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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We are thinking of visiting a club for the first time but are not sure whether this is for us.

We have been on FAB for over a year now and have met a couple of people but it does seem to to be the same people who message us.

Is it worth trying or will it just be like the real life version of FAB?

We realise each club will be different but we are wondering if it was the best thing you have ever done, or if it was something you regretted.

Any opinions welcome!

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Love clubs, they are all different and nights vary too, there is a very different feel to a greedy girls night and a couples only night.

As i say on my profile, we regret the things we didnt do...give it a go what do u have to loose?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love clubs adore them maybe suggest going as a social visit as a couple and enjoy the clubs facilities with no pressure to play and just soak up the atmosphere. They should come with a warning they are very addictive.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"They should come with a warning they are very addictive."

They are! It's such a great way to spend an evening, and can be quite cheap compared to nights out round town. The OP has one in Sunderland too, lucky sods!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone. Our biggest concern is that we will be considered as timewasters if we only want to play with each other rather than anyone else.

We definitely think we are going to give it a go and see where it leads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Check out the "Swingers in the DM..." forum post for a Daily Mail article on upcoming events in the Sunderland area

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"Thanks everyone. Our biggest concern is that we will be considered as timewasters if we only want to play with each other rather than anyone else.

We definitely think we are going to give it a go and see where it leads."

Don't think like that at all,we have been to clubs where we have only played with each other,no-one will think you're timewasters at all,you do what you feel comfortable with,just go with no expectations about anything,it can be a nerve wracking experience the first time you visit a club

I remember how nervous I was,I had all these assumptions in my head and to be honest as soon as I walked in there I felt at home and we had a great time

I hope you have a great time too

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Some people are voyeurs and go to clubs just to watch then go home and indulge. Others only play with each other. A very popular couple I know of are exhibitionists. She wears a variety of skimpy outfits, changing two or three times over the night, he just watches her dance and slide down the pole.

If they ever play its with each other and in the private room she changes in. But they are lovely sociable people and they add to the general ambiance of the night.

Go, have fun, but don't ever feel that you are not a great addition to the club if you choose not to play with others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks everyone. Our biggest concern is that we will be considered as timewasters if we only want to play with each other rather than anyone else.

We definitely think we are going to give it a go and see where it leads."

That's all we ever did when we first started and though we do play with others at times, we will always have a play together, just the two of us, in a public room, as being watched turns us on.

People won't think you are timewasters and if they do so what. You are their for you, its your experience, who cares what others think

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks everyone. Our biggest concern is that we will be considered as timewasters if we only want to play with each other rather than anyone else.

We definitely think we are going to give it a go and see where it leads.

Don't think like that at all,we have been to clubs where we have only played with each other,no-one will think you're timewasters at all,you do what you feel comfortable with,just go with no expectations about anything,it can be a nerve wracking experience the first time you visit a club

I remember how nervous I was,I had all these assumptions in my head and to be honest as soon as I walked in there I felt at home and we had a great time

I hope you have a great time too "

Aw thanks!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some people are voyeurs and go to clubs just to watch then go home and indulge. Others only play with each other. A very popular couple I know of are exhibitionists. She wears a variety of skimpy outfits, changing two or three times over the night, he just watches her dance and slide down the pole.

If they ever play its with each other and in the private room she changes in. But they are lovely sociable people and they add to the general ambiance of the night.

Go, have fun, but don't ever feel that you are not a great addition to the club if you choose not to play with others. "

Thank you, that sounds like good advice!

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Thanks everyone. Our biggest concern is that we will be considered as timewasters if we only want to play with each other rather than anyone else.

We definitely think we are going to give it a go and see where it leads."

No one is under any obligation to do anything at a club...sometimes me and kev just feel like playing with each other, it is very erotic fucking in the same room as other people...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks everyone. Our biggest concern is that we will be considered as timewasters if we only want to play with each other rather than anyone else.

We definitely think we are going to give it a go and see where it leads.

No one is under any obligation to do anything at a club...sometimes me and kev just feel like playing with each other, it is very erotic fucking in the same room as other people..."

Yes thats what we want to explore. We recently had some pictures done and it was a huge turn on being watched!

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Thanks everyone. Our biggest concern is that we will be considered as timewasters if we only want to play with each other rather than anyone else.

We definitely think we are going to give it a go and see where it leads.

No one is under any obligation to do anything at a club...sometimes me and kev just feel like playing with each other, it is very erotic fucking in the same room as other people...

Yes thats what we want to explore. We recently had some pictures done and it was a huge turn on being watched!"

Suggest a couples night for your first time them...the couples room at clubf sounds ideal for what you want to try. We had a wonderful time there before xmas, there must have been about 6 couples in the room, all playing with their own partner, all you could hear were the sounds of sex, and whereever you looked, where couples touching, kissing, fucking.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks everyone. Our biggest concern is that we will be considered as timewasters if we only want to play with each other rather than anyone else.

We definitely think we are going to give it a go and see where it leads.

No one is under any obligation to do anything at a club...sometimes me and kev just feel like playing with each other, it is very erotic fucking in the same room as other people...

Yes thats what we want to explore. We recently had some pictures done and it was a huge turn on being watched!

Suggest a couples night for your first time them...the couples room at clubf sounds ideal for what you want to try. We had a wonderful time there before xmas, there must have been about 6 couples in the room, all playing with their own partner, all you could hear were the sounds of sex, and whereever you looked, where couples touching, kissing, fucking. "

Wow we have never even thought about being able to watch others playing too.

Think we had better start making some enquiries

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