give blood makes no sense. Different thing would be that you don't meet them because you don't want."

It’s just a way of saying they don’t meet bi guys. But use a back dated view to justify why. Instead of just saying they want to

The blood donors page now says people who are at risk are in these groups.

lifestyle and sexual activity

travel

illness and medical conditions

getting a tattoo or piercing

endoscopy

It doesn’t point out gay and bi men as an individual group they come under lifestyle and sexual activity(along with swingers and prostitutes).

Travel location is on there , do you check where people have been on holiday? And do you check what illnesses they may have ? Lots of people like tattoos and piercings a very high risk category do you check who did their tattoo ?

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

So bi men or gay men aren’t as masculine as straight men ? Think that’s part of the homophobic language Stonewall are trying to eradicate from society .

You're putting words into my mouth. "Perceived masculinity" isn't homophobic. Neither is being straight.

“Your preference is for very masculine men so you steer away from bi men”

Again that’s fine but not what you put in your post.

Your username suggests that your attracted to intelligent men do you think bi men cant be intelligent ? Or are you only attracted to straight intelligent men? Intelligent men are generally portrayed in films as guys that are are weak and nerdy. Yet you only meet extremely masculine men. So you can see where one statement leads to confusion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So bi men or gay men aren’t as masculine as straight men ? Think that’s part of the homophobic language Stonewall are trying to eradicate from society .

You're putting words into my mouth. "Perceived masculinity" isn't homophobic. Neither is being straight.

“Your preference is for very masculine men so you steer away from bi men”

Again that’s fine but not what you put in your post.

We watch different films, clearly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Double standards also, because women who are bi or straight couples saying they won't meet bi guys. saying they don't like it yet female bi no one blinks an eye at it"
that's because woman are sexy men are dirty

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

"Double standards also, because women who are bi or straight couples saying they won't meet bi guys. saying they don't like it yet female bi no one blinks an eye at it that's because woman are sexy men are dirty

In a fair amount of people’s eyes you are correct

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

It doesn't bother me, I'm bi myself. What does bother me is when they aren't honest about it, but I can sympathise with why they aren't x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why can't we all fancy who we fancy without people telling us it's wrong?

I dont get upset when people dont fancy me because I'm fat or black - I'm not calling anyone a racist fat hater!

I don't fancy Bi men and I dont see why I have to justify it to people that clearly want an argument.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A man being bi is a plus, for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why can't we all fancy who we fancy without people telling us it's wrong?

I dont get upset when people dont fancy me because I'm fat or black - I'm not calling anyone a racist fat hater!

I don't fancy Bi men and I dont see why I have to justify it to people that clearly want an argument.

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By *ixen13Woman
over a year ago

Cowdenbeath

I prefer a bi guy, being a bi woman myself i feel we can both understand each others needs and desires more easily

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

"Why can't we all fancy who we fancy without people telling us it's wrong?

I dont get upset when people dont fancy me because I'm fat or black - I'm not calling anyone a racist fat hater!

I don't fancy Bi men and I dont see why I have to justify it to people that clearly want an argument.

No one wants justification of who and why they meet people. Everyone has pretences. It’s normally best people don’t tell others why they meet or don’t meet different groups. But when people openly say they don’t meet people because they aren’t masculine or dirty or avoid any person that has met certain groups it tends to cause friction .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm really shocked by some of the attitudes people still have and their justifications for it.

I celebrate the differences between men and women and love them for it.

Why can't a bi guy be masculine or Dom for that matter.

I've known several bi guys and all of them i would say have been far more vocal in their concern over sexual health than the straight ones ive met.

I don't seek out either because it's not a consideration, i'm far more interested in the person than a label.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It makes no difference to me what someones sexuality is, as long as there is mutual attraction.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I'm really shocked by some of the attitudes people still have and their justifications for it.

I celebrate the differences between men and women and love them for it.

Why can't a bi guy be masculine or Dom for that matter.

I've known several bi guys and all of them i would say have been far more vocal in their concern over sexual health than the straight ones ive met.

I don't seek out either because it's not a consideration, i'm far more interested in the person than a label."

A bi guy can be masculine and dom, I've met many and I am also one of them.

I believe that it's very much about perception and stigma. Preferences are fine but unless a person/people are questioning *why* they have these preferences and what they're based on, then we will continue to have this discussion forever.

The simple fact is that preferences can be and sometimes are based on prejudice and bigotry. Dressing it up in more acceptable language and hiding in semantics is part of the issue.

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By *sm81Couple
over a year ago

warwickshire

Doesn't bother us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally yes, if I was looking to meet men, I'd avoid those I knew were bi.

I just don't like the idea of being with a man who has been with other men. It's not for me.

But would you expect straight men to meet you after knowing you have been with other women?. This question is not intended to be hurtful im just interested to know the answer.

Good question. I do feel that bisexuality is much wider accepted when it is the female that is bi.

Yes i have noticed this too but never really understood why.

It’s because of aids and hiv doubt you will get anyone admit that on here.

I had an argument with a bi female friend about this. She found out an ex partner of mine was bi. Said I was disgusting an we was both dirty.

Misinformation ftw.

The simple fact is, from a medical point of view, anyone who engages with multiple partners *is* at higher risk.

The vast majority of bi guys value their health very highly, just the same as everyone else.

Exactly this. No one ever truly knows another person’s sexual history whatever their gender/sexuality is. It infuriates me when straight people take the moral high ground on this subject.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why can't we all fancy who we fancy without people telling us it's wrong?

I dont get upset when people dont fancy me because I'm fat or black - I'm not calling anyone a racist fat hater!

I don't fancy Bi men and I dont see why I have to justify it to people that clearly want an argument.

beards and boobs.... you have made some very valid points on this thread. Thank you!

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By *arenjeffCouple
over a year ago

oldham

My wife loves it

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"Why can't we all fancy who we fancy without people telling us it's wrong?

I dont get upset when people dont fancy me because I'm fat or black - I'm not calling anyone a racist fat hater!

I don't fancy Bi men and I dont see why I have to justify it to people that clearly want an argument.

Except there is a world of difference between saying you only find a certain body type attractive and saying that you don't find bisexual men attractive because they 'aren't masculine'.

One is a preference, the other is a stereotype, and stereotypes are based in prejudice.

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By *onyMad123Couple
over a year ago

nottingham/ derby

Our Personal preference is only for straight guys, doesn't make us a bad people, same as personal preference for white males, I think you are fully entitled to a personal preference when it's something so intimate to choose, also we like people that are interesting, and can hold a conversation. I'm totally honest with my preferences, after all you dont eat a meal you dislike, and this type of life is a choice not a nessecity.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Our Personal preference is only for straight guys, doesn't make us a bad people, same as personal preference for white males, I think you are fully entitled to a personal preference when it's something so intimate to choose, also we like people that are interesting, and can hold a conversation. I'm totally honest with my preferences, after all you dont eat a meal you dislike, and this type of life is a choice not a nessecity. "

No one is saying that you have to meet anyone that you don't want to, in that sense, preference is 'sacred'. I do also think that people should know why they have those preferences and if they're based on stereotypes or prejudice then it becomes hard to defend those preferences.

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By *onyMad123Couple
over a year ago

nottingham/ derby

That's like vegans and vegetarians explaining their choices, I know what I like and don't like, not based on stereotypes or predujice but the same reason a man may not like me as I'm fat, that's a choice. It's getting far complicated, why does someone eat meat, why do some not, why do people like certain sexual acts and others not, its about the right to choose, without being judged for being choosy.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

What I don't understand but maybe it's because I'm simple. But I don't see profiles saying no bi women, or on the forum threads. Why is it that there is such a difference between how bi women and men perceived?

On this thread the ideas that bi men can't be a Dom, or that it has a major impact on blood donation have been debunked. Health risks a bi man whose come out of a stable long term relationship Vs a man who has been single and playing the field. Who is more a risk to your health?

I understand preferences but I don't understand why being bi is such a no go area?

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

"That's like vegans and vegetarians explaining their choices, I know what I like and don't like, not based on stereotypes or predujice but the same reason a man may not like me as I'm fat, that's a choice. It's getting far complicated, why does someone eat meat, why do some not, why do people like certain sexual acts and others not, its about the right to choose, without being judged for being choosy. "

No one cares what your choice may be. If you want to meet someone or not meet someone is your own business. But people who give a negative generalisation about people or a certain group is wrong. If you don’t meet bi people that’s great 99% of the population probably don’t. But don’t then say because they carry diseases or because they aren’t man enough.

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

"What I don't understand but maybe it's because I'm simple. But I don't see profiles saying no bi women, or on the forum threads. Why is it that there is such a difference between how bi women and men perceived?

I understand preferences but I don't understand why being bi is such a no go area?"

It’s because people believe bi men are at risk (and yes some are ) bi women don’t tend to have penetrative sex with each other so less risk. Although lots do use strap ons and dildos on each other. And who knows how they have been used before . You never see the double ended dildos on pics with condoms on them. Everyone takes a risk when having sex regardless of gender, sexuality or ethnic back ground . As long as you take your own precautions that meet your own requirements then you can’t lay blame elsewhere.

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over a year ago

I wonder if there's also maybe a subconscious feeling of increased competition? I know it doesn't apply to this site and what people on here are looking for, but I know if I were dating a bi guy I wouldn't just worry about him looking at other women but men too, which increases the competition by 50% if that makes sense?

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"I wonder if there's also maybe a subconscious feeling of increased competition? I know it doesn't apply to this site and what people on here are looking for, but I know if I were dating a bi guy I wouldn't just worry about him looking at other women but men too, which increases the competition by 50% if that makes sense? "

When I'm in love with someone, nobody else is my OH competition. I maybe bi but my head turns a lot less than some of my straight friends. Some people look more than others it's nothing to to do with sexual orientation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah of course but I just meant from the point of view of someone who is worrying about what their partner is thinking.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Yeah of course but I just meant from the point of view of someone who is worrying about what their partner is thinking. "

Comes down to communication, same as any other relationship x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being bi does not equate to being promiscuous or sexually irresponsible.

Ask the many desperate straight guys that contact bi guys looking to hook up.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Being bi does not equate to being promiscuous or sexually irresponsible.

Ask the many desperate straight guys that contact bi guys looking to hook up."

Agreed, or the straight guys who meet TV/TS.

All the stigma does is lead people to lie and to hide their sexuality in the hope that it will increase their chances with others who only meet straight people.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

"Why can't we all fancy who we fancy without people telling us it's wrong?

I dont get upset when people dont fancy me because I'm fat or black - I'm not calling anyone a racist fat hater!

I don't fancy Bi men and I dont see why I have to justify it to people that clearly want an argument.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Whilst I don't disagree that for *some* of those that stipulate "no bi men" that the reasons may be based in ignorance, bigotry or stigma - I'm not sure the perception that people who won't meet bi men are in the majority is correct, in fact in my experience far more people are either actively looking for bi men, or not bothered either way, than won't meet us.

It's just because those that won't tend to stipulate it that it *seems* they are in a majority

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By *uthLessKnickersCouple
over a year ago

Cornwall/Devon

"Do you get put off by a man being bi?

I am proudly bi but I notice, on here more than at clubs, women tend to stipulate 'no bi men'.

Intrigued what it is that turns you off? Just to help understanding nothing else."

Bi men are a much higher HIV and aids risk than straight guys. That’s why we will not meet bi men.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Do you get put off by a man being bi?

I am proudly bi but I notice, on here more than at clubs, women tend to stipulate 'no bi men'.

Intrigued what it is that turns you off? Just to help understanding nothing else.

Bi men are a much higher HIV and aids risk than straight guys. That’s why we will not meet bi men."

And yet Swingers are placed in exactly the same risk category for STI/HIV as bi men, along with the younger age group...and here you are

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

"Do you get put off by a man being bi?

I am proudly bi but I notice, on here more than at clubs, women tend to stipulate 'no bi men'.

Intrigued what it is that turns you off? Just to help understanding nothing else.

Bi men are a much higher HIV and aids risk than straight guys. That’s why we will not meet bi men."

Might want to check a few of your verifications

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By *iffy1968Man
over a year ago

STAFFORD

We are looking for a bi guy to meet , id like to see Ian with a bi guy , but we happily meet straight guys too

Lucy

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

"Do you get put off by a man being bi?

I am proudly bi but I notice, on here more than at clubs, women tend to stipulate 'no bi men'.

Intrigued what it is that turns you off? Just to help understanding nothing else.

Bi men are a much higher HIV and aids risk than straight guys. That’s why we will not meet bi men."

https://www.medicinenet.com/script/main/art.asp?articlekey=117499#

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By *ittlesub4uWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Homophobia dressed up as preference.

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

"Do you get put off by a man being bi?

I am proudly bi but I notice, on here more than at clubs, women tend to stipulate 'no bi men'.

Intrigued what it is that turns you off? Just to help understanding nothing else.

Bi men are a much higher HIV and aids risk than straight guys. That’s why we will not meet bi men."
this is so ignorant , maybe do some research

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over a year ago

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

"Do you get put off by a man being bi?

I am proudly bi but I notice, on here more than at clubs, women tend to stipulate 'no bi men'.

Intrigued what it is that turns you off? Just to help understanding nothing else.

Bi men are a much higher HIV and aids risk than straight guys. That’s why we will not meet bi men.this is so ignorant , maybe do some research

Very, especially as their green arrow suggests they love random bareback with other couples so not overly concerned about transmitting diseases.

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By *achelnMarkCouple
over a year ago

Mid Wiltshire

Not fancying "bi guys" is a bit odd - how on earth do you know? You'd not know either of us were - and indeed none of our normal friends have a clue.

Its not like their colour, build, size fitness or manhood or other physical or even mental characteristic you like or not.

Judging by how many "straight" guys message us, tell us they are bi, and give us their fab-guys profile ID is amazing - and the reason is to get to play with people who they would otherwise block.

Don't get us wrong, if you look around fabguys there is a lot to put you off bi men!!! (bareback is an activity filter for instance). But we, as a bi couple, use it to filter to our taste as well! Not all bi people are skanky!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Do you get put off by a man being bi?

I am proudly bi but I notice, on here more than at clubs, women tend to stipulate 'no bi men'.

Intrigued what it is that turns you off? Just to help understanding nothing else.

Bi men are a much higher HIV and aids risk than straight guys. That’s why we will not meet bi men.this is so ignorant , maybe do some research

Very, especially as their green arrow suggests they love random bareback with other couples so not overly concerned about transmitting diseases.

Got to love the green arrow

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By *uesdaysfundayCouple
over a year ago

Sandbach

Don't give a tosh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's so bizarre that so many people get offended by what other people find sexually appealing.

You'll find no judgement from me.

I know who and what I find attractive - why is that wrong?

None of it is based on any phobic tendencies.

I had a relationship with a woman for 3yrs - I experiencedr hatred and homophobia- it's not just restricted to men.

Why is it wrong that I want to fuck heterosexual men?

We are all on Fab to fulfill our fantasies and I'm bored of being told off for what I find attractive.

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

"It's so bizarre that so many people get offended by what other people find sexually appealing.

You'll find no judgement from me.

I know who and what I find attractive - why is that wrong?

None of it is based on any phobic tendencies.

I had a relationship with a woman for 3yrs - I experiencedr hatred and homophobia- it's not just restricted to men.

Why is it wrong that I want to fuck heterosexual men?

We are all on Fab to fulfill our fantasies and I'm bored of being told off for what I find attractive.

Show me one comment where someone has said it’s wrong to only fancy heterosexual men. There is none.

Not fancying or wanting to meet bi and gay men is completely different to homophobia.

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By *onyMad123Couple
over a year ago

nottingham/ derby

I'm not offended, I have gay and bisexual friends of birth sexes, far from homophobic or racist, just my personal choice, end of and we are all entitled to have that choice, after all its a enhancement not a nessecity, would you eat food or drive a car you weren't keen on, same goes for my preference, doesn't mean because your a white straight male, your in, absolutely not, many more things that makes a person appealing.

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By *onyMad123Couple
over a year ago

nottingham/ derby

Both sorry typo

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

How in the living hell has this got shit all to do with this imaginary patriarchy?

You’ve been watching too many social media posts or YouTube videos.

It has zero to do with patriarchy and is entirely related to two women having views that are out dated and somewhat homophobic. But nothing to do with a patriarchy. Men literally get blamed for shit constantly these days.

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

Btw, I didn’t say those women were homophobic. They said they didn’t want a man who’s gone with other men. But there was no reason, thus, the comments come off that way is what I meant. Clarifying. But ... either way, patriarchy? Lol

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

"It's so bizarre that so many people get offended by what other people find sexually appealing.

You'll find no judgement from me.

I know who and what I find attractive - why is that wrong?

None of it is based on any phobic tendencies.

I had a relationship with a woman for 3yrs - I experiencedr hatred and homophobia- it's not just restricted to men.

Why is it wrong that I want to fuck heterosexual men?

We are all on Fab to fulfill our fantasies and I'm bored of being told off for what I find attractive.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Speaking as a bisexual man I have absolutely no problem with people who prefer not to meet me because of my sexuality - it's their preference just the same as those that rule me out because they don't find me attractive, prefer someone who has stamina or any one of the other myriad reasons they might choose not to meet me - it's unlikely we'd find a connection and chemistry anyway.

What I *do* have a problem with is when the reason for that preference is expressed in bigoted or ignorant terms - but simply stating "no bi guys" on a profile doesn't fall into that category in itself, so doesn't bother me in the slightest.

As I said further up, the number of people that *will* meet bi guys is far greater than those that won't - there's just a perception that more people won't because it stands out on a profile when it's stated (whereas those that will meet us don't often state it overtly)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is always that feeling when you know the person is attracted to both males and females but it also works both ways.

The bonus is that it presents a whole lot more opportunities when you’re together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you get put off by a man being bi?

I am proudly bi but I notice, on here more than at clubs, women tend to stipulate 'no bi men'.

Intrigued what it is that turns you off? Just to help understanding nothing else.

Bi men are a much higher HIV and aids risk than straight guys. That’s why we will not meet bi men.this is so ignorant , maybe do some research

Outstandingly ignorant.

People in glass houses....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't put me off been with a bi guy, I have in the past and I had lots of fun too.

But everyone has their own likes and preferences x

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

"Do you get put off by a man being bi?

I am proudly bi but I notice, on here more than at clubs, women tend to stipulate 'no bi men'.

Intrigued what it is that turns you off? Just to help understanding nothing else.

Bi men are a much higher HIV and aids risk than straight guys. That’s why we will not meet bi men.this is so ignorant , maybe do some research

Outstandingly ignorant.

People in glass houses....

Funny thing is one of their “straight” verifications messaged us as we had looked at their profile and clicked on their verifications and he said he loves sucking cock and wanted to meet us and he also said he indulges in bareback sex.

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

Preference and prejudice are too totally different things.

Preference

I don’t meet bi guys

I don’t meet black guys

I don’t fancy gay guys

I don’t want to meet vegans

I don’t like fat girls

Prejudice

I don’t meet bi guys as they aren’t masculine

I don’t meet Asian guys as they have small dicks

I don’t meet gay guys as they will give me aids

There’s also Ignorance , “I won’t meet any one that’s met bi guys”. You have no idea who anyone has met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally yes, if I was looking to meet men, I'd avoid those I knew were bi.

I just don't like the idea of being with a man who has been with other men. It's not for me.

Erm you messaged me a while back??

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By *ucidityWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Do you get put off by a man being bi?

I am proudly bi but I notice, on here more than at clubs, women tend to stipulate 'no bi men'.

Intrigued what it is that turns you off? Just to help understanding nothing else."

Not at all, I love bi men! Generally, they’re my preference as there are more play possibilities. I find it a huge turn on to watch men play together.

Maybe identifying as bi myself influences how I feel.

I really struggle with the implication that bi identifying men are somehow less masculine...to date, the bi men I have met have been incredibly stereotypically ‘masculine’ but my opinions on what society considers to be and not to be masculine and the impact that has on men is probably meant for some other place.

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By *OXO2018Couple
over a year ago

Norfolk

I (lou) love BI men, it's a real turn on for me.

We are most full swap, and I will now only BI swap if everyone is involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you get put off by a man being bi?

I am proudly bi but I notice, on here more than at clubs, women tend to stipulate 'no bi men'.

Intrigued what it is that turns you off? Just to help understanding nothing else.

Bi men are a much higher HIV and aids risk than straight guys. That’s why we will not meet bi men.this is so ignorant , maybe do some research

Outstandingly ignorant.

People in glass houses....

The hypocrisy on this site sickens me.

If people have to lie about their sexual preferences on a swingers site then I dread to think about their dishonesty in real life.

As I said earlier, no one knows anyone’s sexual history on here 100% but those that sit in moral judgment on others need to take a good look at themselves first

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t like the act of men having sex with men.

For the record, I like gay men, gay women, bi men, bi women, straight men, straight women, TVs, ts, cd. I like people - doesn’t matter what race, gender, sexuality they are. In the real world, I like everyone!

The the bedroom .... straight men, bi women ... lots of bi women.

Just my preference, as everyone has their own. If we all like the same thing, the world would be a very boring place !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We dont see by guys or any one that has veris from bi guys.

Let’s hope that none of them have met any away from this site. You have no idea anyone’s sexual past. And flicking through your veris 2 of them have sent us winks in the past. "

Jeeze.. I'm concerned about you, you're ever so angry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don’t meet bi guys and we don’t meet straight girls, as a bi female I want to play with a lady in a couple too, no compromise

If I was a bi guy I would want to play with the guy in the couple

We don’t compromise, we don’t expect others too xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not bothered at all meeting a bi guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all! If discussions are had and boundaries are set so all are comfortable I don't see why your sexuality should be an issue. Mr is straight and quite comfortable in himself around other men, just because you fancy other men doesn't mean you're going to pounce on every bloke in penis range. I do so hate that sterotype.

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By *candiumWoman
over a year ago

oban

Would love to find a bi FWB. More chance of 3somes then

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"We don’t meet bi guys and we don’t meet straight girls, as a bi female I want to play with a lady in a couple too, no compromise

If I was a bi guy I would want to play with the guy in the couple

We don’t compromise, we don’t expect others too xx"

Your choice and preference of course and that is to be respected - but interesting that you are inferring that bi guys are somehow "compromising" if they meet someone who is straight, whether that be a single lady, or a couple where the male half is straight.

I don't see it as compromising at all - my sexuality has wide and varied tastes which are catered to in different ways and my bisexual side is not a "must have" - I've been involved in MFM's and MFMF's and similar where I've had a fantastic time and the thought of the other guys cock hasn't crossed my mind in the slightest.

I just see my sexuality as a smorgasbord from which I may select different things each time I visit it.

As I said, not arguing with your preference or disagreeing with it in any way whatsoever just found the point about "compromising" an interesting one to expand on.

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

"We dont see by guys or any one that has veris from bi guys.

Let’s hope that none of them have met any away from this site. You have no idea anyone’s sexual past. And flicking through your veris 2 of them have sent us winks in the past.

Jeeze.. I'm concerned about you, you're ever so angry

Not angry at all mate, just pointing out you post was bollocks that’s all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We dont see by guys or any one that has veris from bi guys.

Let’s hope that none of them have met any away from this site. You have no idea anyone’s sexual past. And flicking through your veris 2 of them have sent us winks in the past.

Jeeze.. I'm concerned about you, you're ever so angry

Not angry at all mate, just pointing out you post was bollocks that’s all

You are soooo upset by my comment

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

"We dont see by guys or any one that has veris from bi guys.

Let’s hope that none of them have met any away from this site. You have no idea anyone’s sexual past. And flicking through your veris 2 of them have sent us winks in the past.

Jeeze.. I'm concerned about you, you're ever so angry

Not angry at all mate, just pointing out you post was bollocks that’s all

You are soooo upset by my comment

No upset here. Everyone has preferences.

Out of interest how do police who others have met ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We dont see by guys or any one that has veris from bi guys.

Let’s hope that none of them have met any away from this site. You have no idea anyone’s sexual past. And flicking through your veris 2 of them have sent us winks in the past.

Jeeze.. I'm concerned about you, you're ever so angry

Not angry at all mate, just pointing out you post was bollocks that’s all

You are soooo upset by my comment

No upset here. Everyone has preferences.

Out of interest how do police who others have met ? "

Preferences.. Thought you called it ignorance?

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By *incsladyandscotsmanCouple
over a year ago

North fife

Doesn't bother me at all

As long as boundaries are set, what the guy does outside of us has nothing to do with us

L x

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

"We dont see by guys or any one that has veris from bi guys.

Let’s hope that none of them have met any away from this site. You have no idea anyone’s sexual past. And flicking through your veris 2 of them have sent us winks in the past.

Jeeze.. I'm concerned about you, you're ever so angry

Not angry at all mate, just pointing out you post was bollocks that’s all

You are soooo upset by my comment

No upset here. Everyone has preferences.

Out of interest how do police who others have met ?

Preferences.. Thought you called it ignorance?

Preference - we don’t meet bi guys

Ignorance - we don’t meet anyone that meets bi guys.

Thanks for answering the question though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We dont see by guys or any one that has veris from bi guys.

Let’s hope that none of them have met any away from this site. You have no idea anyone’s sexual past. And flicking through your veris 2 of them have sent us winks in the past.

Jeeze.. I'm concerned about you, you're ever so angry

Not angry at all mate, just pointing out you post was bollocks that’s all

You are soooo upset by my comment

No upset here. Everyone has preferences.

Out of interest how do police who others have met ?

Preferences.. Thought you called it ignorance?

Preference - we don’t meet bi guys

Ignorance - we don’t meet anyone that meets bi guys.

Thanks for answering the question though

Sorry you're sad and unhappy with other people's preferences, ohh dam I mean ignorance!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We don’t meet bi guys and we don’t meet straight girls, as a bi female I want to play with a lady in a couple too, no compromise

If I was a bi guy I would want to play with the guy in the couple

We don’t compromise, we don’t expect others too xx

I just see my sexuality as a smorgasbord from which I may select different things each time I visit it.

As I said, not arguing with your preference or disagreeing with it in any way whatsoever just found the point about "compromising" an interesting one to expand on."

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

"We dont see by guys or any one that has veris from bi guys.

Let’s hope that none of them have met any away from this site. You have no idea anyone’s sexual past. And flicking through your veris 2 of them have sent us winks in the past.

Jeeze.. I'm concerned about you, you're ever so angry

Not angry at all mate, just pointing out you post was bollocks that’s all

You are soooo upset by my comment

No upset here. Everyone has preferences.

Out of interest how do police who others have met ?

Preferences.. Thought you called it ignorance?

Preference - we don’t meet bi guys

Ignorance - we don’t meet anyone that meets bi guys.

Thanks for answering the question though

Sorry you're sad and unhappy with other people's preferences, ohh dam I mean ignorance! "

Ok mate enjoy your trolling . Would have been nice if you had added something to the debate.

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over a year ago

"We dont see by guys or any one that has veris from bi guys.

Let’s hope that none of them have met any away from this site. You have no idea anyone’s sexual past. And flicking through your veris 2 of them have sent us winks in the past.

Jeeze.. I'm concerned about you, you're ever so angry

Not angry at all mate, just pointing out you post was bollocks that’s all

You are soooo upset by my comment

No upset here. Everyone has preferences.

Out of interest how do police who others have met ?

Preferences.. Thought you called it ignorance?

Preference - we don’t meet bi guys

Ignorance - we don’t meet anyone that meets bi guys.

Thanks for answering the question though

Sorry you're sad and unhappy with other people's preferences, ohh dam I mean ignorance!

Ok mate enjoy your trolling . Would have been nice if you had added something to the debate. "

Why are you so argumentative? You dont seem like very nice person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dirty bi guys I say burn the lot of them they are all rancid and nobody should ever meet them

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"Do you get put off by a man being bi?

I am proudly bi but I notice, on here more than at clubs, women tend to stipulate 'no bi men'.

Intrigued what it is that turns you off? Just to help understanding nothing else."

I'm not put off by bi men as long as they are happy to play straight with us, as guy on guy is a real turn off for both of us.

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By *acky RacersCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Nope...it's what we are looking for. We've just pretty much given up looking for them on here and rely on clubs and parties now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you get put off by a man being bi?

I am proudly bi but I notice, on here more than at clubs, women tend to stipulate 'no bi men'.

Intrigued what it is that turns you off? Just to help understanding nothing else."

I love bi men... I am a bi female... Get the best of all worlds

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"How in the living hell has this got shit all to do with this imaginary patriarchy?

You’ve been watching too many social media posts or YouTube videos.

I'm assuming that was aimed at my comments...

I can point to not just my thesis but several others that talk about the effects on historical patriarchal thinking and how it affects society and societal constructs.

Those outdated and homophobic views? Where do you think they come from?

Regardless of whether you like it or not we live in a society that has been based on patriarchal thinking, it also, in the case of the UK, has a healthy smattering of Victorian moral "values" .

All these have a negative impact on men and women... Thoughts and attitudes have changed and are changing.

I'm not 'blamimg men' when I talk about historical fact. You can talk about how there are still long lasting impacts from racial segregation, I'm not 'blaming whites' when I do that, I'm talking about the past and hopefully contributing to changing attitudes in the future.

Denying the truth of how we got to a situation is far more unhealthy and hinders growth.

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over a year ago

"I wouldn’t meet a bi man. But that’s due to me giving blood and the restrictions they put on who you’ve had sex with.

Bi wouldn’t fit in with my lifestyle

That’s true but if I get talking to a bi man I don’t plan to ask him when his last encounter with a male was or what they got up to.

If I only meet straight men I can avoid those questions

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By *alfordgirl24Woman
over a year ago

North Manchester

I love a bi guy

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over a year ago

"I wouldn’t meet a bi man. But that’s due to me giving blood and the restrictions they put on who you’ve had sex with.

Bi wouldn’t fit in with my lifestyle

That’s true but if I get talking to a bi man I don’t plan to ask him when his last encounter with a male was or what they got up to.

If I only meet straight men I can avoid those questions "

Assuming all the straight men you meet are actually straight and not just saying that as they are in the closet.

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By *rankyandbennyCouple
over a year ago

Belgium

No, not at all.

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