FabSwingers.com forum: Guys taking ladies to meets

By *oung n hung for fun OP Man
over a year ago

Coundon , Bishop Auckland

Hi all, if a guy takes a lady to a meet, and he does so at the ladies beck and call almost every night, 1. is it right that the lady rejects the guy who's taken hers advances constantly? My former lady I took out would reject me constantly, lucky If I got to play with her baybe 3 times in past year

2. If you were taking her 70 miles away to a guys house, isn't it right to ask him for some fuel money to help cover the cost of driving that distance? I asked her to ask for fuel money when we go long distance and she kicked off

3. When a couple messages for a meet she complains, what if the women doesn't like her partner playing when it's been agreed for same room or separate room swap?

4. Would you guys take a lady out of you were ill? She tried dragging me out when I was full of flu and when I said no I'm ill she kicked off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like you are a soft touch. She’s playing you along. Fuck her off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who is this lady you're talking about?

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

She sounds awful. Mr.

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By *opilotMan
over a year ago

Heathrow

Shes mugging you off mate, get shot of her.

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By *oung n hung for fun OP Man
over a year ago

Coundon , Bishop Auckland

"Who is this lady you're talking about?"

I have messaged you, can't post username on here for obvious reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who is this lady you're talking about?

I have messaged you, can't post username on here for obvious reasons"

Haha I wasn't asking for any name.. bit of a history as how you got to know her etc.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

No one has to fuck anybody regardless of any help given. About the rest, you needed some ground rules and, if thinks feel shit walk away.

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By *on12xxMan
over a year ago

nottingham

"Who is this lady you're talking about?

I have messaged you, can't post username on here for obvious reasons"

Message me name

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By *on12xxMan
over a year ago

nottingham

"Who is this lady you're talking about?

I have messaged you, can't post username on here for obvious reasons

Haha I wasn't asking for any name.. bit of a history as how you got to know her etc."

my and gf tried skype with 1 couple and 1 male wow never known gf so horny

She suggested social Skype Tuesday evening 9pm to midnight

Please let me know if u want to join

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By *oung n hung for fun OP Man
over a year ago

Coundon , Bishop Auckland

I met her on fab, she replied to one of my forum posts about me complaining about going to another meet then the lady not turning up, saying message me, ill meet ya then it went from there, took here out once or twice then she started taking the piss, for about a year, now I've had enough

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By *oung n hung for fun OP Man
over a year ago

Coundon , Bishop Auckland

"No one has to fuck anybody regardless of any help given. About the rest, you needed some ground rules and, if thinks feel shit walk away."

I have walked away, I'm not been made a mug off

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By *oung n hung for fun OP Man
over a year ago

Coundon , Bishop Auckland

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm surprised you lasted that long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one has to fuck anybody regardless of any help given. About the rest, you needed some ground rules and, if thinks feel shit walk away.

I have walked away, I'm not been made a mug off "

Good, you’ve done the right thing mate. Onwards and upwards now go enjoy yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are taking someone a distance why didn't you ask for fuel money before?

Very strange to not discuss this issue prior in my opinion.

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By *oung n hung for fun OP Man
over a year ago

Coundon , Bishop Auckland

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my and gf tried skype with 1 couple and 1 male wow never known gf so horny

She suggested social Skype Tuesday evening 9pm to midnight

Please let me know if u want to join

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Not interested

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By *oung n hung for fun OP Man
over a year ago

Coundon , Bishop Auckland

"If you are taking someone a distance why didn't you ask for fuel money before?

Very strange to not discuss this issue prior in my opinion. "

I did discuss this with her but she just conlained, why should they pay fuel is one of her answers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you are taking someone a distance why didn't you ask for fuel money before?

Very strange to not discuss this issue prior in my opinion.

I did discuss this with her but she just conlained, why should they pay fuel is one of her answers"

So bitch about her on here ok!

But if you did ask before about fuel money, she said no why the hell did you take her anyway? I don't get it there is no reason ot take her if you asked prior and she said no.

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By *oung n hung for fun OP Man
over a year ago

Coundon , Bishop Auckland

"If you are taking someone a distance why didn't you ask for fuel money before?

Very strange to not discuss this issue prior in my opinion.

I did discuss this with her but she just conlained, why should they pay fuel is one of her answers

So bitch about her on here ok!

But if you did ask before about fuel money, she said no why the hell did you take her anyway? I don't get it there is no reason ot take her if you asked prior and she said no. "

Put it this way she never took no for an answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well and truly friends zoned.

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By *iker boy 69Man
over a year ago

midlands

"Hi all, if a guy takes a lady to a meet, and he does so at the ladies beck and call almost every night, 1. is it right that the lady rejects the guy who's taken hers advances constantly? My former lady I took out would reject me constantly, lucky If I got to play with her baybe 3 times in past year

3. When a couple messages for a meet she complains, what if the women doesn't like her partner playing when it's been agreed for same room or separate room swap?

4. Would you guys take a lady out of you were ill? She tried dragging me out when I was full of flu and when I said no I'm ill she kicked off"

Dont sound much of a lady mate,, shes taking you for a twat, and youre allowing her to. Fuck it off, blick numbers delete her contact details and forget it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3. When a couple messages for a meet she complains, what if the women doesn't like her partner playing when it's been agreed for same room or separate room swap?

4. Would you guys take a lady out of you were ill? She tried dragging me out when I was full of flu and when I said no I'm ill she kicked off"
lol hey get a new one

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

3. When a couple messages for a meet she complains, what if the women doesn't like her partner playing when it's been agreed for same room or separate room swap?

4. Would you guys take a lady out of you were ill? She tried dragging me out when I was full of flu and when I said no I'm ill she kicked off"
. It sounds like you are been taken for a mug.To me it’s coming across that you are a unpaid chauffeur and a cash machine.You need to man up if you can’t afford to pay for 70 mile trips tell her to pay something towards it.It wouldn’t be fair to expect the other guy to pay towards your travel because I am guessing he is providing the free accommodation for you all to have fun or though it sounds like she is having the fun and you are paying for it.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"If you are taking someone a distance why didn't you ask for fuel money before?

Very strange to not discuss this issue prior in my opinion.

I did discuss this with her but she just conlained, why should they pay fuel is one of her answers"

Why should they? She's chosen to travel, if that's not affordable don't do it. If he was travelling to her I'd expect him to pay the costs.

As for her rejecting you, yes she can reject you as much as she likes. She's not obliged to fuck you because you give her a lift.

If the arrangement isn't suiting you,end it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3. When a couple messages for a meet she complains, what if the women doesn't like her partner playing when it's been agreed for same room or separate room swap?

4. Would you guys take a lady out of you were ill? She tried dragging me out when I was full of flu and when I said no I'm ill she kicked off"

1. She is mugging you off for a taxi ride

2. She is mugging you off for a taxi ride

3. She is mugging you off for a taxi ride

4. She is mugging you off for a taxi ride

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

You getting played lad.

Don’t be so thirsty and ditch that arrangement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you are taking someone a distance why didn't you ask for fuel money before?

Very strange to not discuss this issue prior in my opinion.

I did discuss this with her but she just conlained, why should they pay fuel is one of her answers

So bitch about her on here ok!

But if you did ask before about fuel money, she said no why the hell did you take her anyway? I don't get it there is no reason ot take her if you asked prior and she said no.

Put it this way she never took no for an answer "

Put it this way you know the situation before transporting her but you still did it!

Oh by the way you owe me £5000 for the consultation fee but as I am not interested at all in sexual contact with you then you won't pay it even though im not taking no for an answer.

The reality of this situation is you don't care about the fuel you are just pissed you didn't get your end away.

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By *reg88gMan
over a year ago

London

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By *reg88gMan
over a year ago

London

"If you are taking someone a distance why didn't you ask for fuel money before?

Very strange to not discuss this issue prior in my opinion.

I did discuss this with her but she just conlained, why should they pay fuel is one of her answers

So bitch about her on here ok!

But if you did ask before about fuel money, she said no why the hell did you take her anyway? I don't get it there is no reason ot take her if you asked prior and she said no.

Put it this way she never took no for an answer

Put it this way you know the situation before transporting her but you still did it!

Oh by the way you owe me £5000 for the consultation fee but as I am not interested at all in sexual contact with you then you won't pay it even though im not taking no for an answer.

The reality of this situation is you don't care about the fuel you are just pissed you didn't get your end away.

exactly!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

If they’re on the dragon scale, just leave them alone, well unless they are looking to be punished for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've been 'had' mate...

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By *urvy Girl 79Woman
over a year ago

Near Bourne

"I met her on fab, she replied to one of my forum posts about me complaining about going to another meet then the lady not turning up, saying message me, ill meet ya then it went from there, took here out once or twice then she started taking the piss, for about a year, now I've had enough"

She will only take the piss if you allow her to.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I don't really understand what you were getting out of this arrangement or why you would let her take advantage of you like that.

It's good that you have walked away from it now though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure you already know the answer to all your questions.

How you act on that is up to you.

Just remember,self worth is always better than no worth at all.

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By *oung n hung for fun OP Man
over a year ago

Coundon , Bishop Auckland

Well it's ended now, I got pretty sick of it and her attitude

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

I think I know who you mean virtually everyone up here has her as verification she is clearly mugging you off just ignore her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fucking hell, too many slaves for pussy in this world.

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

"I think I know who you mean virtually everyone up here has her as verification she is clearly mugging you off just ignore her "

Think i know who it is now and she'll probably be whinging in the forums soon about needing a lift.

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By *oung n hung for fun OP Man
over a year ago

Coundon , Bishop Auckland

Probably

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By *anana JoeMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

People only get taken advantage of like this if someone lets them. I assume you drove her about because you got something out of it or more to the point didn't that's why you are blubbing. Maybe you should be telling her all this rather than us its rather childish in reality. Just ignore her block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sounds like you are a soft touch. She’s playing you along. Fuck her off. "

We agree with this 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn’t sound like you were her bf, but like others have said, a taxi service. She took advantage and just used and abused you. ‘Kicking off’ and not taking no for answer, is just wrong. Let it go now and move on xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you say you're done - time to delete her veri and the bit in your profile where you also mention her.

Or would she not like that..?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She’s taking you for a ride pal.

I have taken my other half to meets locally and before now dropped her off at Chams, which is about 45 miles away, before headed back home to start a shift at work, then picked her up afterwards. It’s only because I was tired that we didn’t have sex when we got home.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Glad you've told her enough is enough.

Now don't let anyone ever take advantage of you like that again.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Can't believe you let that go on for a year. Regardless of feelings you have to let people go when you know too well they're taking the piss. It's a hard thing to do when feelings are involved and you want something so much but don't let common sense be overlooked. Easier said than done I know.

Set yourself ground rules for anyone who comes into your life and if they don't meet the mark send them on their way. Believe me people will respect you more for it knowing that you have standards and expectations, without them you're pretty much asking to be walked over.

Him

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By *oung n hung for fun OP Man
over a year ago

Coundon , Bishop Auckland

"If you say you're done - time to delete her veri and the bit in your profile where you also mention her.

Or would she not like that..?!"

Its not who's mentioned on my profile, it's someone else who I have already taken the verifications down from

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