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By *anky N Panky OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hullbridge Essex

Does age matter what is your limit and why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one younger than my Eldest child... 23

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By *anky N Panky OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hullbridge Essex

What is the oldest you would go to

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

It does.

35-52. But it will be extremely rare if I meet anyone over my own age (46).

I’ve always got on better with people younger than me. Most of my friends in my vanilla life are 5-10 years younger than me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No limits really. As long as a female is of legal age, and capable of giving informed consent, I don't see why youth would be a problem. And there are some seriously intelligent and attractive older ladies out there, so I wouldn't set arbitrary limits tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really to me - it's more about them as a person. Having said that; my profile has 30-60 so a pretty broad spread. Not a definite no to younger or older though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really for me not under 30 or over 55, I find I get on better with men that are older than me, but I set my limit on here at 45 as most that say they are in their 40’s turn out to be much older

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

Limit is set at 45 because my parents are 50. It's highly unlikely il be attracted to anyone over 45.

Brat

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By *alcon404Man
over a year ago

London

Yes it matters to me.

I don’t want to meet a teenager, nor do I want to meet a pensioner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really for me not under 30 or over 55, I find I get on better with men that are older than me, but I set my limit on here at 45 as most that say they are in their 40’s turn out to be much older "

I am def my age +/- a year or so, is it so common to lie - i would have thought that would be an easy one to get busted on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems everyone is younger than us these days. We tend to go for those over 40 though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it matters to me.

I don’t want to meet a teenager, nor do I want to meet a pensioner. "

SO that's a no to Marie Osmond, and a no to Sophie Thatcher then. Blimey.

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By *alcon404Man
over a year ago

London


"Yes it matters to me.

I don’t want to meet a teenager, nor do I want to meet a pensioner.

SO that's a no to Marie Osmond, and a no to Sophie Thatcher then. Blimey."

Sophie Thatcher looks like a child to me, so there is absolutely no sexual attraction whatsoever.

Marie Osmond doesn’t do it for me either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it matters to me.

I don’t want to meet a teenager, nor do I want to meet a pensioner.

SO that's a no to Marie Osmond, and a no to Sophie Thatcher then. Blimey.

Sophie Thatcher looks like a child to me, so there is absolutely no sexual attraction whatsoever.

Marie Osmond doesn’t do it for me either. "

More for me then. They can be a bloody nuisance when they both turn up pissed on a Saturday night.

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By *alcon404Man
over a year ago

London


"Yes it matters to me.

I don’t want to meet a teenager, nor do I want to meet a pensioner.

SO that's a no to Marie Osmond, and a no to Sophie Thatcher then. Blimey.

Sophie Thatcher looks like a child to me, so there is absolutely no sexual attraction whatsoever.

Marie Osmond doesn’t do it for me either.

More for me then. They can be a bloody nuisance when they both turn up pissed on a Saturday night."

More for you?

I doubt either of them know you exist mate, but wishful thinking and all.

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By *acky RacersCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

yes. 10 years either side of my own age generally.

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ideally not younger than me, but not older than about 40. But really it depends a lot on the person.

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

We don’t have a limit, just a preference for couples over 55 but also happy with young couples if mature in mind

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

No one one 30 or below thats my daughters age on the other hand no near pensioners or actual pensioners as hubby is one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is this not down to personal preference?

i very rarely ever meet someone around my own age or younger.. however have a strong penchant for older men.

no age limit as such, just a mutual attraction.

P

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

yes I have because I don’t get attracted by people who are way too much younger or older than me - gap range changes as I grow old.

Find it weird tho, I always thought I would become a cougar when I was young and didn’t turned out that way

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

My lower limit is based on them not being young enough for me to legally be their mother, upper limit is currently 10 years older than me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does age matter what is your limit and why "

My lower limit is 18 and upper limit would be around 70.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

our lower limit is 45 and upper limit 67.

Age does matter in my opinion. I'm happy to socialise with anyone of any age but experience has shown me that men under 45 *in general* aren't on the same wavelength as me sexually

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Yes age matters , I probably wouldn't meet anyone less than ten years younger than myself

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Doesn't bother me in the slightest. As long as you're 18+, sexy is sexy whatever your age.

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By *rthangMan
over a year ago

calderdale

I've fancied women who are much older than me since i was a teenager.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does age matter what is your limit and why "

Yes. I can't have sex with somebody too young. Fucking a 25 year old would make feel like a paedophile.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I have an age range set based on the age of people I would normally relate to - however if there were a connection and chemistry there with someone outside that range then I may be flexible - but have yet to find that happen.

Almost did once and then the person concerned proved that my instincts about ages were correct in that instance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn’t matter for me, however I do find older women more attractive then girls my age so it’s hard when 99% of the time I’m too young to even message them ahah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and my hubby new to this any couples want to chat

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

Only me a guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer older, I like experience and there’s a different type of banter. I did change my preferences a few days ago, I decided to go a younger, 32-99. I find younger men who message me want me to Dominate them or to Dominate me (I can’t take this seriously), nothing in between. I just want normal men, with a little kink.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Yes age does matter as a rule.

I have no desire to have sex with someone who is, or appears to be younger than my son or my parents age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is just a number but do prefer late 30ish plus but if you add my age 58 together (13) then I'm far too young to be on here lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not really a big deal for me, the person is more important

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By *PM65Man
over a year ago

Douglas

18-25

Tight shaved and dirty

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

This age thing yet again. If people have a problem with mine you can always cross the road.

And do remember we all get old and you will too one day. Embrace life. We are all here just the once

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By *aneyyMan
over a year ago

leeds

I didn’t think I had an age range at all until I got to my age now and started to talk and meet girls around 20. Just wasn’t for more. I’m pretty mature acting and found things just didn’t feel right. Generally I meet older( particularly on here) tend to be a lot more upfront and direct with what they want. Less dramas

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

It matters to me yes

I wouldn't meet anyone under 30,i tend to get on better with people my own age ish or older.

I don't have a set older age limit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

30-50s

Because it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In life I have no problems with people of any age but here I have set limits full stop because I'm simple not attracted to those outside of this on here ... find they are more demanding/entitled outside of my limits and we have nothing in common

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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago

Coventry


"Does age matter what is your limit and why "

. I feel its wrong to be with someone younger than my kids. Compliment but not for us. I am not attracted to lads less than my sounds a free but 26 plus who knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn’t matter to me age is just a number as long as I’m attracted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer 40+ to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it matters to me.

I don’t want to meet a teenager, nor do I want to meet a pensioner. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The lower end of our age limit is alot less flexible then the upper age limit with have set.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's about a connection. I tend not to find that with people around my own age for some reason, so yeah, has to be older or younger. But, its unlikely I'll find much connection with people too much younger or older. I guess it's down to the individual really rather than their age

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By *linyMan
over a year ago

Manchester/London

Not really. My profile age range is a broad brush stroke but it completely depends on the person. I would happily play with Helen Mirren rather than ANYONE from love island.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not really. My profile age range is a broad brush stroke but it completely depends on the person. I would happily play with Helen Mirren rather than ANYONE from love island. "

Oh Hell Yes

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

We only play in clubs, and I will play with anyone of any age if they're old enough to be in the club, as long as they're clean, respectful and what I consider to be attractive.

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By *azza80Woman
over a year ago

Your wildest Dreams

I have kids in their 20's so I prefer 30 and above. I have always gone for blokes older than myself majority of the time. In clubs I'm not that picky on age..I don't really ask to be honest xx

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By *iproperswingersCouple
over a year ago

Rainham

Looks and skills are way more important.

Age is just a number.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"Looks and skills are way more important.

Age is just a number. "

No it isn't - age comes with droopy bits, saggy flesh and wrinkled skin!

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By *kaythen07Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"What is the oldest you would go to "

Male a female would have to be 44

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Set at 30 to 55. Younger guys have never appealed to me so the lower end is very much fixed the upper end is a bit more flexible

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By *alcon404Man
over a year ago

London


"What is the oldest you would go to

Male a female would have to be 44"

So what does the 65 represent on your profile? Is that making way for those who distort the truth on their age?

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

if i find them physically or mentally attractive id sleep with them, age isnt a issue really

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

Nothing so low it would clash with our kids age and nothing so high it would clash with our parents age. In between is fine.

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By *atinocoupleCouple
over a year ago

SF, NY, London (in that order)

Typically go ten years in either direction. But know we have played with older for sure and really enjoyed it. Generally at a party you don't really know, or care. Hot is hot

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

45-55 as I want to meet people around my own age.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Yes. Up to 40s, as that's my main are of attraction - I want partners to feel craved for, not just put up with as a make do option.

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