FabSwingers.com forum: Profile attraction

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I’m either going to get some positive comments from this or I will be having a bath with an electric fire by the end of it. (Joke on the bath bit)

I’ve been here 3 months, I’ve had a few messages back and fourth but no meets.

What’s wrong with my profile ?

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By *llNatural36FWoman
over a year ago

Denbighshire

Hi op, your profile seems ok apart from what is it that makes you different to the other hundreds of guys on here? What can you offer?

Don't lose faith and it can take several months to get a meet, enjoy the forums on your journey.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi op, your profile seems ok apart from what is it that makes you different to the other hundreds of guys on here? What can you offer?

Don't lose faith and it can take several months to get a meet, enjoy the forums on your journey.

Good luck

Thank you, great advice. What do women look for in a profile?

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By *llNatural36FWoman
over a year ago

Denbighshire

"Hi op, your profile seems ok apart from what is it that makes you different to the other hundreds of guys on here? What can you offer?

Don't lose faith and it can take several months to get a meet, enjoy the forums on your journey.

Good luck

Thank you, great advice. What do women look for in a profile? "

It varies from woman to woman, I'd say focus on what you can offer though as it's a good starting point

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"What’s wrong with my profile ? "

First things first, what do you think you could do to improve your profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good selction of pics but you might want to say more in your profile about you and your interests, and maybe lose the quirky header request. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What’s wrong with my profile ?

First things first, what do you think you could do to improve your profile?"
to be honest I don’t know, I’m relatively new to site and don’t know how to discribe myself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Good selction of pics but you might want to say more in your profile about you and your interests, and maybe lose the quirky header request. Good luck!"
Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me there are too many cock pics, I can’t speak for all women but I need my mind stimulated too, I need intrigue and mystery, something that’s going to intrigue me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For me there are too many cock pics, I can’t speak for all women but I need my mind stimulated too, I need intrigue and mystery, something that’s going to intrigue me.

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Fair comment, thanks.

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman
over a year ago

Hiding from twats

Too many cock pics and a negative status. Needs more info about you, what you bring to the table, the kind of thing you're looking for.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Too many cock pics and a negative status. Needs more info about you, what you bring to the table, the kind of thing you're looking for. "
Thanks.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

It's that first close up pic, I wouldn't even look at the rest of the profile, just click backwards.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"to be honest I don’t know, I’m relatively new to site and don’t know how to discribe myself. "

Ah, so you think asking a bunch of strangers how to describe yourself will improve things?

Here's a few things for starters:

You might think a wet bell end is sexy, most women don't.

What is the point in having two almost identical cock shots?

Would you really fuck a 99 year old woman?

You appear to have ticked every possible interest. So are all those interests genuinely what you are looking for?

On the plus side you have six decent pictures and you're photo verified.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Too many cock pics and a negative status. Needs more info about you, what you bring to the table, the kind of thing you're looking for. Thanks. "

Yet you have done nothing to improve your profile...

If I was looking for single guys, the fact that your first 3 photos are your cock, would likely result in an immediate lack of interest.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

There is very little in your profile to go on. It just says what you want. The cock pics would be enough to put me off anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remove cock pics or move them to friends only.

Try be a little more selective/honest about what you really want rather than the appearance of anything that moves.

Throw some humour in there?

If you want to get an initial veri, get on cam or go to a club, veris always help.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Be true to yourself!

You are the only one who knows.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I’m either going to get some positive comments from this or I will be having a bath with an electric fire by the end of it. (Joke on the bath bit)

I’ve been here 3 months, I’ve had a few messages back and fourth but no meets.

What’s wrong with my profile ? "

This is just my preference there’s no right or wrong so..

If u messaged me and I was looking forward men ( I’m not ) as soon as I looked at your pics and seen those cock pics I’d never reply.

That’s and the feeling sorry for yourself status - major turn of as I like my men confident and authoritative x

Sorry like I said just my preferences, without both things I’ve mentioned above it’s a decent profile

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

The point is that the ratio of single men towards women/couples is simply overwhelming. Consider that they receive dozens of messages every day so the odds to success having their interest are low.

I would say that you need a more creative and suggestive text in your profile.

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By *layfulserfMan
over a year ago

Northolt

There is nothing in your profile to connect with and you're already makiing demands (quirky statement as a header)

Saying something like you like to have a laugh and a giggle, enjoy seduction, am willing to explore may lead to people thinking that you have something in common.

The lack of info about what you are looking for (Your into everything and have the full age range) could give the impression that you want to fuck the whole sight. Maybe you canbsay that you appreciate cur y women or ladies with small boobs... As whhen you message it will give them an indication as to whybyou have chosen them.

Lastly. Consider your messages. Your profile is only a shop window. Most couples get inundated with mail and probably have little chance to browse, sovwhen youvreach out your message to entice them to actually look at your profile

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