FabSwingers.com forum: Advice

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi everyone. Me and my wife we’re a bit new to this livestyle. We both agreed to step into it, we very enjoy the idea, but there’s a small dilemma.

We are a bit confused about kissing between other halfs. We consider this very intimate and we settled as our rule: no french kissing.

So we are more than happy to hear from experienced couples with a logical explanation on both scenario.

Thank you and happy fabbing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi everyone. Me and my wife we’re a bit new to this livestyle. We both agreed to step into it, we very enjoy the idea, but there’s a small dilemma.

We are a bit confused about kissing between other halfs. We consider this very intimate and we settled as our rule: no french kissing.

So we are more than happy to hear from experienced couples with a logical explanation on both scenario.

Thank you and happy fabbing."

Although I agree kissing is a very intimate thing, isn’t sex intimate? I could not imagine having sex with someone and not kissing

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

I'm sure you both don't feel exactly the same. Who is more worried about the kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you both agree not to then just have it as a stipulation however I’d say no kissing full stop you don’t want mid flow tongue analyses that would be a real turn off !!

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By *WillowxWoman
over a year ago

Oo err Devon

I was worried about kissing initially..

However it turns out that for me sex without kissing is a bit robotic..... But how I kiss my partner when we are just enjoying each others company and how I kiss someone when I'm turned on and want them are 2 different things. Of course not all couples like kissing and we always try and find out before we play... But everyone ans every couple have different things they feel comfortable with ans that's perfectly fair. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Having sex with someone it’s different than making love with the wife.

It’s our connectivity and not that happy to share this. We love each other too much.

Thanks for the opinion.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We don't kiss our casual sex partners. Other people criticise us and give us all sorts of reasons why we should, they even say it's an insecurity or jealousy thing and that being with us is like being with a prostitute. None of this is right of course. We have chosen not to kiss and it's a boundary or preference just like any other. You don't need to explain to anybody else as long as the two of you are happy with your decision.

As for the people who insist on telling you they won't meet you, I wonder if they stop to realise that you won't meet them either.

We've written it in our profile so that people know before they contact us.

Good luck on fab

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'll close this as you have another running

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