FabSwingers.com forum: Is fab a secret or not?!?

By *ubynaughty OP Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

Just wondering if people keep the world of fab and swinging as a secret or are you open with family and friends? X

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

I told my wife.

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman
over a year ago

Hiding from twats

Open with friends, not with family

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Open with certain people who I know will never judge. The rest don't need to know, my private life is private

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

not a secret as such but we wouldn't tell anybody

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

It all depends on who I’m talking to

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By *oulja_01000Man
over a year ago

North East

Openly honest about it with close friends but not something I shout from the mountain tops!!!

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London

I have a link to it in my email signature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only a few of my friends know. Family doesn't need to know.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Well I told the wife, and the submissive girlfriend, not sure how the “when Randy let’s play” friend is going to take it. We

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By *ranimallxl5Man
over a year ago

Winchester

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By *ranimallxl5Man
over a year ago

Winchester

A very closed door..I guess you can tell if they have a face pic or not

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By *ake5176Man
over a year ago

City

Some of my mates know because some of them are on here

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By *rad110Man
over a year ago

rayliegh

"not a secret as such but we wouldn't tell anybody"
very true

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By *ubynaughty OP Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

"not a secret as such but we wouldn't tell anybody"

Were exactly the same! Just wanted to know how others felt X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kind of secret, someone at work was on it and was really open, I watched the situation from afar.....people were awfully quick to judge.

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

Probably more people know, than I know about.

But that's OK, I'm comfortable with that.

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

"Kind of secret, someone at work was on it and was really open, I watched the situation from afar.....people were awfully quick to judge.

Was that person male or female?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kind of secret, someone at work was on it and was really open, I watched the situation from afar.....people were awfully quick to judge.

Was that person male or female? "

Female

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By *kbloke_11Man
over a year ago

Hockley

The only people that know I'm on fab are those I have met

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By *r and Mrs B xxCouple
over a year ago

Chippenham

We tell no one, we love that we have our own naughty secret.

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

"Kind of secret, someone at work was on it and was really open, I watched the situation from afar.....people were awfully quick to judge.

Was that person male or female?

Female

The answer I more or less expected. I imagine there would have been less (or more positive) judgements if it had been a bloke.

We've (i.e. society) still a way to go haven't we?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a link to it in my email signature

Lmao!!

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

No it's not a secret for me

Bunty X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just having this discussion with Mr earlier this eve. Casual sex is just so frowned upon within a marriage but singles are free to enjoy it. Sex is a physical act just like tennis or going to the cinema in our eyes, lol. We keep it a secret between us. Only one friend knows. She doesn't judge but equally doesn't understand. S&L x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Open with certain people who I know will never judge. The rest don't need to know, my private life is private"

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A secret

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

All my friends know but my family don’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did a thread like this recently and most said their family and friends don't know

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By *oulja_01000Man
over a year ago

North East

Unfortunately, people are quick to judge but the reality we should all be entitled to explore our sexual desires and pleasures...

I mean the Romans and Egyptians would have mass Orgy's without people even blinking an eye lid... Where did the world all go wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best friend knows but wouldnt dream of telling my family. After all it's our private life and I dont want to know theirs. They could be on here for all I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unfortunately, people are quick to judge but the reality we should all be entitled to explore our sexual desires and pleasures...

I mean the Romans and Egyptians would have mass Orgy's without people even blinking an eye lid... Where did the world all go wrong? "

How do you know that?

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By *ubynaughty OP Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

"Best friend knows but wouldnt dream of telling my family. After all it's our private life and I dont want to know theirs. They could be on here for all I know

I always think I'm going to find a family member on here one day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Best friend knows but wouldnt dream of telling my family. After all it's our private life and I dont want to know theirs. They could be on here for all I know

I always think I'm going to find a family member on here one day! "
you never know do you. That's why we keep our face photos private. Too risky

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By *oulja_01000Man
over a year ago

North East

"Unfortunately, people are quick to judge but the reality we should all be entitled to explore our sexual desires and pleasures...

I mean the Romans and Egyptians would have mass Orgy's without people even blinking an eye lid... Where did the world all go wrong?

How do you know that? "

Well documented across a variety of history reading... Knowledge is power

https://listverse.com/2018/09/10/10-moments-in-the-history-of-the-orgy/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here...

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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago

Heaven in the Midlands

Not a discussion I would like to have with friends or family.

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By *ubynaughty OP Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

"Just having this discussion with Mr earlier this eve. Casual sex is just so frowned upon within a marriage but singles are free to enjoy it. Sex is a physical act just like tennis or going to the cinema in our eyes, lol. We keep it a secret between us. Only one friend knows. She doesn't judge but equally doesn't understand. S&L x "

You have an amazing body btw Saz! X

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By *iss ScherzzoWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Some friends know. I have a couple account with my husband too and a couple of his friends know. I don’t think it should be a secret but as someone said, society has a long way to go yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unfortunately, people are quick to judge but the reality we should all be entitled to explore our sexual desires and pleasures...

I mean the Romans and Egyptians would have mass Orgy's without people even blinking an eye lid... Where did the world all go wrong? "

That question could be asked about many, many things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a good friend who knows who lives close by. Due to work etc I keep it under wraps . I’m far from ashamed though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unfortunately, people are quick to judge but the reality we should all be entitled to explore our sexual desires and pleasures...

I mean the Romans and Egyptians would have mass Orgy's without people even blinking an eye lid... Where did the world all go wrong?

How do you know that?

Well documented across a variety of history reading... Knowledge is power

https://listverse.com/2018/09/10/10-moments-in-the-history-of-the-orgy/"

Okay if you believe it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Private.

As I see 2 roles for me

1. Me.. mum.. family.. Stress.. Job..

2. Fab.. me.. destress.. laff ..clubs..more fab..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have secrets

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By *mileysimieMan
over a year ago

tewkesbury

"Just wondering if people keep the world of fab and swinging as a secret or are you open with family and friends? X"

It’s a secret to everyone because this is for me

Because this is what I desire, I’m not sure any of my friends can comprehend that, it has come up in conversation loosely before after several Jack Daniels, It was shut down immediately so I didn’t offer any more information

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Few of my friends know i meet people...

They just don't know it's from Fab

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

I told my best friend but part of me wishes that I hadn't. He loves hearing about what I get up to and inspired me into blogging about some of my adventures.

BUT he just doesn't get why I don't want to eventually get married again and live a monogamous lifestyle. I sometimes find that a bit frustrating. Hence why I rarely tell him what I get up to these days.

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

It's something I keep from Friends and Colleagues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tell no one, I suspect I've got some trust issues

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

(Lou) we havent told anyone and never will, this is our thing and we love knowing that we have our own little secret that none of our family/friends can stick their nose in. When we go to the attic they all think we are going clubbing in derby x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No i keep it totally seperate, too many people judge and make assumptions, so prefer it this way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At first I kept it quiet now I'm open about it with my close friends. Not family, they are die hard Catholics. No sex before marriage and all that bollocks

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By *edHeadedFunWoman
over a year ago

Didsbury

Open with family and close friends but it wasn't always like that so respect those who wish to keep it private

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering if people keep the world of fab and swinging as a secret or are you open with family and friends? X"

No definitely not you should always tell our Nan what you get up to on here its in the site rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of my family and friends know..even some of my work colleagues know. Never had any bad comments from anyone...not even my mother!!

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By *hezGeekCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We’re not open about it, but some of our less-judgemental friends know.

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By *heshirefungirlWoman
over a year ago

ammanford

I'm very open, family know and most of my vanilla friends know(some I know couldn't understand it so we leave them thinking the world is the lovely little place they believe it to be), although for over a decade now most of my best friends are people I've met though here and chames and some of them are more family to me than my own family have ever been, I've been at the weddings and other events

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By *exymidscouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We are not open about it to anyone. Far too many judgemental people about plus we would be horrified if any of our kids found out. Somehow we don't think they'll be understanding. Not worth the risk. X

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

Secret to me as I'm not married and for work won't tell others. Office politics is complicated enough

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"Just wondering if people keep the world of fab and swinging as a secret or are you open with family and friends? X"

If questioned we would talk about our lifestyle choice, but it's not something that we openly bring up in conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My secret and being honest probably wouldn’t believe me if I told them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of my close friends know, they take the piss now and again as friends do , but they don’t really care and just see it as part of what I do.

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By *oneyBear100Couple
over a year ago

Gatwick area

He has no issue being open about the scene, she however is much more reserved as she feels that she would be more harshly judged

A few close friends know but then quite a few of our closest friends have been met through the scene too.

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