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"If distance was taken out of the equation as a limitation, would you? And whether it's yes or no, why? (Setting myself up for a roasting here methinks, haha)" no end of | |||
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"This a a good topic actually the same question for myself " Me too! | |||
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"Thank you. Some constructive criticism there so will take into consideration and adjust accoedingly. Although I must say there are double standards and hypocrisy being displayed by some - stating that I have dick pics and yet having been with numerous people with dick pic profiles (one particular person has been with someone whose profile contains nothing but dick pics)." You dont know the circumstances of the meet could have been a club meet or the message they sent and you wernt asking about their meets you were asking if they would meet you ... guessing you didn't like their reply | |||
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"This a a good topic actually the same question for myself " I would | |||
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"This a a good topic actually the same question for myself I would " And I would you | |||
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"This a a good topic actually the same question for myself " Oh so yummy, just too young sadly. | |||
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"This a a good topic actually the same question for myself Me too!" A wee baby, mwah | |||
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"Eww no " No would have been fine instead of the Eww. | |||
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"This a a good topic actually the same question for myself " Start your own thread | |||
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"If distance was taken out of the equation as a limitation, would you? And whether it's yes or no, why? (Setting myself up for a roasting here methinks, haha)" Careful it’s not a spit roasting. | |||
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"No, your straight so fucking you up the bum would be a bit wrong x " Its not gay if you don't push back. You're good to go | |||
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"No, your straight so fucking you up the bum would be a bit wrong x Its not gay if you don't push back. You're good to go " Having said that, OP no, im straight | |||
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"We always assume that a cock avatar means you're a cock - so no. " Errr, mine's a bum avatar....deliberately avoided cock pic. | |||
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"Nope from me - we're not sexually compatible. You're not what I need. There is nothing wrong with that, just means we're not into the same things. I liked that you had written a decent amount on the profile and indicated what you are looking for which I appreciate. The bit at the end about no stealing pics or profiles is meaningless though. Not worth taking up space on your profile." Thank you. That was good feedback | |||
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"Not for me. The photos are dull, the profile text is duller, the fact that you can’t apparently be honest about your sexuality is a real shame - if you can’t own it on here, where can you? " Sorry? How is my sexuality ambiguous on my profile...? It shouldn't be. If it is then it's a mistake. | |||
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"No OP, I prefer tall guys plus your newest veri is 4 years old which would also put me off." It does say on my profile that I have been out of Fab action for a while and now getting back into it. So how do I fix that. I'm not one of those who fabricates veris I'm afraid. | |||
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"No. Dunno what your face looks like but your photos and profile would put me off. I wouldn’t reply to a message " Ok I think I get the issue with the photos. I might know what to do about that. What does the profile need...? That would be more helpful. | |||
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"Alot off dick pics is a no no for me i dont mind one just to seen what ur packing but ur penis looks abit large for my personal preference but other may enjoy" Thanks. Hmmm....there are 3 pics that feature my penis out of 6. One is a full frontal, 1 admittedly IS a cock pic and 1 is supposed to be a little arty farty in the shadows. | |||
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"Not for me. The photos are dull, the profile text is duller, the fact that you can’t apparently be honest about your sexuality is a real shame - if you can’t own it on here, where can you? Sorry? How is my sexuality ambiguous on my profile...? It shouldn't be. If it is then it's a mistake." The person didn’t see veri from a guy was signed off by a lady I assume | |||
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"Not for me. The photos are dull, the profile text is duller, the fact that you can’t apparently be honest about your sexuality is a real shame - if you can’t own it on here, where can you? Sorry? How is my sexuality ambiguous on my profile...? It shouldn't be. If it is then it's a mistake. The person didn’t see veri from a guy was signed off by a lady I assume " This would cause confusion. Even tho signed off by a woman it's from a Male profile. That would make me question it. | |||
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"The person didn’t see veri from a guy was signed off by a lady I assume " Good point. However there is nothing on the veri to say whether the sign off name was an actual woman, a FWB or partner of the single mans profile, a nickname for the single male, a name once used by someone who once identified as a woman or any other possible connection. The truth is that if you follow the veri to it's source you will see that the verifying profile was once a couple, now a single male. But most people won't do that, and in truth the single male only has to rewrite his profile and that part of the puzzle is lost forever. In a world where people make snap judgements I personally believe the OP would be better off leaving the summary on his profile and removing the actual veri text itself. | |||
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"If distance was taken out of the equation as a limitation, would you? And whether it's yes or no, why? (Setting myself up for a roasting here methinks, haha)" Some will some won't but you started the thread and people can be harsh at times | |||
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"No question of a doubt I would definitely " But your straight?????? | |||
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"The person didn’t see veri from a guy was signed off by a lady I assume Good point. However there is nothing on the veri to say whether the sign off name was an actual woman, a FWB or partner of the single mans profile, a nickname for the single male, a name once used by someone who once identified as a woman or any other possible connection. The truth is that if you follow the veri to it's source you will see that the verifying profile was once a couple, now a single male. But most people won't do that, and in truth the single male only has to rewrite his profile and that part of the puzzle is lost forever. In a world where people make snap judgements I personally believe the OP would be better off leaving the summary on his profile and removing the actual veri text itself." Ok. Let me go and see that veri. Gotta sort that out. If nothing else, at least that's been brought to my attention. | |||
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"If distance was taken out of the equation as a limitation, would you? And whether it's yes or no, why? (Setting myself up for a roasting here methinks, haha) Some will some won't but you started the thread and people can be harsh at times" I've seen you around on other threads. You've always got such level headed things to say! | |||
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"If distance was taken out of the equation as a limitation, would you? And whether it's yes or no, why? (Setting myself up for a roasting here methinks, haha) Some will some won't but you started the thread and people can be harsh at times I've seen you around on other threads. You've always got such level headed things to say!" Thankyou xxx | |||
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"No, your straight so fucking you up the bum would be a bit wrong x " now there's a pleasant thought | |||
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"No coz asking in the forums seems like you are a bit desperate." A bit harsh and unnecessarily so. Did you say that just for the sake of saying something? If asking for opinion is being needy then everytime a woman asks her friends "do I look okay in this dress" is....? | |||
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"Not for me mate. I like women " So why post? | |||
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"9/10 wong because you ain't their type at first glance, just like it's the same for most guys. I'd say women but most men arent fussy about who they dip in, sadly. I think I've had about 10 profile views this week, no messages, no replies, women delete me faster than I can message them But that's the way it is. I dont get sad about it, it's a waiting game. Everyone thinks because it's a site full of kinky folk that everyone is instantly gonna get some. Sadly it doesnt work like that. Be calm, dont expect anything and eventually something happens. Be positive. " Thanks mate. It wasn't a moan. I have given exactly the same advice to other (bluntly moaning) threads. Mine was an honest request for feedback - I do that periodically to test the temperature. Albeit I did put it out in a little tongue in cheek style. But some people always get so judgy in forums. | |||
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"It just shows you can't please everyone. My profile is good and I know it is because I've been told numerous times. But nevertheless I'm one male among 1000s on fab. Therefore it doesn't matter. You will appeal to some and not to others. " True | |||
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"Not me for either, I have to be intrigued by the photos, looking through my hotlist the photos of men are very mysterious and a lot of them in black and white, wearing a shirt, wearing boxes etc.....just enough tease and intrigue without giving everything away. I can’t stand photos taken in the mirror, do people not know there is a timer in the camera settings of the phone? Put the timer on, reverse the screen and voila." Yeh it's a right faff though. | |||
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"Not me for either, I have to be intrigued by the photos, looking through my hotlist the photos of men are very mysterious and a lot of them in black and white, wearing a shirt, wearing boxes etc.....just enough tease and intrigue without giving everything away. I can’t stand photos taken in the mirror, do people not know there is a timer in the camera settings of the phone? Put the timer on, reverse the screen and voila." I'm curious as to why they are wearing boxes | |||
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"This is a disaster, the poor guy is going be having bath with the electric fire" How else do you warm the water up? Never seen Addams family? | |||
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"I can already feel the no's ha ha" You seem nice but a bit showy with the jet etc which is a turn off for me. Just be yourself, you have a lovely face and body xx | |||
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"No. Dunno what your face looks like but your photos and profile would put me off. I wouldn’t reply to a message " Ditto | |||
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"If distance was taken out of the equation as a limitation, would you? And whether it's yes or no, why? (Setting myself up for a roasting here methinks, haha)" No. | |||
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"I can already feel the no's ha ha You seem nice but a bit showy with the jet etc which is a turn off for me. Just be yourself, you have a lovely face and body xx" ....Jet....? I have a jet in my photo!? | |||
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"No. Dunno what your face looks like but your photos and profile would put me off. I wouldn’t reply to a message " So elaborate, what's actually wrong with the profile? That would be more helpful. A solution with criticism is constructive. Criticism on its own is just judgemental. | |||
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"Seems a tad desperate to be honest mate " Wow. Are you in some sort of desperation everytime you ask for an opinion then? | |||
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"Read that in Buffalo Bill's voice from silence of the lambs " Lmao | |||
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"No coz asking in the forums seems like you are a bit desperate. A bit harsh and unnecessarily so. Did you say that just for the sake of saying something? If asking for opinion is being needy then everytime a woman asks her friends "do I look okay in this dress" is....?" No i said it coz opinions were asked for and that was mine. | |||
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"No coz asking in the forums seems like you are a bit desperate. A bit harsh and unnecessarily so. Did you say that just for the sake of saying something? If asking for opinion is being needy then everytime a woman asks her friends "do I look okay in this dress" is....? No i said it coz opinions were asked for and that was mine." additionally you asked for yes or no answers and a reason, you got mine coz this is a public forums and anyone can post here. | |||
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"This is a disaster, the poor guy is going be having bath with the electric fire" Shocking ain't it | |||
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"No i'm not into blokes." That's ok. Neither am I | |||
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"No I wouldn't Chrissie " Quality of the photos or the profile or the vital stats? | |||
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"I can't say for sure as I don't know you, and can't see your face. All signs at the moment point to probably not though. " Most don't put their face in the public profile anyway. As for not knowing me - that is an extremely fair point and relevant. People can be surprisingly attractive or unattractive in person. Are you the type that has a social first then? | |||
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"I can't say for sure as I don't know you, and can't see your face. All signs at the moment point to probably not though. Most don't put their face in the public profile anyway. As for not knowing me - that is an extremely fair point and relevant. People can be surprisingly attractive or unattractive in person. Are you the type that has a social first then?" I understand most people don't have their face public, the point stands though, I couldn't say if I was attracted to you without seeing it. Nor could the majority of people. | |||
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"I can't say for sure as I don't know you, and can't see your face. All signs at the moment point to probably not though. Most don't put their face in the public profile anyway. As for not knowing me - that is an extremely fair point and relevant. People can be surprisingly attractive or unattractive in person. Are you the type that has a social first then? I understand most people don't have their face public, the point stands though, I couldn't say if I was attracted to you without seeing it. Nor could the majority of people. " I’ve shown my face many times in 8 pictures | |||
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"Thank you. Some constructive criticism there so will take into consideration and adjust accoedingly. Although I must say there are double standards and hypocrisy being displayed by some - stating that I have dick pics and yet having been with numerous people with dick pic profiles (one particular person has been with someone whose profile contains nothing but dick pics). You dont know the circumstances of the meet could have been a club meet or the message they sent and you wernt asking about their meets you were asking if they would meet you ... guessing you didn't like their reply " | |||
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"Thank you. Some constructive criticism there so will take into consideration and adjust accoedingly. Although I must say there are double standards and hypocrisy being displayed by some - stating that I have dick pics and yet having been with numerous people with dick pic profiles (one particular person has been with someone whose profile contains nothing but dick pics). You dont know the circumstances of the meet could have been a club meet or the message they sent and you wernt asking about their meets you were asking if they would meet you ... guessing you didn't like their reply " Everyone got there own taste end of the day | |||
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