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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've had a few messsages of late thats got me thinking.....

Twice last week alone i had two men messaging me and after a few mails they have referred to women on the pull in pubs as slags or slappers

Now is it me or does anyone else see a man looking for woman for no strings sex on a sex site, then calling women doing the same as him but in a pub a little ironic?

When i have pointed this out....and oooh yes believe me i do the last guy who said it said yeah but to you its a lifestyle they are just slags

So come on question time....whats the difference between a swinging and a slag? id be most interested to heard mens opinion on this as it seems to be more men that label women with such names

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had a few messsages of late thats got me thinking.....

Twice last week alone i had two men messaging me and after a few mails they have referred to women on the pull in pubs as slags or slappers

Now is it me or does anyone else see a man looking for woman for no strings sex on a sex site, then calling women doing the same as him but in a pub a little ironic?

When i have pointed this out....and oooh yes believe me i do the last guy who said it said yeah but to you its a lifestyle they are just slags

So come on question time....whats the difference between a swinging and a slag? id be most interested to heard mens opinion on this as it seems to be more men that label women with such names "

i dont think there is no difference really, after all they like sex we like sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had a few messsages of late thats got me thinking.....

Twice last week alone i had two men messaging me and after a few mails they have referred to women on the pull in pubs as slags or slappers

Now is it me or does anyone else see a man looking for woman for no strings sex on a sex site, then calling women doing the same as him but in a pub a little ironic?

When i have pointed this out....and oooh yes believe me i do the last guy who said it said yeah but to you its a lifestyle they are just slags

So come on question time....whats the difference between a swinging and a slag? id be most interested to heard mens opinion on this as it seems to be more men that label women with such names "

Surely if they are labelling women as slags then what does that make us guys ? i have never referred to a woman as a slag and never would, i dont see where these guys are coming from on this

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"I've had a few messsages of late thats got me thinking.....

Twice last week alone i had two men messaging me and after a few mails they have referred to women on the pull in pubs as slags or slappers

Now is it me or does anyone else see a man looking for woman for no strings sex on a sex site, then calling women doing the same as him but in a pub a little ironic?

When i have pointed this out....and oooh yes believe me i do the last guy who said it said yeah but to you its a lifestyle they are just slags

So come on question time....whats the difference between a swinging and a slag? id be most interested to heard mens opinion on this as it seems to be more men that label women with such names "

You really want me to post a rant on misongony, cognitive dissonance and male entilement on swinging sites?

The difference is...slags and slappers in pubs turn them down, everyone knows women on swinging sites dont turn any man down...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A slag was once described to us as someone who just sleeps around with everyone and anyone,who doesn`t care about their sexual health

as a swinger I feel it`s someone who has standards,enjoys safe sex who may go bareback at some point(Not judging anyone either this is completely up up them)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

im just shocked that people who are so called adults on a sex site would reffer to any woman as a slag

I mean come on its a bit 13 year old play ground bitchy talk isnt it?

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"im just shocked that people who are so called adults on a sex site would reffer to any woman as a slag

I mean come on its a bit 13 year old play ground bitchy talk isnt it?

"

And this from a regular forumite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont think there is such a thing as a 'slag'!! loads of us guys do the exact same thing and get applauded! but u do get the gals that get carried away with themselves when d*unk, the ones who will end up with the trainspotter in the anorak who has been eyeing them up all nite!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"The difference is...slags and slappers in pubs turn them down, everyone knows women on swinging sites dont turn any man down... "

But when we do, we're slags!! No pleasing some people is there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hate the fucking word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slag is a really horrible word in my opinion, and not one I would use here or anywhere else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wouldnt meet anyone who refers to women as slags sorry but if its ok for men to go into pubs to pick up women then it should be ok for women to do the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a guy were to pull at a pub it`s okay yet if a woman does it she`s a slag? sounds like double standards haha

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

That kinda sums up why I get a little agitated at all the single guys joining this site. They are not and never will be swingers, they have totally the wrong mindset and are not like what I would call the “genuine males”. Sadly, this is one of the problems with a free site! There is no regulation and you are bound to get those who have the view that women on here are slag’s/sluts and the like. There are also women on here who think the same about guys! They are here because the guys will shag anything and some are, as another poster put it a way back "punching above their weight"!

It’s not limited to single guys & gals either, we have had males from couples say that they are on here because the women are easy.. When questioned, yes, their wife is considered a slut!! (She sat there with a fixed smile!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I like it that women can now feel confident enough to go out looking to pick up guys...turning the tables on the guys.

I suspect some guys don't like it as it is a threat, to something that that do.

Guys have always been slags anyway...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i wouldnt meet anyone who refers to women as slags sorry but if its ok for men to go into pubs to pick up women then it should be ok for women to do the same "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just had to join in on this one...

Last week, for the first time ever, a guy called me a "dirty slag" in an email.

Now I've never really given labels much thought but I was immediately offended by the word "slag" To me, that's a derogotary term. No one has the right to call me names (unless previously agreed )

Everyone has different boundries and perceptions and it's not unusual on this site for both to be pushed on occasion. Whilst I try to be tolerant of others, I still have standards.

Being polite untill permission is clearly given shouldn't and isn't too much to ask for..

I'm also interested in how men will reply to the OP's question.. I don't consider myself a swinger or a slag. I'm a happy single woman enjoying her freedom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some men simply cannot accept that women are sexual beings too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like to offer the following.

Slags/Lags will shag anything.

Swingers are looking for interesting sexual encounters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, I don't mind being labelled as a 'slag' so long as the person labelling me understands that I'm a very very very fussy one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would like to offer the following.

Slags/Lags will shag anything.

Swingers are looking for interesting sexual encounters."

But does that go for men too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh, I don't mind being labelled as a 'slag' so long as the person labelling me understands that I'm a very very very fussy one "
lol love it.xx

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By *ollynysWoman
over a year ago

Wellingborough

I went to a Swing Social recently where some guy thought it was acceptable to wear an "I love Slags" T shirt.

Frankly I wasn't impressed.

Anyone who messages using slag, slapper or slut quite frankly is narrow minded and disrespectful of women who are comfortable with their sexuality....after all I'm sure they wouldn't like women refering to them as wankers or tossers....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That kinda sums up why I get a little agitated at all the single guys joining this site. They are not and never will be swingers, they have totally the wrong mindset and are not like what I would call the ?genuine males?. Sadly, this is one of the problems with a free site! There is no regulation and you are bound to get those who have the view that women on here are slag?s/sluts and the like. There are also women on here who think the same about guys! They are here because the guys will shag anything and some are, as another poster put it a way back "punching above their weight"!

It?s not limited to single guys & gals either, we have had males from couples say that they are on here because the women are easy.. When questioned, yes, their wife is considered a slut!! (She sat there with a fixed smile!)

"

i just wondered if you could explain how 'single' guys cant be swingers! so is this site for couples and single fems only? i thought swinging was for anyone who enjoyed having different experiences! or am i missing something here?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"after all I'm sure they wouldn't like women refering to them as wankers or tossers...."

theres only two types of men.....

wankers and liars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i get called a slag alot when i say no thanks LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"after all I'm sure they wouldn't like women refering to them as wankers or tossers....

theres only two types of men.....

wankers and liars "

and idiots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"after all I'm sure they wouldn't like women refering to them as wankers or tossers....

theres only two types of men.....

wankers and liars "

i guess that makes me a wanker then!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That kinda sums up why I get a little agitated at all the single guys joining this site. They are not and never will be swingers, they have totally the wrong mindset and are not like what I would call the ?genuine males?. Sadly, this is one of the problems with a free site! There is no regulation and you are bound to get those who have the view that women on here are slag?s/sluts and the like. There are also women on here who think the same about guys! They are here because the guys will shag anything and some are, as another poster put it a way back "punching above their weight"!

It?s not limited to single guys & gals either, we have had males from couples say that they are on here because the women are easy.. When questioned, yes, their wife is considered a slut!! (She sat there with a fixed smile!)

i just wondered if you could explain how 'single' guys cant be swingers! so is this site for couples and single fems only? i thought swinging was for anyone who enjoyed having different experiences! or am i missing something here?"

i have to admit ive never classed singles as swingers, and yes that includes me, i dont see how me going to meets and clubs on my own is swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men only call women slags and slappers when the women turn them down.

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London


"I would like to offer the following.

Slags/Lags will shag anything.

Swingers are looking for interesting sexual encounters."

I think best just not to call anyone a slag. It doesn't really describe anything other than "a woman whose sexual behaviour I disapprove of"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i get called a slag alot when i say no thanks LOL"

ohh all women on here get that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most men i think call women slags when they wont sleep with them but think they are entitled and they should (probs on their assumptions who they been with before), usually a bitter remark

hence why he probs said women in pubs are all slags but your not as he thinks his luck is still in with you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is ‘slut’ the new ‘slag’? ... there seems to be a reasonable amount of use of the word ‘slut’ on internet porn sites (I believe!!) Not sure if there is a difference between the 2 words but ‘slut’ seems to be almost a desirable title in the cuckold world and once it’s normalised in the minds of the reader there can be a tendency to use it inappropriately. In much the same way that N***a was/is commonly used in hip hop, rap music and between some of the black community but then used inappropriately outside those circles … words are words; offence is taken (or meant) in context.

Wouldn’t use either word in conversation … can see how the word ‘slut’ might be used in sex play … don’t see where ‘slag’ fits in apart from 1970-1980’s Sweeny.

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

dont think thre is any difference between a 'slag' and a female swinger, afterall its just a word, admittedly a horrible sounding word.

a woman in a pub, on the pull, wont neccesarily sleep with anything thats moving, and neither will any woman on here, no matter the perception.

its just a word

how many women on here LOVE being called a slut? so is slut more socially acceptable than slag?

slag has a dirtier sound to it due to its origins (slag being a waste product, or dross, so maybe those that call women thus are referring to them as the dross of female society???)

so, its a word, a label.

the urban dictionary actually states a slag is:

1. An individual who cares not for relationships beyond the realm of the sexual, these people sleep with many partners not caring about anything save for the moment of climax.

and swinger:

1. (n.) A person who engages freely in sexual intercourse.

so the difference????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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1. An individual who cares not for relationships beyond the realm of the sexual, these people sleep with many partners not caring about anything save for the moment of climax.

and swinger:

1. (n.) A person who engages freely in sexual intercourse.

so the difference????"

so going by that women who are married that sleep about arnt slags? only those who dont want a relationship?

fook me the mind boggles lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg I just get infuriated by some men's attitudes. I firstly will say yes I am on a swingers site. And yes I like sex but that in no way makesvme a slag or whatever males with no brain cells wish to call women. The difference for me is I'm very fussy about who I allow in my knickers. You got to be extra special to get the pleasure of my company. So I say don't worry about idiots with their brains in their pants. This is not to all men just the ones who use such derogatory terms about women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the circumstances and situations as to whether slag or slut are ok for us - although slag is a derogatory term whatever tbh .

Slut - cumslut - fuckslut etc..... Ok at the right time and indeed she finds these terms hormy while playing sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont get me wrong i can be a whore in the bedroom or a slut but i hate the label of slags slappers and the likes

when i was younger i was called one and was horrible and it was over something that i did while d*unk!!

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


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how many women on here LOVE being called a slut?

so is slut more socially acceptable than slag?

so the difference????"

Probably as many as DETEST it

Obviously people that call themselves sluts find it acceptable

But its one and the same to me

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire


"

1. An individual who cares not for relationships beyond the realm of the sexual, these people sleep with many partners not caring about anything save for the moment of climax.

and swinger:

1. (n.) A person who engages freely in sexual intercourse.

so the difference????

so going by that women who are married that sleep about arnt slags? only those who dont want a relationship?

fook me the mind boggles lol"

not so, in fact, by the very difinition, those in relationships that sleep around would be slags, as they care not for the relationship, if that may make sense???

thats how i read it anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a guy who calls women who pick up guys in pub - or vice versa - a slag, also thinks that women on here are slags too. They just didn't tell you because they're trying to meet you.

There are a LOT of men who enjoy sexually liberated women but don't respect them. They marry the sweet girl and end up on here trying to cheat with the so called slags.

I know that's a bit harsh and not all man are like that. But it's based on experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some men simply cannot accept that women are sexual beings too

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I HATE slag as a term - detritus, dross and often on a heap! Slut speaks of the slattern and that's just not me. I use strumpet, but not the paid meaning(!), as people don't use it anymore.

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By *ucky_LadsCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Kidderminster+ surrounding areas.


"

Surely if they are labelling women as slags then what does that make us guys ? i have never referred to a woman as a slag and never would, i dont see where these guys are coming from on this"

it's a very bad attitude that some guys have got!,i just cannot understand the mentality at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my head a "slag" is someone who sleeps around profusely simply for attention.

If a female wants to have a lot of sex because she enjoys it then great on her. We could do with more women like this, don't need idiots discouraging this wonderful behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had a few messsages of late thats got me thinking.....

Twice last week alone i had two men messaging me and after a few mails they have referred to women on the pull in pubs as slags or slappers

Now is it me or does anyone else see a man looking for woman for no strings sex on a sex site, then calling women doing the same as him but in a pub a little ironic?

When i have pointed this out....and oooh yes believe me i do the last guy who said it said yeah but to you its a lifestyle they are just slags

So come on question time....whats the difference between a swinging and a slag? id be most interested to heard mens opinion on this as it seems to be more men that label women with such names

You really want me to post a rant on misongony, cognitive dissonance and male entilement on swinging sites?

The difference is...slags and slappers in pubs turn them down, everyone knows women on swinging sites dont turn any man down... "
lmao apart from the ones who don't want them at all and then they r clearly lezza's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whether on here or in a pub, if a lady likes her sex, she just knows what she likes and how to get it, she is not a slag, but a lady who should be respected regardlesly.

I would never refer to any one as a slag...

Ladies...I respect you for enjoying a great activity!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had a few messsages of late thats got me thinking.....

Twice last week alone i had two men messaging me and after a few mails they have referred to women on the pull in pubs as slags or slappers

Now is it me or does anyone else see a man looking for woman for no strings sex on a sex site, then calling women doing the same as him but in a pub a little ironic?

When i have pointed this out....and oooh yes believe me i do the last guy who said it said yeah but to you its a lifestyle they are just slags

So come on question time....whats the difference between a swinging and a slag? id be most interested to heard mens opinion on this as it seems to be more men that label women with such names "

oh my god, this is the funniest most ridiculous thing I have ever read. some men are bloody idiots. you have to laugh you really do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why r men so threatened by sexually liberated women????!!! I kno I hav suffered this bullshit in both my swingin & preswinging life.... Sooo ridiculous

I've always known what I wanted & how 2 get it

Yet any woman that enjoys sex & NSA sex 4 that

Matter is branded. I 4 1 will not change 4 nobody

Small small minded fools begone!!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"That kinda sums up why I get a little agitated at all the single guys joining this site. They are not and never will be swingers, they have totally the wrong mindset and are not like what I would call the “genuine males”. Sadly, this is one of the problems with a free site! There is no regulation and you are bound to get those who have the view that women on here are slag’s/sluts and the like. There are also women on here who think the same about guys! They are here because the guys will shag anything and some are, as another poster put it a way back "punching above their weight"!

"

You missed out the women who think it about other women... and there are plenty of those.

Most won't use the word 'slag' openly, but you can see it bubbling away under the words they do use.

Those women who feel the need to eagerly differentiate themselves from women out on the pull in bars and pubs… often ending with phrases such as “I’m not like them, I’m a swinger” as if attaching a label makes their recreational sex somehow more sanitised and less shame worthy than those happy enough to just enjoy what they are doing without the aid of a website and label.

The most common reasons for the use of the word ‘slag’ are envy and rejection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That kinda sums up why I get a little agitated at all the single guys joining this site. They are not and never will be swingers, they have totally the wrong mindset and are not like what I would call the “genuine males”. Sadly, this is one of the problems with a free site! There is no regulation and you are bound to get those who have the view that women on here are slag’s/sluts and the like. There are also women on here who think the same about guys! They are here because the guys will shag anything and some are, as another poster put it a way back "punching above their weight"!

You missed out the women who think it about other women... and there are plenty of those.

Most won't use the word 'slag' openly, but you can see it bubbling away under the words they do use.

Those women who feel the need to eagerly differentiate themselves from women out on the pull in bars and pubs… often ending with phrases such as “I’m not like them, I’m a swinger” as if attaching a label makes their recreational sex somehow more sanitised and less shame worthy than those happy enough to just enjoy what they are doing without the aid of a website and label.

The most common reasons for the use of the word ‘slag’ are envy and rejection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So come on question time....whats the difference between a swinging and a slag? id be most interested to heard mens opinion on this as it seems to be more men that label women with such names "

Simple, the "slag" chatted up / shagged everyone EXCEPT the rude insulting guy who should go without just for his attitude

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire


"That kinda sums up why I get a little agitated at all the single guys joining this site. They are not and never will be swingers, they have totally the wrong mindset and are not like what I would call the “genuine males”. Sadly, this is one of the problems with a free site! There is no regulation and you are bound to get those who have the view that women on here are slag’s/sluts and the like. There are also women on here who think the same about guys! They are here because the guys will shag anything and some are, as another poster put it a way back "punching above their weight"!

You missed out the women who think it about other women... and there are plenty of those.

Most won't use the word 'slag' openly, but you can see it bubbling away under the words they do use.

Those women who feel the need to eagerly differentiate themselves from women out on the pull in bars and pubs… often ending with phrases such as “I’m not like them, I’m a swinger” as if attaching a label makes their recreational sex somehow more sanitised and less shame worthy than those happy enough to just enjoy what they are doing without the aid of a website and label.

The most common reasons for the use of the word ‘slag’ are envy and rejection.

"

so, what we are saying is, a slag is someone that is happy to be sexually liberated, whereas a swinger is someone that keeps it as secret???

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By *amslam1000Man
over a year ago

willenhall


"In my head a "slag" is someone who sleeps around profusely simply for attention.

If a female wants to have a lot of sex because she enjoys it then great on her. We could do with more women like this, don't need idiots discouraging this wonderful behaviour."

I live in the lower end of the housing market there are a couple of women round here who have 5 or more children by different fathers and are seen walking to school to collect their potnoodle families with a can of special brew to drink on the way there. when i was picking up my 5 year old one day i was asked if i wanted a shag in exchange for 2 cans!!!!

i think she would come under the banner of a slag but to randomly call someone that without knowing the full story is wrong

i hope i have come across correctly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That kinda sums up why I get a little agitated at all the single guys joining this site. They are not and never will be swingers, they have totally the wrong mindset and are not like what I would call the “genuine males”. Sadly, this is one of the problems with a free site! There is no regulation and you are bound to get those who have the view that women on here are slag’s/sluts and the like. There are also women on here who think the same about guys! They are here because the guys will shag anything and some are, as another poster put it a way back "punching above their weight"!

You missed out the women who think it about other women... and there are plenty of those.

Most won't use the word 'slag' openly, but you can see it bubbling away under the words they do use.

Those women who feel the need to eagerly differentiate themselves from women out on the pull in bars and pubs… often ending with phrases such as “I’m not like them, I’m a swinger” as if attaching a label makes their recreational sex somehow more sanitised and less shame worthy than those happy enough to just enjoy what they are doing without the aid of a website and label.

The most common reasons for the use of the word ‘slag’ are envy and rejection.

so, what we are saying is, a slag is someone that is happy to be sexually liberated, whereas a swinger is someone that keeps it as secret??? "
not all keep it a sercet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago

I think the reason these so called guys call women slags is because the women they are chatting to initially are not responding to any chat, as a way of being let down they start calling women these names,

I realise thats no excuse and i for one would never call anyone names but thats the way some so called men act im afraid, and it just unfortunatly puts all men in the same bracket of which we are not

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"The difference is...slags and slappers in pubs turn them down, everyone knows women on swinging sites dont turn any man down...

But when we do, we're slags!! No pleasing some people is there? "

The internal logic is clear...by turning them down you are showing you are unsuitable for the site, however you have had sex with men ergo you must be a slag

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"In my head a "slag" is someone who sleeps around profusely simply for attention.

If a female wants to have a lot of sex because she enjoys it then great on her. We could do with more women like this, don't need idiots discouraging this wonderful behaviour."

so attention is a bad thing

In my head slag is word people use to label the behaviour of others they do not approve of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

uptiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight!!

you need to think of a name for lads who fuck a lot, dont complain we dont make the rules

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire


"uptiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight!!

you need to think of a name for lads who fuck a lot, dont complain we dont make the rules"

so you say men cant be slags also?

who has determined its a female only term?

men, thats who!

a man that does the same is a hero. a MAN!!!! one of the lads.

not to mention down the doctors more often than any of his mates.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

op...

umm to me slag is something I knock of a newly welded joint with a hammer, and try not to get down by boots while I'm doing it

It's not a term I'd use. Slut is a word I might use in a playfully kinky way, but then it's not to all tastes, so even then not always.

Of course being a man-slag is a badge of honour among guys... just smacks of childish envy really that women can have their cake and eat it.. after all

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

honestly who cares what words people use to describe us...it is their right to think what they like, and mine not to sleep with the idiots who think that way...words cant hurt you if you dont give them the power to do so...however a swift kick in the nads of those men will definitely sort them out and i wholeheartedly recommend this course of action should you come face to face with such a twat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"honestly who cares what words people use to describe us...it is their right to think what they like, and mine not to sleep with the idiots who think that way...words cant hurt you if you dont give them the power to do so...however a swift kick in the nads of those men will definitely sort them out and i wholeheartedly recommend this course of action should you come face to face with such a twat "

...sackly!

Wolf

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By *Sensual40Man
over a year ago

South Woodford

Hold up a minute. Even the term single does not encompass everyone's status in totality.

Also, a couple of a$$holes cannot be used to brush ALL single men. Some of us know their score and follow the rules. Not all couples have their acts together either.

Slags is not acceptable. Period


"That kinda sums up why I get a little agitated at all the single guys joining this site. They are not and never will be swingers, they have totally the wrong mindset and are not like what I would call the “genuine males”. Sadly, this is one of the problems with a free site! There is no regulation and you are bound to get those who have the view that women on here are slag’s/sluts and the like. There are also women on here who think the same about guys! They are here because the guys will shag anything and some are, as another poster put it a way back "punching above their weight"!

It’s not limited to single guys & gals either, we have had males from couples say that they are on here because the women are easy.. When questioned, yes, their wife is considered a slut!! (She sat there with a fixed smile!)

"

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

In my opinion, anyone who calls anyone anything derogatory will not be on my 'to do' list, unless I have specifically requested dirty talk. I really dislike the messages I get calling me a dirty tart, whore, kinky slut etc etc. Obviously, when we're in a more intimate setting I might not object but for a first message, it really isn't a turn on for me.

Its a problem that SOME men think that women who won't put out for them (but for others) have to be a slag, slut, slapper etc, but its a common opinion, even on here. So the best thing is to ignore those people, and go for the ones who know how to respect others.

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West

Funny thing that slag and slut mean the same thing...and yet slag sounds so much more offensive..

Slag along with C*** are two words I dont use in front of a woman

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By *inky BunnyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"Hear! Hear! Well said! Hole in one!"

I had to read your user name twice,reading this thread made me think it said slag on tour!

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By *inky BunnyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"A slag was once described to us as someone who just sleeps around with everyone and anyone,who doesn`t care about their sexual health

as a swinger I feel it`s someone who has standards,enjoys safe sex who may go bareback at some point(Not judging anyone either this is completely up up them)"

Hear! Hear! Well said! Hole in one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A slag was once described to us as someone who just sleeps around with everyone and anyone,who doesn`t care about their sexual health

as a swinger I feel it`s someone who has standards,enjoys safe sex who may go bareback at some point(Not judging anyone either this is completely up up them)

Hear! Hear! Well said! Hole in one!"

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire


"Funny thing that slag and slut mean the same thing...and yet slag sounds so much more offensive..

Slag along with C*** are two words I dont use in front of a woman"

not really

1. a dirty slatternly woman

2. an immoral woman

3. (Life Sciences & Allied Applications / Animals) Archaic a female dog

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"A slag was once described to us as someone who just sleeps around with everyone and anyone,who doesn`t care about their sexual health

as a swinger I feel it`s someone who has standards,enjoys safe sex who may go bareback at some point(Not judging anyone either this is completely up up them)

Hear! Hear! Well said! Hole in one!"

Thanks Nymph this thread is a great way of spotting men i never want to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most men dont get it. Sexual freedom. Does that make us slags because we choose when and how to have sex I dont meet very often on here due to lack of free time but when I get the chance it is chams all the way for me sexual liberation and all that. D*unken fumbles and one night stands do nothing for me at all. At the end of the day I prefer a good sexual seeing too. And if that makes me a slag then so be it but I have tastes and I have standards. ore so than sorry the saying vanilla.

How many girls go out to get d*unk seeking to pull anything that will buy them a drink. (It does happen) Without thinking about the conciquences.

I am in a safe place I practice safe sex and have a whole lot of fun. My on way.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"I think most men dont get it. Sexual freedom. Does that make us slags because we choose when and how to have sex I dont meet very often on here due to lack of free time but when I get the chance it is chams all the way for me sexual liberation and all that. D*unken fumbles and one night stands do nothing for me at all. At the end of the day I prefer a good sexual seeing too. And if that makes me a slag then so be it but I have tastes and I have standards. ore so than sorry the saying vanilla.

How many girls go out to get d*unk seeking to pull anything that will buy them a drink. (It does happen) Without thinking about the conciquences.

I am in a safe place I practice safe sex and have a whole lot of fun. My on way."

im currently getting absue from someone who fails to understand this, however, and i think this cannot be said often enough, there are good guys out there.

My male swinging friends, kev and Sir all love women who are in control of their sexuality and enjoy sex for what it is.

Lets here it for the good guys

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"I would like to offer the following.

Slags/Lags will shag anything.

Swingers are looking for interesting sexual encounters."

single telling ppl what swinging is, oh the irony.

So wise one, all women at greedy girl nights and gang bangs sre slags?

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By *uvi n Jolly RogCouple
over a year ago

West Somerset... Near Butlins


"I've had a few messsages of late thats got me thinking.....

Twice last week alone i had two men messaging me and after a few mails they have referred to women on the pull in pubs as slags or slappers

Now is it me or does anyone else see a man looking for woman for no strings sex on a sex site, then calling women doing the same as him but in a pub a little ironic?

When i have pointed this out....and oooh yes believe me i do the last guy who said it said yeah but to you its a lifestyle they are just slags

So come on question time....whats the difference between a swinging and a slag? id be most interested to heard mens opinion on this as it seems to be more men that label women with such names "

Get em to join and then we can play with em too. Gotta be better than a d*unken twat with brewers droop and kebab all down his shirt!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I went to a Swing Social recently where some guy thought it was acceptable to wear an "I love Slags" T shirt.

Frankly I wasn't impressed.

Anyone who messages using slag, slapper or slut quite frankly is narrow minded and disrespectful of women who are comfortable with their sexuality....after all I'm sure they wouldn't like women refering to them as wankers or tossers...."

But some women like it. I've seen user names with "slut" in it, ironically they usually start threads like this, surprised by the response of SOME men.

There are some men on this site that think all the women on here are slags, slappers etc. They're usually the ones that start threads surprised us slags are not dropping our panties and spreading our legs in readiness to their "wanna fuck" type messages.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Thanks Nymph this thread is a great way of spotting men i never want to meet "

Word!

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By *uvi n Jolly RogCouple
over a year ago

West Somerset... Near Butlins


"In my head a "slag" is someone who sleeps around profusely simply for attention.

If a female wants to have a lot of sex because she enjoys it then great on her. We could do with more women like this, don't need idiots discouraging this wonderful behaviour.

so attention is a bad thing

In my head slag is word people use to label the behaviour of others they do not approve of."

We like, or rather dont, the use of "pervert" whenever someone doesnt like you. If the law says 18+ then live with it...they keep getting pissed at 14,15,16 etc, whats the diffence between the cliched "old man/school gates" and weirdos that perv pics? Taking into consideration the age issues. Think the media teaches teens to be totally disrespectful these days....if one walks out in front of me in the car, i put the fuckin throttle down! Cheeky little twats! lol

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I too hate the word 'slag', I don't mind being called 'slut' 'whore' and any other of the other words guys use when we're having really dirty sex.. but I will NOT tolerate being called a slag, to me there is only one type of slag and that's a bloody great coal heap.

Devil

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By *uvi n Jolly RogCouple
over a year ago

West Somerset... Near Butlins


"I would like to offer the following.

Slags/Lags will shag anything.

Swingers are looking for interesting sexual encounters.

single telling ppl what swinging is, oh the irony.

So wise one, all women at greedy girl nights and gang bangs sre slags?"

No these are just greedy and invariably very selfish, not someone wed like to play with.....thoughts of "busted sofa" spring to mind! God knows what they might be carrying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sticks and Stones etc.

Men enjoy sex.

Woman enjoy sex.

Life is too short, enjoy it while you can is my philosophy

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"I would like to offer the following.

Slags/Lags will shag anything.

Swingers are looking for interesting sexual encounters.

single telling ppl what swinging is, oh the irony.

So wise one, all women at greedy girl nights and gang bangs sre slags?

No these are just greedy and invariably very selfish, not someone wed like to play with.....thoughts of "busted sofa" spring to mind! God knows what they might be carrying "

I have been to quite a few greedy girls parties in the past and if the guys didn't wear a condom then they didn't get any sex, to suggest they may be "carrying" anything is downright ignorant. Just my opinion.

Devil

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By *uvi n Jolly RogCouple
over a year ago

West Somerset... Near Butlins


"I think most men dont get it. Sexual freedom. Does that make us slags because we choose when and how to have sex I dont meet very often on here due to lack of free time but when I get the chance it is chams all the way for me sexual liberation and all that. D*unken fumbles and one night stands do nothing for me at all. At the end of the day I prefer a good sexual seeing too. And if that makes me a slag then so be it but I have tastes and I have standards. ore so than sorry the saying vanilla.

How many girls go out to get d*unk seeking to pull anything that will buy them a drink. (It does happen) Without thinking about the conciquences.

I am in a safe place I practice safe sex and have a whole lot of fun. My on way.

im currently getting absue from someone who fails to understand this, however, and i think this cannot be said often enough, there are good guys out there.

My male swinging friends, kev and Sir all love women who are in control of their sexuality and enjoy sex for what it is.

Lets here it for the good guys "

It never ceases to amaze us, how quickly some idiot will respond to argue when challenged, yet ignore any polite attemp at conversation etc....far too many British are firmly welded up thier own arses, the wealthy and good looking are so far they cant see for shit!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"I think most men dont get it. Sexual freedom. Does that make us slags because we choose when and how to have sex I dont meet very often on here due to lack of free time but when I get the chance it is chams all the way for me sexual liberation and all that. D*unken fumbles and one night stands do nothing for me at all. At the end of the day I prefer a good sexual seeing too. And if that makes me a slag then so be it but I have tastes and I have standards. ore so than sorry the saying vanilla.

How many girls go out to get d*unk seeking to pull anything that will buy them a drink. (It does happen) Without thinking about the conciquences.

I am in a safe place I practice safe sex and have a whole lot of fun. My on way."

Ermmmm how many *cough* 'swingers' get pissed off their tits at parties and clubs?

Not all vanilla casual sex is a d*unken fumble and to even suggest it is a bit narrow minded. One night stands do nothing... yet does the typical hook-up met at a club last all night or basicaqlly as long as it takes to empty their balls and then go back to the bar.

If you are happy to be classed as a slag it's up to you. I'd prefer a world where people didn't have a use for the word and then they wouldn't try and infer why the way they choose to enjoy sex is better, less sordid or whatever else than how other people choose to do it.

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


"i just wondered if you could explain how 'single' guys cant be swingers! so is this site for couples and single fems only? i thought swinging was for anyone who enjoyed having different experiences! or am i missing something here?"

I just wonder if you can READ THE WHOLE POST before you jump! If you had read just one more line, you would have got to this bit!


"they have totally the wrong mindset and are not like what I would call the genuine males?"

As it happens, I don't think most of the singles of either sex are swingers. They are just here on the pull and as I have said before.... If singles are swingers because they are on a swingers site, If I stand in a garage, does that make me a mechanic?

Apart from that and another thing I like to point out... If singles (generalisation) are swingers, then so is everyone who goes out on the pull in vanilla land!

OK, now we have cleared that up.. What about getting back to the thread and I'll go get a ladder to get you off that high horse!

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over a year ago


"i just wondered if you could explain how 'single' guys cant be swingers! so is this site for couples and single fems only? i thought swinging was for anyone who enjoyed having different experiences! or am i missing something here?

I just wonder if you can READ THE WHOLE POST before you jump! If you had read just one more line, you would have got to this bit!

they have totally the wrong mindset and are not like what I would call the genuine males?

As it happens, I don't think most of the singles of either sex are swingers. They are just here on the pull and as I have said before.... If singles are swingers because they are on a swingers site, If I stand in a garage, does that make me a mechanic?

Apart from that and another thing I like to point out... If singles (generalisation) are swingers, then so is everyone who goes out on the pull in vanilla land!

OK, now we have cleared that up.. What about getting back to the thread and I'll go get a ladder to get you off that high horse! "

didnt you just say its a MINDSET??? so single guys on here couldnt have been in a previous relationship and swung? now they are single its a big no-no until they get a partner to join them again?? now, arent you back with that ladder yet? its high up here and im scared of heights!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I think that people should spend less time worrying about what others should be called.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So we are looking for a reasonable argument comparing what differentiates a slag from a swinger?

Depends what a persons view is of a slag really, but I would in a loose and general view suggest these are YET AGAIN labels that people throw about (wonders how much the labellers would like to be labeled themselves)

End of the day if an individual enjoys sex, practices it in a safe manner and doesn't use it as a means to hurt others then there shouldn't be a label attached.

Let people enjoy sex! Regardless of how they look or whatever, if they don't appeal to you then move on (regardless of setting - swinging site, pub, club, dating site, supermarket )

I often think people who say so and so is a slag/slut whatever is usually saying so because they are eating sex more often than the prison who has slated them, jealousy

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By *uvi n Jolly RogCouple
over a year ago

West Somerset... Near Butlins


"i just wondered if you could explain how 'single' guys cant be swingers! so is this site for couples and single fems only? i thought swinging was for anyone who enjoyed having different experiences! or am i missing something here?

I just wonder if you can READ THE WHOLE POST before you jump! If you had read just one more line, you would have got to this bit!

they have totally the wrong mindset and are not like what I would call the genuine males?

As it happens, I don't think most of the singles of either sex are swingers. They are just here on the pull and as I have said before.... If singles are swingers because they are on a swingers site, If I stand in a garage, does that make me a mechanic?

Apart from that and another thing I like to point out... If singles (generalisation) are swingers, then so is everyone who goes out on the pull in vanilla land!

OK, now we have cleared that up.. What about getting back to the thread and I'll go get a ladder to get you off that high horse!

didnt you just say its a MINDSET??? so single guys on here couldnt have been in a previous relationship and swung? now they are single its a big no-no until they get a partner to join them again?? now, arent you back with that ladder yet? its high up here and im scared of heights! "

Mindset is totally the right word, isnt is amazing how much people chat in these sometimes pointless forums when they cant be arsed to reply to a message on site from an interested party. We block ignorance everytime, sad fact that the block list is 5 times greater than the friends list lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a message the other day from "user has left site"

Which said.."you are an attention seeking slag and your parents must be very proud!"

I was offended and shocked,

but i suppose to more inhibited people who believe sex is something special between two people who love each other within marriage.. it does appear that way.

Its like people with a different political or religious view,there will always be someone who disagrees and thinks their way is better.

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By *uvi n Jolly RogCouple
over a year ago

West Somerset... Near Butlins


"I had a message the other day from "user has left site"

Which said.."you are an attention seeking slag and your parents must be very proud!"

I was offended and shocked,

but i suppose to more inhibited people who believe sex is something special between two people who love each other within marriage.. it does appear that way.

Its like people with a different political or religious view,there will always be someone who disagrees and thinks their way is better."

Totally true, Oprah, Jay Leno and the like are millionaires thru posers and argumentative idiots lol, its the same here.....theyl ignore ur polite intro, yet argue the black is white if you complain at being ignored.....get a grip world, swing, talk or %£%% off lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think most men dont get it. Sexual freedom. Does that make us slags because we choose when and how to have sex I dont meet very often on here due to lack of free time but when I get the chance it is chams all the way for me sexual liberation and all that. D*unken fumbles and one night stands do nothing for me at all. At the end of the day I prefer a good sexual seeing too. And if that makes me a slag then so be it but I have tastes and I have standards. ore so than sorry the saying vanilla.

How many girls go out to get d*unk seeking to pull anything that will buy them a drink. (It does happen) Without thinking about the conciquences.

I am in a safe place I practice safe sex and have a whole lot of fun. My on way.

Ermmmm how many *cough* 'swingers' get pissed off their tits at parties and clubs?

Not all vanilla casual sex is a d*unken fumble and to even suggest it is a bit narrow minded. One night stands do nothing... yet does the typical hook-up met at a club last all night or basicaqlly as long as it takes to empty their balls and then go back to the bar.

If you are happy to be classed as a slag it's up to you. I'd prefer a world where people didn't have a use for the word and then they wouldn't try and infer why the way they choose to enjoy sex is better, less sordid or whatever else than how other people choose to do it."

I was talking more about sexual freedom and liberation. And thats what some of the guys cant understand. And the consequences of a d*unken one night stand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i just wondered if you could explain how 'single' guys cant be swingers! so is this site for couples and single fems only? i thought swinging was for anyone who enjoyed having different experiences! or am i missing something here?

I just wonder if you can READ THE WHOLE POST before you jump! If you had read just one more line, you would have got to this bit!

they have totally the wrong mindset and are not like what I would call the genuine males?

As it happens, I don't think most of the singles of either sex are swingers. They are just here on the pull and as I have said before.... If singles are swingers because they are on a swingers site, If I stand in a garage, does that make me a mechanic?

Apart from that and another thing I like to point out... If singles (generalisation) are swingers, then so is everyone who goes out on the pull in vanilla land!

OK, now we have cleared that up.. What about getting back to the thread and I'll go get a ladder to get you off that high horse!

didnt you just say its a MINDSET??? so single guys on here couldnt have been in a previous relationship and swung? now they are single its a big no-no until they get a partner to join them again?? now, arent you back with that ladder yet? its high up here and im scared of heights!

Mindset is totally the right word, isnt is amazing how much people chat in these sometimes pointless forums when they cant be arsed to reply to a message on site from an interested party. We block ignorance everytime, sad fact that the block list is 5 times greater than the friends list lol "

i dont get enough msgs to ignore any!

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


"didnt you just say its a MINDSET??? so single guys on here couldnt have been in a previous relationship and swung? now they are single its a big no-no until they get a partner to join them again?? now, arent you back with that ladder yet? its high up here and im scared of heights! "

FFS!!! I said.. (and this is the last time, if you don't understand now...

they have totally the wrong mindset AND ARE NOT like what I would call the GENUINE MALES?

You see? I wasn't saying all single guys are like that! I was taking about the section who would call a woman a slag/slut.. You know? Just like the thread asked?

Life wouldn't be this hard if people could only comprehend the typed word!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"didnt you just say its a MINDSET??? so single guys on here couldnt have been in a previous relationship and swung? now they are single its a big no-no until they get a partner to join them again?? now, arent you back with that ladder yet? its high up here and im scared of heights!

FFS!!! I said.. (and this is the last time, if you don't understand now...

they have totally the wrong mindset AND ARE NOT like what I would call the GENUINE MALES?

You see? I wasn't saying all single guys are like that! I was taking about the section who would call a woman a slag/slut.. You know? Just like the thread asked?

Life wouldn't be this hard if people could only comprehend the typed word!"

ok, got ya! apologies if any bother caused by my misunderstanding!! but are you goin to be much longer with that ladder? its feckin freezin up here!!

joke!!

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre

Soo right! Some men don't get it. Sexual freedom is as much a right as freedom and who to have a sex with is a right. In my honest opinion, if you don't want to be turned down, men, step your game up. Look after yourself, grim, sort out your teeth and last but not the least learn some fucking manners and rinse your mouth. Cos how you behave is an advertisement of how you were brought up. I also think that some men can't take rejection cos they are brought up thinking they deserve everything even if they don't!!

We live in the 21st Century and it is sad to see men below 50 having attitudes like their grandfathers in the 18th century!!


"I think most men dont get it. Sexual freedom. Does that make us slags because we choose when and how to have sex I dont meet very often on here due to lack of free time but when I get the chance it is chams all the way for me sexual liberation and all that. D*unken fumbles and one night stands do nothing for me at all. At the end of the day I prefer a good sexual seeing too. And if that makes me a slag then so be it but I have tastes and I have standards. ore so than sorry the saying vanilla.

How many girls go out to get d*unk seeking to pull anything that will buy them a drink. (It does happen) Without thinking about the conciquences.

I am in a safe place I practice safe sex and have a whole lot of fun. My on way."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The most common reasons for the use of the word ‘slag’ are envy and rejection. - I was referred to as a fat, ugly slag (the 3 things most women fear) by another woman on here because I was friendly (not in a sexual way) with a guy that she had fallen for. In the defence of some men (some are still idiots) women use the term too in a derogatory manner and it is usually due to envy/jealousy!!!

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"I would like to offer the following.

Slags/Lags will shag anything.

Swingers are looking for interesting sexual encounters.

single telling ppl what swinging is, oh the irony.

So wise one, all women at greedy girl nights and gang bangs sre slags?

No these are just greedy and invariably very selfish, not someone wed like to play with.....thoughts of "busted sofa" spring to mind! God knows what they might be carrying "

One does wonder who meets your high standards, thank god our psths will never cross, as judgemental small minded people are a total turn off for me...

i know what you are carrying and it is far nastier than any std

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"i just wondered if you could explain how 'single' guys cant be swingers! so is this site for couples and single fems only? i thought swinging was for anyone who enjoyed having different experiences! or am i missing something here?

I just wonder if you can READ THE WHOLE POST before you jump! If you had read just one more line, you would have got to this bit!

they have totally the wrong mindset and are not like what I would call the genuine males?

As it happens, I don't think most of the singles of either sex are swingers. They are just here on the pull and as I have said before.... If singles are swingers because they are on a swingers site, If I stand in a garage, does that make me a mechanic?

Apart from that and another thing I like to point out... If singles (generalisation) are swingers, then so is everyone who goes out on the pull in vanilla land!

OK, now we have cleared that up.. What about getting back to the thread and I'll go get a ladder to get you off that high horse!

didnt you just say its a MINDSET??? so single guys on here couldnt have been in a previous relationship and swung? now they are single its a big no-no until they get a partner to join them again?? now, arent you back with that ladder yet? its high up here and im scared of heights!

Mindset is totally the right word, isnt is amazing how much people chat in these sometimes pointless forums when they cant be arsed to reply to a message on site from an interested party. We block ignorance everytime, sad fact that the block list is 5 times greater than the friends list lol "

Why doesnt it surprise me no one wants to char with you

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


"ok, got ya! apologies if any bother caused by my misunderstanding!! but are you goin to be much longer with that ladder? its feckin freezin up here!! joke!!"

I did go for the ladder, but I only have a 30ft double extender! (No, not a double ender!) I have lots of burley men coming for you, but watch them! One of them is gay, gissa kiss and I'll tell which one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would like to offer the following.

Slags/Lags will shag anything.

Swingers are looking for interesting sexual encounters.

single telling ppl what swinging is, oh the irony.

So wise one, all women at greedy girl nights and gang bangs sre slags?

No these are just greedy and invariably very selfish, not someone wed like to play with.....thoughts of "busted sofa" spring to mind! God knows what they might be carrying "

Hahahaha that's hysterically funny, you never heard of safe sex? your also using the same reasoning as the guys calling girls slags and you only mention the girls, what about the men that go?

I bet you've had sex with plenty of men and women that go to greedy girl nights.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok, got ya! apologies if any bother caused by my misunderstanding!! but are you goin to be much longer with that ladder? its feckin freezin up here!! joke!!

I did go for the ladder, but I only have a 30ft double extender! (No, not a double ender!) I have lots of burley men coming for you, but watch them! One of them is gay, gissa kiss and I'll tell which one!

"

its cool! il just jump! its only 50ft!! cant hurt THAT much eh? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a slag and a swinger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would like to offer the following.

Slags/Lags will shag anything.

Swingers are looking for interesting sexual encounters.

single telling ppl what swinging is, oh the irony.

So wise one, all women at greedy girl nights and gang bangs sre slags?

No these are just greedy and invariably very selfish, not someone wed like to play with.....thoughts of "busted sofa" spring to mind! God knows what they might be carrying

Hahahaha that's hysterically funny, you never heard of safe sex? your also using the same reasoning as the guys calling girls slags and you only mention the girls, what about the men that go?

I bet you've had sex with plenty of men and women that go to greedy girl nights."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shakes head and walks away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im sure it says somewhere in the forum rules that you shouldnt name and shame...does it apply to shaming yourself publically on a forum by spouting ridiculous rubbish like this you silly men??

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Im sure it says somewhere in the forum rules that you shouldnt name and shame...does it apply to shaming yourself publically on a forum by spouting ridiculous rubbish like this you silly men?? "

Worst rubbish on this thread has been spouted by a couple!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im sure it says somewhere in the forum rules that you shouldnt name and shame...does it apply to shaming yourself publically on a forum by spouting ridiculous rubbish like this you silly men?? "

'spouting ridiculous rubbish' isn't just reserved for 'silly men' - this thread makes that quite evident.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im sure it says somewhere in the forum rules that you shouldnt name and shame...does it apply to shaming yourself publically on a forum by spouting ridiculous rubbish like this you silly men??

'spouting ridiculous rubbish' isn't just reserved for 'silly men' - this thread makes that quite evident.

"

I am speaking of the 'silly men' with the double standards calling women slags...not ALL men...if thats what i meant, then that is what I would have written deary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im sure it says somewhere in the forum rules that you shouldnt name and shame...does it apply to shaming yourself publically on a forum by spouting ridiculous rubbish like this you silly men??

Worst rubbish on this thread has been spouted by a couple!"

If only i could be arsed to read through the thread again to see who the couple is

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I think I need therapy after reading that lot

Sadly if people had answered the original question instead of reading it wrong and getting on the defensive then it might have been a good debate.

The OP said that someone had accused women in pubs who look for sex slags, NOT swingers on here are slags.

To the OP...I think the man sounds like he probably thinks all women are slags but it was a line to get into a womans pants.

I think polo's post hit the nail on the head though, there are a lot of women who call other women slags for having sex with men, on this site and the outside world.

It happens, doesn't make it right though, especially as some men will call themselves studs for doing the same thing.

PS If you want to debate thats fine... but leave out any personal posts to other people while doing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well what a thread !

We guess we are both sluts and if by definition a slut is also a slag then we are slags too lol

More importantly that's both of us and we really don't give a fig what people think of that !

Greedy girls - love em

Cumsluts - love em

Folk that judge either - f@@k em !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't call girls that go on the pull slags, surely they are just girls on the pull?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some men cant take that woman have needs too ...... and now doing same thing as men have been doing years .. Thay like the power in calling woman names its makes them feel better when thay cant pull or get a shag ... saying things like slag whore tart ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience a man labels a woman a slag when the woman in question will shag anyone but him

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By *pl- capdagdeCouple
over a year ago

Cap d agde,France

Made me chuckle tis thread...the scene is getting worse..

In normal everyday use I think you'll most likely find that the term slag is used as an insult from one female to another in some kind of cat fight.

Are any of you really bothered at the end of the day what words others choose to call you ?

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


"Made me chuckle tis thread...the scene is getting worse..

In normal everyday use I think you'll most likely find that the term slag is used as an insult from one female to another in some kind of cat fight.

Are any of you really bothered at the end of the day what words others choose to call you ? "

Shuddup ya *slags/*sluts/*tarts! (*Delete as appropriate)

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the only reason men and women are treated differently about actively seeking sex with many partners in a lot of the vanilla world is because women are regarded as more picky by nature. Therefore women can simply walk up to a man, say "wannna fuck" and lie on their backs with their legs open to get sex a lot of the time. A man will have to be charming, attractive, look after himself, have an element of style and sometimes intelligence or talent to pull off the same quantities of sex, therefore the fact he can get plenty is seen as proof of his many other qualities, while a woman is merely seen as someone who can lie on her back.

Outdated somewhat? Yes. But labels tend to stick around through generations which is unfair but unfortunately regarded as fact by a lot of people out in the "real" world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't it all historic? Women are supposed to find one man and stay home and have babies whereas men are supposed to go out and spread their seed. All highly logical!! Not!

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By *pl- capdagdeCouple
over a year ago

Cap d agde,France


"Made me chuckle tis thread...the scene is getting worse..

In normal everyday use I think you'll most likely find that the term slag is used as an insult from one female to another in some kind of cat fight.

Are any of you really bothered at the end of the day what words others choose to call you ?

Shuddup ya *slags/*sluts/*tarts! (*Delete as appropriate)

xxx"

You know us of old..

Yes we are all 3 of the above and proud of it...

To busy actually having fun to worry about trivial shit..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't it all historic? Women are supposed to find one man and stay home and have babies whereas men are supposed to go out and spread their seed. All highly logical!! Not!"

...and no votes for women either - can't trust em. Next they'll be running round whipping guys with a copy of the woman's own, smoking pipes and wearing the trousers... doesn't even bear thinking about!

pmsl

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would suggest, to most. Non swinging people nothing.

They wouldn't bother to look into the finer details.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree entirely, it is historical yet peoples opinions and feelings are foolishly or otherwise governed by this. How else can the overwhelming majority of male users on this site be explained for example?

Also look at the traits that tend to be admired more by someone of the opposite sex. Tall men with broad shoulders are perceived by more women as being attractive. Yet a man's ability as a lover does not depend on this, and neither does his ability to provide as the days when a man being able to carry more firewood or have a greater view of the land for spying natural predators (or even his ability to hump bigger sacks of coal for that matter) are long since redundant. Women who are petite yet large breasted on average attract the most male admirers on body type alone, as it invokes images of fertility and child-rearing as well as spiking the male protective instinct. Outdated in this day and age? Just about as women can fend pewrfectly well for themselves in the 21st century, yet I myself still feel somewhat protective of them even though to a large degree this is illogical or at least not required in the majority of situations.

People's feelings towards others are controlled by supposedly dormant ideals, and it takes a free thinker in the outside world to see past this and realise that the notion of a woman with many sexual partners who doesn't get turned on the most by being forever monogamous is in fact a natural evolution of womanhood?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there a difference?

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By *wcwCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

I dont understang why guys. Or women. Call other women slags. Just becouse they like sex. What the hell is wrong with that. I persume all ppl on fab like sex. None shud be called offensive names just becouse they enjoy sumething some others dont. Should respect the womans choice n feelings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Calling a Woman a Slut... Has Nothing to Do With Sex It's About Control . Kinky sex games people can even love being called that .. Its how and the word is used in a offensive way is very different thing but same its about control.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooh thats harsh. I turn a lot down. Including you if you asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my experience a man labels a woman a slag when the woman in question will shag anyone but him "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my experience a man labels a woman a slag when the woman in question will shag anyone but him

"

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By *obbie2017Man
over a year ago

belfast

We are all slags then

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By *op gooserMan
over a year ago

chester

I can just picture Ray Winstone saying 'You Slag'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are all slags then"

Speak for yourself

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